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*displays textbook symptomatic behavior of my own disorder that I am well educated on* what’s my deal why am I like this

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As a future therapist and current client... this

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@fox-quills Just wanted to offer a quick update! The typeset is about a third of the way done. I have the overall theme figured out. I'm now on the fun part of going through each chapter and trying to catch the mistakes the machines made when I moved the file over to word.

I'm sorry it took so long for an update! I switched jobs a week after I asked and I'm in the crunch part of my semester. 😭It killed my time management skills lol. I keep reminding myself that I only have 4 classes and an internship after this and my masters program will be done...

Aaaaanywhooozle...

I have plenty of time to make adjustments if you have visuals you want integrated into the typeset or on the cover! send them if you doooooo .

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Hi! I had a question? So I hand bind fanfiction and I was wondering if you would be okay with me binding Mobius when it's finished? I will happily provide proof that it's all made by me and I'll make a copy for you as well?

If not totally okay!!! But I'm in love with the story and kind of reeeaallyy want a shelf trophy.

Yes???? Of course you can! I'm so flattered that you love the story enough to take the time to do something like that! And I would absolutely love a copy. 💖💖💖💖

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勇利誕生日おめでとう！ ヴィクトルと永遠にラブラブでいられるように❤️✨✨

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well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

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Thank you thank you thank you for the permission!! I'm so excited!! I'll keep you posted on progress as it goes!❤️❤️💖💖

Hi! I had a question? So I hand bind fanfiction and I was wondering if you would be okay with me binding Mobius when it's finished? I will happily provide proof that it's all made by me and I'll make a copy for you as well?

If not totally okay!!! But I'm in love with the story and kind of reeeaallyy want a shelf trophy.

Yes???? Of course you can! I'm so flattered that you love the story enough to take the time to do something like that! And I would absolutely love a copy. 💖💖💖💖

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Above image is a pride flag with every color band represented by a NASA image. White is Earth clouds, pink is aurora, blue is the Sun in a specific wavelength, brown is Jupiter clouds, black is the Hubble deep field, red is the top of sprites, orange is a Mars crater, yellow is the surface of Io, green is a lake with algae, blue is Neptune, and purple is the Crab Nebula in a specific wavelength.

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(Seen on FB)

RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE. 

When I was at one of my lowest (mental) points in life, I couldn’t get out of bed some days. I had no energy or motivation and was barely getting by.

I had therapy once per week, and on this particular week I didn’t have much to ‘bring’ to the session. He asked how my week was and I really had nothing to say.

“What are you struggling with?” he asked.

I gestured around me and said “I dunno man. Life.”

Not satisfied with my answer, he said “No, what exactly are you worried about right now? What feels overwhelming? When you go home after this session, what issue will be staring at you?”

I knew the answer, but it was so ridiculous that I didn’t want to say it.

I wanted to have something more substantial.

Something more profound.

But I didn’t.

So I told him, “Honestly? The dishes. It’s stupid, I know, but the more I look at them the more I CAN’T do them because I’ll have to scrub them before I put them in the dishwasher, because the dishwasher sucks, and I just can’t stand and scrub the dishes.”

I felt like an idiot even saying it.

What kind of grown ass woman is undone by a stack of dishes? There are people out there with *actual* problems, and I’m whining to my therapist about dishes?

But my therapist nodded in understanding and then said:

“RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE.”

I began to tell him that you’re not supposed to, but he stopped me.

“Why the hell aren’t you supposed to? If you don’t want to scrub the dishes and your dishwasher sucks, run it twice. Run it three times, who cares?! Rules do not exist, so stop giving yourself rules.”

It blew my mind in a way that I don’t think I can properly express.

That day, I went home and tossed my smelly dishes haphazardly into the dishwasher and ran it three times.

I felt like I had conquered a dragon.

The next day, I took a shower lying down.

A few days later. I folded my laundry and put them wherever the fuck they fit.

There were no longer arbitrary rules I had to follow, and it gave me the freedom to make accomplishments again.

Now that I’m in a healthier place, I rinse off my dishes and put them in the dishwasher properly. I shower standing up. I sort my laundry.

But at a time when living was a struggle instead of a blessing, I learned an incredibly important lesson:

THERE ARE NO RULES.

RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE!!!

(by Kate Scott 2018)

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A meme I came up with lmao

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Some days you’re productive and others you spent rewatching a 514 part tiktok series about growth, healing, and kicking the shit out of terrible people in hell

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"how can you ship [x] when [y] is clearly going to be canon" is such a completely nonsensical question to me that i often forget that this is genuinely how some people do fandom

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Art by  CFpapico

Posted with Permission (reprint/edit and/or commercial use prohibited)

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"Hey there, Stardust."

just a little scratchy sketch of my favorite sinners

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Alastor: Who hurt you?

Angel Dust: Do you want a list or what?

Alastor, summoning his staff: Actually, yes.

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Angel Dust: I don’t think we can mansplain, manipulate, or malewife our way out of it this time.

Alastor, cracks his knuckles: Manslaughter it is.

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