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it’s not CLOCKING to you that i’m standing on BUSINESS with my shifting journey, is it ?

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have u shifted or gotten close yet? I’m losing motivation

I’ve been very close once and it’s probably my one experience that honestly motivated me to keep going!! It is frustrating though because that one experience was an accident so I had nothing to go off to help me decipher what worked and what didn’t but I’ve been at this for 5 years and I’m still trying so don’t give up because it’s real. I know it’s real, the next person knows it’s real and deep down so do you otherwise you wouldn’t be here, why else haven’t you given up? why haven’t you stopped believing?

I understand it’s hard not to loose motivation and trust me when I say it is 1000% possible to shift with no motivation whatsoever - I know this because of my experience.

You have to think shifting found you for reason and whatever that may be it’s what’s keeping you from giving up. Shifters would not still be talking about this and educating people about this if it was an ‘inside joke’ everyone would be so over it by now but we’re not BECAUSE IT IS REAL.

I always say this but you have to ask yourself why you started your shifting journey in the first place and cling onto it (this may help redefine your goals and intentions with shifting) Shifting is not going anywhere, you have all the time to try.

and always remember that nobody before they shifted had no doubts. nobody was 100% in their belief until they did it - so yes it’s okay to have doubts, it’s okay to have no motivation because at the end of the day you know what you want for yourself.

the one reason I think so many people struggle with shifting and the motivation aspect of it (including me) is because we don’t trust ourselves. “what if I’m doing it wrong” “what if I’m wasting my time?” “What if…” BLAH BLAH BLAH. Let go, ease the pressure and just ✨do✨

“easier said than done” - only with that mindset <3

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everyone talks about pining for their dr s/o, but no one talks about pining for their dr friend group, so

DR friend group ideas:

group baking at someone's house

going to the mall

skipping school together

sneaking out to the aesthetic woods near the neighborhood and finding an old abandoned house behind a bunch of plants and turning it into a secret hideout

all wearing cool/cute outfits to school together you could never wear in your cr and no one can tease you over it cause all your friends got your back if they try anything

going to an abandoned park/playground at night together

sleepovers!!!!

going to pride parades together

going to some trashy fast food restaurant at the middle of the night as a group

those fun places you see on tiktok and want to go to but can't in your cr

being a team in a contest

getting revenge on anyone who messes with one of your friends, together

going to the movie theater

amusement parks

those places with obstacle courses and trampolines and those foam block pits

playing pranks on annoying teachers/classmates

having inside jokes

group cosplays

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OH MY GAWD😍🥵🥵

Elena and Stefan in 2.06 "Plan B" (requested)

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Sara Bareilles songs:

Delena VS Stelena

“Everything I can’t be

Is everything you should be

And that’s why I need you here”

VS

“Something always brings me back to you

It never takes too long

No matter what I say or do

I still feel you here 'til the moment I'm gone”

Which one is you’re favourite?

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they really said “as long as we’ve got eachother we’ll be okay” 😩😩

THE VAMPIRE DIARIES S2E02 "Brave New World" (2010)

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YES YES YES YES YESSS

I really do love it when other people clearly watch the same show I did, makes me feel not as crazy as people make me out to be lol

people also tell me I only say these things because I love Stefan and stelena but in reality it’s just what actually happened in the show.

Stefan loved Elena full stop. Whether she was human or vampire, he loved her.

Do you wanna know the actual reason why he was the one constantly searching for the cure? (even though you should already know the actual reason because we should’ve watched the same show)

do you remember the scene ontop of that hill with the sun setting in the background, Stefan and Elena were up there….

well the whole point of that was so Elena could express how she feels about having vampire blood in her system, knowing she was inevitably going to die in less than 24hrs.

Stefan, who already knew what her feelings were, still wanted Elena to say it, he wanted her to come to terms with it and it wasn’t just about Elena - stefan needed to hear her say it too.

Elena at first was putting on a brave face, she didn’t want to accept that reality (the one where she’s a vampire) Stefan knew that, so he reassured her that it was okay for her to feel that way.

Elena, once she gave in and expressed her feelings about it, said and looked like this while saying it:

“I don’t wanna be a vampire Stefan”

“I never wanted to be one”

So when elena actually did become a vampire, she still had the same mindset, she didn’t want to be a vampire. She valued human life.

Elena continues throughout early s4 saying that she hates who being a vampire is making her become, she hates the bloodlust that comes with it etc.

Elena tells Stefan all this after she went and fed on a human.

So Stefan (being the perfect guy he is) wanted to help Elena, he wanted her to have the life she wanted - the life that was ripped away from her. Her human life back.

Then, the cure was coincidentally introduced.

Stefan, even though he wanted the cure for himself, wanted it even more for Elena, because he LOVES her, he wants her to be happy. He wants he to feel like herself again.

Stefan searched high and low for the cure because he was the only one who witnessed Elenas meltdowns about being a vampire, he saw how distraught she was. he saw how her spark died. He saw her character break down In front of his eyes, the girl he knew - the girl Elena knew squashed by her hatred and sadness for being a vampire. The one thing she never wanted for herself.

Stefan was the one who taught Elena how to be a vampire, from hunting and the physical aspects of it to the emotional and mental aspects of it, he was there for her, throughout the whole thing, they both had hope that there was a way through this.

He helped her. meaning he didn’t care that she was a vampire, not in a way where it affected his love for her, he only cared because she did. Stefan hated it because Elena hated it.

That’s why when Stefan found out about the cure, he had his mind set on it, for the sole reason that he wanted the love of his life to have the life she desired. And that desire was audibly to be human.

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don’t mind me, just scrolling on Pintere-

make it make sense 😞

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Hii so I saw you answering someone else’s question and I was hoping if you could maybe answer mine! So I’ve been shifting since December 2022 maybe January of 2023 now it being 2025 I’ve never shifted. Like ever and I’m starting to lose faith in it bc I keep seeing posts of people saying guys can’t we all admit it was a joke and basically just people saying it was all a joke so that really made me question it. Overall I’m starting to lose faith in it bc I affirm and count while going to sleep I say things like I’m going to shift I’m pure conscious whatever till I get to 50 then I start saying like I’ve shifted I’m here whatever and even when I feel like I’m gonna wake up in my dr I always wake up in my or. Sorry if this is long but I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong and I want to shift so bad but I’m just losing faith in it bc I’ve tried for so long and it hadn’t worked and all these people saying it was all a joke. Sorry for it being so long and please tag me in it when and if you answer this!!

Hey! I just wanna start of by saying it's understandable to feel discouraged when you've been trying to shift realities since 2022 and haven't had the results you've been hoping for, seeing negative stuff on reality shifting can definitely shake your faith in it. For that reason, I want to make this very clear: those people who are saying “it’s a joke” are the exact people who’ve tried it once and it didn’t work and are still salty about it. You are different, you’ve stuck by it for all these years and haven’t given up and that is what sets you apart from them.

Now because of this and your predicament, I think it’s worth reflecting on why you were drawn to shifting in the first place. What are you hoping to gain from it? Why have you stuck to it all this time and never wavered or given up like the others?

Answer these questions now.

I ask you this because keeping your intentions clear and focusing on the positive aspects of the experience can help reignite your motivation as your answers to those questions are what made you want to shift so badly in the first place.

It also might help to take a step back and reassess your approach/method. You say you affirm and count as you go to sleep, you say things like; “I’m going to shift” “I’m pure consciousness” etc and you say it’s not working for you - you’re still waking up in your CR. If it’s not working for you then why are you still doing it? if I gave you water and you took a sip, realised it didn’t quench your thirst, are you still going to drink that water? No!! Switch it up, change your method, make your own method, recognise what works for you and what doesn’t. You’re the only one who can make you shift!! So let shifting be what you make it.

Are you enjoying the process? Or has it become a source of stress and disappointment? Are you too busy worrying about the possibility of it not working rather than focusing on your intended goal? Sometimes, putting too much pressure on yourself can hinder progress. It is possible you may feel a little burnt out by the disappointment that it’s not working right now, so maybe even taking a break to recharge for a better mentality can be beneficial for you? If you already have taken loads of breaks, and are getting back into the flow of things, try stop putting pressure on yourself, to be a shifter, you need to be able to accept the failure that comes with it sometimes BUT that definitely does not mean you won’t succeed.

I am just like you. I am someone who has never shifted. I’ve been a shifter since 2020 so I understand the frustration that comes with it even when you think “this is the attempt that’s actually going to work this time” and it ends up not working. It is so frustrating! but believe me when I say that will not be for forever. I am also someone who believes that everything happen for a reason. You found shifting for a reason. You believed in it for a reason. You still attempt to shift after all this time for a reason. You are destined to shift. If you will it. The mind…the multiverse…wherever and whatever you believe shifting to be, is powerful, don’t underestimate yourself. You are not the only one feeling discouraged, maybe you can find solace in the fact we are all in the same boat?

Ultimately, whether or not shifting "works" or is “real” is a personal opinion (even if it’s the wrong one) and if someone believes and says that ‘shifting is a big inside joke’ let them think that, because at the end of the day, their the ones missing out on life changing opportunities that you’re opening up to yourself. Don’t let antishifters make you loose faith in your journey and shiftings itself - especially when you don’t want to loose faith, especially when you want to shift so badly.

I have had many times where I have been very close to shifting, I’ve also had times where I’ve tried and gotten nowhere. and that’s okay. Shifting is a journey, a personal one at that. Don’t listen to people who don’t believe in it, it’ll only drag you down.

Anyway, I hope I answered your questions sufficiently and I really hope it helped!

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I've been curious about shifting for years but I just can't do it, because I keep remembering that the supernatural doesn't exist, and how science works, and whenever I come close, I end up trying to record it as data and scientifically understand it. I can't do faith and science in this community is mostly nonsensical technobabble. Are there any other shifters out there who struggle with that? Is there any undeniable proof of shifting or a mechanism by which it could work??? Help

first of all, I understand that for you it might take more evidence and scientific proof to believe in something as ‘crazy’ as shifting may sound.

You say that the supernatural doesn’t exist (probably because you’ve no scientific evidence to support that) but on the other hand, there is also no reliable proof that the supernatural doesn’t exist. Therefore I could also ask you why you’re so quick to think that shifting realities is supernatural? 🤷‍♀️

I think that sometimes we as humans need to learn that we will not have an explanation for absolutely everything, and sometimes you just have to take a leap of faith, try and step out of your usual way of thinking because that may be the best way of understanding it.

And having that belief that you can’t do it might be setting you back a little bit, and you explain that that’s down to the way your brain works, and that’s fair, that’s fine, everybody is curious, everybody wants answers, that’s why even the shifters that are able to believe in something like shifting; just like that, have done some form of research on it, including myself. Even though I found it easier to believe that shifting was in fact real than others may, I still did the research, I still questioned it. I still wanted to understand it too. But one thing that resonates as proof to me, is that people have been practicing shifting for many years and records are online to show that. It is not just some big new revelation that stemmed from a tiktok video.

Now if you wish to understand it scientifically to the best of your ability, i recommend reading about it.

I bought a book called: “Moving through Parallel Worlds to Achieve your Dreams” by Kevin L. Michel and it draws on research from quantum physics, psychology, biology and behavioural epigenetics (all things stated on the blurb)

This book has explained the possibly of shifting and proved it to me. And the thought that there are so many other books out there that scientifically prove, explain and help us understand shifting realities proves to me that it must be real. and it is.

I am not able to make you believe in it, I’m not even able to tell you that I’ve shifted. From my experiences, I can only tell you that I have been incredibly close. And now you may-be asking “hm how do you know you were close?” well, I would tell you I just knew, I just felt it. you could choose to trust me and believe me when I say that, but you may not.

so my advice to you is: start by doing your own research. the only one that can change your mind and view on shifting is you. And I’ll also say, you’re not alone in this - loads of shifters have the same mindset. Don’t sweat it because it is all still possible.For everyone to achieve, doubts or not doubts. 🤗

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anyone else fucking hate scripting cuz same #lazyhoesunite 🤪

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no literally!! I watched a tiktok on this and then I went to their account to see if they said anything more about shifting, she full on said she used to try shift religiously and still kinda believes in it? GURL CMON THEN STOP HATING😭

I’m SO over people “finding” their old shifting scripts just to go viral on TikTok because there’s nothing anti’s love more than gathering by the thousands and millions just to hate on shifting

And you can always fucking tell when the OP is open minded and still holds out some hope but then they side with the majority because who wants to be the butt of the joke

I just don’t get why the ones who were the most dedicated to shifting early on and were so invested in the community at one point can turn around and bully the people who are still standing strong after all this time

There is so much more to life than what we know I won’t apologize for challenging the norm

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wait a dayum minute 🫢

think the first thing imma do when i see my s/o(s) is give them a big kiss. make it the last thing i ever remember if i end up not being able to shift again

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LMAOO

how it feels to be a shifter whos crazy as fuck about their s/o

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gurl it’s okay I told my family about it and it was the worst decision I ever made 😞😞

uuuughhhhh I feel real envy for the people who can actually talk to other people in real life about shifting. especially their parents. If my mom knew she’d put me back in a psych ward 💔

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wow.

I will tell my children the bedtime story of a girl who shaped her reality by will of mind, because she fell in love with the essence of a person who did not exist and she could not bear to live without him.

I will catch a glimpse of that girl in the mirror, find my husband in the doorway, and be grateful for the girl who never gave up— who couldn’t give up.

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I SHIFTEDDDD

YES BRO!! YASSSSSS IF I COULD GIVE YOU A HIGH FIVE I WOULD!!

YAY!! 💕💕