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MOM HOLY FUCK

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Then come sit with us. Come talk to us, talk to your ashenmates, talk to your lovers. Learn from us. Help us find you a happy medium and let you know what that feels like.

This is hard, but you don't have to do it alone. We're all here for you.

clawandfang:

It also isn’t fair for them to act like your fears are unwarranted when you’ve been threatened *multiple times.* There’s a difference between “we’re trapped in the middle of a bad situation but we’ll do what we can for you” and “tough luck.”

There can be actions on both sides: for you, asauging your fears and working through them; for them, doing what they need to to help you do that, and protecting you where it is necessary - such as when you’re being threatened.

#Your needs are not too much.#You can be a scaredy cat; yes#but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve someone willing to protect you#You can have less extreme protection without swinging to the opposite extreme and asking for none at all

I d9n’t kn9w… I’m n9t sure h9w I’d make these very intense fears less s9. I d9n’t think I really kn9w h9w t9 h9ld healthy expectati9ns f9r l9vers that d9esn’t eventually swing int9 either 9f th9se extremes.

I’m realizing, n9w, that I c9uld lean 9n them as much as I’d liked… I c9uldn’t have a c9nversati9n a69ut fears and insecurities with9ut feeling like I was p9ssi6ly 9ver reacting 9r 6eing made t9 deal with them right this sec9nd.

This c9ming fr9m the same tw9 wh9 were c9mpletely fine with me 6eing l9cked in a cl9set.

… I d9n’t kn9w…

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It also isn't fair for them to act like your fears are unwarranted when you've been threatened *multiple times.* There's a difference between "we're trapped in the middle of a bad situation but we'll do what we can for you" and "tough luck."

There can be actions on both sides: for you, asauging your fears and working through them; for them, doing what they need to to help you do that, and protecting you where it is necessary - such as when you're being threatened.

amourete replied to your post “I’m n9t saying it excused any 9f what he did wr9ng. The hurt feelings,…”

You’re allowed to feel safe in your relationships, Lil.

H9w fair is it, th9ugh, that it takes acti9ns in extremes and 9ver c9mpensati9n t9 make me feel safe ar9und a pers9n? It’s n9t fair. It’s n9t fair f9r me t9 ask that they literally act like my g9d damn shield when they’re met with me and my irrati9nal fears.

It’s n9t fair f9r me t9 ask them t9 6e s9mething that they sh9uldn’t have t9 6e.

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There’s always a sadness running all through you. — All so natural. — I trust it, you know. I trust that sadness.

Alfred Stieglitz, from a letter to Georgia O’Keeffe featured in My Faraway One: Selected Letters of Georgia O'Keeffe and Alfred Stieglitz: Volume One, 1915-1933 (via catastropheyes)

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I thought you could do this. I thought you would. I thought you knew you would need to do this.

Meenah, you need to make this right. You have a chance to make this right.

Are you really going to just throw it all away?

Why are you doing this?

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Meenah, what the hell do you think you’re doing...

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I don't know what's happening yet but I swear to fucking god if you all can't get your shit together for *this one time* I AM going to lose my fucking shit.

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I don’t believe they honestly would, but there certainly is a sentiment…

I’m hoping that idea was cut off before it could really cement for anyone.

Actions stem from words stem from thoughts. Cut it off at the thought and pray it never becomes a word.

I can’t trust it anymore. I can’t trust any of this. People died because of us... You died because of us.

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Please don’t give Xanthe a position of power. Please. Please don’t even think about it, civil war happened last time, we can’t do that again.

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Please just don't kill her.

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And you all mock me for calling them Gods.

You don’t toy with Those Beyond The Veil. *That* is what it means to be a God. *They* are Gods, and Gods are to be feared.

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@roseredmutant replied to your post “#Safety furst Lapin … This has to be a coincidence.”

Hm?

I just remembered something odd.

Mom used to use that name for me...

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She talks like it’s the easiest thing in the world to make me a more permanent part of her life. Like we have nothing to worry about, like it’s obvious...

I want it. It’s hard to resist...

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#Safety furst Lapin

... This has to be a coincidence.

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She’s not the kind of girl you choose your battles for. She’s the kind of girl you fight to the death for.

Colleen Hoover, November 9 (via thequotejournals)

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