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I will marry a man who loves me and can provide for me abundantly. I will marry a man who inquires about my thoughts, feelings, and ideas regularly and genuinely. I will marry a man who gives me everything I want. I will marry a man who gives me free reign of his finances. I will marry a man who gives me a life where nothing is unattainable. I will marry a man that my family loves. I will marry a man who treats my friends as if they are his friends. I will marry a man who is proud to call himself my husband. I will marry a man with whom I can communicate with clearly and openly. I will marry a man that makes me smile as I’m falling asleep. I will marry a man that makes me want to be the best version of myself. I will marry a man who buys me everything I want because he understands this is what makes me happy.

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Manifestation Goals

August 30th 2020

No less than 70% in every class and assignment

Hit 180 lbs by Christmas 🎄

Create a side hustle that can replace my part-time job

Gain a stronger group of supportive girlfriends

Explore my new city and start over

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“A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE … a youth she’s content to leave behind…. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to retelling it in her old age…. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….. a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. a feeling of control over her destiny… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to fall in love without losing herself.. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… HOW TO QUIT A JOB, BREAK UP WITH A LOVER, AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… that she can’t change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… that her childhood may not have been perfect…but it’s over… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… whom she can trust, whom she can’t, and why she shouldn’t take it personally… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… where to go… be it to her best friend’s kitchen table… or a charming inn in the woods… when her soul needs soothing… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… what she can and can’t accomplish in a day… a month…and a year…”

— Pamela Redmond Satran

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Mariah Carey in "State Property 2" (2005)

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together we will create a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no holes punched into the walls so hard that the foundation rocks and cracks. our home will be gentle, it will be warm. i will keep you safe and you will keep me still. no fear, no hurt, no worry. we come from broken and twisted places but together we will build something whole and safe. we will curl around each other like a pair of quotation marks at night, warm and comforted. in the mornings, you’ll sing in the shower again. we will heal, and we will raise a family that doesn’t need to heal.

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I’m currently in the process of rebranding my entire life. What you see right now is nothing compared to the life that I am getting ready to manifest.

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Will Always remember

To the girls in their early 20’s:

Be careful to not get too wrapped up in life, bills, stress, dead-end jobs, and entertaining men who can and will ruin your life if you let them. If you let these things consume you like most people do, one day it’ll be your 27th birthday and you will have no idea where the majority of your 20’s went, and will have nothing to show for it as you’re approaching the next decade of your life. You have your whole life to stress and worry, but not everyone has the advantage of being in their 20’s and using it wisely. Use your 20’s to design and create your life, and then plan it out. If you want to do something or try something, this is the time to do it.

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“you’re pretty”-from a pretty girl. top tier.

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You become the 5 people you spend the most time with. Why not make those people someone who inspires you ..someone who is passionate, innovative and with a positive & wealth building mindset. Join the winner ⭕️

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Things that offend me

Milk

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Nobody will ever understand your lifestyle. Don’t talk to your family or your friends about your dating style and how you want your future to be. They will say you are delusional and dreaming while they are stuck waiting for love with people who won’t and can’t provide and protect them!

Live your life for YOU! Get your education, start a business, work, invest and live your best life! When that special man comes into your life and turns your thousands into millions because he sees your value that your family didn’t ... they’ll shut up.

You are your own individual. Respect your family but just because you respect them doesn’t mean you must listen to them. Know how good your judgement is and have trust in yourself. You will NOT fail! Just don’t be stuck or settle because your family can’t understand your dreams! Keep going!

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Someday I will have my own place. My world won’t be confined to my room. I will stumble sleepily through the house in the morning, opening the blinds. I will sit out in the backyard and look at the stars. I will go out whenever I want to. I will survive long enough to have that.

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Just finished the book Ho Tactics. It might just be my new bible. Now let make this money girls