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I wish I could give you all the stars in the sky.

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The “55x5” Method- A way of manifesting your desires✨💫

Today, I am going to introduce you to the most successful method I’ve tried so far for manifesting your desires with the Law of attraction.

What do you need?

A journal/ piece of paper/ something to write on.

A pen.

How does this work?

You write down your desire 55 times for 5 days. Write in the present tense. Remember to add the date on the paper so you keep track of the days.

For example, say you want to manifest a date with someone. You write down something like “I am so happy and grateful for my date with X” 55 times.

While you are doing this, it’s important that you are focused on the feelings that going on a date with X person would give you. Visualise them and also visualize you being on that date and feeling what you would feel. Don’t focus on the how, when, why or what. Just know that this is yours and it’s already happening.

After you finish writing your desire 55 times, add your signature and say “And so it is, starting now. I know that it is done for my highest good and for everyone’s highest good. Thank you, thank you, thank you” or something that resonates with you but express your gratitude, and claim that your desire is now a reality.

I finished my writing… Now what?

Go live your life. Detach from the outcome and just know that what you want is already yours. Make this now the Universe’s/God’s/ whatever source of power you believe in problem. Let go and IT WILL COME TO YOU. IT WILL HAPPEN when you least expect it and in the most unexpected way. I promise this is true. Just let the source of power you believe in do its work, you have already placed your order and it was taken/listened to.

What happens if 55 times is too much for me to write down?

- You can do it 44 times for 4 days, 33x3 (my personal fave), 22x2 or even 11x1. Whatever resonates with you the most, and depending on how ‘big" your desire is. Some things take more time than others to manifest, but it also depends on each person’s abilities to manifest.

Can you listen to music while you do this method?

Yes, as long as you don’t get distracted by it. Make sure to choose music that helps you keeping your vibrations high and that relate to the thing you want to attract.

I hope you like this post and you find it helpful. Let me know if you try it out and if you have any success stories with it. If you have any questions, leave them in my askbox and I’ll try to help in what I can.

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Halloween Prank

burn a piece of toast, scrape a scary message into it and then put it back into the center of the loaf of bread

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🍂✧lovely autumn things✧ 🍂

✧ warm, pumpkin scented candles flickering in a dimly lighten room

✧ fresh produce such as apples and pomegranates come in season

✧ the scent of cinnamon deserts filling the house

✧ the energies of autumn, the feelings that come upon us at this time

✧ the fresh cold air, the feeling of being cleansed by the clear and crisp breeze

✧ french jazz music filling your ears as you take sips of coffee in a lovely local cafe

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If you're ever bored, here's a list of Studio Ghibli films you can watch for free.

Castle In The Sky (1986) Grave of the Fireflies (1988) My Neighbor Totoro (1988) Kiki’s Delivery Service (1989) Only Yesterday (1991) Porco Rosso (1992) Pom Poko (1994) Whisper of the Heart (1995) Princess Mononoke (1997) My Neighbors the Yamadas (1999) Spirited Away (2001) The Cat Returns (2002) Howl’s Moving Castle (2004) Tales from Earthsea (2006) Ponyo On A Cliff From The Sea (2008) The Secret World of Arrietty/The Borrower Arrietty (2010) From Up on Poppy Hill (2011)

If any of the links stop working, please let me know so I can fix it.

For Castle In The Sky, wait for the free user button to be clickable and it will send you to the video.

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you know when the wind does the blowy thing and the leaves on the ground blow in a circle and you feel halloween in your heart

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i hope you have a great time ahead, drinking hot chocolate or apple cider, reading your favorite book in bed while it rains outside, studying hard and taking care of yourself, collecting pretty leaves and jumping in rain puddles, wearing your new oversized red sweater

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it is a Scientifically Proven Fact that once a group of people become friends, the tendency to make really foolish decisions skyrockets…. and from this chaos…. the Mom Friend™ rises, ready to keep everyone alive, armed with exasperation and common sense in spades

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*august ends*

halloween hAlloween HALLOweeN hALLoween hAlloWEEN HALLOWEen HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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“A couple of times in your life, it happens like that. You meet a stranger, and all you know is that you need to know everything about them.”

— Lisa Kleypas (via wordsnquotes)

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A Real Hero

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For those who think demisexuality isn't a thing.

Fortunately, no one has been bold enough to tell me this, but unfortunately, I see this happening to a lot of other bloggers:

A demisexual is described as someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction to someone else without a having developed a deep (usually emotional) bond with them. Straight people who don’t understand the term automatically assume that’s everyone. Their reasoning: most sane people will only have sex with someone they know or that they're close to.

Here’s why that reasoning is wrong, and I’ll do it without pointing to people who have one-night stands because I don’t think that’s a good enough example. These thoughts are based on observing the everyday people around me:

No, the average person won’t have sex with someone they haven’t developed some type of bond with, but they typically know after they talk to them for a couple of hours or date them a few times whether or not they WANT to have sex with that person. Most will know from that first glance. You know the glance: they look at the person’s face, then they keep going down, and keep going down, and if they like what they see, they already know. Sometimes they don’t even start with the face.

The number of times I’ve had a stranger comment on my body or look away from my eyes to see what the rest of me looks like grosses me out. This only grosses out the average person if they’ve already determined in their mind that they’re not attracted to the person giving them that glance. Otherwise, more often than not, they’ve already done the same glance themselves. I can’t count the number of times my girlfriends swoon over a muscular guy with a beard or a sexually charged video while I’m like, “Hm, okay. Moving on.”

I’ve had my friends defend the drivers who honk at me on the street. Because to the average straight person, it’s natural for people to look at you and consider whether or not you’re sexually attractive and openly expressing it to you with the expectation of reciprocation or, at the least, appreciation.

As a demi-gray asexual, I have only experienced sexual attraction to another person twice. The first was because I’d developed a deep romantic bond with a friend, and I naturally knew when the attraction shifted and I wanted to go further. The second was–the dilemma which most demisexuals face–because of a deep crush I’d developed on a close friend, and the thought of wanting to have sex with them didn’t occur for long after the crush had festered, like YEARS long.

As a demisexual, the attraction I typically experience is aesthetic or romantic. When I see what is classified as a hot guy, my first thought is usually, “I just want to stare at him.” I don’t want to see him naked. I don’t need to see him as sexy to be attracted to him. And for me, I usually find mannerisms or what might be generic actions to someone else as attractive. It’s super rare that I look at a guy and instantly think, “Sexy.” It’s after I’ve had a chance to know them for a while that I can tag that onto them, if at all.

As a romantic demisexual, if I picture myself in bed with a guy, typically, we’re just lying there, if not holding each other, then I’m certainly touching his face because I’m weird, but maybe that’s not just me. If that touching leads to kissing, PERFECT. I love kissing. If that kissing leads further and I want it, then that’s cool; it’s natural, but it’s very difficult for me to picture anything further than kissing most of the time.

The average person lives for where the kissing might lead. Many aces might not even feel the desire to kiss; an aromantic one certainly won’t. A demiromantic one won’t if, just like a demisexual, they haven’t formed a deep enough bond with that person.

A lot of times it’s hard to feel like you SHOULD be feeling this way or that when you don’t and when people around you are telling you you should. Some aces have sex with their significant other to please them. Some are repulsed by the idea of sex. It grosses me out a little bit, to be honest, but I’m not repulsed by it. I’m well aware of arousal and enjoy that sensation, but while I’d like to experience that with someone in the future, I’m not hard pressed about it.  Cuffing Season is a thing for a reason: the average person wants to be with someone romantically and sexually, to “keep them warm” this season. If they’re attracted to the person and the person is attracted to them, and they have a couple of things in common that make them tolerable, then that is all they need. For demisexuals, we just need a blanket and some hot chocolate, and we’re good. That’s definitely not how everyone else feels.

This is dumb long, and I seriously could go on, but I hope this is enough to shed some light for naysayers.

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“People are prettiest when they talk about something they really love with passion in their eyes.”

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