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Being Judgmental is Easy

The World in Which We Live

Being judgmental is easy in the day and age in which we live. Which can make it more difficult to be merciful, and gracious towards others. It is interesting that many who advocate for tolerance are some of the least tolerant people on the planet. Their point of view basically says, “As long as you see things our way, you’re a good person.” May Heaven help you if you don’t!    The problem is they cannot see beyond their own point of view, which means they will not tolerate differing ones; much less, those who hold them. This is especially true of ideologues. Mirror time! If we’re honest with ourselves, how many of us would have to admit we lean in that direction to various degrees? The world in which we live teaches people to despise those of believe differently, or if you like, don’t believe at all.    Have you ever found yourself judging others, because they don’t believe, think or act the way you think they should? Are you quick to speak your mind, or even offer unsolicited advice to those who are not as “enlightened” as yourself? Are you able to freely share the Gospel, instead of condemning them out of hand? Do you have a heart that actually loves the “unlovable?” Which means you can see past their so-called flaws, and reach out to them. Hey Christian, isn’t that the call? Did Jesus ever say, “Only make disciples of lovable people?”    Matthew 28:19-20 “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age (NASB).”

Empathy: Try to Understand

Proverbs 20:5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.    Part of walking a Spirit-filled life in which one is merciful, and gracious towards others is empathy. This is a big help if one struggles with judgment. Stepping back, and at least trying to see where others come from goes a long way. In many instances, we do not know what makes others tick.    We are unaware of how they grew up, and what they were taught in their formative years. We don’t know their life experiences, good or bad. All these things influence the way they believe, think and act. For instance, a person may decide he is an atheist, because he is angry at God. He blames God for something tragic that caused much pain. Atheism is his way to lash out at Him. It would be easy to write him off when he says to you, “I’m an atheist. I don’t believe in fairy tales!” Go deeper!    The focus here is not atheism; however, getting to the root cause of the problem may help in reconciling the individual to God in this example. There may be cases in which individuals live in self-destructive ways in order to fulfill a narrative they believe about themselves (i.e., “I’m not worthy of love, nor a better life.” “I’m evil,” and so on). Unfortunately, those behaviors impact others negatively.    How we interact with people may either strengthen their belief, or lessen it to a degree. It may even disrupt their core belief enough for them to consider another alternative. This calls for a spirit of meekness (gentleness). It requires humility, and above all, love!    Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek (gentle): for they shall inherit the earth.      Matthew 5:7 Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.    Someone who is meek is one who exercises restraint. He more interested in the well-being of the other person, and chooses love over offence for their sake. “Don’t people have to take personal responsibility?” Sure, but know by and large, most are doing the best they can with what they have. Some need help. Truthfully, we all need help.    Galatians 6:1-5 Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness (meekness); each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens, and thereby fulfill the law of Christ. For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. But each one must examine his own work, and then he will have reason for boasting in regard to himself alone, and not in regard to another. For each one will bear his own load (NASB).

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Misunderstood Self-Discovery

Self-Discovery

Have you ever felt misunderstood, and people take things wrong in spite of your best intentions? When dealing with other humans that is to be expected. Everyone has their own set of filters, and thus, see things differently. The temptation for some is to try to conform to how others think, which can cause personal conflict. Especially, if they don’t’ agree with everything others believe. Adding to the confusion is not being clear about their own values.    When a person does not know what makes himself tick, he may set out on a journey of self-discovery. Hoping to figure himself out, while trying to become his best version in the process. After a lengthy excursion, some find they are no closer to figuring things out than when they began.    The problem may rest in where they look for answers. That may come in various psychological explorations, to include books, therapy and the world of self-improvement. There are so many resources available, it can make your head spin. Then there’s that question of who do you trust? How many find themselves on a never-ending quest, because nothing has satisfied the itch, much less, filled the void?    Perhaps, they’re looking in the wrong places. That’s not to say there is nothing of value in some of these spaces, but human reasoning only goes so far. Leaning on your own understanding of things is not very helpful in getting to the desired destination. And that’s rub: do they even know what they desire? If so, is it the best one?    Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.

Look Upward; Not Inward

Genesis 1:26-27 And God said, Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in His Own image, in the image of God created He him; male and female created He them.    It can be difficult to wrap your mind around the fact we are created in the image of God. That being the case, perhaps the journey of self-discovery should not be inward focused. By the way, some of the psychological, and self-help resources attempt to conform God into our image. That is one way to become severely confused. Frankly, it is demonic in some cases, and definitely flesh-driven in others. Certainly misguided!    Romans 8:29 For whom He did foreknow, He also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren.    Since we’re created in His image, it might be best to look upward instead of outward, or inward. Because humanity was corrupted by sin, it might be hard to believe we were created in His image; but we were. God had the solution to the problem before it all began. Which in a sense, placed the decision in our hands as to whether we conform to His image; or choose a different one to which to conform, so to speak. In the latter case, the void will never be filled!    Jesus cleansed us of our sins by His Own Blood, that we may conform to His image. How does one conform? Submit to Him. The more submitted you are to Him, the more you will be like Him. To be clear, every human being is still uniquely made, and has his or her own personality. Which means each of us has a unique relationship with God. Conforming to the image of Jesus is not about a personality change; rather, it is about being who He intended us to be, while allowing Him to manifest through us (i.e., the fruit of the Spirit as found in Galatians 5:22-23).    As long as a person pushes Him away, he will never know his true self, nor his full potential. Our full potential is found in Jesus, as we are complete in Him. A person will never feel complete, nor fulfilled apart from Him.    Romans 8:14-17 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with Him, that we may be also glorified together.    It is far more satisfying, fun even, to discover who you are in Him. Let Him speak to your heart, and allow Him to reveal exactly who you are. After all, He’s the Designer. Let Holy Spirit reveal Who God is, who you are, and what the relationship should like through Scripture. The more you embrace your true identity, the more joy you will experience. You do not have to live in confusion. One thing is for certain, God understands you perfectly. Go to the Source!

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When Life Seems Intimidating

Obscurity can be Scary

Face it, uncertainty can overwhelm the senses when a person is entering uncharted territory. That in-between place can be disconcerting. The space where one leaves the well-known, comfortable habitation, and begins to head into an unfamiliar terrain. In the former, people know the rules; in the later not so much. Humans love certainty. Even change for the better can feel nerve-racking.    When you are in the thick of it, do not allow old rules dictate the direction you take in life; especially, when the Lord is involved. Interestingly, the womb was comfortable for nine months, but we still had to leave it. Eventually, it would be very uncomfortable. Part of growth includes discomfort. Perhaps that why we find ourselves feeling discontent when we’ve been somewhere too long. We may comfortable; but we’re unsatisfied.    Ironically, some are only comfortable if they’re in constant motion. A change for them would be staying put for an extended period of time. The need to be in constant movement may actually be a symptom of a deficiency of sorts. Whether it’s a void they’re trying to fill, or a hurt from which they’re trying to escape, are a couple examples.    Regardless of the reason, we all face changes, and experience insecurity as a result. Insecurity is not always a bad thing. How so? It can help us connect with the importance of being reliant on God. Self-reliance can lead to pride, which interferes with our relationship with Him, and other people. People lean towards humility when they don’t feel so self-assured. Without humility, one would be hard-pressed to receive wisdom and clarity from above!

Take Comfort in Our Unchanging God

Malachi 3:6 For I am the LORD, I change not; therefore, ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.    Hebrews 13:8 Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and forever. There is one thing for certain: life is filled with changes. One thing we can take comfort in is God never changes. He is our Constant, and as such, He is always with us. His ways are unchanging; therefore, we can rely on them for stability. For instance, His peace is not contingent on circumstances; it is always available in spite of circumstances. It’s part of the fruit of the Spirit (see Galatians 5:22).    John 14:27 Peace I leave with you, My peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.       Revelation 22:16 I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last. Because God is the Beginning and the Ending, He knew the ending before the beginning. Which means He knew what you would face in life long before you were born. He is an amazing Father Who made provision for everything you need for what lies ahead. For example, if He gives you a new job, He has given you the grace (God-given ability) to do the work. He qualifies the unqualified.    2 Corinthians 12:9 And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me (NASB).    On occasion, our flesh loves to freak out. It seems like it thrives on fear and adrenalin. However, God’s intent is for us to have peace. Therefore, when life seems intimidating, focus on Him. Submit to Holy Spirit, and allow His peace to rule in your heart. Ask for His wisdom and direction. In short, trust Him!

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Hey, Husbands!

How are You Treating Your Wives?

Hey, husbands, how are you treating your wives? Have you read the passage of Scripture that says, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it” (Ephesians 5:25)? How is that going for you? Are you loving her well? Have you laid your life down for her? Are you treating your wife as Jesus would?    There are husbands who constantly criticize their wives. Often, making them the butt end of their jokes. On top of that, they take glee in doing it in public, especially, in front of friends and family. Are you one of them? That is not loving them well. Every husband should keep in mind that before she became his wife, she was and is God the Father’s daughter first! That type of thing probably does not set well with Him. Even if she is not present, it is still wrong!    Why would some husbands do that? Perhaps, they learned if from their own fathers? If that’s the case, it’s time to break the family pattern. Do they despise their wives for some reason?  There are numerous possible reasons, which range from unforgiveness to one’s general attitude toward women, and everything in between. Maybe, they despise themselves, and they mistreat them as a consequence. “He who loves his wife, loves himself” (Ephesians 5:28).    The more husbands mistreat their wives, the more their hearts close up to them. In this later case, those who despise themselves actually seek rejection from their wives, amongst others. Of course, some are not self-aware enough to figure out why their wives are not close to them anymore. It usually happens gradually, but eventually a large chasm often develops, and it does not end well. In fact, God’s intention is they don’t end until death do them part (see Matthew 19:6).    At this point, the focus will not be on reasons husbands self-sabotage. That is another lesson in itself. Suffice to say, every human, male or female, should love themselves as God loves them. It is the opposite of narcissism. It frees people up to love others well. Another lesson in itself. So how should husbands treat their wives?

Love Edifies

Ephesians 5:25-29 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it; That He might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the Word, That He might present it to Himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church.    Part of loving our wives includes considering her to be precious. Of great value. She is set apart to us, and no one else can stand in her place. She should be our second Love, because Christ is our first. Even though, God placed husbands in authority over their wives, she is still their equal. When God brought the woman (Eve) forth from Adam’s side, she was to be his “help meet,” or “helper.” Someone who comes along his side to help him. She completes his lack; she was not intended to be a slave.    By the way husbands, with authority comes responsibility. That authority is not supposed to be lorded over her; in fact, it should protect her. Yes, husbands should protect their wives. Not just physically, but spiritually and emotionally. By walking in subjection to Jesus Christ our Lord, that authority will provide stability for the family. In which case, she should feel safe.    In order for you to be who you need to be for her, and your children, you need to be who need to be for Him. If you are who you need to be for God, you’ll be who you need to be for others. The greatest way to love your wife, is to love Jesus first, and submit to Him completely. In turn, His love is free to flow through you to her. It is another way for her to experience His love.    That love takes joy in her for her sake alone! It does not look for a return on investment, so to speak. As we well know, it is not selfish! Let’s love our wives well!

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Unity of the Spirit

The Days are Evil

Ephesians 5:15-17 See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, Redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.    People talk about how things seem to be getting worse with each passing day. Even in Paul’s time, the days were considered evil. Hence, the call to walk circumspectly, which means with great accuracy, or exactness. With diligence, as if one is carefully navigating a treacherous mountain side; not a broad, easy, gradual path. Reaching its summit requires great pains, care and diligence. In addition, such times require wisdom, and understanding what the will of the Lord is. How many take this passage of Scripture to heart? What is His will?    Ephesians 5:18-21 And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.    As disciples of Jesus Christ, we cannot afford to dull our senses with self-medication; rather, we need to be filled with the Spirit Who is our true Comforter. Offering the praise and thanksgiving, which includes giving thanks for all things. Let’s zero in a bit on verse 21: “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of the Lord.”    As the Body of Christ, which is the Church, we cannot afford to be divided in this day and age. We never could! If you think about it, division reveals a lack of the fear of the Lord. How is it believers lambast other believers who are made in His image? Why would we waste time bickering over such things as doctrine and traditions, amongst other things? What good is that?    James 3:14-16 But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, do not be arrogant and so lie against the truth. This wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly, natural, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing (NASB).

Unity Required

Ephesians 4:1-3 I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.    If we are truly going to be unified, each of us needs to play our part as individuals. Our starting point is humbly submitting to the Holy Spirit, thus, walking in agreement with Him. Even if we have some mass consensus in the Church, if we are not in agreement with the Lord, we are not unified in the Spirit. Moreover, we are to be bonded together in peace. Unity requires His truth.    As we walk in the fear of the Lord, which is the beginning of wisdom (see Proverbs 1:7; 9:10), our concern is His will and what pleases Him. When you read the prayer of Jesus in John 17, He emphasized us being one. Those who thrive on division, and backbiting lack the fear of the Lord, and are flesh-driven. Pride, ego and arrogance are an unholy trinity that has no place in the Church.    Psalms 111:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom; A good understanding have all those who do His commandments; His praise endures forever (NASB).       Let’s briefly discuss one major bone of contention in the Body of Christ: doctrine. There are doctrines of men and devils; but there is only one Doctrine of Christ. Please note, the former is plural, divisive and demonic. The latter is singular, unifying and godly. There are numerous elements to the doctrine of Christ, but they are one (i.e. Hebrews 6:1-3). When discussing the Word of God, should we not be most concerned about The Truth, and what God thinks? Why would any of us try to prove our so-called “correct doctrine?”    All the elements of the doctrine of Christ fit together perfectly. Each member of the Body has an understanding as revealed by the Holy Spirit Who is The Teacher. As He leads our discussions, we should be able to glean from one another; thus, gaining a greater understanding. It is important to study to see if said teachings are so. Studying to disprove something is studying to disbelieve, which is the opposite of faith. Trying to prove a teaching lends itself to information-bias, and could lead to error, and even self-deception.    Truth can actually cause confusion. How so? If a person believes a lie, or a partial truth, he will find himself confused when he hears the truth. If you have the truth on a given subject, you cannot be confused in that area. Here’s the beauty of truth: once you find it, error falls away, and becomes mute. It will no longer be a consideration. What’s the point? We should come together in the fear of the Lord, and love. The study of doctrine should unify us; not cause division. Regardless of what we do together, we need to do it in love!    James 3:17-18 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.

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Faith is Not Self-Centered

Is Faith Self-Serving?

Contrary to what some might teach, faith is not designed to get what you want. Some have turned it into some sort of lamp that you rub in order to get God to get, or do things on your behalf. They use Scripture to validate their teaching, so it sounds legitimate. Unfortunately, it is still self-serving in nature; even though, it may seem like it’s a way of serving God. For example, one might say, “Because God gives us the desire of our heart (partially quoting Psalms 37:4), I’m going to trust Him for (fill in the blank).” From where, or whom did the desire come? It’s an important question.    1 John 2:15-17 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.    How many attempt to use faith to fulfill a lust, or gain status, which is attached to pride? Incidentally, if you seek such things to fill a void, you may have a disconnect with your identity in Christ. Is it a good thing to attempt to use the things of God to gain things of the world?    Psalms 37:4 Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart (NASB).    Are desiring things wrong? No, not necessarily. However, it is important to delight yourself in the Lord, and allow Him to place the things He desires for you in your heart. If there is a conflict between His desire and yours, which one will you choose? Jesus puts things in proper perspective:    “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” (Matthew 6:19-21).    Matthew 6:31-33 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Quick Definition of Faith

Hebrews 11:1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.   When examining the original language, we find faith is God’s unseen reality. That means hope is a sure thing; not wishful thinking. This definition gives us clue about faith: its Source.

Faith is an Obedience Thing

Often people will say, “By faith I’m going to (fill in the blank).” Sometimes, it actually is by faith; other times, it’s presumption. What determines the difference? The source. In order for something to be of faith, it has to come from the Lord. It has to be His Word from His heart; not bending verses of the Bible to get what we want, while calling it faith. To be clear, this is not an inditement towards anyone. Every believer has misapplied Scripture at one time or another, because of a lack of understanding. Of course, there are some who seek to deceive others, but that’s not  being addressed here.    Romans 10:17 So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.   In one application, our faith in Jesus came from hearing the Gospel, which His Word to us. Another application is the Holy Spirit speaking to our heart. This could apply to a number of areas. Think relationally. For instance, His Word about our desire. “Father, should I pursue this course of action? This is what I would like to do; nevertheless, Your will be done.” If He answers, “Yes,” the action taken would be an act of faith. Obviously, if He said, “No,” or “Wait, it would not. Moreover, if He has not yet answered, the action would fall under presumption, because He gave no direction. His Word did not come first. It’s always best to wait on Him.    Here's an example of an obedience thing. There was a person who said, The Lord told me to go to the doctor (for a certain issue); but out of faith, I am not going to go.” This would be a case of disobedience; not faith. Sure, we receive healing by faith. That’s Bible! Nonetheless, it is important to operate under His terms.    There is no blanket method, or magical formula. It is simply obeying what we hear from God. How one hears will not be tackled here. Just know He is faithful to get His word to us. We simply need to be willing listen, and receive what He might say to us. Faith is God-centered!

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Problems, Creativity and Solutions

Feel Like Giving Up?

Do you give up easy when the rubber meets the road? When problems seem insurmountable, it is easy to quit. Perhaps, you, or someone you know, are at end of the proverbial rope. When a person has been in a struggle for a long time, throwing in the towel sounds inviting. Emotional rollercoasters have been known to wear down the strongest of individuals. “I just want to get off this ride!” To whom do you turn? Consider the words of King David:    “Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I shall again praise Him For the help of His presence. O my God, my soul is in despair within me; Therefore, I remember You from the land of the Jordan and the peaks of Hermon, from Mount Mizar.” (Psalms 42:5-6 [NASB]).    David learned that his only hope was God; therefore, he sought Him out before anyone else. Especially, when he had no one to stand by his side. When some face hardship, and experience frustration and pain, they get angry at God. They blame, and push Him away. But this only prolongs the agony. Fortunately, God is an amazing Father Who is very patient with us, and stands ready to help. Others, have learned to run to Him first.    Valleys can prove to be very fertile ground. Many have learned to draw near to God, and trust Him in the low places. That is not to say we should be looking for trouble, and hardship in order to have a great relationship with Him. After all, Jesus said we should be child-like, which does not require hardship. On the other hand, if a person is childish and filled with pride, he may find himself in the valley at some point. Though we should be child-like when approaching God, it is important to put away childish ways.    1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things (NASB).

You are Creative

Genesis 1:27 God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.    It is important to underscore you are created in His image, which makes you creative by nature. Unfortunately, some have been taught to believe they are not creative; but they are! That being said, God has given you the creativity to problem-solve, and find solutions. It is innate, because it is a byproduct of being made in His image. It is a gift. Think about it. How many have invented amazing things, or found solutions to the biggest obstacles who didn’t have a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ? The gift works, in spite of the individual. God ultimately gets the glory!    When facing an overwhelming problem, step back, take a breath and ask yourself: “Is there a solution?” There’s usually at least one, if not multiple. Put creativity to work. Don’t look at them as impossibilities, especially when all things are possible with God. That in itself is a hint. We do not have to face things alone. That may sound like a no-brainer; however, some isolate themselves and go into solo-mode. They learned to be self-reliant, because of facing difficulties on their own. There was no one to help them, hence, they only rely on themselves. Asking God for help is counterintuitive. If nothing else, the last resort.    James 1:5 But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him (NASB).  

You Have Been Invited

Matthew 11:28-30 Come unto Me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn of Me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light (NASB).    Salvation means having a relationship with God, which is why we call Him, “ABBA, Father.” He wants to co-labor with us, which means we can ask for His help. By the way, the sooner, the better! The caveat is it requires patience.  Some solutions take more time than others. In many cases, time is a key element for the best results. Sometimes His counsel includes us doing difficult things. You know, the things we don’t feel like doing.    The Father has a wholistic approach when it comes to answering our prayers. Part of solving problems includes making us better by using situations to expose, and rid those things that hinder our relationship with Him. You did ask Him to make you more like Jesus, didn’t you? How many keep shooting themselves in the foot? Sometimes, people need to either be disarmed, or learn gun control, so they stop it. Part of the fruit of the Spirit is self-control, which is only possible by submitting to Him (see Galatians 5:22-26).     For instance, some people are impulsive, and lack self-control. Why? Something is amiss. In this case, they may be compensating, or self-medicating in a sense. They’re trying to make up for some apparent lack, or attempting to dull the pain caused by emotional trauma. The list of possible reasons is long, so we’ll leave it there. Incidentally, His wholistic approach includes helping others who may be involved. In the end, there is rest for your soul. There is peace.    Problems are opportunities to draw even closer to Him!

Remember Previous Victories

Finally, remembering past victories helps us face new difficulties. If God did it once, He’ll do it again. It keeps us in touch with His faithfulness. Start here: He made a Way when there was no way to have a relationship with Him. He loves you!

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How do You Give?

Do You Give in Secret?

Generally, when you give, do you give in secret? You know, where only God the Father knows what you are doing, and rewards you openly, because you did it in secret (see Matthew 6:1-4). Your motivation is love, and the desire to please Him?

Do You Give Openly?

Matthew 6:2 Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.    When people give openly before others, they are seeking the honor of man, and already have their reward. Unfortunately, it carries no eternal value, even though others may benefit by their action. If it is not done in love, it will not profit them in the long run (see 1 Corinthians 13:3).    1 Corinthians 3:12-15 Now if any man build upon this foundation gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, stubble; Every man's work shall be made manifest: for the day shall declare it, because it shall be revealed by fire; and the fire shall try every man's work of what sort it is. If any man's work abide which he hath built thereupon, he shall receive a reward. If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire.

Let’s Go Deeper than Rewards

If one has an incessant need for man’s affirmation, versus lovingly wanting to please the Father, something may be lacking in his relationship with the Father. One reason is he may be disconnected with his identity in Jesus Christ. If he does not see himself as being valuable in the Father’s eyes, there will be a tendency to seek approval elsewhere. When you know His love for you, you will find the need for man’s approval to be nonexistent. At least, greatly diminished. Unfortunately, giving to get will wear a person out. No matter how much he gives, he will never feel it’s enough. Why? Because he will never feel worthy enough to stop performing, and that makes for a never-ending quest for love and attention. There may be moments when the individual may feel fulfilled, but they are fast fleeting occurrences.   In some cases, people are easily manipulated by those who recognize this trait, and prey upon them. Unscrupulous people love to dangle their affection to such in order to string them along. If they don’t perform, they cut off their affection. It’s the old carrot/stick principle, which keeps them under their thumb. Generally, this works well as long as the individual does not recognize the other is taking advantage of him. Sadly, some will continue to give out, even though they do know it. They are that desperate for affirmation.   They have yet to experience God’s unconditional love for them; hence, they have no confidence in their relationship with Him. That is a mighty big hole to fill, and frankly, they do not have a big enough shovel in order to fill it. How many grew up having to perform for love and affection from their parents? If you’re one who brought this mindset into your relationship with God, you will lack confidence He does indeed love you. Of course, this bleeds into how much you trust He actually listens to you, and answers your prayers.    Another obvious reason people love to openly give, and do “good deeds” for everyone to see is they are hypocrites. They are trying to make others believe they are something they are not. “I’m a good Christian, look at how much I give to the poor.” We all may have hypocritical moments; but that is not the same as being a true-blue hypocrite who is nothing more than an actor. They pretty much do not have a sincere bone in their body. They have no relationship with the Father, because they have not humbled themselves before the Lord Jesus Christ.    John 5:39-44 Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of Me. And ye will not come to Me, that ye might have life. I receive not honour from men. But I know you, that ye have not the love of God in you. I am come in my Father's name, and ye receive Me not: if another shall come in his own name, him ye will receive. How can ye believe, which receive honour one of another, and seek not the honour that cometh from God only?

Confidence to Give in Secret

1 John 4:10 Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.    1 John 4:16-19 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as He is, so are we in this world. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love. We love Him, because He first loved us.    For the doubters: your love for God is proof He loves you, because you could not love Him without Him first loving you. The fact He sent Jesus to die for your sins underscores, and highlights this truth. Make the decision to believe, and receive His love, and you will be free to give in secret with no strings attached!

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Books and the Bible

Great Books; Not-So-Great Books

There are a lot of great books out there, and they do have their place. Especially, when the writers determined to submit to the Holy Spirit. Thus, He is the Author, and they are scribes. The Holy Spirit is the Author of the Bible, and those who physically wrote each book were scribes. Like dictation, they wrote what they heard.     1 Timothy 3:16 All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.    Moreover, these books align with Scripture, which was the intent of the writers. Their hearts had no hidden agendas. Their interest was the will of God, and to share what they were taught. Again, by the will of God, and to His glory. When the content of the books is Spirit led, they bear will witness to our spirits.    Without going deep into this subject, sometimes such books cause confusion to some readers. Why? Because they have strongholds, which are false teachings they received as truth. Sometimes, what we hear from others is a little off, or maybe way off. This is why it is important to pay attention to the Spirit’s promptings. “This feels off.” When someone feels confused by truth, it means he didn’t have the truth to begin with. That may sound obvious, but if you have a stronghold, it will not so apparent.  When you have the truth, you cannot be confused.    There are many not-so-great books that should be left unread (great kindling, perhaps). The Bible clearly warns us of false teachers. That’s is not to say everyone who writes such books have evil intent. For example, some used human reasoning. This is why it is important to ask the Lord whether you should read a particular book. It may prove beneficial to be willing to hear, “No books at all.” More on this in a moment. In order for things to be truly spiritual in the positive sense, they must involve the Holy Spirit. Incidentally, this applies to people.    1 Corinthians 2:12-16 Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God. Which things also we speak, not in the words which man’s wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual things with spiritual. But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man. For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that He may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.

When Books are Out of Place

As already stated, there are some books not worth considering, because they are unbiblical. That’s a no-brainer. That being said, even great books can be out of place. How so? In some instances, they are out of season. A person may not be in the proper season to read it, or maturity level as far as that goes. This gets back to asking God first. He is our ultimate Teacher Who knows what we need, and when we need it. For instance, He may want to teach you something without outside interference. A book may hinder what He is trying to reveal to you. Of course, the Lord may allow you read a book that might confirm what He has shown you. By the way, it is usually better to not seek confirmations. They will come at the proper time, if He feels you need one. Seeking them can lead to confirmation bias, which is a different subject.    Sometimes, people become too dependent on books. This is especially true for those who have a difficult time understanding the Bible. Some have believed the lie that says, “Only certain people can understand it, and you are not one of them.” That would make God unequal.    Part of seeking Him involves reading His Word, which is not meant to be studied as one might study a textbook. It works best to approached it relationally with Him. The Bible reveals God to us, and as it has been said, “It is His love letter to us.” As alluded to earlier, we need to be reliant on the Holy Spirit; not books.    Romans 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.    The renewing process involves reading Scripture with Him. The more we think like Him, the more we are able discern the things of God. That includes discerning what He considers to be great books, and which ones should be burned. When you know His truth, you cannot be confused by a lie. In short, ask Him whether you should read a book. He may have you read it now. He may have you wait for a while, or He may say, “No, not ever!” Stay open!

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