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Not our usual content but incredibly important!

For more information on the Batang Toru dam, the Tapanuli orangutan and how you can help, please check out the links below:

BBC article | Batang Toru website | Pacific Standard article

(Twitter source)

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My one friend is such a good artist yall, props to lstene brits

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Emoji spell for money to make its way into your pockets 😉😉

💲💚🕯💵💰💵🕯💚💲

likes charge, reblogs cast✨

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I need this energy in my life

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I am not, but can we please adress what this actually looks like, because i get the vibe that this isnt Just meant for kids

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Everyone should know about this poison

PLEASE BE CAREFUL FOR ANYONE WHO USES “BLUEBUFFALO” FOR THEIR DOGS!!

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Yay

Therapy 😈🕯

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Sure give it a shot

Reblog this and ill leave ur drag name in ur inbox

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Id love to attend a show with the both of them performing

Jinkx Monsoon and Alaska Thunderfuck 5000!

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The tuck

So ive done some research on tucking and damn ive found a new way, tried it and ive already experienced a gigantic improvement

For example i can actually move my legs, like damn the pain from before was so unnecessary

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Nazis have no place in Paganism or Satanism, the gods do not stand for that and you're an insult to our community.

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This person need help, if anyone sees this anf has the money to spare please consider helping.

I haven’t been able to even pay off one bill. I’ve just been crying.

I don’t know what to fucking do. I want to live. I want to survive!!! My health is getting rapidly worse, and my literal body parts are randomly shutting fucking down, I Havs lupus, my flare ups are debilitating. I can’t work. My chronic pain is increasing.

I NEED treatment and I can’t even pay one bill.

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so my dad is a college professor and he just got alerted recently that in an effort to go “paperless,” the faculty is having their printers taken away. My dad decided to take this opportunity and… create a meme? So he goes proudly up to me and tells me “I created a meme!!!” and lo and behold…

my dad’s first meme

he was so proud of it and he emailed it individually to other faculty and nobody gave him any acknowledgement, he came into my room all sad. pls share to give my father the meme support he deserves

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Happy Ace Awareness Week!

I’m probably not going to stop talking about this, and honestly when do I ever stop.

Oct 20th, 2019

Today is the 20th and that means it’s time to tell my story of what happened when I came out as Ace to the first person I deemed the most important relationship in my life.

The year… Well I don’t actually know the year I just know it was Winter(2015-16?) of my Sophmore Year. I had been in my first wlw relationship and it was the most genuine relationship I had after dating 2 guys who just wanted to jump my bones. I had experimented with being sexual before, but it wasn’t really my thing, and I never really felt attracted to people sexually. Just aesthetically and emotionally. 

My girlfriend at the time and I had tried to mess around on several occasions, but I didn’t really feel up to it when the times came. She would get upset and pout, but honestly, she wasn’t upset. There was only once where I was up for it and she just didn’t because she didn’t realize I was. Anyways.

We were in the library of our school, I had spent an entire summer and fall wondering if I was Ace, and once we were about to go on Winter Break, I realized I, in fact, was Asexual. I was nervous about telling my friends and my girlfriend. But, I thought about when my girlfriend came to me, thinking she was trans and how open I was to that. How I told her I would be there even if she was.

It calmed me down and made me feel a little better. Well, again in the library, my friends, my girlfriend and I, all were at a table talking quietly among ourselves. One of my guy friends, older I think a junior then, made a small joke about mine and my girlfriend’s sex life. I thought this would be a great place to casually mention I am Asexual. Because again, being Ace didn’t mean I lacked love or would never have sex.

It went well with my friends, they adjusted really well to it. My girlfriend… Not so much. She was fine when I first said something. But she began to distance herself after that. Refusing to hold my hand. Refusing to kiss me when we got to our first class. Saying she couldn’t eat with me at lunch. Not texting me at all during the school day. All the normal things we did that weren’t sexual.

She waited until after school to tell me, via text, that I didn’t love her. That being ace meant I didn’t feel any love for her. That sex was the only way to prove love. She broke up with me, despite me explaining everything. I had to lead her on for 2 years(½ years but whatever she kept saying 2) and gave up her dreams of doing things with me.

It hurt. It made me hate who I am. Who I couldn’t change. And I didn’t see what was so different about when she thought she was trans and me being Asexual. Why was it okay for her to take her anger out on me when I had been accepting of her ever-changing orientation and her questioning her gender. It was weird. Off-putting.

I now, after on and off again dating her and being her friend for 3 years, am no longer talking to her. There was a lot of fucked-up shit she did, beyond telling me I lied to her about my orientation(even though at this time I barely even figured it out myself).

Just… My words to the Aces and Aros who want to come out. When and if you do, and the person you come out to does something like this, don’t take it from them. Drop their ass like a hot potato. Because this one incident was what lead to hundreds of arguments and toxic behaviors from my girlfriend. If they get mad at you or tell you anything rude or derogatory, they do not need to be in your life. You deserve people who understand and care about you.

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In honor of Asexual awareness week coming up;

(Oct 21st - Oct 27th)

Smash that motherfucking reblog button if you support Asexuals and consider them a valued part of the LGBTQ+ community!

Exclusionists/Acephobes do not interact.

Edit; Acephobes/Exclusionists who have replied to this post anyway, obviously unable to read… I am not here to argue with you. This isn’t about discourse. Fuck you.

Our identities have been discourse topics for too long. Not this week. This week is about celebrating ourselves. This week I’m done with you. I’m no platforming you.

This is the week we block on sight.

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'' If your not wearing nails, you are not doing drag''

-- Alaska thunderfuck 5000