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My dear lgbt+ kids, 

Yes, there are „bad reasons“ to enter a polyamorous relationship - just like there are bad reasons to enter a monogamous relationship. 

And yes, it is definitely important to be aware of the fact that you can enter relationships for unhealthy reasons - but, again, that applies to everyone. Education on healthy relationships is important for everyone. 

And yet, people usually do not go „Oh, they’re in a monogamous relationship? Those rarely ever last, there are just so many people doing it for the wrong reasons“ or expect you to add on „as long as it’s not done for toxic reasons“ whenever you talk about monogamy. 

Educating about unhealthy relationships is - obviously - not by default offensive or done in bad intent, just because it’s focused on poly relationships (or any queer relationships for that matter). But it is important to differentiate between education and double standards. 

Problems arise when monogamy is treated as the (inherently healthy) standard while polyamory is treated as inherently suspicious and in need of scrutiny. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Dad 

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May I offer a hot birdverage? We have cocoaburra, chickatea, cawfee, or cider waxwing.

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My solution for bloatware is this: by law you should hire in every programming team someone who is Like, A Guy who has a crappy laptop with 4GB and an integrated graphics card, no scratch that, 2 GB of RAM, and a rural internet connection. And every time someone in your team proposes to add shit like NPCs with visible pores or ray tracing or all the bloatware that Windows, Adobe, etc. are doing now, they have to come back and try your project in the Guy's laptop and answer to him. He is allowed to insult you and humilliate you if it doesn't work in his laptop, and you should by law apologize and optimize it for him. If you try to put any kind of DRM or permanent internet connection, he is legally allowed to shoot you.

With about 5 or 10 years of that, we will fix the world.

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daughter.

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Everyone shut up and look at this carving of a whale from the 1200-600 CE Chumash culture

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yandere this and tsundere that how about doing your laundere

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I love to pretend to be a vintage horror starlet.

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I've gotten a quote for more SIM process printed K-Pg crewneck sweatshirts and unfortunately inflation has risen again, and would bring my selling point for them over $100cad, maybe $112 after | pay taxes/fees.

Would anyone be interested in a run of long sleeve shirts over sweatshirts to keep the price point lower? I'll be asking for a quote on that shortly!

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tomorrow im really gonna give it my nothing

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Launching this blog with a BANG. Happy Luzeni Friday.

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I wish I could t pose and tense every muscle perfectly to crack every single joint simultaneously is the most gruesome cathartic sound like a shotgun made of bones

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noodle posting

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HEORSHE 😍

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personally i feel like a political system that relies on tens of thousands of people spending hours upon hours to beg those in power not to pass the "Behead All Orphans Act" is uh. kind of a failure.

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*Dead media (assassinated)

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i need a minute of silence to honour the fallen

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man with loophole fetish facing criminal charges gets off on a technicality