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an appalling number of marginalized people in this upcoming generation appear to be under the impression that saying they're "reclaiming" a slur gives them a free pass to use that slur in a derogatory way towards other marginalized people in their communities that they dislike or think are annoying. maybe it's just the people i've had the misfortune of encountering in the wild, but it's getting bleak out there, folks.

like the other day i encountered some cunt using the fucking R slur to refer to an autistic person stimming in a way they found annoying, and when confronted about their ableism, they replied, "oh, i have ADHD, i can reclaim it." and it's like, no, you jackass, you absolutely the fuck cannot! that is not what that means! if the way you use a word is indistinguishable from the way a fucking nazi would use that word, then you're not "reclaiming it" anymore, you dumb bastard!!! you're just using it the same way the damn nazi does!!! shut the fuck up and be kinder you ass!!!

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So I'm halfway through Gideon the Ninth and how come nobody has told me about Dulcinea?? She's so good, you'd think people would go bonkers over her

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VAMPFEM

A feminine vampire gender; a gender that is feminine when a vampire

VAMPNEU

A neutral or genderless vampire gender; a gender that is neutral or genderless when a vampire

VAMPMASC

A masculine vampire gender; a gender that is masculine when a vampire

Suggested Pronouns?

vamp/vamps or vamp/vampires, fang/fangs, blood/bloods, feed/feeds, bite/bites, suck/sucks, sang/sanguine, teeth/teeths, psy/psychic, bat/bats, noc/nocturnal, dha/dhampir or dhampir/dhampirs, vae/vaem

geared towards vampirekins && vampire goths but anyone can use!

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bedtime

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magical thinking flag

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Requested by analog-autistic

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my& pfp masks collection from frames-designs dot com!

Plus a banner mask I& made -u- If you like or use these, a reblog would be appreciated!

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you will never beat the biphobia allegations until you radically accept bisexuals who are stereotypical. you must accept the sluts, the polyamorous, the girls with straight boyfriends, the questioning, the confused, the ones who want to be another couple's unicorn, the ones who are in a phase and will eventually identify differently, and even the ones you suspect aren't truly bisexual but just want attention. take people at their word when they tell you who they are. let them live and express their identity as they see fit. happy bi visibility day

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im genuinely convinced that they used ai for the monthly thing on spotify wrapped. what do you mean may was my "coastal grandmother ukulele oldies" phase. august was "pink pilates princess strut pop??" no one would say that september was my "sweater weather permanent wave indie" moment. no way we waited so long for this. multiple people and i also noticed that it took a few seconds longer than usual to load, maybe im just impatient but i wouldnt be surprised if that was ai preparing like all of it as i clicked through. spotify has been using a lot of ai lately with the playlist making, dj, playlist cover designer and now whatever this ai podcast thing is.

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Made a system blog, for those who followed me for that and don’t wanna keep seeing fandom stuff @the-solar-envoys

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You know, I think Hawks being our host for a while should have been a big red flag warning us about programming traumas, lol. Like, the guy who was trained as a child soldier, trained to perform, and who has pseudomemories of it. That guy. Yeah.

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Npd is getting pissed off when someone has the same interest as you because they act like they're more invested in it but that's YOUR interest

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oh boy. i’m back at it again, drawing my webcomic characters without actually writing the webcomic !!

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People will be like omg support people with personality disorders omg support them even if they have "ugly" symptoms! Then tell you to "have some empathy" and equate having empathy to being morally good

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does anyone know how to stop the body from keeping score? i have shit to do

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The 8 Senses

The Autistic Teacher