darkrose9199

[darkrose9199]

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The father never replied back with a time or date everytime. Now at these court ordered supervised visitations the supervisor wrote a horrible report about my wife then took herself off of the case. We then agreed on 8 hour visits every other weekend. Things seemed to be going good until the father sent our 4 year old home covered in bruises from her armpit to her mid thigh and several rounded bruises on her back. We we're advised by our pediatric doctors and a third party professional to report him after praying and sleeping on it. We did just that. Mind you, my wife was tore up and crying over having to report my ex because we had just found good ground with him, or so we thought. After this visit there was a court date where the judge ordered a GAL for the girls, we both paid half. After the Gal got involved he too wrote a horrible report about my wife and said that the father should have full custody. We just found out that the gal and judge we're friends since grade school and the other attorney was friends with him as well. Further, these kids have been in our home for 4 years and being cared for by me and my wife only. And prior to that only me for two years before I left him and they said this won't effect the children ages 4 and 6. I was forced to make a deal so I didn't lose them completely they have ordered my children to live with their father 3 hours away and switch schools and I now only have them durring the summer. I am appalled at the system for ripping my kids away from me and my wife. my wife has has a masters degree and is an outstanding person and citizen in this community and had lived and graduated in town he still resides in. She has helped me raise my oldest since she was 2 and my youngest since she was a month old. I feel I have been wronged and I need help. We have two sons that are siblings with the two kids that I had with my ex, and they didn't care about them in this either. I can't keep losing, my children are devastated and nobody cares, our oldest is beside herself begging us not to send her telling us horrible things she is going to do if we make her go. Please help us. The judge, the gal and the opposing lawyer are friends and they bullied us for some reason. We are LGBTQ we are also Christians, we are also a few years apart and most of them have made derogatory remarks about these things. Including the fathers attorney and family.

[darkrose9199]

Part 1 of 2

I have been the main provider and caregiver for my children since they were born. Their father used to even call me home from work to change diapers and clean messes. He was controlling and abusive. When my first child was born shortly after the father went to jail for drugs and criminal recklessness. When my second child was born she was born not breathing she had to be rushed to the children's hospital and put on multiple machines just to stay alive. My children's father left me there alone with no car and no money to stay with my child he did not care to see her or to stay with her he went home so he could continue to party and get high. He didn't even want this child to begin with either because he forced me to take the morning after pill and I didn't know until it was to late to say no. And that is why she was born with the problems she has she was in the NICU for a month fighting for her life. When we finally were able to leave the hospital and go home I met the most amazing person and fell in love, I left my children's father. And because I am not a selfish person I agreed to him having our kids every other week. One day I had to take the oldest to the Dr she had bronchitis so I sent him a message to inform him because he would have to give her meds for it, he was so mad because she got sick, that when he seen my wife and I pulling into our apartment complex he followed us in and beat on our car screaming and calling me a B***h. When my wife said hey let's talk this out your scaring the kids he said "I don't give a f**k who's kids I'm scaring" I was advised by the police to file a restraining order on him so I did. It was denied. After that I had not heard from him for almost 6months so my wife and I started talking about adopting each other's kids I adopted her son and we had filed for her to adopt my daughters directly after we filed he had filed for full custody. We were denied the adoption twice due to the fact that our lawyer would not submit any of our evidence. the father ended up getting some supervised parenting time mind you this is about 3 years into all of this and he haven't seen them at all until this, also note that we had told the father a multitude of times in the last 2 years he could come down and see the girls and have visitation of them to some extent