sex-repulsed aces aren't any better or worse than sex-favorable aces. romance-repulsed aros aren't any better or worse than romance-favorable aros. these are neutral feelings and one is not better than the other!!
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Saw a post making fun of Asexuals in the year of our Good Vibes 2022 so a reminder:
The A stands for the Asexual community and spectrum (it also represents the Aromantic and Agender communities but I’m Asexual so I’ll be talking about that specifically in this post)
Celibacy is a choice to abstain from sex. Asexuality is a sexuality defined by a lack of sexual attraction to anyone, not by the choice to abstain from sex.
Every asexual person has different feelings on sex (an activity, not an attraction) - some are sex repulsed, some are sex neutral, and some are sex favorable. A physically pleasurable experience is not equal to an attraction to parties involved.
The Asexual community has been around since the dawn of the Queer liberation movement, and Asexual individuals have always existed.
Aphobia is real and has done tangible harm to Asexual people. Listen to and learn from their experiences.
If you make fun of Asexuals and their community jokes (dragons/cakes/cards) you are Aphobic. If you’re Asexual and you make fun of these aspects of your own community or consider them ‘cringe’ you have internalized Aphobia.
Sometimes teenagers and young people will identify as Asexual and change their label later in life. This does not mean that all young people who identify as Asexual will change their minds, nor does it mean that all people who identify as Asexual are young.
Seriously what do you people have against the dragons and cake jokes those are classic and hilarious please deconstruct why you have so much rage for harmless jokes that’s not a healthy response to silliness.
Anyways reblog this post if you’re Asexual, support Asexuals, or really want a dragon.
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Me and my autism love mr.puzzles, pls more smg4
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The Dyke Project manifesto printed on the back of estradiol and testogel boxes
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To all the little girls of Tumblr that were told that boys picking in you were just "them liking you". That is absolute bullshit. Bullying is bullying. We shouldn't be telling literal childern this behavior is okay, we shouldn't be telling them to get used to it. This behavior is not okay and we should be teaching them this behavior is not okay.
I remember throughout my entire school life I was and still am being harassed by lboys, whenever I told an adult "they just like you." This didn't teach me, oh boys don't know how to express their feelings nor was I flattered. I was taught that if someone was harrasing me no one would help me. No one cared and that this was normal.
All my wonderful boys, girls, non-binary beans and everyone in between, this is not okay. Don't tell literal kids that they should expect this from someone who likes them.
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Chocolate Cheesecake Cookies
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