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dongha’s first step in restoring the yeon family’s honour should be to sponsor visty’s idol career

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NEW RENEE RAPP SONG EVERYONE TUNE INNNNNNN RIGHT NOW

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hajun hasn’t tweeted anything in support of visty so i’m going to divorce her

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paradox live would really be peak if it had a black hiphop group

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Slowly realizing over time that NPD truly is built on dysregulation of self esteem and that everything seems to stem from 'what will people think of me'. It's not even selfish, it's just self absorbed. It's losing your view for others when all you can think about is how you can possibly be the best out of anyone around you. Its priding yourself on all that effort and feeling scorched by anyone's disapproval, criticism, etc. It turns into 'how dare they' because you and you alone know how much effort you've put into appearances, into having people like you, into being someone everyone wants and who they want to be.

I think people with NPD have been brainwashed into thinking it *is* selfish and to just accept it. So many narcs snicker at anger from so called 'narc abuse survivors' and 'empaths', the attention fuels a lot of us. But that's because any attention can be flipped and turned around into something good, unless its personal. Then its back to how dare they. But the little to no empathy isn't because we dont care, its because we care so much about how we will reflect to others that others problems fall out of mind. It's difficult to feel your feelings because theyre not my feelings. Why is it my problem when I can't do anything about it? But we tend to help anyway, for the praise of it all. The empathy also tends to shut off because a lot of us used to have too much of it. The brain is very good at keeping you healthy. Stress isnt healthy, so it gets rid of those stressers.

Believing you have a higher purpose, having dreams of fame and attention, craving praise and validation all the time, these are outcomes of a lack of attention growing up, not understanding others emotions, pressure being put on people, etc. NPD is not born from nothing and it does not make people evil. What makes people abusers are a lot of other factors. 'Then why do so many abusers have NPD'. Do they? Or did you just categorize abuse alongside the disorder and now you use that to diagnose it? Or maybe its also the fact you treat people with disorders like theyre vermin. As if they've already abused. Wouldn't that drive you crazy? To be called something your not? Yknow what that sounds like to me? 'Transgender people are predators, they force their sexuality onto everyone'. Let's compare. 'People with NPD are abusers, they only care about themselves'. Sounds like mistaking your own bias for fact. You only think those things because someone told you its true. Transgender people dont push their sexuality, people with NPD do not only care about themselves. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.

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paradox live would really be peak if it had a black hiphop group

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nico whose verse in linger was yer favorite was it good rank the visty songs 👊👊👊

SALMOCHI HELLO I MISSED U ermmmmm i cant rank visty songs Be A Star has always been my #1 favourite but Linger is close behind idk im probably just biased and still riding the high of a new song

i cant pick favourites easily bc all their verses were so beautiful and personal i loved their vulnerability and their optimism BUTTTTTT i really love Toma’s (audience is notttt surprised 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹) i like the sense of aimlessness that she confesses to and that eventual victory of finding some method even in the madness, how the chaos and the pressure of her life served its own purpose in pushing her forward to take control of things she felt were otherwise out of her hands, the whole sense of “the only way out is through” kind of spoke to me in that verse IDKKKK i loved the song i love Toma I LOVE VISTY!!!!! JOY TO THE WORLDDDDD 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ REAL HAPPINESS IS BACK

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STELLA WHO IS GOING TO BE OKAY

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and all of visty’s lyrics were so vulnerable and personal and honest oh my goddddd

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the toma tweet… does she know she is so loved

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VISTY SWEEP, VISTY GOATED, VOTE FOR VISTY!!!!!!

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VOTE VISTY OR I START KILLING THE HOSTAGES

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god this new visty song was too good

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WHO ELSE LOVES VISTY

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VISTY THE WORLD

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MY VISTY 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😞😞😞😞❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭❤️

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i m ready for visty