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Is He Into You or Just Being Polite? Decoding His Texts 101

We've all been there—staring at our phones, overthinking that last text he sent. Does he really like you, or is he just being nice? Decoding those tricky messages can feel like solving a puzzle, but here's a quick guide to help you figure it out.

📱 Length & Frequency Matter

Short & Rare Replies? 🚩 He might just be polite. One-word responses and slow replies could mean he's not that interested.

Engaged & Often? 💬 If he’s texting you regularly, with more than just "yeah" or "cool," he’s likely into you.

😏 What's His Tone?

Dry & Neutral? Meh, not a great sign. If his texts feel flat, he might not be feeling it.

Flirty & Fun? If he’s making you laugh or using playful emojis, that’s a good sign he’s interested!

⏰ How Fast Does He Reply?

Long Delays? 🕗 He might not be that into it if he’s taking hours (or days) to get back to you.

Quick Replies? 🚀 Especially during busy times, fast responses show he’s making you a priority.

🔄 Consistency Is Key

Hot & Cold? 🎢 If he’s all in one day and MIA the next, he could be playing games.

Steady Communication? 🌊 Consistent attention means he’s likely interested in more than just casual chat.

💡 Does He Make Plans?

Avoids Meetups? 😬 If he’s dodging face-to-face time, he might not be serious.

Sets Dates? 🎉 If he’s making plans to see you IRL, that’s a strong signal he’s into you!

💭 Trust Your Gut

Sometimes, your instincts will tell you everything you need to know. If it feels off, it probably is. But if he’s showing genuine interest, you’ll feel it too.

Remember, his actions speak louder than words (or texts)! Don’t just read between the lines—watch what he does outside of your inbox. 😘

What’s the most confusing piece of the puzzle you’ve had to figure out in a relationship? Let’s decode it together in the comments!

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