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Im not guessing this will get any attention but I wanted to talk about it since I'm doing it because I feel comfortable doing so:

Tw(s)!:

Mention of su*c**e ,, s**f h**m ,,mental health problems ,, b*lly**g ,, homo*hob**/trans*h*b** ,, ha*a**men* = if you are sensitive to any of these ,, please read with care or leave —also remember you can find still find help n there r people to support you! Therapist online links will be at the bottom <3.

When I first came to tumblr ,, i always got told it was bad n I never understood why ,, but I only just found out —im not sure how long I've been on since I just came back but ngl ,, the tumblr community is ... toxic I would say.

I've been in a lot of communities n I have never seen people hating so hard to the point they go d*at* thr*a* them .

That's disgusting ,, why do you hate on other people for liking something you don't like? Im going to use kpop as an example:

I have a friend who likes kpop ,, I've never listen to kpop n I don't hate it or like it but I still respect what they like even if I don't ,, that's what any normal human would do.

I've seen so much hate on kpop for no reason: I even have friends who do that too.

Stop it ,, you are hurting that person .

Have you heard that most kpop creater's get so much hate that they end up h**tin* themselves? Is that what you want to do? To increase su*c**e? Wow you need a therapist —im sorry but you do.

Whatever they like you don't need to like it back or hate them for it ,, they can turn out to be a really nice person!

N most of the excuse I have heard was —"it was only for fun,, I was joking with them" when you get called out for it . No it isn't funny —who do you think is laughing at tha? Not me buddy .

This goes with everything ,, not only kpop: I got hated on my art n im still doing what I feel passion for.

If you like something or do something that you like —dont stop that! Do it for yourself not for other people n yes you will get hate but believe in yourself—you can do it n whoever tells you can't ,, they don't understand.

One thing that I've also found out was — how su*c*d* was being taken by tumbler's,, I'm not saying everyone does this : please stop romanticising it ,,it's really sick.

N if you have without knowing—please delete it ,, but if you knew n didn't want to delete it then my question is what on hell is wrong with you?

This isn't something edgy or quirky — this is something serious that happens everyday to people n you r putting an image on people who suffer from a m*n**l h*al** problems like a joke.

I know people who do n I do myself—stop it ,, it makes me think I can't find help anymore because then people will say I'm only doing it for "attention" ,, this goes to everyone else n it isn't fair.

Im too scared to actually post art now since that was my whole plan ,, if I draw a—girl for a explain n give her something like blonde hair n skinny legs etc —people will then call me "homo*ho**c" ? Then here comes hara**me**.

No I am not homophobic ,, n you sure don't have anything else to proof tha I am .

I've seen people do that on someone's art ,, guess what they were also not homo*ho**c! They drew this dumb thing when they were 15 ,, they r older now n they don't like what they drew but if you don't know them—dont start giving them d*a*h thr**t's — seriously.

People also called them a "hentai freak" but when someone went on their status after d*at* thr**te*in* them — they realized it was just normal 15yr old drawings ,, woo amazing! Do you realize how much you r hurting someone? Check them next time before saying something ,,, that gives you an image but in a bad way.

Besides the point — if you have done any of these or still r ,, get help or stop what you are doing.

You are by this point bu**y**g whoever you do this to. Its disgusting n it's not needed.

One more thing I also wanted to talk about —being gay.

If you yourself are part of the LGBTQ+ community ,,, good for you n I want you to keep standing up for you're rights .

If someone is putting you down for it ,, stand up or find some help! It's okay to ask for help .

If you have any questions please feel free to let me know ,, when I also say you can like whatever you want n whoever you want I am not including m*ps : please find help if you are an adult/teen who is attractive to younger people (baby age??—10 etc) ,, besides that — you are a lovely human being n ily even if I don't know who you r ,, you still deserve love n respect <3

Note:I'm sorry if I miss—spelled anything ,, grammar or/n punctuation was bad — I'm not good at typing(^_^;).

Link:

https://www.7cups.com/

If it doesn't work try the app : BetterHelp:online counselling & therapy .

Not everything is bad on tumblr n they r great people here too!