digital-selfshippers

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HEY!

sorry had to get your attention hehe

your f/o absolutely loves it when you get really excited and rambles about any hyperfixations you have!!!!

if you ever even think of pausing and saying "sorry im being annoying" or "sorry I just get really excited" or "sorry this is probably boring you" they will immediately stop you right there with a big smooch on the lips before saying "no no keep going I love listening to you talk about the stuff you love"

YOUR F/O'S LOVE LISTENING TO YOU DO YOU HEAR ME?!

THEY LOVE IT

KEEP RAMBLING TO THEM

THEYLL FIGHT ANYONE WHO EVER MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CANT TALK ABOUT THE STUFF YOU LOVE !!!! 😈

/silly hehe

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cw for mentions of sh and bad coping mechanisms ↓

I've made a post like this before but in case anyone needs to hear it again;

your f/o isn't gonna be mad at you for relapsing. they're not gonna yell at you, they're not gonna be disappointed, they're not gonna make remarks and make you feel bad. they wanna see you feel better. and they'll do anything they can to do that because they love you so, so much.

they don't think any less of you. they don't think you're dangerous, or gross, or unstable, or whatever mean things people have said to you in the past. they don't think you hurt yourself to hurt them or because you want them to feel bad. they don't think anything bad about you at all.

never forget that your f/o loves you, even when you feel like they don't like you. they love you and that'll never change.

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Imagine a photoshoot with your f/o. They’re wearing stunning outfit carefully chosen to accentuate their unique style. As you set up your camera, your focus shifts entirely to them; the way the fabric drapes over their figure and how it catches the light sends a thrill through you. You direct them to pose, but your gaze often drifts, captivated by the way their smile brightens the scene and how effortlessly they pull off each look. Your hands reach out to guide their posture, subconsciously moving closer as you try to get that perfect shot. In the midst of adjusting their arms or turning their body slightly to catch the perfect angle, you momentarily lose track of where your hands are going, lost in the moment, the thrill of the shoot, and the undeniable chemistry that sizzles between you. Each click of the shutter captures a snapshot of not just their beauty, but also the chaotic love and connection that defines your relationship.

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[digital-selfshippers]

Selfship Template Masterlist!

i make templates now because theyre super fun,,, so here's a masterlist !!!

please please no com/pro/darkship!!!!!!!!!!!!!

selfship template

meet my s/i template

meet my f/o template

selfship this or that template

favorite things about my f/o template

selfship q&a template

f/ovember template

f/o infodumping template

winter festivities template

selfship in pngs template

f/o headcanons template

valentine's day selfship template

polycule selfship template

selfship affection template

four person polycule template

selfship marriage template

this will be updated as i make more! feel tree to suggest some :)

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to selfshippers with scars - your f/o thinks you're gorgeous to selfshippers with stretch marks - your f/o thinks you're gorgeous to selfshippers with acne - your f/o thinks you're gorgeous to selfshippers with messy hair - your f/o thinks you're gorgeous to selfshippers with tooth gaps - your f/o thinks you're gorgeous to selfshippers with an over/underbite - your f/o thinks you're gorgeous

to any selfshippers who have features that are considered "unwanted" or "unattractive" by societal standards - your f/o thinks, and will always think that you are breathtaking.

proship dni plz! (div credit)

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This selfshipper is ___ and their relationship with their F/O is real! f2u w/ or w/out credit! self indulgent!

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FICTOROMANTIC STIMBOARD

An aromantic spectrum identity for those who find fictional characters romantically attractive instead of real people. This may range from having stronger attraction to characters than people, to only feeling attraction to characters

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I don't know what I want with him.

I want to slowly brace my hands up his chest, feeling the warmth of his heart beating against his skin, embracing my own hand.

I want to feel his skin shiver under my touch, the energetic pulse that awakens when I hold him.

I want him towering over me, his arched form entrapping my frame against a corner.

To see his teeth. To feel his breath against my own.

I want to empower him, to see him looking up with curiosity and playfulness. To ponder what either of our next moves shall be in this dance.

But most importantly.

I want to have a future with him.

And how I would give up my entire past, just to have a future with him.

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takeover ask game: day one

a very long ask game to start off the takeover event! not required for participating btw, just an option! (also we use 'companion' to be inclusive of all f/o types!)

reminder to practice reblog karma! if you want to send an anon ask on a blog but they have anons off, you can shoot me an ask to send the anonymous message for you! :) - mod ☁️

food

🍱 what's you and your companion(s) favorite food? do you like their favorite food, and do they like yours?

🍝 do you like to cook together? how does it usually go down in the kitchen when you do? is it coordinated or chaotic?

🍕 whenever you don't feel like cooking, what's you and your companion(s) go-to order?

☕ does your companion(s) like any special drink? do you know how they like it by heart?

🍰 do you and your companion(s) have a sweet tooth? how well can you all handle the sweetest of the sweet?

🌶️ how about spicy food? how tolerant is you and your companion(s) palettes to spice?

nature & animals

🌳 do you and your companion(s) like to go outside? or are you more of an indoor pair/group?

🌷 do you or your companion(s) like flowers? have they gotten you any bouquets before, and have you gotten any bouquets for them before? what's the go-to flower selection for them?

🌤️ what's you and your companion(s) favorite weather? whatever the answer is, what do you like to do during this time?

🐕 do you and your companion(s) have any pets? if so, what's their name? what's their species? if not, what pet would you like to have, if any?

🦗 do you and your companion(s) like bugs? if not, who typically takes care of them when they accidentally make their way into your place? how are they taken care of?

🌠 look, a shooting star! make a wish for you and your companion(s)!

activities, hobbies & talents

⚽ do you and your companion(s) like sports? do you play them together or watch them? what's your favorite sport, if any?

🎯 does your companion have any hidden skills talents that you've picked up on? how did you react the first time you saw it?

🎨 how creative are you and your companion(s)? do you have different mediums that you gravitate towards? what would a collaborated piece of yours look like?

♟️ how good are you and your companion(s) with board games? is it civil or chaotic? do any playful fights break out?

🪁 do you and your companion(s) have any shared hobbies? even if you don't, how do you do partaking in theirs and vice versa?

🃏 wild card! feel free to tell us a little tidbit about yourself and/or your companions!

behavior

🎁 what's your favorite way to show your affection / appreciate to your companion(s)? have you noticed what they lean towards for you?

🤡 do you and your companion(s) have a similar sense of humor? or do completely different things make you laugh?

🌈 how do you and your companion(s) identify? how do you support each other? do you celebrate these identities together?

🫗 what's a quirk about your companion(s) that you can't help but find endearing? have they pointed out any of yours before?

👥 what dynamics do you and your companion(s) fit into? this could be general relationship labels, tropes from media you know, etc.

🗯️ this is your free pass to gush, rant, or otherwise talk our ears off about your companion(s)!

[digital-selfshippers]

takeover ask game: day one

a very long ask game to start off the takeover event! not required for participating btw, just an option! (also we use 'companion' to be inclusive of all f/o types!)

reminder to practice reblog karma! if you want to send an anon ask on a blog but they have anons off, you can shoot me an ask to send the anonymous message for you! :) - mod ☁️

food

🍱 what's you and your companion(s) favorite food? do you like their favorite food, and do they like yours?

🍝 do you like to cook together? how does it usually go down in the kitchen when you do? is it coordinated or chaotic?

🍕 whenever you don't feel like cooking, what's you and your companion(s) go-to order?

☕ does your companion(s) like any special drink? do you know how they like it by heart?

🍰 do you and your companion(s) have a sweet tooth? how well can you all handle the sweetest of the sweet?

🌶️ how about spicy food? how tolerant is you and your companion(s) palettes to spice?

nature & animals

🌳 do you and your companion(s) like to go outside? or are you more of an indoor pair/group?

🌷 do you or your companion(s) like flowers? have they gotten you any bouquets before, and have you gotten any bouquets for them before? what's the go-to flower selection for them?

🌤️ what's you and your companion(s) favorite weather? whatever the answer is, what do you like to do during this time?

🐕 do you and your companion(s) have any pets? if so, what's their name? what's their species? if not, what pet would you like to have, if any?

🦗 do you and your companion(s) like bugs? if not, who typically takes care of them when they accidentally make their way into your place? how are they taken care of?

🌠 look, a shooting star! make a wish for you and your companion(s)!

activities, hobbies & talents

⚽ do you and your companion(s) like sports? do you play them together or watch them? what's your favorite sport, if any?

🎯 does your companion have any hidden skills talents that you've picked up on? how did you react the first time you saw it?

🎨 how creative are you and your companion(s)? do you have different mediums that you gravitate towards? what would a collaborated piece of yours look like?

♟️ how good are you and your companion(s) with board games? is it civil or chaotic? do any playful fights break out?

🪁 do you and your companion(s) have any shared hobbies? even if you don't, how do you do partaking in theirs and vice versa?

🃏 wild card! feel free to tell us a little tidbit about yourself and/or your companions!

behavior

🎁 what's your favorite way to show your affection / appreciate to your companion(s)? have you noticed what they lean towards for you?

🤡 do you and your companion(s) have a similar sense of humor? or do completely different things make you laugh?

🌈 how do you and your companion(s) identify? how do you support each other? do you celebrate these identities together?

🫗 what's a quirk about your companion(s) that you can't help but find endearing? have they pointed out any of yours before?

👥 what dynamics do you and your companion(s) fit into? this could be general relationship labels, tropes from media you know, etc.

🗯️ this is your free pass to gush, rant, or otherwise talk our ears off about your companion(s)!

[digital-selfshippers]

Hey, just a reminder that your f/o needs you just as much as you need them. I know it might feel one sided sometimes, but I promise you, they crave your love and affection just as deeply. You mean the world to them. 💖

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four person polycule template !

requested by anon !!! i hope this is to your liking. it was a tight squeeze to fit what i wanted to in lawl. anyways if u have suggestions for anything. lmk ! :)

pro.ship dni . i cast fireball

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Saw a post w a different flag but it was dark so I had to make it myself.

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I'm actually going to fucking scream I need to walk into the kitchen and see Helmut cooking us dinner. To stay up all night with Otto to keep him company while he works. To listen to Data ramble while he's doing maintenance. I need the intimacy of them just existing with me, to lean my head on their shoulder and think "I'm so lucky to have you" and for them to rest their head on mine while thinking the same. I love them so much it physically hurts not having them with me

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I'm actually going to fucking scream I need to walk into the kitchen and see Helmut cooking us dinner. To stay up all night with Otto to keep him company while he works. To listen to Data ramble while he's doing maintenance. I need the intimacy of them just existing with me, to lean my head on their shoulder and think "I'm so lucky to have you" and for them to rest their head on mine while thinking the same. I love them so much it physically hurts not having them with me

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need fictosexual/romantic userboxes but the only ones I've found were on someone's old intro post from 2023 and credited to a user who's profile only says it goes as far back as 2024 and doesn't have those userboxes so I don't know what to credit and I'd like to be able to give some sort of credit that's actually correct- the post I found these on credited them to @selfshipuserbox (hope you don't mind the tag) and it does look like they could be by that blog but like I said, can't actually find these on there plus dates don't match up

tldr these are perfect but idk if the one known credit I found is correct and I cannot find any other userboxes on tumblr like these whatsoever at all, but I am fictosexual/romantic so they're important