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[dinosaur-tested]

The separation and impending divorce has made me feel lonely... not for my soon-to-be-ex but for the people I met through them.

However, anyone who can so easily and quickly drop me because of one side of a story isn't worth having around.

I'd love to think karma will get people eventually, but I'm not holding my breath. So all I can do is withdraw and not give them easy access to me.

A better life awaits me.

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Made this blog to vent about my marriage...

Now I'll just vent about the separation and divorce.

I moved out recently. Never been treated like a thief until then. Their mother even came down to the basement when I was getting my stuff down there to check the toilet paper and paper towels. 🙄

They're petty as fuck, more like their emotionally abusive mother and grandmother than they realize or want to admit, and I'm glad I'm getting out. I'm keeping the peace until everything is finalized.

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This will be a space for me to vent about the struggles and frustrations that come with being married to someone who has a different ADHD type from me, our traumas that are so vastly different and continue to affect us, and both of us unlearning toxic behaviors that we developed for coping.

I do attempt to discuss issues with my spouse, and we usually work things out and do well... when we can get over the poor communication humps. Which can take forever.

But I think I also need a place to vent, when I don't have therapy for a few days and so I don't overwhelm the one friend I have who gives good insight.