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I feel lied to. This is where the bugs bunny NO meme cokes from

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Drawing and painting of Judas Iscariot (1900) by Sascha Schneider

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Dancers (2022) oil on canvas 24 x 30 cm This painting is part of an auction hosted by The Auction Collective! Please click here to check it out - it closes in 3 days! shop: suhaylah.bigcartel.com ig: @suhaylah.h

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kitten, stop fucking around and tell daddy where you hid his prozac or daddy's gonna add another 'hey there delilah' to the sex playlist

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Hippie house evening, 2013, James Casebere Framed fine art pigment print, mounted to Dibond paper, 82 x 121 cm

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i wanna talk about mppc so bad but the fandom is nonexistent and only shippers who haven't read books 4-6 remain ☹️

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my favourite genre of criticism is ‘i watched/read this bad piece of media so you didn’t have to’

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having a pet is insane... there is a guy on my floor

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Hard truth that I’ve had to confront that I’m honestly not proud of:

Constantly voicing your abandonment issues lead to more people abandoning you.

I do not mean in Serious Conversations about what you need in a relationship or anything like that - I mean when your friend plays a video game with a different friend for a few days and you feel like your world is crumbling, that is not the time to talk about them.

I understand the fear that someone will decide they are done with you. I live that fear every single day, but here’s the rub.

If you tell people “you’ll probably leave me anyway” or similar things every time you feel that fear, people will leave you.

Not because they don’t want to be your friend, your partner, your roommate, whatever. Not because you aren’t deserving of friends (you are), but because it is exhausting to be constantly told by someone you like/love to go away.

Because that is how it feels on the other end. I don’t say this to make it worse, or to make you feel like you’re at fault. Your brain is hurting you, and it’s okay to feel things. But if you find that it’s hard to keep people around you, then you need to hear that outside of things like conversations about boundaries and triggers and such, it would be to your benefit to change your language.

Instead of telling people “you probably don’t like me”, try asking. “You like me? It’s much easier for them to reassure you when you don’t start with a negative, because it puts your brain in a different mindset, one that finds it easier to believe their response.

Sit with your issues. Parent them. And when they’re done screaming, hold their little hands and dry their little faces and try to remember that you are worth being loved. I won’t say it’s easy, because it’s really fucking not. I won’t say you’ll get it the first time, or that you’ll never fuck up. I still do. But you deserve friends and partners and love, it’s just that so do they.

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Saw this license plate today and I'm still ugly laughing about it

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Stanley Allyn Owen as Munkustrap

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BEST DANCING PER YEAR (as voted by my followers) ↳ 2001: Moulin Rouge!

John O’Connell - choreographer Sheree da Costa, Pamela French - assistant choreographers

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Credit to owners

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CILLIAN MURPHY & HARRY STYLES on the set of dunkirk (2017)

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Farrier and Collins

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THE OCEAN; WHERE EVERYONE CAME FROM

slothrust – horseshoe crab, @randomingoftherandomness​ , kirsten sims, hrvoje majer, jfk, dunkirk (2017) dir. christopher nolan, haevn – the sea