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Are you ever typing something that your phone autocapitalizes and you go back and re-type it just to force uncapitalize it. Like no sorry mcdonalds doesn’t deserve that level of respect from me

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What is the most dangerous hypno thing you can do?

Is a question someone asked on Reddit. My answer is a bit of a hot take, but I think it's important to share

I think online files are the most dangerous way to do hypnosis. It's very hard to tell how dangerous a file is going to be before you try it, and you're doing it alone, the creator of the file is unavailable to provide aftercare or help you get back on your feet. On the contrary, many content creators make more money if you buy more of their files, so they encourage a dependency or addiction to their files in their fans. It's very easy to (through peer pressure or because you're a newbie) stumble upon bad stuff and get drawn in without knowing how to keep yourself safe or free yourself from it. The shame of getting yourself caught in this mess because of sexual desire often makes it very hard to seek help.

Yes, I'd say the most dangerous thing in hypnokink is online files.

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how did a woman manage to date elvira for 19 years and not tell every single person she knows

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He is fizzin'. He is fizzin' indeed.

I'll give this much to Americans: we really are impossible to satirize.

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JFC, wasn't even aware of that. I just knew from hearing this story previously that the dude, while brilliant, was also thoughtless when he wasn't malevolent. Didn't know he was also stalking people. Again, there are ethical questions here...but this is a very reasonable consequence with the system being where it is.

why can rockstar games institutionalise you for life like nikita kruschev for being autistic

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The problem is that this is leaving out a lot of context.

Kurtaj didnt just do this one thing and got the hammer dropped on him for inconveniences to Rockstar; the dude is actually a notorious cyber hacker and is dedicated to cyber crime. Literally dedicated. That's why he's being hospitalized: he wants to go back to doing it and has said so.

He did the Rockstar hack from the hotal room he was in after his laptop was confiscated (he used a Firestick, his TV, and his phone), from a hotel room he was being held in police protection over other crimes he has been alleged to have committed. After he performed the hack, he was demanding to be contacted by Rockstar, or he would release their code publicly. Previous crimes came with ransom demands, apparently.

Dude has apparently targeted individuals as well. Like, he is actually dangerous and completely unconcerned with the damage he does...and he actively wants to cause more.

I'll stand up for my fellow autistics... but the guy actually is a problem, has actually cause problems for numerous people, and he is getting a consequence that actually takes his condition and perspective into account and accommodates it. He's not getting prison; he's getting a medical facility.

At the very least? This situation has a lot more nuance than it may appear to have at first blush.

TLDR: I dont care about the integrity of Rockstar's code, capitalism can go fuck itself, and this dude is actually legitimately a problem.

why can rockstar games institutionalise you for life like nikita kruschev for being autistic

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accidentally caused myself to get a stomach ache by vividly imagining myself eating the burger i was planning on having for dinner tomorrow

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This is the good stuff right here. These kinds of confusion inductions require a touch of pre-planning or some absolutely MAD levels of improvisational skill...but if you can pull them off and pull them off smoothly? They a great way to absolutely bewilder the conscious mind!

I don't think you're made to think, but if you think you're made to think then why do you constantly think about not thinking? Your thinking on not thinking is thinking that you shouldn't be thinking, I think. It's best for you to think you shouldn't think, don't you think?

In fact, the more you think about not thinking, the harder you start to find it to think about anything at all, thinking or not thinking. If you focus on not thinking, then all you'll want to do is think, but if you try and think about what I'm telling you to think, without trying to think on your own, it's easier and easier to let yourself simply not think. It's so confusing trying to think for yourself, getting all caught up in whether your thinking or not thinking, or if whatever you're doing right now counts as thinking.

But you're not thinking. Not anymore. That helpless little brain just overheats and shuts off, and SNAP~

No more thinking.

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I think I have some new ways to express something in my classes.

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Someone who says, "You have to earn your safe word" is not a Dom; they're an aspiring abuser working on an alibi.

Do you make your subs earn their safe words?

No a sub should never have to earn a safeword.

A safeword is their right to use whenever they want for whatever reason.

If a dom makes their sub earn their safeword, then they are unsafe and should be avoided at all costs.

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I know 87 people for who this is their style

Clea de Velours (2021)

Cimetière du Père-Lachaise, Paris, France

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picketing terf conferences is OUT, releasing 6000 live crickets into the audience of a terf conference and watching chaos erupt as everyone scrambles to evacuate is IN

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Nimja

This writing, which is not by me, was removed from Fetlife because of reasons. So I'm posting it here.

🚩His first consent violation in the Dutch kink scene over 20 years ago. This is a long established pattern.

🚩He has been known to groom people under 18 years old. One such person reported Nimja to NEEHU because they wouldn't feel safe if he attended.

🚩Both Nimja and the organisers of NEEHU are accountable for the fact that Nimja attended NEEHU online under a pseudonym after he was banned for above reason.

🚩Multiple bans from hypno kink events in the US, UK and internationally.

🚩One case of hypnotising a person who did not give consent to be hypnotised. She was traumatised and still gets very angry talking about this, even fifteen years after the event.

🚩One case of a little agreeing to play with him on the condition "nothing sexual" and he proceeded to give her a hypnotic orgasm. This was so traumatic to her, she never wants to be hypnotised again.

🚩Numerous cases of creepy behaviour.

🚩One case of sexual assault and numerous consent violations.

🚩Multiple cases of online hypno D/s play that he ended abruptly and without giving proper aftercare, leaving them addicted to files without any recourse. Some of these women flew to the Netherlands to meet him only to be dumped.

🚩Multiple cases of gaslighting his victims into believing he had done nothing wrong and they must be bad subjects or they must need mental help for reacting this way.

🚩Numerous cases of trying to remove complaints and information about his abuse from online spaces, accusing people of harassing him and badmouthing his victims.

🚩The parasocial relationships he develops with his fans are unhealthy because there is an imbalance in power and he has taken no steps to change that over the years. He still seems to seek out young women who are inexperienced in kink and hypnosis so he can teach (groom) them, and so they won't talk back at him.

Every new girl who becomes his fan is at risk of falling prey to this same abusive behaviour again.

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No. 10 years rippling. GNU PTerry

IN A DISTANT and second-hand set of dimensions, in an astral plane that was never meant to fly, the curling star-mists waver and part . . .

See . . .

"GNU Sir Terry Pratchett" - L-Space Wiki / Ursula K. LeGuin / "Terry Pratchett" - Wikipedia / "GNU" - Urban Dictionary / Going Postal by Terry Pratchett / Reaper Man by Terry Pratchett / Brandon Sanderson / Paul Kidby / The Colour of Magic by Terry Pratchett

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now more than ever, it is imperative that you spend time with people you love and doing things that you love. be prepared but please please please don't dwell on things that have yet to happen. you have to have hope for a better future in order to build one. it's gonna be okay. we're gonna make it. i love you.

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Be wholesome out of spite

I read an AITA post a few weeks back about a woman who liked having snacks in the bath when she's had a long day (a result of residual trauma iirc - the bath was her safe space). Her brand new husband of three weeks, a man twice her age who had no job, made her pay all of his bills and do all housework, and spent all day every day gaming because he wanted to make it as a Twitch streamer, had always been fine with this; but, on the day in question, had whisked her bath snacks out of her hands as she was on her way to the bathroom and tried to bin them, telling her it was time to 'break her of that filthy habit in his home'. She told him if he ever actually paid anything towards the house she owns outright he might get a say, took her snacks back, and had her lovely bath. He was since giving her the silent treatment.

(Obviously the judgement was an avalanche of 'NTA and also he's abusing you', which she agreed with, and decided to kick him out, so happy ending.)

Anyway I told my husband about this and he was outraged. "I would never do that!" he told me, furious. "I would find it adorable if you had bath snacks!"

Since then, every time I try to have a bath (which I only do as a rare treat) after about ten minutes there has been an anxious scrabbling at the bathroom door.

"Elanor!" he says. "Do you have bath snacks? Do you need anything?"

My answer is irrelevant. He brings me wine and poptarts. Now I have bath snacks. I'm a bath snacks person. Last time he was literally sleeping on the sofa when I went for the bath. Somehow this still happened. I now have an eager bathroom butler. How did this happen. I have never been so decadent yet bewildered.