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Blaze getting a spanking after being a very bad boy! Naughty words are for grown ups!

-Emma

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Mommy is back on diaper duty, Part 2

He was waddling upstairs to his bedroom, making that pouty face... looking so cute in his Pampers... ☺️

Next morning he was up early, thinking about what to do, cause he still didn't want to go #2 in his diaper while at his moms house...

He sneaked to the bathroom, to check whether he could relieve himself quickly without anyone noticing...

"F***, the door was locked, mom was serious!"

...suddenly his mom came around the corner...

"Good morning sweetie...do you search for something?

Didn't i say i'll make sure you'll not have to worry about potty breaks anymore?! Guess i did..." 😉

"Moooom, please let me go to the bathroom, please! Why do you do that to me???"

"Didn't you say, you'd like to experience the life of a toddler in diapers? Now you've got the chance! Your bathroom is around your waist, just let it happen!"

He ran, or should i say waddled, back to his room.... His diaper was so wet already...I left him alone, so he can go boomies in private. Toddlers don't want to be disturbed, when making pushies in their Pampers....😆

I got back to the kitchen and began to prep our breakfast, after a while i heard him trying to quietly open the bathroom door again. No chance, it still is locked... What did he think? That it magically unlocked itself?! 🤭

Guess he'll be a stinky boy soon... ���💩

He went back to his room and thought about, what to do... he had to go sooo bad...

After a moment he defiantly thought: "If she wants me to poop in my diaper, i will show her what it is like, to change a poopy diaper of a "grown up".

He knelt down on his bed and did, what he had to do...💩🚼

His bum bulged, the front of his diaper got thicker too...

After a while he decided to grab his jeans, put it on and went downstairs...

"Ahh there you are, i made breakfast for us hun, are you hungry?"

I could tell mom was trying to sneak a look at my bum. I made it hard for her to see... But then she suddenly came over and begun to just check my diaper... 😅

"Uh did baby go pottys already? Uh, you're stinky! Do we need to get your bum changed?" 😋

"Maybe" he said defiantly and took a seat at the table. His poop squished everywhere in his diaper, up his butt and the front too... That's quite the most babyish and humiliating feeling, he ever has experienced... Sitting in his poopy Pampers at the breakfast-table with his mom... Embaressing but somehow beautiful too...

"We'll need to buy some supplies for you today, hun... You'll need wipes and barrier cream at least...Guess you'll have to stay in your nighttime Pamper, till we got some wipes and changing supplies for you." I said teasing him 😉

"What??? No mom, you can't do that to me!!! Isn't a mom supposed to take care of their kids diaper?!"

"Yes of course. But since when does the kid decide, when it is time for a change? Never heard of that...

And still, we got no wipes or anything. How am i supposed to change your stinky diaper?"

"Mooom, nooo i can take a shower..."

"You could. Let's see. However, you won't go out without a diaper around your waist. That's for sure." 🤫

After we had breakfast, he stood up, his legs wide apart.

I had to giggle and said: "Better get used to it, will not be the last time, you'll have to sit in your poopy Pampers..."🤭

He was looking angry at me...

"Can i take a shower mom, please!"

"You can, here's the key. But don't you dare going on the big boys potty! No Potty! When you're done taking a shower, lock the door again, come downstairs and bring the key, your binky and a fresh diaper!"

He waddled upstairs to take a shower...

After a while, I could hear the toilet flushing... Well then, seems like somebody didn't obey mommy... I will not address it now, but he'll regret that soon...

After a while he came downstairs in his boxers, brought everything i requested.

"Bathroom door is locked again? I will double check!"

"Ya mom, it is..." he said annoyed

"Good boy! Take your binkie and lay down on the couch, so mommy can put you in your Pamper..."

He layed down, got his boxers taken off by his mom.

"Uh, somebody's got a little rash, don't you?! It's about time to get you some desitin"

He was laying there in front of me, all nakey with only his binky in his mouth...cute 😂

"Bum up" i said

I made sure his diaper wont leak, checked the tabs and cuffs.

"Done, all fresh and clean baby! You can go pick your clothes!"

I'm starting to get used to the sight of him in his baby pants...I don't know why, but I kinda loved to see him like this... So cute, almost like back then... Gives me huge mommy vibes! 🥰

As we sat in the car, he asked what we're about to buy, and where?

"Don't worry hun, your Pampers are barely visible through your pants. At least when thy are dry...

We won't go to the Walmart in our city, where everybody knows you. We'll be driving to a store that's approx. 40min from here. I'll make sure you're good, hun"

"Thanks mom..."he said relieved

"You're welcome, sweetie"

We got to our destination after roundabout 35min. I chose a mall, that has all the supplies for him...even a store that has his big Pampers.😎

First we got to a drugstore... I picked a cart, took him by the hand and went straight to the baby department...

I checked all the baby diapers, cause he will need a thicker padding, when i am not at home and for the nights of course.

Better safe then sorry...

"These are baby diapers mom, i won't fit any of those" he laughed at me.

While i put two packs of "Pampers Baby Dry Size 8" in our cart, i said:

"I know hun, i know..."

He looked at me in disbelief... 😆

I went straight to the wipes, took a 4x economy pack, some Babypowder and 2 desitin diaperrash cremes.

He was looking a little scared, probably just realizing that from today on, mommy will be wiping his bum again...No more going pottys for him! 🚼🍼💩😂

I went on to the bottles and paci section, cause i wanted him to pick out a binky & baba himself.

Well lets say, he wasn't as excited as me...

"What? No mom! I don't need a bottle"

"Ok, then mommy will choose a baba for you"

"Mooom, please, i really don't want a bottle! I mean for real, i can drink from a glass, i really don't need it!"

I heared enough of his moaning, so I decided to check his diaper right where we're at, so he remembers, who's in charge again!

"Little squishy down there, huh?" I said not too quiet... 🤭

Worked out, he went silent after that.

"Ok, what else? Binky, baba, pampers, wipes... ah, there's one more thing!"

"There we go. Justin, this is just in case you choose to disobey mommy!"

I held up a pack of "MiraLAX"

You should have seen his face... 😂

"Come on mom, no need for that..."

"We'll see. Better to have than to need" i said

We went on to the medical store, where they sell his Pampers.

As we got in the store, a pretty girl, maybe in her late 20's, welcomed us.

"Hello, how may i help you?"

"Hello, I read online, that you offer diapers from ABU — the ones that look like the old Pampers from the '90s, SDK in size M."

Justin blushed as the cute girl from the counter was looking at him and examined his slightly poofy crotch...

From that moment on she knew, the diapers were for him...soooo embarrassing, he wanted to sink into the ground immedietly...

"Oh ya, we offer those. Let me look it up, ummm... they're 34,99$ a pack with 10 diapers. We offer packets with 10 different diapers to test too. Same price. Might be a good option to find the right diaper, if you are not sure yet.

I was looking at Justin, counting the approximate number of diapers, he'll need. 3 weeks, he has 16 diapers left at home... 21 days, approximatly 3 diapers per day...

"Guess that's a good idea, we'll take two of the mixed test packs and three of the SDK's. Still pretty expensive to have a kid in diapers, i must admit..."

"Well ya, it is...At some point they all grew out of their diapers. Ahm...well at least most of em" she smiled at Justin 🤭

"Will be right back" she said

While she collected the diaperpacks, Justin was looking at me still blushing with angry eyes...

"Mooom, why do you do that? Now she knows for sure they're for me! Thats so embaressing!!!"

"Why do i do what? Of course they are. You'll be in diapers for quite a while now, so i'll make sure we don't run out of Pampers! Didn't you say your diapers are my responsibility? I think so, let mommy handle that!"

The girl overheard our conversation and came back smiling with the diaper packages.

"Anything else, m'am?

"Um... Yeah, um... i saw you offer lockable rubber pants in your onlinestore, do you have those in stock here?"

"Oh yea, let me look it up...We have em in stock in blue and transparent right now."

I looked at him questioningly.

He was so embarrassed and looked away, as if those weren't for him...

"Hm, guess transparent is the best choice, with the blue one i can not see, when it's time for a change. We'll take one in transparent, please. Um, they're one size, aren't they?'

"Yes m'am, one fits all" she winked at him...😆

She went back to the storage unit, to pick it up.

"There you go, something else, m'am?"

"Thx, um... oh i almost forgot - do you have something like these locking mittens? Let me show you" I pulled my phone out to show her.

Justin looked at me anxiously and angrily, when a loud but sensitive "mooom" escaped him 🤭

Meanwhile the girl was checking her computer: "Oh yeah, we do. Um, wait, let me show you what we've got" she said

"So we've got two models of mittens, one with padding and lockable and the other ones are standart, without a locking option."

Justin was so embaressed, he walked away from the counter a little and pretended to look at the things on the shelf to avoid being humiliated even further.

"Ok great" i looked at Justin

"...guess we'll need the locking option, so i'll go with those. Ah, one more thing, i saw you have those cute, oversized binky's for "adults". Do you have those in stock here?"

She looked it up and said: " Yes, we do. Those are pretty cute, don't you think?!" she giggled

"Yea, just like back in the day..." the girls laughed

Justin could hear our conversations clearly, while he stood in front of the shelves. I looked at him, immediately realizing that he went pee-pees in his Pamper. I know that wide-legged stance... 😆

"I called him: Come on Justin, help me carry your Pampers to the car!"

"M'am, you can pick a shopping cart over there" the girl said

"Oh ya, thats better, thanks hun!"

"You're welcome, have fun" she winked at us... 🤭

...to be continued in part 3

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The ropes creaked slightly as he hung, suspended from the ceiling. He spun slowly like a mobil above a crib. The diaper crinkled audibly with every flinch.

CRACK!

“You filthy little pamper pervert.”

CRACK!

“You just couldn’t help yourself, could you?”

CRACK!

The paddle struck his thigh again, the sharp slap echoing off the walls.

CRACK!

He sobbed around his pacifier gag, drool trailing down his chin as he twisted weakly in his restraints. His thick pink diaper crinkled beneath him, sagging low with shame and mess.

“Please!” he choked out, tears streaking his cheeks. “Please, I’m so desperate! It’s been so long!”

Another brutal SMACK to the opposite thigh.

“Oh, I know,” she said coldly, circling him like a predator, the paddle tapping rhythmically against her palm. “You’re sooo desperate, aren’t you?”

CRACK! CRACK! CRACK!

He nodded frantically, hips twitching in the air, the ropes creaking with every pathetic little rut.

She leaned in, voice dripping with disgust.

“So desperate… you’ll hump your diaper even when it’s messy? Even when your little thingy’s locked up in a cage?”

CRACK!

He let out a squeal of shame, unable to answer. The truth was already written on him—on his trembling thighs, on the pitiful drool trailing down his chin, on the telltale way the front of his pink diaper pulsed with need despite everything.

CRACK! CRACK! CRACK!

“You didn’t even ask,” she hissed, raising the paddle again. “You thought I wouldn’t notice, didn’t you? That I wouldn’t hear the crinkle-crinkle while you pathetically rubbed yourself in your own stink?”

CRACK!

“You humped your diaper like it was a pussy. In front of the camera. While I was gone for ten minutes.”

CRACK!

The blow landed lower, dangerously close to the crease, and he sobbed louder now—his whole body swinging gently, ropes creaking, thighs burning.

“You think this is what a good baby does?” she snapped. “Grinding like some filthy little mutt just because you can’t help it? Locked up and still trying to make yourself feel good?”

He was shaking his head, or trying to. But she wasn’t finished.

“You don’t get off in this house, sweetheart. Not in diapers. Not in cages. Not ever without permission.”

CRACK!

Another strike. The pink of his thighs was now an angry red, a perfect match for the swelling heat of his humiliation.

“And now?” she said, stepping back to admire her work. “Now you’re going to stay right there. Just like that. Strung up. Messy. Leaky. Desperate. Until my friends get here.”

His eyes widened.

“Mmh! Mmmph!”

“Oh no. Don’t even try to protest,” she smirked, giving the paddle a slow, taunting tap beneath the padding. “You earned this display.”

And right on cue, there was a knock at the door...

*****

The front door creaked open with a singsong heeellooo?, and the soft patter of heels echoed into the room.

Laughter, perfume, the clink of wine glasses—it all arrived before they did.

But as the group of women stepped into the room, their laughter cut off in unison.

And then it began again. Louder. Harsher.

“Oh. My. God,” one woman gasped, clutching her chest in disbelief. “Is that—?”

“He’s real?!” another choked out, stepping forward, wide-eyed. “You weren’t kidding.”

His wife turned, wine in hand, completely calm.

“Evening, ladies. Don’t mind the smell. He got a little… overstimulated during nap time.”

“Overstimulated?” one woman echoed, stepping closer. “He looks like a piñata.”

“Or a diapered rotisserie chicken,” another added with a cackle.

“Ohhh my gawd,” one woman gasped dramatically, fanning her nose. “Did the widdle baybee make a stinky?”

Another leaned in closer, then recoiled with exaggerated flair. “Pee-yew! Somebody went boom-boom in his pwetty pink pampers!”

More laughter.

“Look at his wittle face!” one cooed. “He knows it! He knows he’s a big smelly messie-wessie boy!”

He was crying again. Soft, humiliated sobs that bubbled in his throat as the women closed in, circling like delighted hyenas.

“What’d he do?”

The group leaned in, already circling.

“Oh, I’ll let him tell you,” his wife said sweetly, stepping forward to remove the pacifier gag with a wet pop. “Go on, baby. Tell your aunties why you’re up here like a naughty chandelier.”

He whimpered, cringing in his own shame.

She smacked the side of the diaper—thwap!

“Say. It.”

His voice broke.

He sobbed softly, drool stringing from his chin.

“I… I humped…” he croaked, voice weak, raw.

“Humped what, stinky?” one teased. “Use your big boy words.”

“I… I humped my diaper,” he whimpered. “Even though I was… caged. Even though it was messy…”

The room gasped. Then erupted into delighted howls.

“You humped a poopy diapee??”

“In a cage?!”

“Awww!! Did the yucky mushy diaper tickle your widdle winkie?”

He sobbed, hanging in his ropes, red-faced and dripping. The pink diaper sagged low between his thighs, visibly heavy with shame.

Another leaned in, tilting her head.

“Well?” she asked, voice syrupy and cruel. “Did you finish?”

The room quieted—just for a breath.

He didn’t answer. Couldn’t.

His wife stepped forward, her paddle gently tapping his thigh.

“Oh, I think they asked you a question, pamper perv.”

She reached under him, gave the front of his diaper a squish that made him gasp.

“Go on, sweetheart. Tell them if your teeny caged-up ding-ding made stickies.”

He whimpered. “N-no…”

“Awww!” one of the women cooed mockingly. “You mean you did all that work in your poopy pants and still didn’t get your yucky baybee-gasm?”

Another burst out laughing. “That’s the saddest thing I’ve ever heard. He’s a mess and a failure.”

“Poor widdle tinkle-toy,” someone whispered with exaggerated pity, reaching out to stroke his cheek. “Got all hot and bothered in his own doo-doos and didn’t even get to squirt.”

“You’re a whole new level of pathetic, aren’t you?” another added.

“Tell us what it felt like,” someone demanded, swirling her wine. “Grinding in your mess. What made you do it, baby?”

“I—I don’t know,” he stammered. “It was warm and—and tight and I just—”

“And you just couldn’t help yourself?” his wife finished for him, voice sharp. “You just had to rut that big, filthy diaper like it was the only thing left in the world?”

He nodded miserably, tears dripping from his chin.

The women all swooned and "Awwww'd" in mock sympathy.

They crowded closer, gleeful.

“Oh, I have to know if it’s true,” one said, crouching and giving the back of the diaper a firm squish.

“Yup. Definitely a big boom-boom in there. It’s all squishy back here too. Naughty baybee made messies everywhere!!”

“Look at him!” one said, laughing. “All tied up and swinging like a dirty little diaper disco ball!”

He groaned in embarrassment, trying to look away—but the ropes held him locked open, exposed, trembling.

“Let’s give him a little twirl,” one giggled, already grabbing a rope. “Wheeeeee!”

The others followed, sending him into a slow, humiliating spin. The diaper sagged, swayed, crinkled with every shift of his weight. His limp body turned mid-air like a baby-themed carnival ride.

“Oh nooo!” one teased. “Don’t spin da baybee too fast! He might spit up!”

They all laughed.

“Better get a bibby!”

They slowed the rotation, and he hung there swinging, legs parted, cheeks flushed, thighs burning. The front of the diaper pressed firmly against him, squishing the filth deeper. His toes curled midair.

“Someone’s still twitching,” one of the women said, giving the padding a few light, rhythmic pats. “Aww, does your widdle cagey-wagey still wanna pway? Even when you’re messy and mushy?”

“You’re just a widdle diaper-dumper, aren’t you?” another cooed, bending low. “A squirmy, stinky stink-bug who humped his poopy pampers and thought nobody would know.”

“Can we keep him like this?” one whispered loudly. “Like a decoration?”

Another gave his ropes a tug. He swung gently, diaper swaying between his thighs.

“Push him again!”

“Does da stinky baby need a bibby? Huh? Do we need to burp you after your messy cummies didn’t come out?”

More laughter.

His wife stepped forward with a smirk and held the gag back to his lips.

“Say thank you, baby. For your spin-spin ride.”

He hesitated.

SMACK—a quick slap to his thigh.

“Mmph! Th-thank you…” he whimpered, lips trembling as she slid the pacifier back in.

“Good boy,” she said sweetly, giving his burning thigh a little pat. “Now...why don’t we move on to something fun?”

She turned to the group, eyes sparkling with wicked delight.

“Ladies,” she announced, lifting her wine glass, “who’s in the mood for a round of Pin the Tail on the Big, Pink, Poopy Pamper?”

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Making the decision for them

The biggest mental health issue we see when speaking with ABDL’s and littles is the shame/desire cycle with regard to wearing & using diapers. This is especially pronounced when they believe they’d be happier if in diapers all the time but have struggled to make it work.

Feelings of shame often are the catalyst which temporarily kills ABDL desires only for them to return stronger than ever a few hours or days later. This leaves your partner feeling both guilty about not committing to what they know would be good for them and guilty for having the desire to start with.

The good news is them having a supportive partner is the biggest advantage possible and you as their partner have the ability to transform their lives for the better.

Ask yourself if the following are true:

- They seem to be happier and/or less stressed & anxious when diapered

- They’re wearing diapers several times a week and often for multi-day periods

- They’re comfortable using them for #1 & #2

- They’ve worn in different public situations

- They’ve mentioned a desire to be 24/7 before

- They may have even tried 24/7 for a period before.

- You are comfortable with them wearing and using diapers

- You are willing to make some changes to your life if it makes them happier

- You are willing to be involved in their diaper wearing

- You can afford $200+ a month for their diaper supplies

If you answered yes to them all, using diaper discipline to “force” them into the situation they actually want can be extremely beneficial.

We have talked about many ways to use diaper discipline and although this may feel like one of the more extreme options it has proven to be very effective for couples we’ve spoken to and to us directly.

So what are we suggesting? Well in short, you return your partner to diapers full time and stop this negative cycle for good. Think of this more as an intervention than a discussion.

Yes this will be hard at first and there will be times they resist but I guarantee if you stick to it the positive results will speak for themselves.

For this approach I don’t recommend any half measures as this leads to gaps which can cause you and them to waiver and lead to the collapse of the benefits.

So if you’re willing and ready to take on some challenges to help your partner what should you do?

First decide a date from which this will start.

This should be 1-2 weeks away to give you time to prepare and the absolute ideal would be if they’re away for a day or two immediately prior to this date.

Second is to get yourself fully comfortable with the rules you’ll be setting out for them.

These are:

1. They will be diapered 24/7

2. The only exception to this is at work and with friends and family where they can wear pull ups but otherwise they’ll be in high absorbency medical or ABDL diapers.

3. When in diapers the toilet will be fully out of bounds, including at home, in public and on vacation.

4. They should now be treated as having bladder and bowel incontinence.

5. This isn’t a short term change and will likely be permanent.

Also decide on these three rules which we highly recommend but are optional:

- At home all checks and changes will be carried out by me.

- All diapers must be worn until full or have been messy for over an hour.

- At home diapers aren’t to be hidden and should be either be fully exposed or obvious through ABDL clothing.

Third, prepare for the change:

- Make sure you have a good stock of diapers for them.

- I’d recommend having around 200 in stock with a mix of high quality but thinner medical diapers (e.g. Tena Slip Ultima), thick medical diapers (e.g. Megamax) and ABDL themed diapers.

- Gather diaper changing essentials including adult sized wipes, powder, barrier cream, disposable gloves & disposable changing mats (bedwetting mats are perfect)

- To help things along get a stock of suppositories, mini-enemas, laxative tablets, fibre supplements and I’d also recommend devrom to be used to reduce smells.

- Buy some ABDL clothing essentials if they don’t already have them:

- A couple plain onesies to be used in public

- A couple of ABDL onesies for at home and nighttime

- A few ABDL outfits for use at home for example a romper, play dress & baby style tshirts

- Create a dedicated diaper changing room for them including at a minimum:

- A changing table. Ideally this would be built but a dedicated bed with a changing mat can work ok as well.

- A diaper pail (try buy a big one as otherwise you’ll be emptying it daily)

- Shelving / storage for their diapers and other supplies where they’re not hidden.

- A good air freshener or air purifier

- Having a full day or two to prepare can be extremely helpful if you can time it to be around them being out of the house

- This is optional but some light restraints can be fun and a big help, primarily:

- Wrist and ankle restraints on the changing table

- A locking diaper cover

- Padded mittens

- Straightjacketshop is our favorite for these

The big day

This day is going to change both of your lives for the better. Make sure you have everything ready for when they come home. In preparation also do the final step to commit to this and throw away all of their underwear.

Upon arriving home tell them you have a surprise for them leading them up to the diaper changing area. Help them strip down and importantly dispose of their underwear into the diaper pail before getting the to lie down on the changing table. Attaching the wrist restraints are a good idea at this stage if you’ve opted for them.

It’s likely they will actually be excited at this point with this development so don’t expect much resistance.

Diaper them into a thick ABDL diaper before telling them what you’ve decided. It’s best to give the background to your decision and focus on how you think this will be best for them and how you know deep down this is what they want.

Next, run through the rules slowly and a standout moment for me was reinforcing these to him by saying that this meant he’d be never using the toilet in our house again. This will be a lot to take in, and expect them try negotiate some changes to the rules but you should stay firm on all the major points.

Once they’ve calmed down from the excitement and nervousness of it all, dress them in ABDL clothes and try have the best possible evening. Cook their favorite meal, watch their favorite film, etc and keep them relaxed.

Likely more questions and worries will come up but you can normally handle these easily.

The question you will certainly get is “How long will this last for” and it’s important for both of you to accept that this isn’t a game or short term experiment but a permanent change. It’s very important you highlight this but you can provide a review period after a significant period of time.

I would recommend having a review after 6 months and decide if it should continue. 6 months is a good time period as it’s long enough to get through the initial challenges and far enough away to prevent them/you just waiting it out while not accepting the new reality.

First week

The first week is going to be a big adjustment as they realize you’re serious and you both get used to this new world.

As part of proving this isn’t a temporary thing get them to try on all their clothes while thickly diapered and get rid of all which no longer fit well. Follow this up with a shopping trip to replenish their wardrobe with clothing for public wear.

Make sure their diaper area is completely hair free, we find hair removal cream works wonders.

You should also use this week to ensure they know the rules are serious. I’d recommend using a suppository or laxative twice to ensure they fill their diaper and try make one of these be while around you.

Provide huge amounts of encouragement and praise all week. And reenforce that this is going to be great for them and you both.

Keep their diaper exposed at home or covered only by ABDL clothing, there should be no opportunity for them to not be wearing their diaper.

Finally try be as involved as possible in diaper checks and changes.

First month

With the first month try and get into the routine as much as possible and tick off different wearing and usage scenarios. Have meals out with them diapered, go on a day trip with a diaper bag packed, etc.

Continue to provide as much encouragement as possible and continue to check and change their diapers at home when you can.

You should also introduce daily fibre supplements for them as these are good for bowel health, can be used long term and although they will increase the volume of their bm’s it actually helps reduce the smell. Reducing red meats and fatty foods also helps keep the smell down.

This is also the perfect time to experiment with different diapers to see which are best for different scenarios. Try extending how long you keep them in the same diaper before changing to get familiar with their capacities. Expect several diaper leaks during this process and never punish them for these. A waterproof cover on your bed is a good idea.

Second month

Now you’re 30 days in you should be both used to the new situation and they should be now accepting this isn’t a short term change.

This month you should encourage them to begin diaper training and form a bedwetting habit. When diapered they shouldn’t be holding so check their diaper 30 minutes after a change and tell them off if it’s not already slightly wet.

Every night make sure they have 1-2 large glasses of water before bed and tell them you expect them to be wet in the morning. This process will take a few months but if you encourage them to relax and let go in bed and add punishments if you wake up in the morning and find them dry.

Finally you want them to become comfortable using their diaper fully even when out of the house. Have a day trip where they’ll be using their diapers a lot

Third month

This is the perfect time to go on a vacation together so if you’re able to, book a 1-2 week vacation. As they’ll not be around friends or family this whole period should be in diapers only from leaving your house to returning. When going through airport security a dry diaper is recommended to avoid setting off the scanners.

A vacation is a great time to get them even more comfortable with their diapers in public as they won’t be worried about meeting people they know. Experiment with them wearing thicker diapers than normal especially if you’re going on a longer day trip.

Also remember you should be treating them as if they’re fully incontinent so this means swim diapers are a must. If you have your own pool then I recommend using an ABDL swim diaper but also take a discreet adult swim diaper option for use in public.

A vacation is also the perfect time for you to take 100% control of their diapering. Even if you’re not doing this at home I’d recommend you doing all their diaper checks and changes for the whole period and make it clear they can’t ask for a change.

Do not make any exceptions for toilet usage and if you have a day where a messy accident would be very inconvenient use a suppository in the morning or some ducolax tablet the evening before to ensure they’re emptied out prior to the day’s activities.

Forth month

They’ll pass 100 days diapered this month so make sure to celebrate and congratulate them on the achievement.

You both might still be a bit shy about messy diapers at this stage and now is the right time to try change that. If you’ve noticed they hide away from you when messy tell them this and that messy diapers are normal and not something you expect to change your activities together.

If you’re not checking and changing all their diapers already at least start a rule that they must ask permission to change. When they ask, conduct a complete diaper check where it’s fully exposed and either pull back the rear waistband or use your hand on the back of the diaper to check for messy accidents. The other key thing is don’t always give permission, for example if it’s just messy and still has capacity tell them that it looks like it can hold more and to come back in an hour.

To help them get used to messing in your presence force the situation:

- Give them a suppository before settling down for a movie and don’t allow them to getup or change until it’s finished.

- Make them take 2 ducolax tablets in the evening which will result in them messing overnight.

- Use a suppository before a drive or trip to go shopping


Finally, they shouldn’t be associating a messy diaper with an instant change. It’s important that the state of their diaper doesn’t influence your activities too much. Once they’ve messed try continue your plans for an hour or two until there is a convenient time to change him / let him change. For example if he messes in the early evening, his change can wait until after you’ve eaten dinner together. Devrom and plastic pants really reduces the smell.

Fifth Month

Their diapered life will be feeling very normal now.

Now may be a good time to experiment with swapping out pull ups for thin diapers for work, friends & family. I’d recommend maybe a cloth backed option so they’re completely silent to build up their confidence. Make sure to give lots of reassurance that it is discrete.

Sixth Month

This is the review month so make sure to have a conversation about how they’re finding things. I’m sure you’ll both agree it’s been positive and will want to continue.

Avoid reducing the rules at all and I’d recommend now is the time to commit to them being diapered fully and phase out the pull ups completely.

I think it’s worth calling out to them that this means you’re committing them to diapers permanently. Now is a good time for you to increase your involvement to be checking and changing all their diapers at home.

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This post ended up longer than we expected but hopefully it’s will be useful to you as a partner of an ABDL. As always my DM’s are open and I’m happy to chat with anyone who is thinking about this for their partner and wants some advice.

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1. A New Chapter in Our Journey: Embracing MDLB and FLR with Love and Care

Hello, lovely community! I’m so excited (and a little nervous!) to share our story with you. My name is Emma, and I’m a wife stepping into a new role in my marriage that feels both unexpected and deeply right—a “Mummy” in a Mommy Domme/Little Boy (MDLB) dynamic blended with a Female-Led Relationship (FLR). My husband, James, and I are venturing into this space together, and I’d love to connect with others who might have experience, advice, or just a kind word to share as we navigate this beautiful, unique path.

How We Got Here

It all started when James approached me about exploring a Female-Led Relationship. He’s always been drawn to the idea of me taking the lead in our marriage, and I’ll admit I was intrigued. I love the idea of guiding us, making decisions, and creating a structure that helps us both thrive. But as I started researching FLR, I found some of the dynamics a bit too… cold for my taste. I’m a warm, nurturing person at heart, and the idea of leading in a way that felt distant or overly strict didn’t resonate with me. I wanted something softer, more loving, and more connected.

That’s when I stumbled across MDLB, and oh my goodness, did it click! The idea of being a Mummy—of providing care, structure, and love while still holding the reins—felt like the perfect fit for me. It’s not about being harsh or detached; it’s about creating a safe, cozy space where James can let go, be himself, and feel utterly loved. At first, I wasn’t sure how he’d feel about the “little” aspect, as he hadn’t initially expressed interest in that dynamic, but we’ve been talking a lot, experimenting gently, and finding our rhythm together.

Why MDLB Feels Right for Us

For me, stepping into the role of Mummy feels like an extension of who I already am. I’ve always loved taking care of James—whether it’s making sure he eats well, reminding him to slow down when life gets hectic, or just being his safe place to land. MDLB lets me lean into that nurturing side while also giving me the authority to lead our relationship in a way that feels natural and fulfilling.

We’ve decided that James’s baseline “little” age will be around 10 years old. For us, this feels like the perfect balance. At this age, he can still make some basic decisions—like choosing what game to play or what snack he’d like (within reason, of course!)—but he still needs Mummy’s permission for bigger things, like going out with friends, buying something expensive, or staying up late. It’s a sweet spot where he gets to feel a bit independent but still knows I’m there to guide and protect him.

For example, we’ve set up a bedtime routine where he has to be in bed by 8:30 PM unless Mummy gives special permission for a later night. He also needs to check in with me before heading out anywhere, and I handle our budget, so he runs purchases by me first. These rules aren’t about control for control’s sake—they’re about creating a structure where he feels safe to let go and I feel empowered to lead with love.

James’s Hesitations—and Our Journey Together

I’ll be honest: James was a little hesitant about the “little” aspect at first. He loved the idea of me leading as he wants to work on himself, but the idea of embracing a more childlike role felt new and a bit vulnerable for him. We’ve been taking it slow, talking openly, and checking in often to make sure this feels good for both of us. What’s been so beautiful is seeing how much he’s starting to relax into it. The other night, he curled up with a blanket while I read him a story, and I could just feel the stress melting off him. Moments like that make me feel like we’re on the right path.

What I’m Hoping to Find Here

As much as I feel like this dynamic is right for us, I know we’re just at the beginning of our journey. That’s why I’m reaching out to this amazing community! I’d love to hear from other Mummies, littles, or anyone with experience blending MDLB and FLR. What’s worked for you? How do you balance the nurturing side with the leadership side? Are there any pitfalls we should watch out for as we settle into this dynamic?

I’m also curious about ways to deepen our connection in this space. Maybe some activity ideas that fit a 10-year-old little age? Or tips for creating rules that feel loving but firm? Honestly, any advice or encouragement would mean the world to me as I step into this Mummy role with my whole heart.

A Little About Us

James and I have been married for six years (UK based), and we’ve always been a team. We love cozy nights in, silly board games, and dreaming about our future together. This new dynamic feels like a natural evolution of our partnership—a way to lean into our strengths and love each other even more deeply. I’m so excited to see where this journey takes us, and I’d love to connect with others who are walking a similar path.

Thank you so much for reading our story! I’m sending so much love to this community and can’t wait to hear from you.

With warmth and care, Emma (aka Mummy) 💕

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How can I get more involved?

A theme of questions I’ve been getting from partners is how can they can get more involved. Specifically, being that taking on the role of the person forcing their partner to wear/use diapers doesn’t come naturally and so they never seem to do it.

I can’t stress enough how important it is for you to be in control of your partner’s diaper wearing and babying. Being accepting is a great first step but they’ll never really feel accepted if you’re not actively involved.

The good news is it’s not that hard and using some of the ideas I’ve already shared I’ve put together this article as a guide to situations which you can leverage to take control.

This can be learned and become natural over time, I know as I wasn’t wired with a natural ABDL mommy role.

Scenario examples where you can get more involved:

Partner not currently diapered:

They come back from work

- Meet them at the door with a diaper in hand and take them straight to get changed.

- Check their underwear upon arriving home. Comment that it smells like they had an accident (even if a lie) and say you think it’s best you get them diapered to avoid any in the house.

You’re away

- If your partner is at home or will come home and you’ll be away, leave a diaper and maybe some ABDL clothes out with a note telling them to get changed into this.

- Leaving for a few days? Hide their underwear and replace it with a note saying diapers are their underwear while you’re away.

- Ask for a diaper check over a message or video call, if not diapered, tell them to put one on.

- Require them to ask before changing and deny it until it looks near leaking.

They ask not to be diapered

Maybe they’re embarrassed, just not feeling it today or it will be inconvenient for some reason, you have a few choices:

- Tell them that’s not an option and they’re getting diapered anyway (this should be the default)

- Tell them you’ll allow it but as a consequence they’ll get some form of punishment. This should make them think twice so might be something like “you can wear adult underwear today but you’ll be getting a smacking and suppository tonight” or “ok but you’ll be diapered 24/7 for the rest of the week”

- Tell them to prove they deserve adult underwear. (This one needs a few hours spare so is best when they’re resisting wearing as they’re bored of it, feel ashamed, etc.) Your goal here is to prove they need diapers = they have an accident. Make them drink 3-4 large glasses of water and then say that they can use the toilet in 3 hours time to prove they don’t need diapers. Most won’t make it near that and will either beg to use it or have an accident. If you’re feeling nice when they ask to use the toilet, say no and diaper them or alternatively make them wet their pants before diapering them.

- A variant of the above also works if they don’t want to mess their diapers. Swap the water for 1 or 2 suppositories and set a time of an hour. The consequence of resisting and then being proven to need diapers should be long term, e.g: “ok now we know you’re not a big girl you’ll be using you diaper for everything for the next few months and then maybe you can try again”

It’s bedtime

- Have a diaper and some cute ABDL clothing laid out waiting for them.

- Ask them if they’re ready for bed and if they say yes, tell them that it doesn’t look like it and babies need to be diapered for bedtime.

On the way to the toilet

Stop them and tell them babies don’t use that and to go put on a diaper or better still, diaper them yourself.

You notice the toilet isn’t clean

If you go to the toilet after them and notice some stray pee on the seat, toilet surround or floor (all common with boys) or if they’ve left skids, then tell them off for being messy. Most importantly tell them that if they’re not grown up to use the toilet you’ll put them back in diapers permanently.

The first time this can just be a threat but on the second time you should enforce this and diaper them 24/7 for at least a few days but ideally a few weeks.

Underwear Inspections

Another great way to trigger some diaper wearing time is to inspect their underwear. After peeing many males leak a small amount so checking their underwear after they used the toilet can yield a small wet patch. Equally check at the end of the day but this time focus on the rear, and tell them that you can smell poop (even if you can’t).

Then use these findings to tell them they’re obviously too little for adult underwear and take them to be diapered. Again as before, this should last a few days. You can also step things up more slowly by going to pull ups first and then diapers.

During Sex

Experiment with mentioning diapers or them being a baby during sex. You’ll likely find this turns them on more. Little things like saying:

- “Do you feel like a big boy/girl not wearing your diaper tonight”

- “I think I should diaper you after this”

- “I prefer you in diapers for this, maybe we’ll make that permanent”

- “Will you cum so we can get you back in your diapy”

- Etc

Going; on a drive, to see a movie, a day trip?

These should all be used as reasons for your partner to be diapered. Tell them that you want them diapered as it would be easier and pick an appropriate diaper for the occasion.

For long drives or movies I’d recommend a thick diaper. For day trips a thinner diaper, which can be changed, may be better. Remember they likely will object to wearing out of fear or it being inconvenient but this is exactly why this is a perfect opportunity to diaper them.

They’re already diapered:

They say they’re going to the toilet

- Stop them and tell them to use their diaper. Likely this means they need to a poop but don’t relent and tell them their diapers are for everything. This is one of the most powerful things you can do to show them you accept their diaper wearing and be actively forcing them to mess their diaper.

They walk past you

- Try give them a “diaper pat” when you’re nearby or if they pass you. This shows you know they’re diapered and that you accept it!

- Stop them and do a diaper check. You can do this by squeezing the front and back of their diaper through clothing but ideally get them to expose their diaper to you. This shows you accept them and are expecting them to have used their diaper.

You’re sitting together

- If their diaper is exposed, make a small comment about it, like “These diapers look cute on you”

- If the diaper is hidden by clothing, do a small diaper pat or squeeze it to show you know it’s there

- Make a comment on their diaper’s state, like “you’re already a bit wet”, “I might need to change you soon”, “it doesn’t look like you’ve used your diaper yet”

You’re about to head out of the house

- Quickly check they’re wearing a diaper either subtly by lifting a shirt to see the waistband or even better is to get them to show you their full exposed diaper by dropping their pants or lifting their skirt.

- If longer than an hour ask if they’ve got their diaper bag with them.

They need a change

If you notice their diaper is nearing capacity you have a few options:

- Tell them they need a change and guide them to the changing area to do the change.

- Say that it looks like their diaper is getting full but you’ll change them in a bit. Delay it an hour and if they do leak tell them how you might need to switch to thicker diapers

- Don’t mention it but just bring diaper supplies to where they are and without comment start the changing process. Make it as if this is the most normal thing in the world.

They’re smelly / messy

You notice that they’ve messed their diaper, this might be expected or a surprise but it’s very important you don’t react negatively.

Some options:

- Mention it in a teasing but not disgusted way; “oh, do I smelly a messy diaper”, “I think my baby might need a change”, “Is someone a messy baby”, etc

- Check their diaper by pulling back the waistband or if it’s not exposed, grab and squeeze the back of their diaper through their clothing.

- Ask them to come over and sit on your knee. This is one of the most embarrassing things as it will cause their mess to spread and they’ll feel very babyish. Cuddle and bounce them for maximum blushing.

- Tell them you’ll change them in a bit. Making them wait even a short while shows you’re in control. For even greater effect, tell them that you don’t think that diaper is full yet so you’ll check them again in an hour. Or my favorite is to say I’ll change them but after lunch, dinner or some other activity that means it will be at least an hour and they’ll have to sit in it.

- Shower them with praise. As I mentioned they’ll likely be feeling some shame so tell them how good they are for using their diaper as they’re supposed to.

- Ideally when the time comes, change them yourself, but if not, be waiting with their new diaper after they’ve cleaned up.

You’re in public

- Lightly smack or squeeze their bum to remind them they’re wearing a diaper and you know it.

- Ask them if they’ll need a change soon

- Check their diaper subtly, this works best when you’re out of sight of others such as in an elevator or on a secluded section of a hike.

- Comment that their clothes hide their diaper well, or point out their waistband is showing.

- See a sign for a restroom? joke that they won’t be needing that.

At bedtime

- Prepare a bottle for them (milk, juice or water) and feed this to them in bed. This feels incredibly loving and should become part of your daily routine. It’s especially good if your partner struggles to sleep or is stressed.

- Insert an adult pacifier into their mouth before sleep, perfect straight after their bottle.

- Make a comment that you hope their diaper will hold all their accidents tonight

- Place mittens onto their hands (ideal for partners who like using their phone in bed)

- Give them a teddy to sleep with or read them a bedtime story.

During Sex

- If they’re diapered then it’s likely you’re using a vibrator or similar. Try also physically interact with their diaper at the same time to make it so you’re more intimately involved in it.

- Most importantly after the orgasm DO NOT allow them to change out of a diaper. This is a time they’re most likely to experience shame so actively tell them they’re good for being diapered and keep them diapered. If they do need to change it must be into another diaper. This is probably one of the most important pieces of advice I can give!

In the mornings:

- Check their diaper physically by touching, squeezing etc

- Make a comment that you’re glad they’re diapered otherwise they’d have wet the bed.

- Keep them in their night diaper and ABDL clothes until after breakfast or longer if possible (normally at weekends).

- Tell or encourage them to mess their diaper as then they can shower to clean up. Or force the matter by inserting a suppository or fleet enema.

- Re-insert the pacifier and/or give them another bottle.

Having a meal:

- Make them wear a bib. For maximum effect wait until a meal where they spill something on themselves and then introduce this rule.

- Feed them a meal. This can be fun!

- Make them sit in a highchair! These can be made using a director’s chair and an accessible feeding table and it’s worth the investment as it will make them feel very babyish sitting in an exposed diaper eating with with their hands or baby cutlery.

- Give drinks in a bottle or sippy cup.

Other situations:

It’s their birthday, Christmas or you just want to get them a gift

- Buy them a diaper / ABDL related gift and ideally from now on at least one but potentially even all of their gifts from you should be ABDL related. This unprompted involvement from you will show them how accepting you are of it. They will be delighted I guarantee!

- Gift Ideas:

- New ABDL diapers; buy a few packs of adult diapers. I’d recommend ABDL ones as they’re prettier and also you can buy a few different styles which they might not have.

- ABDL clothing; onesies are the easy option but to really wow them try something like shortalls, rompers, footed onesies.

- ABDL accessories; bottles, pacifiers, bibs, mittens or a new changing mat are great choices. These are especially good if the ABDL side has been something you’ve shy’d away from to date.

- Sexual; Some bondage gear like a straitjacket, bed restraints or locking clothing is a great gift. Or a Chastity cage will fill a boy with excitement and fear.

- Small filler gifts: baby powder, rash cream, etc

- As part of their gift, change their diaper wearing frequency or rules. “For Christmas I’ve decided that from now on you’re always going to be diapered at night”. “You’ll see I’ve got you some new diapers and from now on you’ll only be in these ABDL diapers, even in public”

Clothes shopping

- When clothes shopping ask them if this will fit over their diaper

- Make comments about certain items being good for hiding their diaper or “I think this might show your diaper a bit much”

- Comment on items being too adult for them or things looking childish as being perfect

- Make them wear a diaper out shopping so they can make sure things fit well

Grocery shopping or at a pharmacy

- Buy baby essentials regularly

- Comment on the baby diaper aisle that it’s a shame you can’t buy diapers their size here

- If you see adult diapers stop and look and ask them if you should buy some.

- Add a pack of goodnights to your cart if they fit them and comment that these might be useful for when you’re not in diapers.

- Buy suppositories, laxatives, etc

You have a vacation coming up

- Check they’ve packed enough diapers

- When they’re not around remove any underwear and replace with diapers (if you want them 24/7 for the trip)

- Discuss how them being diapered will impact the vacation. “I wonder if they’ll be somewhere I can change you on this day trip”, “Can you google if there’s accessible restrooms available at …”, “I wonder if I should ask the hotel for a medical trashcan in the room for your diapers”

- Buy a swim diaper if you don’t already have one.

Summary:

- Find reasons to diaper your partner even at times where it will be inconvenient

- Try increase the reasons and frequency of their diaper wearing over time. I’s start with 25% of the time they’re diapered and work up from there.

- Encourage and force them to use their diapers

- Interact with their diapers and acknowledge the fact they are diapered

- Introduce baby elements as much as possible

I’m assuming they’ve given consent to be diaper disciplined and because of this remember you’re TELLING them what to do, not asking.

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🌟 DIAPER TRAINING 24/7, become 100% in diaper with no going back 🌟

Do you want to commit 100% to diaper training 24/7? but you are alone in this process... Here is the method to succeed, without cheating, without going back.

1) Total commitment - no turning back possible :

- Set a departure date: from this day on, no more classic underwear.

- get rid of your underwear: only keep the diapers (I advise you to cut all your underwear up and throw them in the trash)

I advise you to write your objective on a piece of paper: 24/7 in diaper

2) Integration into daily life - normalization of diapers 24/7 :

- your diaper is your usual underwear: Don't think in terms of "choosing a diaper" but rather simply put on your usual underwear!

- rewrites your identity: no longer say: "I wear diapers", instead say "I am in diapers"... wearing diapers should no longer be a choice or an experiment for you, it's who you are now!

- create an environment where diapers are the norm: in your bedroom and in your bathroom, highlight diapers, put diapers everywhere visible and ready to use!

- change your feelings: instead of being ashamed of it or finding yourself strange, experience it rather as a relief and a liberation!

you can repeat to yourself as a mantra: "I'm no longer trying to be in a diaper 24/7, you are, this is my reality"

3) self-discipline - it's difficult but necessary otherwise you won't succeed

- there is no more PLAN B: as I said previously, definitely get rid of plan B (panties, thong, boxer shorts) throw them in the trash, you don't need them anymore! if you do this, you will no longer have a plan B and it will be less difficult to fight against the urge to give up! replace them with diapers, all the drawers, everywhere you look for an alternative!

- focus on the present: since you are alone in your diaper training, I advise you not to get used to the routine but rather to enjoy each day as if it were the challenge of the day to wear a diaper 24 /7!

🌟 result: with a concrete routine and a good mindset, total dependence on the diaper without going back is possible! 🌟

From my personal experience, I don't recommend diaper training 24/7... but if you want to do it, I hope this post helped you !

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Reblog if you would wear diaper 24/7

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We got back to Fort Worth, yesterday evening late. Went out to run errands and start our day. Long comes someone that claimed he never saw us. @lilsparkysworld

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Mommy forcing me to sit on her lap. But before I do she pulls down my pants. I’m not facing her but I hear her spitting. But not on me. Odd.

She grabs my hips, telling me to face forward, so I obey.

And then I feel it. The tip of a strap on. Warm from her spit. Pressing into me. Slowly. She keeps holding my hips. Lowering me, shushing my whimpers and telling me what a good boy I am.

But she stops before I feel the base. It’s not all the way in.

I hear more spitting.

I feel the palm of her hand against the bottom of my cock, fingers wrapping around, spit all over.

“If you want to cum, to feel me stroke you, you’re gonna have to move, pretty boy.” Says mommy

She’s got me in a precarious position. Have to fuck the strap to fuck her hand. And I want to cum for her so badly. So I do it. Reluctant. Nervous.

I feel it go deeper, her hand sliding along my cock, but she doesnt move her arm. It’s all me. Am I fucking her or is she fucking me??

I’m confused, but I move back up, her hand moving along in the opposite direction as I shudder. Feeling myself squeeze the strap.

Fuck. I need her. I need to cum.

So I start bouncing. Moaning, whimpering. It hurts a bit but starts to feel amazing, but is it the plastic she’s making me ride or her hand?

The thought hardly matters. Soon I’m cumming, thick white strands across her fingers, fully lowered into mommy’s cock. Leaning back against her, panting, sweating, covered in my own cum.

And she moves her hand to my mouth. Sticking her cum covered fingers in, pressing on my tongue.

“You may have finished but I haven’t” mommy whispers as she starts thrusting, my moans suppressed as I suck on her fingers, letting her fuck me until she is satisfied.

I just hope I earn some headpats from this…

[donnie97402]

Power Exchange ideas with your little

Take away their adult privileges when they get home.

Restrict screen time

Make them ask for food, littles need help to get those things!

Make them change into a diaper, pull-ups or training pants to enforce the fact that they are little and need this just in case. You should probably help them into their little gear too tops!

Ask them if they need to go to the bathroom periodically, especially before car ride or when out in public, make them go potty even when they say they’re fine. Do they really know? Can you really trust a littles judgement? :P

Stop them when they try to do things for their selves and remind them just how small they are.

Run their bath for them, even if they don’t want to have a bath! You’re their caregiver, you take care of them and make these decisions for them!

Give a list of chores to do while you’re away, punish/ground them if they don’t follow through.

If they’ve been on the computer for too long stop them. They’re too little to spend that much time on a computer, coloring in a coloring book is more appropriate for somebody their age.

Encourage them when being little, remind them that it is okay to be little around you ♡

Be sincere in your interest when they are being little, playing, coloring etc.

Understand that your little is not a slave and isn’t going to be as easily told to do things like a slave might. Expect some resistance at times they are the child in this, they do pout and fuss.

You are their caregiver, so care for them as if they were a child, and make sure that they know that they are the child here. That’s the whole point of a power exchange relationship in this context.

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Definitely some of the upsides for a mommy/gf or daddy/bf of a diaper boy

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Mommy's Boyfriend

Mommy's Boyfriend

Brian sat in his playpen, feeling more and more fussy and frustrated by the moment.

His wife—or rather 'Mommy', as he was required to address her, was sitting across the living room on the couch, her laptop open, as she was setting up a Zoom meeting with her latest boyfriend. Brian seethed with jealousy but he simply couldn't take his eyes off his sexy spouse. She was wearing a short, snug pencil skirt, high heels, and a new silky blouse that hugged her tremendous, mouthwatering breasts in the most exciting way.

She had come home earlier from a productive day of shopping and had purchased a collection of lingerie and skimpy outfits and now she was eager to show them off to her boyfriend, Hank.

As the call went through, Brian could hear her hunky boyfriend's deep voice on the other end.

“Hi babe!” she greeted him enthusiastically, “How's my sexy lover doin'?”

Brian couldn't make out his response and he sulked as he slurped noisily on the fat rubber cock pacifier filling his mouth.

Today, his Mommy had dressed him in an adorable cute baby dress; white with pink accents, short puffy sleeves, a frilly hem and a Peter Pan collar. Knee high lace socks matched his outfit, going perfectly with the satin white rumba panties with pink lace over his big, bulging diapers. Alas, during the course of the day, he had managed to soak them, although that was hardly surprising, given his total lack of control over his bodily functions anymore. As humiliating as it was for him to wear them, diapers and plastic panties were very much a necessary part of his daily life now. What had started as an occasional bedwetting problem had gradually devolved into total incontinence for the frustrated sissy. And despite his earlier request to be changed, his Mommy was too excited to share her purchases with her boyfriend to take the time and change his sopping wet diapers.

So as usual, Brian just had to sit there in his playpen, the childish smell of pee surrounding him and the clammy wet cloth clinging to his bottom as he watched his wife talking animatedly with her boyfriend.

Unbuttoning her blouse, Mariana pulled it away to reveal the sexy pink satin bra she was wearing underneath.

“What do you think?” she asked Hank, who no doubt, had his eyes glued to the screen, “Wanna play with these?”

Her voice was flirty and playful, and Brian sucked harder on his pacifier. Normally, it provided some comfort to him, but today, it was taking the brunt of his sexual frustration and he slurped and drooled, rapturously staring at his ravishing Mommy, desperately wanting something he could never have.

His situation was certainly made worse by the fact that his tiny micro penis flexed impotently inside his steel chastity device, unable to grow beyond the half inch confines of the cage. And the flexible urethra insert that went two inches down the shaft of his little willie ensured there was zero chance of his achieving any sort of sexual gratification. It had been months since his last (brief) sponsored orgasm and Brian was beside himself with horny desire.

Mariana cupped her big boobs in her hands and hefted them to tease her boyfriend.

“I can't wait for you to come over and play with me,” she cooed with a naughty grin on her pretty face.

For his part, Brian lived in fear of her six-foot-four boyfriend, who was built like a running back for a professional football team. For one thing, he liked nothing better than to belittle Brian, boss him around, and when the mood took him, yank him over his sturdy lap to spank his bare bottom. It rarely took more than two swats before Brian was bawling like a baby, kicking his feet helplessly as Hank paddled him soundly. He firmly believed in establishing his authority over the weak, diapered sissy and putting him in his place whenever he happened to stop by.

And Mariana had little sympathy for the sniveling pantywaist, often watching with satisfaction as Brian got taken down several pegs.

After pulling his diapers back up, he would often be sent to the corner or his playpen to sob and cry as he rubbed his blazing bottom through the multiple layers of Birdseye cotton cloth.

Brian desperately hoped that wouldn't happen today, but of course, he had no control over what Hank

would or would not do. At Brian's diminutive 5' 6”, the man he was required to address as “Daddy” towered over the weakling in his prissy diapers.

Turning away so her hubbie couldn't see her nakedness, Mariana unhooked her bra and put her slim arms through a different one, this one a black push-up in a demi-cup style. Only when her nipples were covered did she turn so that Brian could see the new bra. It frustrated him to no end that she no longer showed certain parts of her body to him, deeming him too childish to be able to view them.

“These are all yours, sweetie,” she cooed to the screen.

Softly stroking the pillowy soft skin of her breasts, she winked at her boyfriend on the laptop screen.

Brian was forced to watch and listen as she flirted with Hank for another ten minutes before finally ending the session and shutting her computer off. With a sigh of anticipation, her beautiful face glowed with excitement.

“Hank is so excited to come over and have sex with me,” she said triumphantly.

With a look of defeat and dismay on his face, Brian rose to his knees, clutching the padded rail of his playpen desperately.

“Mommy—my diapers are wet,” he whined miserably.

“I know sissy, but you'll have to wait a little longer,” she said as she passed by him, her high heels clicking as she went down the hallway to his nursery. Coming back out and carrying his red rubber enema bag, he heard water running after she had stepped into the bathroom. Brian bit his lip as he belatedly realized he was about to get another long, emasculating enema over Mariana's lap. These were a daily occurrence for the diapered sissy but they usually happened in the morning—indeed, he had gotten one right after Mommy has taken him out of his crib earlier this morning. He dreaded getting a second one, especially since she had begun using her new nozzle, something called the Sissy Splitter. It was a massive dildo with a fat, rubbery girth that made him squeal like a little girl when she forced it into his shy, pouting rectum.

More troubling was the fact that getting an enema in the afternoon often hinted at what he might expect when Hank came over later. The bully enjoyed bending Brian over the nearest piece of furniture or his crib mattress to take him from behind, using his gargantuan cock to punish the diapered bedwetter.

Finally, Mariana came down the hall and helped Brian out of his playpen.

“Time for another nice, soapy enema, sissy,” she told him sweetly.

“No,” he said petulantly, but as usual, she ignored him and led him waddling down the hallway to his nursery. The nearly bursting enema bag was hanging from its tall stand, soapy suds dripping down the glistening sides. Taking a seat on the spanking stool, Mariana patiently led Brian over to her side, where she grasped the elastic waistband of his snug plastic panties.

“This will make my little sissy all squeaky clean,” she said enthusiastically.

Brian hated it when she called him little but more concerning was the fat latex nozzle awaiting him.

With his damp panties now around his ankles, Mariana pulled him over her lap, his soggy diapers squishing against her bare, toned thighs. He whimpered and mewled, even as he gazed up at the full length mirrors on the wall, seeing the look of satisfaction and superiority on his Mommy's face. Unpinning the wet cotton cloth, she pulled his diapers back to expose his quivering pink hole.

“We better start you off with your medium dildo,” she remarked as she twirled one of his “smaller” dildos in the nursery jelly before positioning it at his back hole.

“Spread your legs, sissy,” she commanded him firmly.

“Oh—please—no, Mommy,” he squealed but he nevertheless spread his legs submissively as she began applying pressure with the dildo. It slipped in surprisingly quickly, even though it was also quite large.

“OH!” Brian exclaimed as he felt the thick, greasy invader sliding into his backside.

His Mommy pumped it slowly, allowing him to get accustomed to the rubbery phallus as Brian soon settled down and began panting.

“Baby likes this, doesn't he?” she asked coyly as she smiled down on her impaled hubbie.

Brian was blushing but he nodded his head guiltily. Having been deprived of any sexual release for so long, he was desperate to get anything he could and the slippery cock was teasing his boi pussy tortuously.

After several minutes pumping him in and out, she finally pulled it out and set it aside.

“Okay, that's enough of that—I think you're ready for the Sissy Splitter now,” she announced.

“No-no-no!” he cried, squirming fearfully on her lap.

The Sissy Splitter was a true leviathan, and although he had experienced its tremendous girth already today, he wasn't sure he could handle it again.

Positioning the fat, blunt mushroom head of the cock at his hole, Mariana pushed forcefully even as Brian shrieked and tried to pull away. He kicked his feet and wailed just as the monster head slipped past his weakened sphincter.

“OHHHH!!” he cried, his eyes wide open in panic.

Pushing slowly, his Mommy eased it into his aching passage until it finally bottomed out.

“Theeere,” she said with a grin, “I'll bet that feels just like Hank's big cock, doesn't it sweetie?”

Brian gasped and screwed his eyes shut, his hole stuffed beyond capacity.

“Little sissies need their enemas,” she told him cheerfully as she opened up the clip on the hose, allowing a strong surge of warm water to flow unimpeded into his bowels.

“Ohhhhh,” he moaned helplessly.

Brian squirmed and whimpered, unable to do anything about the torrent filling him up through the gigantic, rubbery shaft lodged into his back passage.

“Aren't you glad Mommy has a real man in her life again?” she taunted him.

He nodded his head as he tried to grapple with the growing pressure in his bowels but she wasn't satisfied.

“Answer me, Brian—aren't you glad I finally have a real man in my life again?”

“Y-yes, M-Mommy,” he bleated.

“And Hank is so much more of a man than you ever were,” she remarked as she closed the clip, giving him a brief respite, “After all, he's not a bedwetter that wears diapers and baby panties like you do.”

Brian blushed shamefully, but before he could think too much about it, his Mommy opened up the clip again and another strong surge flowed deep into his rectum. He gasped and was breathing heavy, feeling the cramps beginning to take hold.

“N-no more, Mommy,” he wailed desperately.

Ignoring his pleas, she patted him gently on his curvy rump.

“There, there, baby,” she said shushing him, “this is just what you need.”

Brian tried flexing his butt muscles to staunch the flow but it was a completely useless gesture. The warm, soapy water flowed on at the pace of his Mommy's choosing, making him struggle and moan.

“And aren't you glad that mommy decided to put you into diapers full time?” she taunted him.

A bead of sweat had formed on his brow and it trickled down the side of his face.

“Y-yes, Mommy,” he bleated.

“You really do need them just like a toddler, don't you?”

“Ye-yes, Mommy,” he replied.

“Say it, sissy,” she commanded him.

“I-I need diapers just l-like a t-toddler,” he stammered weakly.

Finally, at long last, the remaining water flowed into the whimpering sissy and when she was satisfied he'd taken every last punishing drop, she began easing the fat, imposing nozzle out of his sore, aching hole.

Brian wheezed with relief as he clamped his hole shut, lest he allow any of the enema to leak. He knew too, that that would earn him a trip over Mommy's knee.

As she carefully lifted him back up to stand on his feet, she scrutinized his flushed face.

“Do you need a buttplug to get you to the bathroom?” she asked.

He shook his head with humiliation and limped out of the room, his wet diapers still hanging awkwardly over his plastic panties.

Fifteen minutes later, a chastened sissy came back into his nursery, his head hung shamefully. Mariana was eagerly texting her boyfriend, looking forward to a night filled with fantastic, satisfying sex and lovemaking. For Brian, it meant an early beddie-bye time in his crib and as usual, no chance whatsoever of an orgasm.

“Alright sissy,” she said in her strict, maternal voice, “Let's get you back into your diapers where you belong.”

Leading him to his vinyl covered changing table, she set him down upon a fluffy stack of fresh, soft diapers that she had arranged for him. Laying down in the all too familiar position, Brian prepared for this most humiliating of rituals. It was bad enough being openly cuckolded by his hot wife but to be dressed like a little girl and put into diapers was beyond mortifying. And yet, the weak-willed sissy submitted mutely, afraid to stand up to his strong, domineering wife.

With her left hand, Mariana grasped his lacy anklet-attired feet and raised them over his head, examining his hole to make sure he had cleaned himself properly. A small, oval shaped paddle lay nearby, in case he failed to meet her standards for hygiene. Taking a glob of Desitin with her right, she began smearing the sticky substance across his bottom and between his legs, giving him a nice, white coating overall.

“There—that's a bedwetter's best friend, isn't it?” she said brightly.

Brian was ashamed that such measures were necessary but then, this was a ritual that he had endured repeatedly for years, his real mom having done the exact same thing to protect his bedding all throughout his Middle and High school years.

Lowering his legs, Mariana began applying baby powder to his front, between his legs and over the tiny steel cage holding his toddler-sized penis captive.

“Don't worry sissy—as soon as I get you changed I'll put a bottle in the warmer for you,” she told him as she brought the thick, bulky layers of cotton up and slipped a large safety pin through the ends to keep his diapers snugly in place. Pink duckies adorned the head of the pins, giving them a very babyish look.

And Brian wasn't looking forward to his bottle either. While Mariana and her boyfriend would soon be sipping chilled champagne, he would be nursing from his jumbo baby bottle of warm milk.

Stacks of plastic panties were arranged behind the changing table, requiring Mariana to reach over the top of Brian to choose one.

He gazed hungrily up at her pendulous breasts, swaying before his eyes and barely contained within her lacy push-up bra, wishing desperately he could just reach up and touch them. Alas, that too was strictly forbidden, and he knew it would only result in a blistering spanking over her lap.

“Lets see...how about these?” she said brightly.

They were a milky white pair of waterproof panties with a playful polka dot design. With dainty, pink lace around the leg holes, they screamed infant, but then, not really any more than his other plastic panties which were all in similarly childish pastels and nursery prints. All his old underwear had long since been thrown away so these babyish panties were all he had.

“Here you go, sweetie, she said as she fed them over his feet and up his smooth, girlish legs. It took a bit of effort to wrestle them over his big, bulging diapers but eventually, she was running her finely manicured fingers around the elastic waistband of his panties, making sure all the absorbent cotton cloth was contained.

“There—just look at you!” she exclaimed, “Mommy's big baby is all ready for his evening!”

Brian blushed with shame, her condescending words washing over him.

Choosing his glossy black Mary Janes, she buckled them on his feet and brought him to a standing position before the mirrored closet doors.

“What a cutie you are,” she gushed as she patted his fat, diapered bottom affectionately, “Mommy's little bedwetter is as prissy as can be!”

Brian bushed a bright red as he gazed at his sissyish reflection, looking just like a diapered little baby girl.

Suddenly, the doorbell rang and Brian nearly jumped.

“Looks like Daddy's here,” Mariana swooned eagerly.

Giving him another playful swat on his bottom, she took his hand and led him out of the nursery, down the hallway and over to the front door. Opening it wide, she grinned excitedly as her boyfriend Hank stood on the porch, a bottle of champagne in his hand.

“Hi baby!!” Mariana squealed as she rushed out to kiss him deeply and enthusiastically.

Brian had to stand there awkwardly while his wife passionately made out with the hunky man on their doorstep. He cringed as he thought of what his neighbors must be thinking as they saw a stranger having his way with Mariana. A trickle of warm pee began to flow out of his cage and into his voluminous diapers although Brian remained oblivious. He sometimes wondered if Mariana had purposely decided to marry him with the intention of later cuckolding him.

Filled with helpless jealousy and anger, he watched as Hank's hand made its way down the small of her back to squeeze Mariana's perfect derriere through her thin skirt.

Just then, a young woman walking her dog happen to go by on the sidewalk just ten feet away. Her mouth dropped open in shock as she took in the scene of passion and then made eye contact with a quaking Brian.

Blushing a bright red, he quickly turned away, sobbing tears of humiliation as he struggled to deal with his crushing shame. This time, a strong stream of urgent pee flowed uncontrollably into his diapers, as Brian let out a squeal of panic.

Finally, the two broke apart, Mariana breathing heavily with lust as they came inside and left the still staring woman on the sidewalk. For the first time, Hank took in the sissy baby standing red-faced before him. With a deep, dismissive laugh, he grasped Brian's wrist, yanked him around and landed a hard swat on his fat, diapered bottom. Although he was so thickly padded that it didn't hurt, the shame of being treated with such inferiority was deeply humiliating for the blushing pantywaist.

“Have you been thinking about my cock?” he asked with a crooked, lascivious grin.

“N-no, Daddy,” he peeped quietly.

“I'll bet you have,” he countered, “I'll bet you can't wait to wrap your sissy lips around my man meat again.”

Brian's cheeks flushed all over again as he recalled the last time Hank had forced his massive beast down his throat, gagging him and gripping his head to make sure he couldn't get away. But even worse was to come when he finally blasted his salty load down the diapered sissy's throat, making sure he swallowed every creamy drop of his semen.

“In fact, I think it's time you show me just how grateful you are now that Mariana is finally getting the sex she deserves,” he said as he pushed the weak sissy to his knees.

“No-no-no!” he cried, seeing what Daddy had in mind.

Unzipping his jeans, Hank reached into his boxers and pulled out his enormous cock, which was already starting to grow with anticipation. Brian gulped fearfully, even as his mouth unconsciously began to water at the prospect of sucking Daddy's big tool again.

“Please don't,” he pleaded plaintively.

Maneuvering himself before the quivering bedwetter, Hank positioned his massive cock in front of his trembling lips before shoving it forcefully into his mouth.

“MMMGRFF!!” Brian cried as his mouth was suddenly filled to capacity with Hank's gigantic member. The latter pushed it in and out to a rhythm of his own choosing, gagging the poor diapered sissy every time he jammed it down his larynx.

Brian slurped and slobbered over the fat pole, struggling to breath as Mariana bent down and giggled at his predicament.

“That's my little sissy cocksucker,” she said proudly, “This is right where you belong.”

Brian's cheeks flushed red and they bulged as he tried to accommodate the titanic piston forcefully sliding in and out of his mouth. Squealing and whimpering, he struggled as Hank face-fucked him roughly, showing the sissy exactly who wore the pants in this house.

Finally he pulled out, leaving Brian's mouth open as he gasped for air. A string of saliva hung between his lips and the fat, shiny head of Hank's cock.

“Okay, that's enough for now,” he told him, “Come along, little boy, let's go check on your progress with your bedwetting chart.”

Brian gulped hard as Hank grabbed him by the wrist, yanking him to his feet as he headed down the hallway, the whimpering sissy in tow. He knew there were at least ten big red 'W's in a row on his chart and just seven were enough to warrant a spanking. He tried to resist Hank but the bigger man was far too strong. He stumbled behind him, dreading his discovery and the spanking that was almost certain to follow.

As the three of them entered his nursery, their senses were assaulted by the smell of stale pee that permeated the room.

“Whew!” Hank remarked, “I don't know how you can sleep in here.”

“Sissies bedwetters just get used it it, I guess,” Mariana explained casually.

Going over to the large chart on the wall, Hank examined it closely, his features darkening as he counted the consecutive red 'W's over each day of the most recent week, signifying wet night after wet night.

“You really have no more control than a toddler, do you?” he snapped.

Brian quailed before him, but he nodded his head slowly, hoping it might possibly buy him some mercy from his Mommy's intimidating boyfriend.

“I think you need to be taught a lesson,” he said as he walked over and picked up the Spencer paddle with air holes hanging from its peg, “Maybe a good, hard spanking will motivate you to try harder.”

Brian's eyes misted with tears and he began begging Hank piteously to reconsider.

“No—please—please, Daddy,” he whined, “Please don't spank me.”

Mariana walked over and opened the window wide to make sure the neighbors could hear and be witness to Brian's punishment.

As Hank took a seat on the spanking stool, Brian trembled before him, a strong, panic-induced stream of pee suddenly flooding his diapers.

Glaring into Brian's tear-filled eyes, Hank scolded him like a father would his errant child.

“Do you know why you're being spanked today, sissy?”

Brian nodded his head sadly as a tear tumbled down his face.

“Answer me, boy,” he barked.

“Yes Sir—I'm being spanked for my bedwetting,” he sobbed.

“That's right, sissy. And you know you deserve it, don't you?”

“Y-yes, Daddy,” he blubbered.

“Then ask Daddy nicely, if he'll give you a good, hard spanking,” Hank said huskily. His cock was starting to grow hard in his pants again.

“Please Daddy—please spank me hard,” Brian wailed.

“I'd be delighted,” he said with a smirk.

Grasping the sides of his plastic panties, Hank jerked his entire diaper down around his ankles and threw him over his big lap. Brian let out a yelp as he struggled to get his balance, his damp bare bottom waving in the air as if to tease Hank. Without a moment's hesitation, his Daddy brought the wooden paddle down hard, searing a rectangular imprint across both of Brian's tender cheeks.

“YEOWWW!!!” he cried out at the top of his lungs.

Mariana smiled, seeing her sissy hubbie finally getting the overdue punishment he justly deserved.

Gripping Brian firmly, Hank brought the paddle down again and again, swatting his baby-soft cheeks fiercely as Brian kicked wildly and bawled like a child. Unfortunately, his wet diapers were tangled around his ankles, preventing his free movement.

Hank really meant business when he administered a spanking and today was no different. The bedwetting sissy's bottom quickly went from pink to a rosy, red apple shade, welts quickly rising from his stinging hot skin. The hard wood scalded his lily white bottom cruelly, bring tears in profusion as Brian wailed miserably. He tried desperately again and again to escape but Hank held him firmly in place, making sure he received every blistering swat of the paddle.

After what seemed an eternity, Hank finally stopped.

“Have you learned your lesson, bedwetter boi?” he said as he led the paddle poised over Brian's dark red bottom.

The bawling sissy barely manage to utter something that sounded like an affirmative answer and Hank rewarded him with one last bitingly harsh swat of the paddle.

With surprising gentleness, Hank lifted the crying pantywaist up and carried him over to his crib, placing him face down on the mattress with his crimson bottom on display. Brian grabbed his teddy bear and sobbed uncontrollably.

“I think we need to reinforce this lesson,” he said with an evil smirk as he unzipped his jeans and let them fall around his ankles.

Brian was too busy crying to see what was going on as Hank took his nursery jelly and smeared a liberal amount over his hardened cock. It was thick and veiny, rising from his crotch proudly like a mighty, fleshy sword.

Kneeling between Brian's legs, he forced them apart and positioned his massive pole at the sissy's hole. Just as Brian turned to see what was going on, Hank thrust his cock hard against the crying sissy's sphincter. With a slippery pop, he rammed it home, driving the fat shaft deep into Brian's bowels.

“OHHHH!!” he wailed as Hank's big, heavy balls smacked against the sissy's tiny locked package.

Hank let out a sigh of satisfaction as he gripped Brian's hips firmly and began a series of long languid strokes.

“Oh yes,” he said with immense satisfaction, “You have a nice, tight sissy pussy.”

Perhaps the earlier experience with the Sissy Splitter helped because while it was still painful having his back passage stretched wide, Mariana's dildo had prepared the way to some degree.

Still, Brian wailed and moaned like a little girl, feeling like he was being split in two. Hank's warm, slippery cock really stretched him to the limit, and Brian cried out every time he bottomed out inside his tortured boi pussy.

Mariana had moved around the end of the crib to gaze down at her hubbie being so thoroughly impaled.

“Feel that, sissy? That's a what a real man's cock feels like.”

Clutching his pink teddy bear for comfort, Brian was sure his hole would never be the same again. Sobbing like a child, he was completely helpless to prevent being forcefully raped by the larger man. He squealed and cried, and occasionally, Hank would slap the right side of his red bottom for good measure.

Finally, Hank gripped his hips with renewed vigor and rammed his cock deep into Brian's rectum.

“UGHHH!” he bellowed as he blew his warm, creamy load deep inside the squirming sissy.

With a shudder, Hank's eyes screwed shut as he relieved a week's pent up tension and semen into the captive bedwetter.

The next few minutes were a haze to Brian as Hank pulled out and Mariana led him over to the changing table for a fresh set of diapers. He was giving his baby bottle as Mariana gently applied cool Desitin to his stinging, fiery cheeks and pinned him into a soft, fluffy set of diapers. After pulling on some pink rubber panties, she swapped out his baby dress for his cropped fleece jammies, a bunny motif decorating the chest.

Gently tucking him into his crib, Mariana brought his fuzzy baby blankies up around him, setting his teddy bear underneath his arm.

“There, there,” she cooed softly, “You've had a big day, time for an early beddie-bye for Mommy's little baby.”

Brian was exhausted from the evening's events and his long lashes grew heavy as he nursed from his bottle of warm milk. Before long, his Mommy was turning out the light, although she left his door open so that he'd be able to hear their lovemaking if he woke up later.

Despite the intense, painful throbbing of his bottom and back hole, within minutes, Brian slipped off to sissy slumber, his half full bottle coming to rest against his pillow.

As the pantywaist entered into the dream world where all sissies are happiest, the floodgates opened up and warm pee spread throughout his diapers. In moments, they were completely soaked, meaning Brian could look forward to yet another red 'W' on his chart tomorrow.

THE END

[donnie97402]

Duties 1-3 Year old little

As a caretaker of a 1 -3 year old little you duties and responsibilities are more so than most. More for all the little jobs, and less for how hard they really are. 

Here is a list, not necessarily in order of importance. These an vary from relationship to relationship. 

1. Diaper checks/changes. These are mandatory. Checks should happen every ½ hour to 1 hour. Just putting a diaper on your abdl isn’t going to satisfy them. Checking them tells them you accept them and are thinking about what is going on. It brings about regular interactions. recommended sticking you finger inside to feel. Why it invades a space of theirs that they arn’t used to. a reminder of just how vulnerable they are.  

2. Make their food. give them 2 options. then make it, cut it up, then make a big deal about it. If you feel inclined feed it to them. Do not under any circumstances give them formula though. Formula can actually hurt adults. Baby food is acceptable. When they are done, make sure to clean up after them. 

3. Bath. Bathing your little is essential. It is a very bonding exercise. I personally recommend that every couple should bath one another. Take your time. wash them down thoroughly. Make sure to coo them and play with them during this exercise. If you want to, get some bath toys, and bubble bath. Bath time is fun time. 

4. Rule enforcement. As the cg/dd/md you need to set up rules. These are mandatory. no ifs/ands/or buts about it. Every couple should have different rules. Some to think about are things like, mandatory baby talk, No taking diaper off, No walking, keep pacifier in your mouth, ect…   Once these rules are put down you need to set up disciplines with them. Best to write down everything as well. Start out small with corner time, ignored for x amount of time. The last rule and one you should rarely use is to end it. That punishment should be the last resort. Once these are set; don’t let them break them with out discipline. Consistency is key here. 

5. Bottle or Sippy cups regularly. As the cg you are in charge of looking after the well being of your little/abdl. This includes their liquid intake  At least once a day you need to bottle feed or sippy cup feed your little. This should be done while holding them. Again it tells them you care, It is good cuddle time for bonding, as well as it reinforces who is in charge. This also means that they have to use their diaper regularly. 

6. Moderate electronic time. Any good parent knows that to much electronic time is bad for their kids. So moderate how much they are getting. If they refuse to comply then you need to unplug what they are doing. Again reinforces who is in charge. 

7. Make decisions for them. There is a lot that fits into this category. Everything from their clothing to what time they go to bed. these all need to be moderated. as a little/abdl. There are many more things that could go into this category. the point is limit them down. If you are going to give them a choice, give them 2.

8. Make a schedule. This isn’t mandatory, and really helps more with lifestyle than anything. Anything that is going to be more than 4 hours, i would recomend making a schedule. It helps for you to know what to do, as well as let your little to know what to expect. 

9. Activities. Will be doing a list of possible activities later. How ever for now you should be trying to do activities outside watching a movie with your little if you are doing this more than once a month. These allow you to break up the monotony of what is going on. These can either be in the community, or in the house itself. There are tons of them out there. So pick one that seems fun and appropriate. 

Well that is all I have. If you have felt that I have left something out feel free to leave a comment or send me a message.