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“Aroallo? That’s literally just every man haha 🤪”. Actually, what little research we have on aromanticism suggests that those who don’t experience romantic attraction but do experience sexual attraction may make up about 0.7% of the population, at least in the U.S. That may be slightly larger than the aroace population (which was found to be around 0.3% in the same study. ofc, I don’t know that 0.7% vs. 0.3% would constitute a statistically significant difference for a sample of 414, but I digress) but that still doesn’t sound anywhere close to “every man” to me. Maybe it’s time you stop projecting onto the aromantic community your negative experiences with alloromantic men who think of women as unfeeling and non-sentient sexual objects.

(Source: “Examining Concordant and Discordant Sexual and Romantic Attraction in American Adults: Implications for Counselors” by Emily M. Lund, Katie B. Thomas, Christina M. Sias, and April R. Bradley.)

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“Why do people think being with someone is the answer to everything?”

— Elizabeth Scott

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Why do i hate people i envy? Every time i see a person i want to look like or who is better than me at something, i feel deep hatred towards them and wish them the worst. I hate it.

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“I don’t trust words, I trust actions.”

— Unknown

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Truly a foolish habit of mine is assuming every bpd blog on here is a safe space for other cluster bs, especially npd. And then they pull out the Narcissistic Abuse™

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I put so much energy into trying not to come off as an abrasive bitch to literally everyone I meet. I ignore all the little annoying things people do. I filter out anything mean that I want to say. I exhaust myself trying to stay calm, play nice, and de-escalate, even when they won't do the same. And it doesn't matter if I can handle it or not, the mask has to stay on unless I feel like not having food or money anymore. It's always me that has to do all of the work. So don't ever tell me that I'm just not trying hard enough.

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how to shut up a narcissist:

-give them money

-offer them $1,000 cash

-send a large amount of money to their bank account

-gift them 10 100 dollar bills

-venmo them one thousand dollars

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God forbid you're a textbook person with ASPD and NPD/traits these days.

Prosocials and Egotypicals already make your life hard because of their trauma or whatever the fuck pop psychology they decided to jump on, but other people with ASPD or NPD erasing your existence because "people with those are never like the stereotypes" or worse, saying you're an awful person too because at least they don't do so or so, makes you hate everyone equally now. As if their type of disorder is the one that's real now and always was, and yours is a fantasy that other people made to demonize certain behaviors, because yours can't exist. That's just being an asshole now.

I don't need love, understanding, acceptance or empathy, nothing emotional, I simply need people to just let me exist without adding more burdens to my already burdened life. I need my basic needs met much like you do, water, electricity, food, shelter, health, safety, things that I shouldn't need to have any emotional links to be allowed to obtain. Or rather, deserve to, since I keep seeing that word.

Your comfort doesn't mean you get to discriminate me, so let's just stick to basic contractual transactions, alright?

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SzPD culture is trying really hard to pretend you care about other people and having relationships but it still never working out and eventually being asked if you "even care" or something similar.

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I can't stand children, they're too noisy and energetic.

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Let people lose you. Let people be wrong about you. Learn to leave well enough alone. Often, the greatest peace is not found in correcting others. It's found in correcting yourself, accepting the lessons, and knowing when to walk away.

Morgan Richard Olivier

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“I just wanna feel like I’m on drugs without taking drugs.”

— Edan

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​“calling yourself sapphic sounds like you wear mushroom earrings and listen to hozier” “calling yourself aroallo is literally just calling yourself a fuckboy” well maybe if we stopped relentlessly assigning stereotypes to queer identities the way we get mad at non-queer people for doing we wouldn’t have this problem

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Most people don't actually want to know what's under the surface—they just want to feel special. They want to be the one I take the mask off for. Not out of care, but out of ego. Because being my exception validates something in them.

But let's be real: you wouldn't survive what's under the mask. You're not built for it.

You want vulnerability until it's ugly. Until it's cold, distant, blunt, or numb. Then suddenly I'm "too much" or "not enough."

So no, I'm not taking it off for you. Not because I'm guarded, but because I've learned most people don't actually want the truth. They want a version of me that makes them feel needed, heroic, or chosen. And I'm not here to feed your savior complex.

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it's almost pride month again. what a great reminder for Please Be Normal about these people:

- aromantic people who aren't asexual.

- asexual people who aren't aromantic.

- cishet aromantic and cishet asexual people.

- aromantic men in general.

- intersex people who are trans.

- intersex people who are are cis.

- intersex people who are cistrans/tris and those who are neither.

- intersex people who are cishet.

- intersex people in general.

- nonbinary people who don't personally identify as transfem or transmasc.

- nonbinary people who don't want to be androgynous.

- cis people who use neopronouns and/or xenogenders while still feeling cis fits just fine.

- people who feel gender dysphoria or misgendered when referred to by they/them, especially after telling you not to use they/them.

PART TWO.

⚠️ Do not use they/them if talking about me to others in reblogs/comments. I have neopronouns in my pinned post ⚠️