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talking openly about fatness is such a minefield due to so many societal structures built around it i wish there were more dog whistles to figure out if someone is slay fat (feedist coded or at least accepting) or is like not there yet cause some of the most fatphobic people ive met have been fat

and there’s also people who have EDs and talking about fatness and there fat is also incredibly triggering and i understand that and that aspect is so valid so it’s a hard topic to broach i honestly have no idea how to feel it out cause it’s always so gratifying finding others in the community online and finding people amongst my daily life that are also fat accepting feels great but i also don’t wanna be trapped in fatphobic conversations or worse so trigger someone

it’s truly a hard thing to figure out and i was wondering if there could be better ways to tackle this subject IRL that opens dialogue about fatness and even choosing to be fat

would love to know everyone’s thoughts on this since we all in this together i’m not sure the best place for these discussions are but would love to have them yknow

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got weighed by doctor today and nothing happened, no comments, no nothing whatsoever the point lmao

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Comfort eating is not immoral. Stress eating is not immoral. Binge eating is not immoral. Overeating is not immoral.

Weight gain and eating are not immoral.

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I have such a goddamn complicated relationship with fatness and comedy cause it’s often depicted as “cheap” or “lazy” style of comedy which i can understand and i can understand how these tropes can be harmful to fat people as well

through a history lens fatness within comedy has been used as a caricature specifically 16th century italian commedia dell’arte which depicts some of its more pompous high status stock characters as fat. and that’s the thing historically the fat archetype stock character was used to specifically lampoon higher society punching up at upperclassmen those who could afford to get fat and often portraying them as buffoonish and using exaggerated fat suits to highlight the satire

it’s hard to criticise this from of satire as at the time this was considered punching up and the dramatic irony of implying these high status characters as clumsy or of lesser intelligence would highlight the comedic dichotomy of the hierarchical systems

but alas as systems evolved and society changed these stock comedy characters specifically those from commedia dell’arte maintained despite not necessarily reflecting modern fatness culture and the shift in fat status. no longer is fat autonomous with high society and lampooning the rich and wealthy now fatness is of much wider demographic yet these body types are still used in mockery. fatness for whatever reason is dethroned from high status and is now used to punch down in comedy swiftly passing through the silent films with Fatty Arbuckle, Oliver Hardy, Curly from the three stooges not necessarily being laughed at for being fat but slippery slope to the “fat idiot” character archetype that flowed into the 80/90s. fatness had mutated all the way to the lowest status and yet was still prime for mockery and punchlines and this was not a great time for fatness tbh

people picked up on this and noticed the lazy writing and in the modern age these aren’t necessarily played on for cheap gags and there’s so many funny fat people out here absolutely crushing but i have noticed the downward trend of fatness being now overlooked because of the such harsh punching down of the 80-00s and when fat people make fat jokes or can laugh at there fatness now it’s seen as self deprecating humour which is not conducive to any good change it’s like no i’m fat and this is funny and this is a funny perspective of fatness i’m not saying i hate my fat and this funny anecdote is proof fat is bad idk

i think we need to open the doors and make fat funny we did the ye olde high status funny fat rich guy and we fell in to the depths of fatness punching down in the 80-00s and now we’ve seen both ends of the status spectrum of fatness and comedy but i think now is an absolute perfect time to laugh about being fat

anyway nerd history fatness rant over lmao

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Best way to deal with online fatphobic assholes is never engage and block

but goddamn i really wanna engage cause literally all their arguments are defeated by a “who cares”

“but it’s unhealthy” i disagree but also who cares they aren’t here for scientific evidence or to change minds

“promoting obesity is dangerous” who cares you don’t have to get fat go live your life you wanna live you don’t know me lol if being thin makes you happy go off king

I refuse to engage so i literally don’t know any of their other arguments lol maybe “fat is ugly” which HAHAHA wrong but sure super wrong lmao

but yeah as much as it would be fun “fatty owns loser trolls” but yeah just ignore and block is the wisest option every time unfortunately

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it’s so crazy tackling old enemies from my self conscious “afraid of fat” era with my current feedist lens

like being seen without a shirt it’s like A) who cares and B) i’m hot and i’ve chosen this fat body and now i’m proud of it. god i used to be so self conscious whenever my tiny lil piece of fat i had touch clothing i’d always stretch my shirts out at the belly to hide from that and lemme tell you now i was so skinny

i’m just saying (aka back on my bullshit) that normalising the choice to be fat would be such a huge slay for society cause anything better than how it’s framed now it’s either “an accident/failure” or something predetermined and unavoidable but secret third option is that fat is hot and fat bodies are irresistible and i want mine to look like that too

anywho that’s why i’m ok with not hiding my fat in public anymore

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I do not regret choosing to get fat.

I’ve loved that i made this choice and gaining weight has been incredible and everything i was worried about when i was skinny about making this choice did not matter

i want everyone who is tempted to gain to just try it out (you can always lose it but allow yourself to love it and it will be so much fun)

Reblog this lol if you also don’t regret getting fat and let everyone see that this doesn’t have to be a regretful shameful secretive choice you can be fat and thrive!

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Idk if this is relatable or not but being asked “who is your favourite porn star” and it’s like i’ve never gotten off on someone that hasn’t been actively getting fatter

and trying to see if i can conjure up any mainstream porn stars to saying “oh the stars that i enjoy are much to far outta your personal weight range”

it’s wild these feedees are deadass celebrities to me but no one else outside of my kink circles has any idea it’s wild

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Business idea

what about an escape room that’s just a big table of food and then you just gotta eat it all

it’s like those buffets that charge extra if you leave food on your plate i see you buffet owners you lil feeders you

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getting fat on purpose is so fun literally everyone should do it

no one can convince me otherwise

this is your sign, do it get fat

it’s objectively a great idea

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I love to know why there’s so many of us that love this incredible kink despite society shunning it at every turn please comment if you have a unique one i love to hear all about these things!!!

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I wanna be fat so bad but my family is so insecure about dieting…like even the kids yknow?? thankfully afaik no EDs are taking place but this rhetoric has been around my family for years and years, how can I best shut that out or at least politely point out the flaws in their logic??

i mean we’re all just victims of societal fatphobia you don’t necessarily need to shut that/them out. like they’re gonna make comments that’s a fact we both know that and it’s scary but trust you’re truth, trust yourself the words feel yucky and they suck but it’s just because that’s they’re automatic reflex unfortunately a lot of this fatphobia comes from a place of love and care which is such a mental fuck around for both parties but they cannot make you do or change anything Rome wasn’t built in a day and we’ve all been on sites like this being “radicalised” against the incorrect societal norms so my advice is unfortunately just let it wash over you, you can set boundaries and stick to them all while being the perfect fat role model to them. don’t argue, live the the contradiction to the fatphobic rhetoric and because they love you it will change i promise/hole

this is my perspective cause i had a very similar family and now they’re hella supportive, my family just didn’t know any happy content fat people and now that that’s me they’re ex arguments are null. again just from my situation that’s how it unfolded can’t say everyone’s the same

but yeah that’s on that asks are always open

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Fatness is objectively beautiful i’m sorry i don’t make the rules. it makes bodies so unique as the fat settles in stunningly beautiful ways in everyone differently it’s what makes the chose of fatness so excited as you see how your body grows outwards and how it decides to store all the fat.

like i feel like a geologist cause just like rocks no two fat bodies are the same, the stretch marks , the curves everything yes yes yes

and when someone chooses to actively get fat and seeing how the body flourishes in its own unique way almost like your body saying thank you as it sculpts itself into a reflection of indulgence, almost like it’s showing off

like i mean cmon how can than not be beautiful

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Hey gentle reminder

body shaming is never ok even if it’s body shaming morally reprehensible people yes they’re shit and boo hate on them don’t fall onto body shaming in the hate discourse please

not because they don’t deserve to feel bad lol they probably do but they’re body might match someone else’s and when they publicly see you demonising that body type they’ll internalise that

please hop on the hate train all for that but cut it out with the body shaming cause that’s not helping anyone in this and is doing a lot of friendly fire

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Trust me love a Freshman 15™️ but like i feel like there needs to be an unamericanized version of it cause freshman 6.804 kilograms just doesn’t cut it

also we don’t even use the term freshman in australia we just call it first year university student 6.804 kilograms

if anyone has any better names for this please i’d love to hear it

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“French women don’t get fat”?

i’m sure that is not true and if so let’s help them!! gonna make it the city of love handles.

also with all those carbs and sweet treats cmon it’d be fun as hell to get fat in france. anyway fuck this book french women should get fat cause hell yeah!

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remember when people lost their minds when they made Barbie gain a lil weight (fat barbie) like literally who cares kinda embarrassing tbh.

like there’s literally no argument to be made here that isn’t destroy by “who cares”

granted i feel like my whole vibe is pessimistic fat liberator with a feedism kink and there’s so much else going on the world like “fat barbie” should’ve been so much lower down on the list. nothing matters just have fun feel good get fat if you want if you don’t wanna be fat sure you can do that too.

let barbie be fat “but she’s been skinny and in that body forever” yeah we also had many more forrest’s things change get over it. but what if it god forbid promotes obesity?!?!? representation never hurts and just say you don’t want fat people to exist and go away live your life how you want to live and don’t interfere with my shit. don’t buy the fat barbies not that hard.

this rant is a few years late but here we are