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“it’s circus work.” not to me. not if it’s my monkeys.

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Ultimately, I really do believe that the whole “don’t try to be your friends’ therapist” mindset has done more harm than good. I understand and agree with the original premise behind it—codependency bad, enmeshment bad—but it has morphed into something godawful that I can barely even stomach to look at. Why the fuck are we encouraging people to outsource critical mental health support and genuine, vulnerable human connection to authority figures who don’t necessarily give a fuck about us as people, with whom we have a tenuous client/employee relationship that is ripe for abuse and held together only by the exchange of money??? If I have advice for my friends or am capable of helping them with their problems in other ways then why the fuck would I not just. Do it. Why are we limiting the boundaries of actual fucking human relationships by expecting that no one will ever ask anything of us and we should never ask anything of them in return!!!! Do you people not see how fucking miserable and lonely that is!?!?!?! How can you people say that you truly care about your friends when you care more about holding them at arms’ length and “encouraging them to seek help on their own” rather than actually fucking helping them yourself when they ask it of you!?!?!?!?!?!

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*puts a disk in u*

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I'm not really committing to Junicorn, but i have been drawing little squares of them all June...

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Insane tumblr ad pull

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half life II

junicorn day 12

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The Mummy (1999) dir. Stephen Sommers

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feelin feline

junicorn day 08

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🪴🐈‍⬛

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qilin

junicorn day 10