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I had an anti-kink person reblog from me, so uh.

I'm pro-kink. I don't care what you say, I'm pro-kink and that will not change. I'm also pro sex work.

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Not so friendly reminder, but fuck sysmeds. I support all system origins.

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Survivors don't fucking owe you SHIT about their trauma, you ableists. Do you demand rape survivors give you proof that they went through rape? Do you demand CSA survivors give you proof that they went through CSA?

What fucking right do you have to ask someone to prove to you that they were abused to a severe extent?

Do you not recognize that some cult survivors do not have the fucking LUXURY to be open about their abuse or talk about the cults they grew up in? Because giving away that information CAN get them in worse situations?

If a cult survivor asks you to be sensitive to their trauma because you're MISUSING IT to such an extent that makes cults look like a silly joke, especially when cults are a growing problem, ESPECIALLY on this platform, you are an ENABLER of said abuse. You ableist fuck.

Oh right. I forgot to not be a hypocrite and get of anon. But regardless, don’t make the claim you are a cult survivor without proof and then harass someone over a non-issue that they aren’t even doing! It’s pure IDIOCY!

This ^^^^

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“if somebody becomes panicked when you accuse them of lying theyre obviously not telling the truth” shut up ugly im a survivor who got punished for shit i never did all the time of fucking course im gonna panic when im blamed for something i didnt do

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My mother tried to force me to wear bikinis and shirts that showed off my breasts, despite my constant discomfort and tears. She wanted to show me off to her perverted old friends and boast about how well endowed her "daughter" (trans man) was. I could wear a shirt and pants, but she was insistent that I look feminine and show off my breasts.

So not every girl-presumed person can wear masculine clothing. Not without risking being horrifically punished.

"No one cares if women / transmascs / afab people wear pants and boy clothes!!!"

On my knees begging you to talk to people who grew up in religious fundamentalist communities and high control groups / cults

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As someone with low empathy at best, your disorder is not an excuse to trigger trauma survivors, regardless of you being a trauma survivor yourself.

It is ableist to trigger someone, and it is ESPECIALLY ableist to trigger someone who has politely asked you to tag your shit, regardless of your status as a trauma survivor. Trauma Survivors can be ableist too.

I'm a professionally diagnosed Narcissist with autism and HC-DID (both also professionally diagnosed) who went through RAMCOA and I have low to no empathy due to that, and I still tag trigger warnings for things like Sexual Assault, CSA, Rape, animal death, etc, even if they don't bother me, personally. (Or at least, I try to. I am forgetful.)

If you cannot respect other people's boundaries, do not expect people to respect yours. Eye for an eye, and whatnot.

Tag your shit properly if you don't want people to ask you to tag shit.

The Internet is not your safe space.

Hiii if you're here to be annoying and ask me to put TWs for cartoon g0re of a show that shows uncensored g0re than pls just block me, your comfort is not my business and I do not care.

And don't you dare use your trauma on me to gain sympathy, you're a stranger who I've never met , it is not my business, I have my own mental health struggles and I rather keep it just be my own problems and not add some random stranger from the interwebs problems to mine.

And calling me ableist for it is absurd.(I'm literally professionally diagnosed that I'm on the spectrum ♾️🌈 :p)

My acc is not your safe space, it is MY safe space.

I can draw and post whatever I want (that includes cartoony g0re of a show that shows uncensored g0re ,and btw HH has no g0re TW at the beginning of episode 5 :p) and if you got a problem with that pls just scroll and block me , it's that simple.

Also.. using my anti radioapple post against me is stupid aswell, all I said I don't like the ship and it makes me uncomfortable, I didn't say 'don't interact'

I don't mind if RadioApple fans interact with me ,I can't stop 'em :p

I respect your ship ,I just personally don't like it and kinda over exaggerated my silly little post ^^

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This.

I have a "Friend" who actively attacks someone with NPD and constantly uses "Narcissist" as an insult.

When I came clean about my diagnosis, they outright DOUBTED me because I "don't have narcissistic traits, therefore can't be a narcissist" (completely throwing out my NPD is very covert).

And when I got upset at them for using Narcissist as an insult, they straight up said "Oh, but I'm talking about ABUSIVE Narcissists, not ALL Narcissists, it just happens that MOST of them are abusive."

And I was so dumbfounded.

Yes, demonizing Narcissistic Traits absolutely fucks over narcissists, INCLUDING the majority that are just trying to live life without hurting people.

Narcissists should not have to worry about being MENTALLY ABUSED if they ever mention their diagnosis.

When you want to talk about ABUSE, use the word ABUSE.

When you want to talk about ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR, use the words ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR.

Stop demeaning narcissists, stop abusing narcissists, just STOP.

You people who use Narcissist/Narcissistic Behavior/Narcissistic Traits as an insult are the exact reason pwNPD don't get help/better.

‘i’m not demonising NPD, i’m talking about narcissistic traits’

so… symptoms of NPD.

do these ableist freaks not realise that narcissism and NPD are not separate things?

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As a Transmasc person, I vividly remember my parents refusing me to let me get the haircut I wanted. Like full on threatened to punish me if I ever got my hair cut like that. I decided to be rebellious and style my hair so it looked like I'd cut it the way I wanted and made it my profile picture.

They woke me up at 6am to make sure I hadn't cut my hair and threatened me.

Even where I live now, as an adult, I've been told if I cut my hair the way I've wanted since I was 13, I'd be disowned. I'd be kicked out.

I'm sorry, but transmascs experience abuse quite a bit more than a lot of people seem to think.

I'm so tired of seeing transmasc's suffering downplayed

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Folks have got to understand that they probably aren't messed up by some Secret Big Trauma that they just can't remember; but rather by a million tiny microtraumas that they do mostly remember but don't even register as traumatic because nobody actually understood that these things would cause trauma, much less stack on each other over the years.

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There'll be a post like, "ableism is bad" and all the comments will be "yeah! Ableists are all sociopaths and narcissists!" "Ableists all live in their moms basements and don't contribute anything to society!"

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The responses to saying how "narcissistic abuse" is an ableist term will always be so insane bc it's always like

"you will never understand the abuse we went through"

My brother in Christ, why do you think I have a personality disorder?

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NPD is never being good enough.

NPD is being isolated from everybody else.

NPD is knowing you will never form connections to people like egotypicals do.

NPD is never being authentic.

NPD is feeling empty inside.

NPD is constant paranoia and the sickening feeling of thinking everyone is going to sabotage you.

NPD is constant distrust.

NPD is self hatred.

NPD is feeling sick when others succeed.

NPD is knowing love will never be enough for you, you need obsession, devotion, to be the most important person, to be the air they breathe, to be worshipped but knowing they will probably never be that to you.

NPD is needing control.

NPD is constantly feeling underestimated and belittled.

NPD is having to be admired by everyone.

NPD is the want to be feared and respected.

NPD is never feeling satisfied.

NPD is competing with socially assertive people and getting unbearably angry at them for purposefully stealing your spotlight.

NPD is nobody understanding your struggles irl.

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victim of severe childhood abuse: the trauma made me depressed and hypervigilant

mental health allies: you are so valid and I feel so sorry for you

victim of severe childhood abuse: the trauma made me lose the ability to feel empathy

mental health allies: YOU'RE DISGUSTING AND EVIL I HOPE YOU DIE!!!!!

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Yikes

not a culture ask, but i figured y'all would like to see + make fun of this.

this was someone's affirmations to "get rid of narcissists". pretty sure they're just in denial themselves

the complete lack of self awareness is like. almost impressive

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this is exactly why it's so important to educate. this is why we "police" language and tell you what words to use instead. because this is how you actively perpetuate stigmas and demonise a whole group of people. and this is how it keeps spreading because within three days this first comment has received 25 likes, which may not seem like much now, but those 25 people spread this "knowledge" to 25 other people and so on and so forth.

again: narcissists are people with narcissistic personality disorder. a cluster B PD that is usually developed through abuse trauma (and genetic predispositon). gaslighting is a term used for the act of knowingly making somebody doubt themselves and their sanity (how they perceive events, their memories, etc.). being self-absorbed and not taking responsibility for certain behaviours is something every person is capable of. it's not "narcissistic abuse". it's emotional abuse. every person is capable of it.

stop calling everybody a narcissist because they've done something like this. it's not right. it's just another term y'all picked up on the internet without ever doing research about what it means or where it really comes from. and of course it's just another way for y'all to demonise people and stigmatise mental disorders you think make somebody abusive and unworthy of being part of disability and mental health activism...