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I've been seeing more blogs interacting with a link to their telegram account, including swers and normie types...! It's frustrating when many people are so ignorant of what's going on online.

This post will NOT cover everything that took place in GamerGate. That simply isn’t possible here. GamerGate wasn’t one drama, it was many small and large events that unfolded and built upon each other over a period of years, and took place in every part of the internet at once. My aim here is to lay out the key figures, and give a general understanding of what happened and why. There are resources linked throughout the post which can expand on events I mentioned, but there are many more that I left out.

Come with me as we explore the dark corridors of the internet that gave birth to the modern alt-right. I’m going to try and keep this gaming related, because this isn’t a political discussion board, but references to greater political movements are unavoidable.

Be warned, this post contains basically every ism and phobia that you could possible imagine. Tread with care.

Also, when I refer to ‘gamers’ with a lowercase G, I just mean normal gamers as a whole. When I say ‘Gamers’, I mean Gamergate supporters.

Anita Sarkeesian - Sexism in Gaming

This shitstorm began in 2013, though its roots trace back far earlier, and while it would come to suck in thousands of pundits, politicians and thinkers from around the world, it began with one woman: Anita Sarkeesian.

Anita is a Canadian-American media critic. She started her Youtube Channel Feminist Frequency in 2009, analysing portrayals of women in pop culture. In 2011 she worked with feminist magazine Bitch to create a series of videos titled 'Tropes vs Women’, which examined the damaging cliches and stereotypes against women in film and tv. It did pretty well, but she was still a small voice in a small circle. The natural next step was to talk about games, and that’s what she did in 2012. 'Tropes vs Women in Video Games’ criticised the sexualisation of women in games, the way they are treated as helpless damsels in distress, or given to the player as a reward. As Sarkeesian herself points out in her first episode:

“It’s both possible and necessary to simultaneously enjoy media, while also being critical of its problematic or pernicious aspects’.

The videos were pretty even handed, and never really took the 'rabid angry feminist’ tone that people have come to portray. I recommend taking a look. Anita was clearly not much of a 'gamer’ herself, but she saw the positives that could be drawn from them.

In order to fund the project, Anita created a Kickstarter - which was all the rage back then. The kickstarter drew attention from every corner. Some of it was positive - she asked for $6000, but ended up with almost 7000 backers and $160,000 pledged. However a lot of it was bad.

Keep in mind that this all took place at a very critical moment in the feminist movement. Tumblr and Twitter were at their height, and a lot of positive momentum was being made. The video game industry was gradually becoming more inclusive too. Games at the time were - to much controversy - including more POC, women, and LGBT characters. But at the same time, a push began against this. A lot of men were feeling alienated by the rapid change, and this negative stance on feminism tended to look past the majority (who were pretty reasonable) and focus only on the minority of feminists who were explicitly anti-male. And in time, the progressive community would make the same mistake with gamers. But for now, it was these anti-feminists who saw the premise of Sarkeesian’s videos as a threat toward 'their territory’ - the male oriented video game industry. Anita became the poster child for everything these men hated. There was a coordinated effort on 4chan to destroy her Kickstarter, to DDOS the site, to report her twitter accounts, and otherwise eliminate her. It got pretty nasty. At the time it was a bit of a shocker just how nasty it got, but little did we know it was just the start.

A number of articles started to surface on various sites documenting the bizarre outrage, and that only lent it more momentum. Kotaku, Polygon, and other more left-leaning gaming news sites headed the exposure.

Anita received enormous harassment on social media, including vast numbers of rape and death threats, and she was doxxed multiple times (a practice in which a person’s home address is posted online). Her wikipedia articles were vandalised with racial and sexual slurs, and she was sent drawings of herself being raped. A video game was created, 'Beat Up Anita Sarkeesian’, in which players cover a photo of her in blood by clicking on it. Critics who disparaged the 'game’ received death threats themselves. The creator of the game, Gregory Alan Elliot, was taken to court. The case had significant implications for online freedom of speech in Canada. She was accused of being Jewish, and received enormous amounts of antisemitism dubbing her Jewkeesian, until it came to light that her heritage was actually Armenian - and the harassment switched to an Armenian theme without skipping a beat.

Anita capitalised on her infamy, and used it to speak out on sexual harassment at TEDxWomen, as well as several universities. She was scheduled to speak at the 2014 Game Developer’s Choice Awards, and would receive an accolade herself, but an anonymous bomb threat was called in to try and get the event cancelled. It really is hard to overstate the sheer level of vitriol this woman had thrown at her. But she would not be the only one.

“I don’t get to publicly express sadness or rage or exhaustion or anxiety or depression, I can’t say that sometimes the harassment really gets to me, or conversely that the harassment has become so normal that sometimes I don’t feel anything at all. I don’t get to express feelings of fear or how tiring it is to be constantly vigilant of my physical or digital surroundings. How I don’t go to certain events because I don’t feel safe. Or how I sit in the more secluded areas of coffee shops and restaurants so the least amount of people can recognise me.”

Zoe Quinn - Ethics in Journalism

Zoe Quinn is an American video game developer and writer. In 2013, she released the game 'Depression Quest’, a text-based game in which the player roleplays as themselves and is taken through a number of scenarios relating to depression. The game was based on her own experiences, and was received positively by critics. It’s a raw and heartfelt project, and I really recommend it. However, there was a contingent who insisted that Depression Quest couldn’t really be called a game, and it’s true that it blurred the lines between a book, a visual novel, and a game.

This began a broad - and still ongoing - conversation within the gaming community. What is a game? People tried to come up with a clear cut definition, but there was always something that fell outside it. Does it need a failure state? That rules out Animal Crossing, which is definitely a game. Does it need an end point? That rules out Tetris. Does it need violence? Does it need characters? Does it need interactivity? Does it need choice? Does it need goals? Does it need visuals or sound? It’s easy to look at most games and say 'yes, that’s a game’. It’s easy to look at a book or film and say it isn’t. But when projects approach the line, things get a bit confusing. There are those who looked at Depression Quest and saw a book with extra steps, and there are those who insisted it was a game, but with all the extraneous stuff taken away. This is a massive philosophical debate, but we’re here for drama, so let’s move on. All you need to know is - it got great reviews, and some players were unhappy.

Zoe was added to the list of persona non grata. She received her own wave of death and rape threats, but rather than backing away, she documented them and spoke out about them to the media. This earned her even more hatred, which steadily grew more and more intense, to the point where she fled her home out of fear for her own safety.

But it wasn’t until August 2014 that 'GamerGate’ as we know it would officially begin. And it started at the hands of a relative unknown name, even now. Zoe’s former boyfriend Eron Gjoni published a long and sprawling blog post about their relationship in which he levelled a number of accusations against her, the most inflammatory of which was that she had been given positive coverage (of Depression Quest, among other things) by a Kotaku journalist with whom she was sexually involved. This was a false accusation. It later came out that this journalist, Nathan Grayson, had barely ever mentioned Quinn or her work, and when he did, they hadn’t been together. But never let the truth get in the way of a good story. The letter included copies of chat logs, text messages, and emails, and for all the world appeared to be legit.

The Gamers in question accused Zoe of exchanging sexual favours for positive press and professional advancement in what they called the 'Quinnspiracy’. Of course, Zoe Quinn stood to gain nothing from the praise Depression Quest received. Contrary to the claims that she was using her status as a woman to gain money… the game was free. And always had been. But this spawned one 'debate’ which would go on to define GamerGate - that of ethics in game journalism. Video game press came under enormous scrutiny, especially the left-leaning Kotaku. The idea was that if a pundit/reviewer/critic was left leaning, their views could not be relied upon, because according to GamerGate, they were biased. Large lists were created to map out the various 'SJW Journalists’, which boiled down to a blacklist of public figures who spoke out against GamerGate.

But for Zoe, it just meant abuse.

A lot of this began on 4chan - because of course it did - and users leapt at the chance to renew their attacks on Zoe Quinn and Depression Quest. Adam Baldwin (yes that one) coined the term GamerGate on Twitter, and his followers sent it trending. GamerGate gradually developed into a movement which would viciously attack anyone it saw as a target, and had its base in 4chan and Reddit.

Within four months of the blog post, Quinn’s record of threats had exceeded a thousand. Around that time she is quoted as saying:

“I used to go to game events and feel like I was going home […] Now it’s just like… are any of the people I’m currently in the room with ones that said they wanted to beat me to death?”.

I would go into detail on the exact content of these threats but frankly, I don’t want to. All you need to know is that they contain the worst possible things that some very creative people could come up with. Quinn’s Tumblr, Dropbox and Skype accounts were hacked, and she once again fled to live with friends. Everyone even tangentially connected to her got showered with hatred. It was a full on witch hunt.

In a BBC interview, Zoe summed up her experience.

“To me, GamerGate will always be glorified revenge porn by my angry ex. Before it had a name, it was nothing but trying to get me to kill myself, trying to hurt me, going after my family. GamerGate will always be that to me. There was no mention of ethics in journalism at all, besides making the same accusation everybody makes toward any successful women, that clearly she got to where she is because she had sex with someone”.

EDIT: There was a section here in which I covered the Alec Holowka scandal in 2019, but commenters pointed out that it isn’t really relevant to GamerGate, and I agree with them, so I removed it.

Brianna Wu - Taking Action

Wu is an American video game developer and the founder of Giant Spacekat, a small game studio. In October 2014, she began monitoring 8chan (think 4chan’s even worse cousin), and began tweeting about GamerGate, ridiculing them for:

“…fighting an apocalyptic future where women are 8 percent of programmers and not 3 percent”.

In the process, she placed herself in the sights of the mob. Anonymous details about her, including her address, were leaked on 8chan, and of course she got the standard death and rape threats, and had to flee her home. If this seems like it’s becoming a pattern, that’s because it is. The pattern would repeat itself over and over going forward. A minor figure speaks out about something, right wingers try to shut them up with abuse, they use that abuse to increase their platform (thereby becoming a minor left wing celebrity), they become an even bigger target, and they soon end up plastered across the internet.

But to the fury of many Gamers everywhere, none of these women were backing down. In February 2015, Wu declared:

“By attacking me so viciously, they’re helping give me the visibility to usher in the very game industry they’re terrified about”.

Wu created a legal defence fund for women targeted by GamerGate, offered cash for information leading to the prosecution of its worst members, and became heavily involved with the FBI. She exclusively attended events with a security detail. As of today, she and her husband continue to live under aliases.

In 2017, the FBI closed their investigation and declined to prosecute any of the men who sent threats (even though two had confessed). Wu went to the media, campaigning for dedicated FBI agents who understand and monitor the dark corners of the internet like 8chan.

While Wu, Sarkeesian and Quinn would become the three horsewomen of the GamerGate apocalypse, they were not alone. Other women who became major targets include Jenni Goodchild, Liana Kerzner, Devi Ever, Leigh Alexander, Felicia Day, and more. It simply isn’t possible to cover every single victim of this movement.

At the time, most people who played video games had no idea this was even going on. And often it was getting swept up in generalisations that turned regular gamers into Gamers. There were those who felt like they were being unfairly portrayed as sexist/racist/whatever else, and responded indignantly. This became heavily involved with the #notallmen and #yesallmen movements (and then #notallgamers). But sometimes those generalisations were right. There was a lot of anger going around in general.

Vivian James - Politics in Gaming

Of course, to the 4channer, the ideal woman doesn’t exist. She has to be created. And so Vivian was born. Vivian James (chosen because it sounds like Video Games) was created as a mascot for GamerGaters on 4chan, and her portrayal tells us a lot about what Gamers wanted women to be. She was an anthropomorphized avatar of the /v/ (Vidya) community on 4chan, created in response to a totally separate Zoe Quinn controversy surrounding game jams (events in which developers race to make weird and wacky games). She was used in propaganda as a champion of ‘free speech’.

You see, one of the many debates (and we must use this term loosely) that GamerGate created was that of 'politics’ in gaming. Representation was increasing of LGBT people, POC and women in games, and some players insisted that these inclusions were politically motivated. They claimed that games as a medium were not meant to be 'political’, and forcing 'politics’ into the games was a negative thing. They wanted a return to the 'non-political’ status quo - and it just so happened that the status quo was white straight American men (usually with guns). Because they themselves were mostly white straight American men, it never struck them as political for a game to feature a white straight American man, it was simply normal. The default. And any deviation from this was labelled as 'political’.

Of course, any intelligent person can see through this to its deeper meaning - these players didn’t want gays, women, and non white characters in their games because they were prejudiced. All media is political in some way. Even games which try not to be political.

This is what GamerGate boils down to - a war over the status quo. One side pushing for change, the other pushing to stop that change.

Vivian never mentioned her gender, her ideas or her politics when she played a game - you could play against her and mistake her for a guy. Rather than disrupt the status quo by existing, she allowed it to absorb her. And that’s what Gamers wanted from all minorities - they were welcome as long as they didn’t disrupt games as a haven where everything is catered to the default player, a white straight American man. Vivian was a 'real gamer’ because she embraced the default. Anyone who rejected that default was a fake gamer, whose love of games was a lie, and whose real purpose was sabotage.

This links in pretty heavily to the #NotYourShield movement, basically a platform for women, POC and LGBT Gamers who supported GamerGate and saw its opponents as exploiting them as a shield to deflect criticism. Ironically, GamerGate used these people as evidence that they were not prejudiced at all, in a very 'I’m not racist, my best friend is black’ kind of way.

Penning the Playbook

GamerGate had found an effective way of tearing down its targets, and its playbook would come to include strategies like gaslighting, dogpiling, sea lioning, gish galloping, and dogwhistling - and would inform the strategies of the alt right. By creating a state of fear, where people are too scared to even speak against GamerGate, they were able to silence opposition. And unlike its opposition, who were very real and public figures, GamerGate was decentralised and anonymous, akin to a swarm with no individual leader or face, and which therefore was incredibly hard to defeat. This was never a two way street. Of course, GamerGate had its open and public supporters. Let’s go through a few of these colourful characters now!

Carl Benjamin (Sargon of Akkad)

Sargon is your standard basement dweller youtuber, the kind of guy who DESTROYS libs with FACTS and REASON. He gained a lot of traction from GamerGate, and he explains why here. You can kind of imagine him as a more extreme Ben Shapiro.

Richard Spencer

Another Nazi. Richard Spencer was a big supporter of GamerGate. You can look into himself if you like but frankly I don’t want to do the research into him because that means I have to watch and read shit he has said. His main claim to fame is being the man who coined the term 'Alt Right’

John Bain (Totalbiscuit)

Totalbiscuit was a popular game critic who died of bowel cancer in 2018. He is widely credited with being the man who legitimised GamerGate. It should be pointed out that Bain was never a white supremacist or abuser or anything like that - and he is often wrongly characterised as being more extreme than he really is. He was conservative, aggressive and thin skinned, but he wasn’t evil. To him, GamerGate was always about ethics in journalism, what defines a game, and politics in gaming. He had been an ethical crusader long before GamerGate, and so none of this is truly surprising. He was either incredibly naive or just wilfully ignored the fact that these online movements were just fronts. It is somewhat ironic how much he had in common with James Stephanie Sterling (once known as Jim Sterling before transitioning), another British pro-consumer activist and long-time collaborator, who was always on the total opposite end of the GamerGate spectrum. Indeed, most of John’s closest associates were anti-GamerGate.

I met TB once at a convention and he seemed nice enough.

Milo Yiannopoulos

During his time working at Breitbart, Milo was an outspoken supporter of GamerGate. His big thing was that he was a gay right-winger, and he used his homosexuality to deflect criticism for his views. He has since been banned from basically every site possible. Like many others, he seemed somewhat right leaning at first, but gradually unveiled himself as a full on nazi.

Steven Jay Williams (Boogue2988)

Boogie is a youtuber who came to fame through the persona of 'Francis’, in which he would put on a funny voice and rage about minor things. But gradually he became more popular just for being himself, and his own views. When GamerGate first emerged, Boogie tried to stay moderate, but his views got more and more extreme as time went on. In 2017, Boogie had a gastric bypass surgery, which made him lose weight. But after that, he revealed himself to be quite a nasty person.

Christina Hoff Sommers

Sommers is an author and philosopher of ethics, and a resident scholar of the American Enterprise Institute. She is probably the most 'legit’ of GamerGate’s supporters, and has carved out a niche in making right wing talking points palatable to the average person, before they move on to the more extreme online figures.

EDIT: Steve Bannon

As a commenter pointed out to me, I’ve left out someone important. While Steve Bannon himself was not very strongly linked to GamerGate, he was the founder of the heavily right wing site Breitbart, which gave a platform to Milo Yiannopoulos and many others. Bannon would go on to play a pivotal role in the Trump presidency.

Sexism in Gaming Studios

While this is far removed from GamerGate, it’s a case of 'the birds coming home to roost’. The movements that GamerGate helped to start have returned and taken many large game developers by storm in recent years. I thought I would go over some of them.

Part 1: The Fellowship of the Rats

The first big publisher to go under the magnifying glass was Ubisoft. In mid 2020 they came under fire for sexual harassment allegations.

Last month the company, one of the world’s largest video game publishers with a portfolio including Assassin’s Creed and Far Cry, launched a probe after allegations of sexual misconduct were shared online. Serge Hascoet, chief creative officer and the company’s second-in-command, has resigned, as has the human resources director, Cecile Cornet, and the managing director of the Canadian branch, Yannis Mallat, Ubisoft said on Sunday.

MANY of Ubisoft’s executives were forced to stand down.

This video goes into a lot of detail on exactly how much of this abuse was covered up at Ubisoft.

Unfortunately a year later, Ubisoft had made minimal changes. Luckily for them, the spotlight would soon be stolen away.

Part 2: The Two Lawsuits

This particular controversy concerns Activision Blizzard. After a two year investigation, the company was found to have extreme harassment against women and minorities, and has discrimination baked into its terms and conditions of employment. Everything from compensation, assignment, promotion and termination is affected by gender. The entire company is governed by a 'Frat Boy Culture’. California’s Department of Fair Employment and Housing filed a lawsuit against them..

At first, Blizzard’s president Allen Brack claimed no knowledge of this. But then numerous former and current Blizzard employees spoke up to support the accusations. They insisted that almost nothing was being done within the company to fix it. On 26 June, more than 800 employees (eventually as many as 2000) signed an open letter too their leadership demanding that Blizzard recognise the seriousness and show compassion for victims. When that didn’t work, employees held a meeting and on 28 July, organised the Activision Blizzard Walk Out For Equality. Turnout exceeded two hundred.

Renowned scumbag Bobby Kotick released a statement describing Blizzard’s earlier statement as 'tone deaf’ and promised 'swift action’.

An article by Kotaku went into more detail on the infamous 'Cosby Suite’, and revealed that Ghostcrawler (one a high-up on World of Warcraft) was on the list of guests.

Numerous developers left the company, either in protest or due to allegations against them. More and more horrible stories began to emerge, far worse than the original lawsuit had uncovered. Sponsors pulled out, investors filed a class action lawsuit toward the company, and Brack stepped down.

You can read more about it here

Hilariously, Blizzard also completely neutered any remotely sexual or flirtatious lines, emotes and jokes out of WoW.

Part 3: The Return of the Gamers

Since then, numerous other companies have been accused of similar problems. Paradox Interactive, SCUF, Insomniac Games, Bethesda. In fact, it might be easier to list the gaming companies that haven’t had any allegations.

It turns out that the people who worked in these companies were often just as nasty as the fans.

Luckily, the reaction has been a far cry from GamerGate. On that, at least, we seem to have made some progress. And I suppose that’s something to be optimistic about.

A Troubled Legacy

So what is the legacy of GamerGate? It never really 'concluded’ or 'finished’. But if we zoom out on our scope a little, we see that it was just a tributary which flowed into the greater river of the alt-right. And from that river would spill forth Donald Trump, Pizzagate, Qanon, the Manosphere, and Incels. GamerGate was arguably just a microcosm of a much greater societal movement, not its cause, but it was the moment that young online conservatives began to push back against progressivism, and collectively organise. It was the moment where their techniques for censorship, propaganda and recruitment would be rewritten for the internet era. And it was the moment when thousands of online fascists looked around and realised their views weren’t that rare after all.

The positive effects have been there too, however. The push back against Gamergate has definitely helped us recognise the dark corners of the internet, and also led to widespread changes in the industry. But the consequences of GamerGate have not yet fully shown themselves.

It’s hard to say where it will all lead.

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knows what...? (serious question)

can you scientifically determine one's external anatomy by observing one's face?

can you obtain an ultrasound of a person's internal anatomy by looking at their face?

can you analyze someone's lab results to compare their specific hormone levels by viewing their face?

can you review their exact chromosomal data by looking directly at someone's face?

What can you tell about a person's biological anatomy and unique physiology only by facial appearance that hasn't been widely discredited by REAL science?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_Darwinism

Your fascist eugenic science will not prevent you from being thrown on the pyre with everyone you hate. Eugenics will not save you. Your efforts will not protect you or anything you love or care about. You will not be remembered or honored by sacrificing your lifetime and morals. Eugenics Feminism is conditioning you into performing acts of sex-based discrimination and misogyny, like the message you've sent me.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eugenics

Eugenics science is misogynistic. Eugenics claim that only an extremely limited number of female bodies are eligible to be categorized as "women" and this excludes many cis women with external female anatomy, all women of color (latina, asian, etc), all women with mental or physical differences... Eugenics reinforces the idea that every "woman" must conform to one stereotype: a female body, generations removed from any impurity, without any imperfections, whose sole value is her fertility.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eugenic_feminism

Your idea of what it means to be a woman never goes beyond being a perfect breeding machine for superior male bodied "men" and whose life is only protected, revered, or cared for to the extent of her capacity to continue breeding a "healthier human race." Your personal attempt to insult my appearance is nothing in comparison with the actual harmful ideas you are spreading to subdue, sterilize, and eradicate women you have no real value of or empathy toward.

Your ignorance and lack of education are contributing to the REAL danger and harms being done to children, teen girls, and women of all ages RIGHT NOW. It is very likely that you are not eligible to be categorized according to your own ideological beliefs. It's not too late to stop, learn how to utilize rational thought and critical thinking skills when studying new information, and discontinue this assault on women's right to life and liberty. You deserve to live in a world where you are not hated or mistreated for how you were born. "Well Born" politics will only ever lie to keep you down and in your place.

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time to reblog the gender critical post again 🙄

here are some more relevant additions 🏳️‍🌈

i seriously doubt anyone on tumblr is in the restricted category of wealthy upperclass people who make more than billions every year. stop believing the lies meant to keep you poor and uneducated.

(and yeah, the monstrum video is kind of an interesting reminder of how pervasive ableism is in our society and history of peoples.)

an intentional misspelling referring to both the exclusionary and inclusionary form of anti-trans and anti-intersex feminism on this website.

Gender critical feminists advocate what they call "sex-based rights," arguing that "women's human rights are based upon sex" and that "these rights are being eroded by the promotion of 'gender identity.'"

Gender critical feminists generally see gender as a system in which women are oppressed for reasons intrinsically related to their sex, and emphasize male violence against women, particularly involving institutions such as the sex industry, as central to women's oppression. Holders of such views often contend that trans women cannot fully be women because they were assigned male at birth and have experienced some degree of male privilege.

(...) the existence of intersex conditions does not impact the usefulness of sex categories.

Although trans people were active in feminist movements in the 1960s and earlier, the 1970s saw conflict among some early radical feminists over the inclusion of trans women in feminism.

Carrera-Fernández and DePalma argued that "the increasingly belligerent popular discourses promoted by TERF groups since the 1970s [are] appropriating feminist discourses to produce arguments that contradict basic premises of feminism."

Claire House noted in 2023 that "key streams within trans exclusionary women’s and feminist movements increasingly engage in collaborative action with right-wing populist-centered anti-gender coalitions, which include right-wing religious, conservative, and right-wing extremist actors."

In February 2020, 28 feminist and LGBT groups in France co-signed a declaration titled Toutes des femmes denouncing trans-exclusionary feminism, saying that "questions disguised as 'legitimate concerns' quickly give way to more violent attacks" and that "it is a confusionist and conspiratorial ideological movement using the cover of feminism to disrupt real feminist fights.

Gender Critical Feminism Wiki (source)

A Radical Feminist View of Gender Ideology - Maureen Young on The ACL Australian Christian Lobby (ACLOBBY)

How Liberal Feminism Turns Into Fascism by Alice Cappelle

Women's March: Feminism V. Womanism by Joya G

providing the above information is not an act of hatred, and i do not condone sending hate to anyone for any reason whatsoever! i am not interested in changing anyone's mind, and this is not an invitation for debate or challenging any person's beliefs. if you disagree with anything in this post, you can block and continue scrolling. there is nothing ill-intentioned in the above info and i don't hate anyone for having different povs

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the online queer community (and some IRL spaces heavily influenced by this) really did turn into "we accept everyone* here!" and then the text followed by the asterisk is like, nobody. at this stage i don't think the bulk of the community truly accepts anyone else outside of their own identity in their own little bubble. we're more concerned about looking like good people than actually being them at this point. we're more concerned about looking accepting than being accepting at this point.

gay, bisexual/mspec, intersex, aromantic, asexual, other queer and trans men are seen as terrible strictly because they're men. straight trans people are seen as "the enemy". lesbians have to fall into strict butch and femme stereotypes to be seen as even remotely acceptable. bisexual/mspec people in general are never accepted outside of their own circles. intersex people aren't seen as acceptable because some intersex people don't identify as queer. aromantic and asexual people have never been seen as acceptable and are still fighting for this every day. polyamorous people aren't seen as queer because some polyam people are straight. trans women aren't seen as acceptable unless they perform to toxic levels of womanhood and femininity and even then they're on thin ice with everyone around them. non binary, genderqueer and gnc people aren't seen as acceptable because they "just want to be seen as special" or whatever.

who do we even accept at this point? ostracizing ourselves into only interacting people who share our exact same identities is what's creating these echo chambers. we're not a community at this stage. we're just not, and we sure as hell don't accept each other. the sooner we realize this, the quicker we can move on and actually start accepting one another, and spreading love instead of violence. forcibly ostracizing people who should be able to interact freely with one another is violence and abuse, it's not being done to "protect" anyone, it's just being done to hurt and cause strife.

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alright, you probably figured out that i grabbed my toys just to play with myself in front of you after that piss break. it's cute watching you lap your tongue at the air, whining for a taste... 😈 "shut up, dog. you want me to get the muzzle?" you lay down over your paws and stare up with pleading, remorseful, and obedient eyes. "good." i continue fondling myself and checking how wet i am. when i'm sufficiently aroused, i stuff my fingers in your face, "go on, lick!" laughing and using my feet to hold you back as i resume playing with my toys and rubbing your doggy slobber all over my cunt. "what's wrong, pup? you don't need to go in the cage, again, do you?"

puppy play but it's just saturday chillin while we have breakfast and watch some cartoons. i'm lounging hard with my legs spread wide, cock kinda visible through the loose fitting boxers i have on, and my chest looking sooo fine in a sheer, white undershirt. i pat your back and say some stuff like, "that pup ain't got nothin on you, doggo. that's my good dog, yeah..." i get up to take a piss and you follow me, but i leave you outside the door to whine and softly bark. i sternly and calmly tell you to, "quiet down". opening the door once i'm finished with, walking out and commanding you to follow. "come on, doggie. did ya miss me that much?" i lay back in my seat again and pat the spot next to me, ordering you up, and give you nice scritches under your chin and on your tummy. you wag your tail, stick your tongue out, then lay down next to me. i readjust my pillow, lay back more comfortably and bring my leg up to rest near you. we continue watching the show until i get bored and decide to start using a vibe under my boxers, which causes you to make a noise at me. i ignore you, shushing you, and focus on rubbing more lube on my cock. ahh, that makes it feel better. i grope my chest and lift my shirt up, which makes you look up at me and whine. i softly nudge my foot against you and tell you, "quiet".

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kiss me through the muzzle

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