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“I don’t want control I just want to let you go”

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“I know I can’t be mad that you don’t like me back, but it’s quite frustrating. Nothing I do will ever be good enough. Nothing I say can change your mind. Nothing I wear will make you want to go out with me. Your mind is set, and not being able to change it has made me realize that life is set, you either roll with it or get lost through it.”

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Based off of this suggestion sent to @fierysuggestion

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Letting go of something you never had is harder than you’d think.

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The Truth,

Sometimes the ones we want aren’t the ones we deserve. Sometimes letting go is the right thing to do, why wait around for someone who wouldn’t do the same for you. Choose yourself, no matter how much you love someone if they aren’t treating you the way you should be treated then FUCK that. No one deserves to be treated less then what they are. So if you are in a situation where you are with someone and they aren’t appreciating who you are and what you do for them then leave. No point in waiting around on someone who isn’t willing to be what you need. Choose you.

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“there’s a woman reading this now with a heavy heart filled with confusion. you’ve been going through a lot lately and you’ve had a hard time with trying to find the courage to walk away, to move on. I know it’s tough but you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself. nights like this, you just lay there restless, holding your phone in search of something that speaks to your heart and I hope you find these words. I hope I have your attention tonight. you are capable of saving yourself. it’s time to choose yourself. it’s time for your heart and soul and mind to finally rest because after all you’ve gone through, you deserve to feel peace. you deserve to be fought for, you deserve to be loved. be kinder to yourself tonight.”

— r.h. Sin

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“to the woman reading this right now. at some point you have to realize that trying harder for someone who has chosen not to make an effort will only fill your heart with sorrow. to the woman reading these words right now, at some point you’re going to have to take your energy and invest it fully into yourself. you matter, you’re worth it and if they can’t see it, don’t force them. you will never need to compromise your peace of mind and emotional health for someone who truly loves you.”

— r.h. Sin 

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You can’t please everyone.

Ps you’re to good for them

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Feel the pain, then use it. #rockbottom

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Not everyone deserves you.

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Send your dreams where nobody hides #notime

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(Not the one )

Don’t be upset with someone for not feeling the same way sometimes shit doesn’t work out and I see that as gods plan. We can’t make everyone love us but we can love us. We are the only one who truly knows ourselves. Don’t stop searching and don’t settle I know it gets rough sometimes and we feel so melancholy about it. Life is a roller coaster it has its ups and it’s downs. Weather or not my roller coaster is on a constant downward spiral I always have hope that things will get better. There is someone out there for each of us and weather it not it’s the person we dated for 5 years or the person who we spent a week with and for some reason can’t not see them in your life things will get better. I promise you not everyone is all bad chin up soldier we got this!!

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(EX)

We all feel a certain way about this subject and I know it’s touchy and I know we don’t wanna talk about but here we go. This is to the ones who can’t get over their exes. Yes I know it’s hard to talk about and yes I know most the time our exes aren’t relevant but for me I wanna share my experience with you and hope you can relate. After my relationship I felt so alone so angry and I don’t even know if it was at him or at myself I tried to realize why I was so angry and why I couldn’t just feel better I know things get hard,After a break up. Something we need to keep in mind is we are strong.

Things just don’t get better over night no matter how cliche this sounds it takes TIME. A breakup is one of the most painful things I’ve endured and I feel like I’ve died in a sense or a part of me has died I know we all hurt in different ways we feel pain in different ways and we heal in different ways for me to get over what I endured was to let it hurt let it out, even cry just let my self be sad let myself feel the pain.I’ve become accustomed to what I once felt from the abundance of love I once had. For me to truly get over this hardship in my life I had to stop and understand we are all human we all have these feelings in which sometimes we don’t fully understand. Things happen things end and we can’t judge someone else for losing that feeling.We have to know that we are awesome and good things lie ahead for us only good things so keep your head up your mind clear and relax we got this.

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I’m not the same I used to be I have absolutely no feeling. #sunken #place #alone

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Somebody will see the greatness in you they will realize you were a diamond in a sea of coal. Somebody will see your worth. Be patient we got this.

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Evolve,

To evolve is to grow and to accept the being that you once were and are now evolving into. Accept who you are and take pride in your vessel, growing isn’t just simply getting taller or growing boobs, it is mental in some cases very spiritual we see life often as a mirage not as life actually is, some of don’t take the life we live seriously they don’t evolve, they are stuck. There is some of us who yearn to grow into something much larger, something more successful, we are those who evolve. Some may think we are vague and we are gray but sometimes it takes an uncanny being to make it to the top, to truly make ones dreams come true, sure you can say one who takes this road will become nostalgic, depressed but indeed,they are were they need to be,as long as ones soul is at ease the vessel may rest, and you have successfully evolved.