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You know what I'm gonna COMPLAIN!
Vanilla sex isn't "wholesome sex"! Sex is not more pure just because it's done within the framework of a monogamous relationship and free from elements of kink!
"Person is so pure they probably don't even know what sex is." Purity isn't defined by the distance from sex! As if the more a person encounters sex in any context the less pure their soul becomes!
You馃are not immune to propagating the beliefs and ideas of purity culture!
#^YES!!! THIS!!!#this reblog is way more eloquent than the thing i just posted#kind of wish I'd seen it before i posted mine tbh because mine is a little redundant now#eh whatev
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I agree with you but purity in the context that you're talking about it IS defined by distance from sex. it's also defined by distance from violence, distance from lying, distance from any act that could be considered by traditional followers of the christian bible* as depraved.
it shouldn't be a discussion of "oh don't worry, THIS thing doesn't make your soul impure," we should be making an effort to distance ourselves from the idea of the pure christian soul entirely.
you 馃 are not immune to propogating the beliefs and ideas of purity culture either - why should i give a fuck if my "soul is pure"???
*sorry if that's poor wording, i didn't grow up with much proximity to actual theological christianity; only its byproduct: cultural christianity - which i do acknowledge has a lot to do with my anger towards the pervasiveness of cultural christianity.
You know what I'm gonna COMPLAIN!
Vanilla sex isn't "wholesome sex"! Sex is not more pure just because it's done within the framework of a monogamous relationship and free from elements of kink!
"Person is so pure they probably don't even know what sex is." Purity isn't defined by the distance from sex! As if the more a person encounters sex in any context the less pure their soul becomes!
You馃are not immune to propagating the beliefs and ideas of purity culture!
#purity culture#no vitriol meant towards you op i totally understand where you're coming from#this is just something i'm passionate about and your post feels like a jumping off point#arggh i hope i'm making sense melts into a puddle and dies#egg.sob
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we need more pathetic female characters written by authors who don't hate women
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for all intents and purposes i'm this thing
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ok i've seen one too many robot girl posts and have had to do some thinking
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You shouldn鈥檛 date or become serious friends/partners with someone if you can鈥檛 stomach the thought of being stuck in a car or train with them for 16 hours.
#ignoring the weird europe thing i physically recoiled from the first part of this post because what do you mean TOLERATE#it would be AWESOME to do some kind of long haul journey with my partner#sometimes i get the impression that a lot of people don't even like the people they love
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none of the stuff i say about forcefem is a joke. i鈥檓 genuinely gonna turn your cis boyfriend into a puppyslut and there鈥檚 nothing you can do about it.
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i think my support needs are higher than they initially appear
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this whole "being a person" business is really stifling ngl
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