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PAC: What Greek Mythology love story would you and your FS be?

[pile 1 to 3- left to right]

Just came out of a bone-crushing healing and shadow work period for my Kundalini Awakening going on right now T-T In an attempt to raise my spirits, I created my very first FS reading-

pile 1:

General vibe of your love story with your FS-

This is the movie pile. I see a full-blown movie arc in my mind’s eye for your love story with your FS. I see an opening at- you guys meeting, the middle act- your separation and individual trials, and the final act- the happy reunion! OBVIOUSLY, there's nuance to how all of this will unfold for each of y’all reading since it's real life we're talking about, but your story with your FS is the closest thing to a happily-ever-after if I've ever seen one.

It's like when y’all first met, y’all were young, or maybe some of y’all didn't know how to handle a relationship or didn't have the resources in the 3D (think money or a place of your own, something like that) to make this relationship happen? Maybe it was long distance for a looong time? And so, for whatever reason (along said lines) y’all had to let each other go or y’all couldn't be together. It's like y’all were shown a grand possibility to be together, and BOOM it was taken away.

Then you guys enter a separation period right after, and the length of this period will differ for everybody reading, anywhere between months to a couple of years. After having worked HARD on yourselves ON YOUR OWN to overcome your personal issues, traumas, and suffering, you guys come together. The key to really mastering your obstacles is in the day to day. You will have set routines to tackle your obstacles, such as say you’ve got anxiety or a dys-regulated nervous system, so maybe you'll always have a stress relief meditation scheduled in no matter how your day looks. So on and so forth, fill in the details of this period as it best suits your life. But the common denominator, I feel like, is that y’all really fight to be with one another. The love is so deep here, and that's what motivates each of you to overcome your personal hurdles, yk? And THEN, when it happens, and y’all reunite, it's sooo beautiful. It's like you guys will build a brand new life together where you can put the past behind and finally enjoy the fruits of your labor! Also, I see you guys growing and blossoming over time with your FS upon reunion 🥺✨.

So… which Greek myth sums up YOUR love story with your FS the best?

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It’s the story of Cupid and Psyche!

From what I’ve read about this story, Cupid and Psyche couldn’t immediately be together after they met. Cupid could only meet Psyche at night AND she’s not even allowed to see him! T-T This was part of what Psyche has to overcome- the challenges put forth by Aphrodite just because the goddess was jealous of Psyche. And poor Cupid had self-esteem issues from what I gather lmao. He didn't even feel worthy to show his mortal wife what he REALLY looked like (which, by the way, is GORGEOUS af?! Like who hurt you, Cupid?) They eventually overcome their odds and reunite. Eventually, Jupiter blesses Psyche with immortality, which allows them to live forever in their new life happily ever after. Ahhh… beautiful.

I encourage you to read the original story (or watch it on YT, do whatever you like :p) to pick up on any additional messages! Buuut that’s all I have for you lovely folks today.

Love and loads of light, sweet pea :)

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pile 2:

General vibe of your love story with your FS-

Reeeeally strongly coming in right off the bat, I feel like both you AND your FS will be turning a brand new leaf in your lives. Think a new job for one or both of you. A major relocation for one or both of you. A major relationship ending for one or both of you. You catch the drift, right?

It feels like y’all will be closing out a cycle and entering into a new era, so to speak. And in this new era, I sense that you'll keep mostly to yourself and aren't all that interested in anybody because you're still processing this BIG shift you just went through and you're reflecting a lot, drawing on your wisdom, staying in your lane. Ngl, you do feel vulnerable and raw too, which is probably why you seem to keep to yourself mostly during the time you might run into your FS. I sense the same from their end too.

You know what this is? Mutual healing. Your future spouse finds you at a time when you're in the dead center of healing and vice versa. You will both be the catalysts to each other's healing! How cool is that? And after y’all find stability in your journey together especially after navigating healing for so long… I see y’all being so comfortable and content and peaceful with one another 🥺 this makes my heart full!! Stop it! Ahhhhhh <3 The vibes are immaculate, it's giving 'comrades in the battlefield' kinda energy. Your FS will stick with you no matter what, literally. And that's the kind of loyalty many people only dream about. Love it 🤌🏾. Y’all will love each other's pain away 🥺😩. Ugh my heart can't take it anymore!

So… which Greek myth sums up YOUR love story with your FS the best?

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It’s the story of Odysseus and Penelope!

Now in the story of Odysseus and Penelope, both of them undergo significant changes and face major disruptions in their lives. Odysseus’s long journey home from the Trojan War and Penelope’s long period of waiting and dealing with suitors at home. BUT even in Odysseus's absence, Penelope remains faithful and focused on her own survival and household. Similarly, Odysseus endures many trials and tribulations. Both characters are found in a state of self-reflection in the face of personal challenges (in my humble opinion of course). Their reunion symbolizes mutual healing… both of our characters here show incredible loyalty and perseverance despite being apart for 20 years!

-Side note: on a completely different note, your story low key kinda reminds me of the story of James and Claire from Outlander >< shoutout to the Outlander fans hehehehe, I'm waiting for the 9th season to come out SO BAD ughhhh lmao-

I encourage you to read the original story (or watch it on YT, do whatever you like :p) to pick up on any additional messages for yourself! Annnnd that’s all I have for you lovely folks today.

Love and loads of light, sweet pea :)

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pile 3:

General vibe of your love story with your FS-

Ah.. my Pile number 3s.. you guys are afraid to love.. aren't you? You might be blocked off from your heart and as a result won’t be open to true reciprocal and healthy love for a WHILE. But then I see that the divine will enter your life in some way and shake you up in a big way to show you how you've been standing in your own way and keeping love at a distance.. I'm seeing the tower card in my third eye as I say this even though it hasn't come out for you today.

Ah, this is like a personal journey I see you taking before your FS comes in and swoops you off your pretty lil feet 🙃 tehe! Your energy seems quite mental to me. You love living in your head, thinking, planning, analyzing, and just knowing things. But this came at the grave cost of not being connected to your heart.. and when the divine intervenes and helps you connect to your heart again is when your FS comes in flying ✨.

Side note: Ooh.. suddenly I hear Lavender Haze by our queen Taylor Swift? Take that only if it resonates for you :]

But yea, I see you struggling and feeling out of control when all of this happens because you're used to being in control of things usually but now all of this has you a bit overwhelmed I'm ngl.. but you end up navigating this perfectly well! Yay! I'm glad haha 😅🫂👏🏾

So… which Greek myth sums up YOUR love story with your FS the best?

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The story of Pygmalion and Galatea!

Yup, just like how Pygmalion accidentally manifested Galatea, you kinda accidentally manifest your future spouse too (low key reeeal funny ngl). Because Pygmalion refused to love anybody, he sculpted out his perfect woman and fell in love with his creation. His deep affections attract the attention of you guessed it Aphrodite herself, and she decides to ahem intervene. She brings Galatea to life, which represents the transformation of Pygmalion's mental fixation (and emotional disconnection) TO emotional CONNECTION. How perfectly beautiful. Ugh. Love your story, Pile 3. Gosh.. who doesn't love their FS simply falling into their laps? Haha

I encourage you to read the original story (or watch it on YT, do whatever you like :p) to pick up on any additional messages! Soooo that’s all I have for you lovely folks today.

Love and loads of light, sweet pea :)

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Venus aspecting Pluto

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READ BEFORE YOU PROCEED: This post is about the conjunction, opposition & square between Venus & Pluto but people with trine & sextile might relate to some of it. This post contains both positive and negative observations. These are my personal observations and not facts. The whole chart has to be taken into consideration.

Early heartbreak or betrayal can lead to them developing a paranoia that will take a lot of self work to heal. Most times it was their first serious love breaking their heart in some way.

This heartbreak was usually a huge turningpoint in their life. They transformed completely after it both physically and mentally. They often become a ”bad girl/guy” after it and a whole new personality is born. The bitch/fuckboy is born.

Women with this aspect might become the typical ”gold digger” or ”man eater/femme fatale” to feel in control. Now shes the one who uses others to her benefit and that way she protects her heart.

Men with this can become the typical womanizer/fuckboy. The bad guy. ”Trust no bitch” kinda guy.

People they get involved with usually have a huge glow up after meeting them. Their partners want to fit their standards bc they see how much attention the Venus/Pluto person gets.

So they might start dating the nerdy guy/girl and all of a sudden this ”nerdy person” (horrible expression I know) starts working out, changing style, wearing makeup etc. Sometimes ever copies or becomes like the Venus/Pluto person.

This is why people with Venus/Pluto should never date someone who looks up to them too much. People cant help but compete with plutonians.

These people can be very vengeful especially towards ex partners or ex friends. They take their relationships very seriously. ”The crazy ex wife” ”scratch his car” kinda people.

Men with this aspect who are into women might control women with their money. Might want a stay at home wife to keep her away from other men and so that she is financially dependent on him.

When in love they might make themselves crazy by constantly checking their love interests social media, thinking about them, talking about them or in extreme cases even locating them.

Might be drawn to ”toxic" relationships that emotionally distress, upset & even traumatize or emotionally scar them because they can be emotionally addicted to drama or even pain.

Might be fascinated or attracted to ”bad people”. Might find themselves rooting for the bad guy on tv. They find darkness so fascinating they want to merge with it, making them get involved with some pretty bad people.

These people can love to the point it physically hurts. They love to the core and often never completely get over the person they loved.

People of the same gender might try to steal their partner to show that ”I can get him too”. Everything they touch turn into gold.

Their parents or a parent and a stepparent might have had a toxic relationship where they broke up and made up constantly. So they learned that love is supposed to be intense.

There could also have been a powerimbalance between the parents so they learned to be attracted to power imbalance. One parent might even have been an empath and the other a narcissist.

Ive noticed a lot of people with this placement had a mother who suffered from post partum depression and not being able to properly nurture the Venus/Pluto baby which resulted in an intense need for intimacy in the Venus/Pluto person also making some of them fixated with women.

They could have had a female preschool teacher they were completely attached to because the mother was unavailable.

There is a darkness to the appearance too even if they are pale or blonde there is often still a dark undertone to it all. Im so tired of the word sex appeal but thats basically what they have. They are sexy and they often emphasize this with dark makeup or clothes since they often have a dark taste.

Strong reactions from others is something they experiences early. They are the ones who started hearing that they were pretty when they were too young to even know what pretty is.

Other peoples unattractiveness will often be projected onto them in some way. If someone feels bad about their appearance they are very likely to make that the Venus/Pluto persons fault.

People also often never have a lukewarm reaction to their looks. Its either omg you are so beautiful or calling them ugly, this is because they are projecting their own insecurities onto Venus/Pluto. So their reactions from others is completely dependant on how the other person feel about themselves, especially physically.

At some point someone made it their mission to make them feel ugly out of envy or because they cant have them. Their appearance could even be a common topic for others to talk about.

They might get alot of inappropriate unwanted ”advice” from others like ”you should do a microneedling to get rid of that acne” Maybe you should get a gym membership”.

If you are one of the Venus/Pluto people who often experience this you HAVE TO comment back. Thats the only way to make it stop.

In their teenage years most of them will befriend a woman who becomes completely obsessed with them. This woman will hate them in silence and act like a friend, they will become close. This woman might start to copy their outfits and try to imitate them. Ive seen this happen with especially every Venus Square Pluto Ive known. The scariest part is that many times this woman knew of the Venus/Pluto woman before they met each other, they had their eyes on them even before the first meeting. Be picky when choosing female friends.

Men with this tend to have women fight over them. If this man is toxic he might even turn women against eachother to boost his ego. I was with a guy with Venus Square Pluto and I have to admit I was acting out of character.

Ive also seen men with these aspects get baby trapped. They attract very shady partners because they are attracted to mystery. Also bc people want to trap them.

People with this often have their partners want to make matching tattoos with them to mark them. Their partners seem to be very worried about the attention the Venus/Pluto person gets.

Their partners might do a lot to make the Venus/Pluto person less desireable in the eyes of others out of fear of losing them.

People with these aspects who grew up unattractive and later had a glow up can become very fixated with status, being a powercouple, their prefered sex, having a trophy partner etc while ppl who grew up with attention go through a period where they conpletely let go of themselves.

While these people are often victims of other peopels envy they can be very envious of others too.

Can often struggle with an obsession with their appearance, others appearance, their love interest, sex, power & money.

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︎︎⊹ ! ೀ Pile 1 ꒱

Right away, your future spouse is a scarily hard worker like a hardcore hustler. They’re often thinking about their work because to them it’s a huge responsibility, they are always thinking about ways to work harder and do more in terms of work, to make their work better in some way. Also, they’re someone who doesn’t show when they’re struggling. They follow the classic philosophy of “if a problem can be solved, there’s no use worrying about it and if it can’t be solved, worrying will do no good.” They’re really wise and mature, they’re also refined yet raw. Due to how refined, wise and mature they are, they might not fit in with others because unfortunately, most people are not that way, in fact, due to how people feel intimidated by them, others could act as if your person is the superficial one and the fact that despite their refined nature, they have candid and clumsy moments, and are just so down to earth leads to others misunderstanding and criticising them but they still choose to practice gratitude and stay true to themself. They’re also able to maintain a very “fake it till you make it” mindset, except they’re not even really faking it, they believe that a person doesn’t become ‘somebody’ just because they achieved stuff externally, they believe that a person is always ‘somebody’ before they even achieve anything at all. Which is why they pay curtsy to everyone and try to maintain a confident, elegant and abundant mindset. They’re also very independent. They are able to overcome and grow from every obstacle that they face. When they’re faced with the consequences of their actions or even just bad luck.

If they can think about a time when they did something that caused someone else to experience a similar situation, they just take it as bad karma and work through it with grace instead of victimising themself. They’re able to accept both the positives and negatives that may cover their way because they understand that that’s just the way life is. They understand that life is a growing experience and that life would be very boring if it weren’t for the ups and downs. They have something very ‘dream girl/boy’ about themself. They’ve dealt with moments when they’ve felt like no one was there for and with them. They’ve felt left out in the cold and unsupported by others. They’ve dealt with break ups (be it romantic or platonic) but have been able to find solace within themself. At such times, when life seems to be throwing curveballs their way, they go within themself to find answers, they look to the past and move forward while still making the most out of their present. They’re also extremely loyal regarding matters of the heart (love of any sort - romantic, platonic, familial, so on and so forth). They’re extremely ride or die and because they themself, have experienced low moments, they know how to connect with those who are struggling. They have a lot of empathy for those they love. They try to understand their loved ones on a close personal level, desiring to know their vulnerabilities, weaknesses, shadows and skeletons, wanting to love them through it all. I hope that you enjoyed the reading and that it resonated, much love and take care, until next time 💞.

︎︎⊹ ! ೀ Pile 2 ꒱

Your future spouse is extremely ambitious, they have it in them too push forward despite the self consciousness, fear or criticism from others. They are very fiery as a person and pretty connected to their inner child. They actively think about their childhood and try to work through any issues that may have stemmed from back then. They know how to have fun and act childlike at times. They know how to play with an idea and let it grow into what it wants to be over time. They know how to not commit to things that may not lead to the results that they desire. They’re also really good at communicating and especially when writing, the writings that they put out - be it an email, message or article, they try to make sure that it has a certain eloquence to it. They’re extremely charming, I’m getting ‘Rasputin’ by Boney M. They possess a natural charisma due to their ability to use words to their advantage, have fun and their fiery nature when it comes to life, including their ambitions. They’re probably really popular among the ladies (if it’s a man that you’re inquiring about) 😭. How dare they? How dare they be attractive to girls who are not you? Ahaha, well, good for you though, they’re a total heartthrob. Despite, their fiery nature, they have a certain grounded quality to them, they know how to adjust their priorities in order to experience the life that they desire to live. They also have a tendency to have their work consume them, when they’re working, they dislike having anyone even talk to them because they’re so immersed and focused, and they work really well. They prioritise play and know how to have fun but they don’t do it at the expense of their work. They’re very intense, when they work hard, they work hard and when they play hard. they play hard. They’re quite a flirt honestly but when it comes to love, they’re very loyal, they desire to be their partner’s fully and to have their partner be their’s completely too. You may wonder why being this way is admirable but it truly is, they have a very well rounded character.

Even though they’re popular with the ladies or gents (depending on who you’re inquiring about), they do not forget their own values and character. They know how to hold themself to high standards while still treating those around them with respect. They know how to climb the social ladder without scamming, cheating and lying to people. Also, random but their sexual capabilities are great too, their tongue does more than just spew out charming words after all 😔. They know how to put themself first and be an old school respectable person in many ways. They know how to value certain traditions and values without putting down those who aren’t traditional. They know how to have a nuanced understanding of everything and understand that everyone goes through phases. They know how and when to give tough love, they also know how to grow through tough love. They’re very intense so if someone hurts their feelings, they’ll either outright cut them off, refusing to communicate at all or will stand up for themself very firmly. If something doesn’t make sense to them, if they feel wronged, they are going to fight back for themself. They’re also going to stand up for you and fight for you if anyone wrongs you. When they love people, no matter how many arguments or troubles may come in, they don’t leave them. They have it in them to ride until the end. However, when things do end, they have the ability to realise that if the other person gave up or treated them a certain way, the loss wasn’t even great to begin with. They have strong self respect and will move on completely without any attachments at all if wronged. They’re very loving and caring though, they pay attention to the little details and also express love in grand ways. They’re also fiercely loyal once committed so it makes sense as to why they get so angry when they’re wronged. They’ll always have your back though. I hope that you enjoyed the reading and that it resonated, much love and take care, until next time 💞.

︎︎⊹ ! ೀ Pile 3 ꒱

Your future spouse is really good with words. They’re very charming and they do it in a very swift, and unsuspecting manner. They’re adored deeply. They’re very childlike and ambitious in their thinking. They are able to have free ambitions the way children do. They’re quite fearless, they have it in them to push towards their goals regardless of what the outside world may be saying because there’s a certain childlike quality to the way they think. They prioritise passion and excitement, they explore different hobbies, skills and things. For them, stimulation is very important. They’re also always able to stand empowered. This pile is similar to pile 2 but pretty different at the same time. Your person is confident and doesn’t fear things as much as pile 2’s person does. They’re also very competitive, they excel in almost every field and they’re known for it. Just a really multifaceted person. They’re well skilled in multiple areas and things. They’re really loveable, they know how to have fun and when they’re around, it’s automatically more fun and lively. They have a very “we live once, might as well do it all” kind of mindset. Their reflexes are impressive too. Also, they’re a fast learner. They overcome obstacles with ease and grace, pretty fast too because they don’t even let anything get to them. They’re consistently working on their goals causing them to achieve their dreams pretty quickly and efficiently. They have a strong sense of direction and don’t let their head or actions go to the wrong places. They’re communicative and are able to keep up with fast paced, high energy environments. They’re a crazy competitor to have in this fast paced world.

Success is attracted to them just because of the way they think, are, act, etc. They’re hopeful regarding everything and are also able to make friends easily. They’re consistently making progress in life. If right now, them and another person were in the same position as an intern, they could come out as a CEO in just a few years while the other person would have come up to be an employee. Not only are they this strong, fun and dynamic personality wise but also very mature when it comes to emotions. They try their best to understand the emotions and mindset of the other person. They like to form peaceful resolutions and have the understanding that healthy relationships require compromise. They don’t mind making major sacrifices for those that they love. They try to communicate and move on from resentments. They truly do want to make it right with those they love, even with those who they don’t have attachments to, they choose to be the bigger person. Also, due to how much they have and their mindset that’s whole and mature yet childlike, they’re genuinely happy for others. They know how to clap for other people’s achievements and genuinely mean good, genuinely feel happy for them. I aspire to be more like your future spouse ahaha. Also, even though, they’re forgiving, mature, sacrificing and try their best to communicate, and work through differences (they’re really good at accepting people’s differences, especially their loved ones’), once they’re done, you’re as good as dead to them. I hope that you enjoyed the reading and that it resonated, much love and take care, until next time 💞.

[elulsdr]

say it once again with feeling

how the death rattle breathing silenced as the soul was leaving

the deflation of our dreaming leaving me bereft and reeling

my beloved ghost and me

sitting in a tree

d y i n g

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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS 2

virgo, libra and pisces babies just post the damn photo already. you've been looking at that photo for 3 hours and asked 8 people if you should post it. like.. JUST POST IT. YOURE SO BEAUTIFUL MMWAAHH

leo and sag placements are some wild mfers. they dgaf!!! if you wanna do some crazy shit and never get bored go get a fire sign bestie. they will try anything out of curiosity and they're not gonna look stupid because they're hot af and luck is on their side ;) ⭐️

yes taurus please tell me everything about the show you're currently watching. i can sit hours just listening to you. you look adorable and no, you're not annoying me <3

legends say a gemini could smell a gossip from 10 miles away and run as fast as flash to tell about it to their fire sign bestie.

libra sun+scorpio rising men should burn in hell because damn they're hot and THEY KNOW IT!!! it's so annoying 😐 just don't open your mouth and let me enjoy the view

aquarius placements and their 89 social media accounts from their childhood and funny photos 👩🏻‍🦯 i know about that youtube channel you had when you were 9 🙂

cancer women give the best hug. end of discussion

'how to lose a guy in 10 days' def gives off libra and aries vibes!!! very passionate and teasing love! (libra for Ben obvi because he's so charming and aries for Andie because she's so confident and playful) i love love love this movie!

i could get lost in scorpio risings eyes... they read people like a book and i love it

venus signs and having a breakdown trying to fit in one aesthetic. baby you look good in everything!!!

sag/gemini placements love gambling, card games and they are really good at it.

virgo placements love the past. they have a really hard time trying to get over their past and tend to stay in toxic relationships because that relationship is what they know and it's their comfort zone. they don't want to come out of there. they may collect so many things as memory. they love writing letters to future and reading them.

aquarius/11H placements may questioned their sexuality as if they're asexual or not. no need to label tho. do whatever you're comfortable with.

cap risings are SO HOT. they are like a model. everything about them is just *chef kisses*

cancers and virgos stomachaches when they are stressed </3 it sucks

virgo mars are scary because they analyze and plan every little move they will make and are 10 step ahead of you. always. they're all about satisfying too so they're really hotttt and make you feel great

pisces, leo placements are so good at hyping their friends up. it's so cute because out of nowhere they'll be like 'you're the cutest/baddest bitch in the world' IT MAKES US FEEL SO GOOD I LOVE YOU GUYS

-Rum

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thank you so much for reading. this one was a bit shorter. i hope you enjoyed it, let me know what you think. have a lovely day! and in case i don't see ya, good afternoon, good evening and goodnight:)

[elulsdr]

WHAT DO PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU?

PILE 1 PILE 2 PILE 3

hey guys, it's my first pac ever so i would love to have your feedback. this pac also has random messages too rather than what do people think about you.

it's mainly about the messages i got. i hope it resonates⭐️ (i swear i'm better at personal readings LMAO)

PILE 1

people think you're very self oriented and love to have the power over them. maybe you have leader qualities and they can see that. i'd say they think you're more likely to choose logic over emotions. they think you're def the overthinker one. they know you know you're worth and know when and what to say something. they can feel that you like to be seen as cold hearted and powerful. in your head being numb equals having power. people think you're very materalistic as in, whatever you wear you make it seem expensive. people think you're very soft inside but don't let a lot people in. sometimes they can sense that deep down you're really insecure and they can see the other side of you. where you're not sure of anything you do, you don't trust yourself enough. sometimes you come off as really complex and a lot. you seem to be stuck on something. you want to let it go but can't really do it cause you get used to it. so that's why people can sense your imbalance energy. you could be indecisive or air headed these days. still, people know you have the strength to get over it. you could intimidate people at first but when they see the real you -which you dont show it to many they love it. maybe you got hurt on the past, that's why you put a mask like that. you could be very obsessive, and passionate about the things you love. you come off as competitive too.

PILE 2

oooh my broken heart pile.. if you recently gone through a breakup, doesnt matter if it's romantic or friends. people see youve been thru ALOT. you show it to everyone whether youre aware of it or not. people can sense the broken energy. you keep trying to explain your feelings? or what happened between you and the other person and they're like, can she move on already?? but it's cruel to think like that. cause i feel like this relationship somehow connected to your inner child. maybe the relationship helped you with healing your inner child that's why you felt those emotions that hard. people think you're sensitive and a romantic. everything i said was in the past, your energy now seems very refreshing and stepping ahead. also i have a really bad headache rn, are u ok? take care of your health and make sure you sleep enough. you have many sleepless nights. anyways, people see your steps to a better life. although you might got addicted to the new me concept and ignore everyone who tries to help you or tries to talk to you. you're like, i don't want your help i've been by myself all this long i can take care of myself from now on. they are a bit annoyed by this. they think you're a bit stubborn. DEF a hopeless romantic. don't try to burden everything and try to move on with your life asap. take your time to heal. and take people's help -only the ones who really care tho. aww i just got the 3 of swords. pls keep your precious heart safe bby. your love is enough and you will find someone that loves you as much as you love them. (wow pile 2's photo says the exact same thing, i didnt mean to do that lol)

PILE 3

hey pile 3, why do you feel so alone even if you're out with your friends? you like to ask people for advice but somehow you don't trust them as much as you trust yourself. i mean good for you but people -maybe your friends can tell that you're faking your feelings sometimes? maybe you feel the need to be happy around everyone even if you feel like shit. they can tell that. there's this person you are stuck on. it seems like you arent able to let them go. people really wonder about you guys. you could be a heartbreaker too. you and your friends are sarcastic people. people could get annoyed by the fact that you guys have fun lol. people think you have it all and you will have it all. they dont like the fact that they cant get a piece of you, your space, your time. it's like, there are people who want you but you got someone else on your mind who you seem to cant have. you like to learn more and more. you're very smart and people like that. but there's just this unknown people love about you. you have the friends, you have the grades, you have the face but what is it that makes you sad(?) and broken? people wonder the shit out of this lmao and you don't give them a chance to understand it. you tend to zone out a lot during the day and your thoughts makes you go nuts. people just seem to curious about you. they don't know enough. the more you don't give them the chance the more they wonder. people feel that you have tons of other shit to do than answer their questions. they know they don't deserve to steal your time like that.

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MY FIRST TUMBLR POST EVER !!

hi everyone ! these are just my observations i hope you enjoy it <3

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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS

sag and capricorn placements LOOOVE coffee. or doing anything while drinking coffee. some of them may use it as a coping mechanism because it relaxes them.

virgo placements with leo influence people are SO bossy. they dgaf. they will always be there for you and expect you to do the same. they value loyalty more than anything.

cancers love to show you their cute side but bestie their sister sign is capricorn so they will show you who the boss is.

leo mars people are so scary when they're angry. they could get angry at anything.

sag placements are so blunt, it's actually so funny. they could say the most absurd shit out of nowhere. and the more you expect them to shut up the more they keep going💀

scorpio placements love to keep things secret. like they could have a crush on someone and NOBODY would even know. and most of them do it because they don't want to make this a big deal. BUT they're the most secret keeper person ever. they could know everbodys secret but no one would've know theirs.

venus influence in a natal chart along with pisces could make a person really easy going and well liked. but if they don't have strong mars/mercury influences they may keep silent at anything. ex: they could get bullied by their friends as a joke, even if they don't like it, they would laugh it off. they may be very sensitive. they care sm about their friends.

i know i've said too much about sag placements but they're the type to be "know it alls" they love to brag about it. and they always have something to keep their time with. whether it's a new movie, book anything. they're always the one who knows it first and better.

capricorn placements dress so well. i reaaalllyy love their style. it's always so clean and cute.

libra placements feel so misunderstood sometimes that they don't want to explain themselves. they know that they can fix things by themselves so why would they tell someone to help them.

- also they're not flirting they're just being kind. people who don't understand this always misunderstoods and labels them as big flirts. yes they have charm and all that but they know themselves best. they are aware of their presence and everything.

having leo placements doesn't always mean being confident. if they're undeveloped or harsh aspected they could be so shy and self conscious.

yes libra placements are social butterflies but have you seen geminis??? they could speak to annyyyone and be friends with them but that would be literally it. no further than that. because they're ruled by mercury and are very chatty that makes them really talkative. they may tend to overshare.

cancer moon 8H undeveloped could be SO toxic. they would care for you so much but once you put your attention to something else they would get so jealous and toxic. once they trust you enough they won't let you go. they don't want you to be anyone's but themselves. "i hate everyone but you" kinda trope.

having scorpio moon 1H is really hard because scorpio is all about being secret when 1H is about 'self'. these natives have so many paradoxes in them because they have TOO much mood swings and it scares them. and because of that they are scared that their feelings are gonna scare their partner so they keep it secret </3 i am a scorpio moon 1H myself :')

virgo/aquarius/6H/11H placements may love astrology, mbti types, enneagram etc. because they LOVE LOVE analyzing themselves, their friends and family. it helps them to understand everyone and themselves better. because they are so logical they want to understand why they feel or act like that.

yes mercury signs love to talk but they are completely different. a gemini could talk nonstop, 24/7 about how their day went while a virgo would get straight to the point. virgos don't like long and slow things. they are practical and value their time so much that they will tell a 15 page story in 3 sentences.

-Rum

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AHHH HI EVERYONE!!! i am literally so excited i actually never posted anything here and my first post is this?!?! i hope you like it please let me know <3

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i am lacking so much motivation its crazy

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What you should know about yourself?

#Revelation of self

What are the things you've been gifted with since birth and how it reflects in your personality .

General reading, take what resonates; leave what doesn't

Please let me know which pile you picked 🌞

In depth, smoke reading

Pics and dividers not mind , credits to their original owner

My pac's are inclusive , Your comments, likes & reblogs are appreciated I read em all & i love it (:

Pile l . Pile ll. Pile lll.

Pile l

Note: Remember i'm reading your energy not your self perception, so please be mindful , a lot of times our self perception intervene with our real self and creates distruction in self concept (:

Please ignore any mistakes

Your Quote: I'm everything you can't control

Okay you guys let's begin

You guys are strong and resilient, someone who doesn't shy away from asking what they want , you realise your value and potential and how its beneficial for others , you'll be defending people when everyone is silent, its my " i want you in my team pile " ... You guys are not sheeps who'll just follow anything and everything that's going on , there's this regal energy of "i know who i am" & you cant trick me , at times when you're insecure you dont let others feel it , i'll describe you as a wolf someone who stands with their people, someone who's strong and unafraid of the challenges not that you're not afraid but you show your bravery when its time , which stands within you , you guys have a lot of self respect for yourself which is instantly noticable you dont believe in lowering yourself so that others could shine you dont let anyone get under your skin , see if someone's Making fun of you as a " joke " you wont tolerate it , cause it's disrespectful and offensive, you guys have strong boundaries and are good at discerning which is why you can easily see through people and it can scare them but its also a good quality as you will help aligh them with their true self , something tells me your opinion matters ? Do you have like a platform or are you in a leadership position? Do you guide others? are you that no b.s friend ? Are you a healer ? you guys realise everyone has their own potential , its on them its not your responsibility to guide them so you just do the needful , you may carry new moon energy, fresh perspective / new ideas could come to you easily , you guys have a strong self impression of yourself or others could feel so .

This pile is not meant to be tied down , I'm getting alchemist someone who creates and is not afraid to try new things you guys are relient so others trust you easily with their secrets , you guys could create or restablish things easily even ,you can solve conflicts , you are that strong backbone which stands forever with the same intensity which you were once born with , you cant be tied down and you have interests in a lot of different subjects which makes it interesting to talk to you , this pile is a lot about make time for me , dont talk to me during your free time .

So i feel that you guys are born with a gift to inspire others with your fierce personality, your confidence, your words , your intelligence and your optimism in life you can make others believe in things which seems impossible or unattainable, ngl there were some things which made me insecure and it affected me long time like since 4months and editing your pac is really making me hopeful about my future projects and yes i feel inspired overall which is amazing, i'm hearing passion for life ,maybe you guys dealth with a lot of issues yourself growing up and you had a hard time believing in yourself but also you weren't completely hopeless , you pushed through and dealth with it even though it made you weak for a moment you were able to break free from those patterns , you knew you can do it and you have the ability and the strength to overcome the things which was thrown at you , you could have suffered from various issues regarding mental health or a disease. You are a great friend and a great leader who pushes others to be on their best behaviour and i think that's why you're admired by many .

How will i describe your energy : Cheetah , Colour to best describe you : sapphire *blue* is a lot about knowing btw .

Extra messages : Blue ,Shrek , lasagna, Asturias *you may have some connection * , nebulla , sharon , mars in 5th house, claustro phobia , titanic , Christian, van gogh, high school sweetheart

You could have these placements or you project this energy: astrological details: virgo moon , libra mercury , pluto on the ascendant, inner planet falls in fire , water rising , Uranus 8th house , taurus placements, January-july , 9th house -3 rd house

Thank you for tuning in !!! Have a great day ahead .

Pile ll

Note: Remember i'm reading your energy not your self perception, so please be mindful , a lot of times our self perception intervene with our real self and creates distruction in self concept (:

Please ignore any mistakes

Your Quote : you know who i am .

Lol you guys this is so funny , I just saw a vision of a baby who was staring right into my soul lmao

You guys could be my introverts , someone who's very cautious of others and their intentions, you guys just dont give and exhaust yourself you believe in give & take , you guy's have a great sense of balance , you are connected to nature or nature is to you , you may attract bugs and birds in your space a lot , seems like others wonder about you often , you guys are grounded i love that , you could love analysing and reservhing about various aspects of life like history , fundamental cores , current affairs , you guys have a strong voice and you carry this righteous energy , you may feel like this generation is not for you , maybe your interests could be a lot different than others but you dont seem to be upset about it , if i have to describe your energy its the cup of chai after a longg day 😭 , i feel as though others look upto you because you function differently help that sounded so wrong but i'm just getting this different energy , its chaotic and calm , you guys may attract people who are different from you thats why yeahhhh got it , i see your smoke going in two different directions you guys may feel you are passionate individuals you are not just sweet its like i can do both i can be a spidermen i can be barbie *sorry ☠️* i feel as though i need to come up with something new to get your attention its hard to get your attention forget about keeping . Others are very invested like they wanna learn about you , oh you could be a writer or someone who's good in narrating the story ,you hold this silent power which draws others and its hard to understand at first , you are someone who can venture out on their own its hard to tie you down , you seem eaay on the eye but you're that final weapon who'd end it all . You scare away THE bullies like these are not just high school bullies these are workplace bullies , pessimistic family members , people who bring others down , sadistic people, you guys dont take their shit and it scares them because you dont back down, its giving the new bitch in the town , you guys may look very calm and composed however you're not quite you realise the power of words , the power of no ! i feel as though you guys actually scared the evil spirits when you were younger the spirits who were trying to bring chaos in your home there's something with the protecting the sibling too like you didn't let the tar spirits be around you its very scary tbh , your eyes its the fucking eye's for me , something about your eyes : remember eyes are the window to your soul , you guys give me mother energy someone who's overprotective and courageous, the fact that you guys were a baby its what gets me 😭✋🏼help ....anyways back to your reading. Your energy is someone who seeks respect and love , your third eye and your heart chakra is activated most of the times if you didn't knew , your archetype is of Mother , you embody that energy , its a lot about self sufficency , you guys could make others concious because you carry a self righteous energy , its kind of scary tbh my hands are turning cold , you are that typa person who everyone knows is gonna succeed in life no matter what happens to you , you may value your craft , your teachers , your education and yourself , like you take yourself seriously ....you are not playing around.

You guys are not someone who'll back down when there's responsibility ahead , you are a great shoulder to rely on ,you guys dont allow others to treat you a certain way not everyone has access to you pile ll , you guys could be very connected to your religion, your people, your roots and you believe in unity like you believe that others can transform with you , you might be great at interpretating various relationship styles and disciplines that an individual carry , you are someone who dont give a f about differences you accept people as " people" not as a religion or caste , you're not that stupid person in the room who'll discriminate others or be against em just because of few things which are different than your values & beliefs system you do not insult others , you could have great interpersonal relationships like your people know you are all that . Pink is the best colour to describe you -pink is fertile , comfort , confidence, charm , self love / You guys could be saturn baby someone who's inner planet is a lot about earthy elements, someone who's quiet healing, someone with Capricorn,virgo or aqua placements dont worry about the signs its just the energy, i feel as though others project a lot on you as well specially authoritive figures you can puss them easily , you change and transform, you teach others how to live one's life and not be stuck in your mind or by how others want you to live your life , you guts could bring a lot of karmic cycles as well because people are meant to learn through you and this could be uncomfortable for many . I feel like since birth you were kept alone mostly like your guides kept you deatched from any labels because they were preparing you for something big its like others couldnt figure you out easily they made their assumptions and went along with it , they couldn't hurt you because they didn't knew how to get you this is such a cryptid message honestly take it if it resonates i'm kind of finding it hard to decode you would know it better .

Pile ll . You guys are gifted with a lot of things , i cant pin point , but the things which others might find hard to achieve you could be unapologetic in getting those be it fast learning , intelligent working , decision making, skart processing, creative analysis, you were able to make decisions by yourself from a very young age , you're someone who doesn't live inside the void , someone who believes in making themselves so capable that they wouldn't need others to help them in any way yeah ... Its very much i nurture myself, i can give you a lot of quotes which energetically aligns with your personality .... you can never Break my strength, i' always win typa people, you guys are not people pleasers and you are here to please anyone. You remind me of characters who feels like they need support but they dont *if that makes sense* or maybe i feel as though its your inner child ; your inner child was so used to sacrifice parts of themselves to nurture others growing up but it had to learn that others are not here to protect you or give to you , you'll have to gain respect, you'll need to let go of things which doesn't serve you , you'll have to protect yourself , which sounds very harsh and its tough for a child to feel that way . Your shadow healing may be a lot about your inner child and the " lessons" it had to learn , others ignorance i mean responsibility which they failed at , it could be speaking abt anyone ( a friend, a parent, a sibling, a lover or anyone you felt close to ,but betrayal is there ) anyways That movie "fall" you remind me of one of those girls who survived on their own when her friend was dead .

How would i describe your energy: Cobra

Extra messages: LOA community muslim , zero, arianna policy, soft toy ,judas , copy , Spotify, gelatin , capsules, sweetheart, fan , Netflix, mailyn monroe , memes , satoru gojo , jinny ,Elvis Presley , late night show , makeup , gypsy , kurt cobain , jazz ? Jinx ? Festival , SMS , guj ?

You could have these placements or you project this energy: sun in 2h , 4-8h axis , semi quadrant , jupiter semi squars pluto , cancer mercury , aqua rising , Uranus 9h .

Thank you for tuning in !!! Have a great day ahead .

Pile lll

Note: Remember i'm reading your energy not your self perception, so please be mindful , a lot of times our self perception intervene with our real self and creates distruction in self concept (:

Pls ignore any mistakes

Your Quote: its me against the world

Gosh i' have re-edited your pac twice 😭i need a hug

You guys are my golden children , good at everything and anything ,Now you guys could be Leo's or you guys just exclude that bright i got everything under my control energy ,your mother could have a lot of doubts when you guys were born , maybe there were some complications that were not shared with anyone but you guys are a gift to your family whether they accept it or not ,after you were born there was a lot of spiritual energy which came with you , happiness was restored for many years . You guys are meant to bring happiness in others life you are meant to uplift others , you are meant to slow down others you will let others see beyond the hasty life you give me kuta bali vibes .

You are one of the bright child of earth , you make people feel supported you are a good friend and a good lover , because of you others are able to believe in humanity , you really give me the vibes of that person who'll stop to admire the fallen flower , since you're so connected to your inner child others feel comforted in your presence, you have this inner fire which cant be relinquished , you have a great sense of style , people love how witty you are , people love your fashion sense , you're appreciated by others a lot whether you realise this or not . People feel as though you are meant to be different, you are not gonna live the same life you are not meant to follow traditions, you are meant to venture out on your own you are meant to mingle with people of different generations and interests .There's this philosophical and hardworking nature . You are meant to attract attention in life , people defend you in your absence, you have this emergy of dont tell me what to do , dont make decisions for me which is really attractive . You are that friend who's honest , you could work well as a creative director, dancer , teacher , something involving beauty and creativity you carry this ♌- ♎ energy , you could do well with mainstream media , you are great at managing so you could be a great P.A , a therapist , an organiser , a manager . You could be my Queer people 💁 if say hello , You give me Rose vibe from titanic, that character- the way she was fierce and accepting of others was something else she had an identity and she was self aware , she loved what she did and was a proud person . In pile l and pile ll there was not a lot of memtion regarding others but in this pile uff its filled with it 💚🤌🏽

You dont look down on yourself, maybe you're that young child of that family who's challenging outdated beliefs, you guys are updated with the genz you are not criticising the change , you are being the change , people really love your presence you're admired greatly for your personality, i bet you wont be left alone even when you're old people will always remember you as that cool person , you leave a strong impression on people, i feel like you really need to hear this because you have been feeling overwhelmed, you need to rest a need to isolate is real so dont beat yourself for it and do whats best for you , you dont need to help others if you dont feel like , you can say no , your struggles are real and i validate it , we all go through it and i admire your strength .

You don't control people you naturally influence people,you may attract a lot of people who are in need of guidance, you make others feel good about themselves you may be the type of person who acknowledge little traits in other people which seems very small but in reality its a big thing in their personality you're analytical about the abilities others posses and its charming because you pick up on things which are hidden from their own close one's but you do it so easily, its like you are an accurate predictor for instance ...Oh you like this singer i bet you're a fashion icon yourself , And others are like wtf i am but how does this person know from such a small thing . Lets say someone is looking like an eye candy & they're wearing a green shirt ...you are the type of person who'll say oh your favourite colour is green ? You know these kind of people are so connected to others and are intune with their own emotions and others are like wtf? I Literally wear green rarely and this person is able to pick up on that + the reason why i like it? Like how tf ...Its like you already know someone from a young age * BAD EXAMPLE 😭✋🏼 but i really am speechless* you just seem so cool like you give me QUEEN ADELE VIBES YOU GIVE MADDY PEREZ VIBES you leave a strong impression on others . You guys are hotheaded as well but not immature and stupid , you like to do things your own way , you dont like to bring diwn others heck no you hate those people, you are so iconic pile lll . Like bitch you are that person that everyone instantly likes you are noticable and you're chaotic-neutral LMAO you define that people are not meant to be perfect , they can be free and wild they can do whatever the fuck they want , they're the boss of their own reality . There's a lot of 18+ messages you'all lets just keep it that way . You guys are so oblivious of others crushing on you ✋🏻.bestiee what... you are my hype group fr .

Ngl i love your energy

How will i describe your energy: siren mythological creature , yellow & turquoise is your colour .

Extra messages: Swiftie, persian , kuala lampur, rottweiler, sworsvyki, metal , lovely , Rani Mukerji vibess , ai , meridth , classic beauty , satire , carnelian , switch ,kpop , prixie , retail , thrift shop , online love .

You could have these placements or you project this energy: Leo 1st house , pluto square uranus , venus-mars , virgo sun , libra6h , taurus mc , 12h saggi , pisces moon , Uranus -sun ,4th house placements .

Thank you for tuning in , have a great dayy!!

[elulsdr]

Mars ☄️ and Your Sexxx Language 🐱💋✨

QUICK MESSAGE TO THE BADDIES

HELLO!!!! To all of my sweet, sweet Kosmic Baddies, Oh!! How I’ve missed you!

I cannot believe it’s been over a FRIGGIN year, but GOODNESS….believe me, when I say this past year has been a roller coaster for me, I truly mean it. I can only imagine what’s been going on in your lives as well. Just TOO MUCH!!!1111!!!!!111!!!!!1 But welcome to 2024! A universal 8 year and the year of the Dragon!!! WE IN THIS THANNNNGGG!!!! Hard work, discipline and accountability is the theme, and we can’t lose!!!!!

Believe it or not, I actually STARTED writing this to have to you for Halloween, but ummmm….this is looking like a Valentine’s Day post instead! HA!!!! Blame it on my Saturn in Pisces– my relationship to time is….non existent. But, I think this timing is better anyways. The theme is very fitting so we are going to turn apples into oranges.

***Even funnier update, now it’s past Valentine’s Day….GOODNESS!!! This has been the longest it’s taken me to write anything. Like…INSANE. Almost 6 months I’ve been steadily working on this!

Thank you to those who have continued to support me! Thank you to those who have continued to share and interact with my post through my…let’s say, hiatus! I am planning to put more energy and effort into this blog post. I LOVE writing for y’all, it is really one of my favorite things in the world.

I am going to take a moment to apologize in advance and say, the typos are probably going to be real with this one. Because I’ve been working on it for so long, I’m just ready to get it out, so it won’t be my cleanest work. I will probably be updating and editing, so bare with me!

🕯 INTRODUCTION 🕯

Sooooo….where to start? I wanted to do something fun and interesting this go round because I missed y’all so much, but I also wanted to do something light so I could get back into the rhythm of writing again….aaaaaaaaaand I thought you would enjoy something a little smexiiiii as we move into cuddle buddy season. So, in this post, we are going to talk about Mars and Your Sexxx language.

One day, as I was driving around town, it dawned on me that we always talk about Love Languages (check out my Mercury post if you haven’t already) and we never talk about sex languages. And y’all know me, and if you don’t know, you’ll soon find out, I am a Bharani moon (atmakaraka at that); and the blending between Mars and Venus is my soul’s most valuable asset to share with the world…(Did I mention my moon is the 11th House?) Sex is one of the most taboo topics (in Western puritan culture, at least), yet such a powerful resource in our human tool box and it’s ridiculously important in our relationships. The 7th House is followed by the 8th House for a reason. Intimacy, of course not always sexual, is what leads to self-discovery, the 9th House. So we cannot overlook the important step that is sexual relations. Even the word “orgasm” means “little death” and death baby, is as close as you get to God. (See how those houses flow together so well?) Hence why things such as Tantra are a sexual AND religious experience all in one. Don’t be fooled by western/christian ideals into thinking that sex is unholy or ungodly. If you think Jesus was a virgin, think again. I mean, what’s the point of turning water into wine if you’re just going to roll over and go to sleep? Y’know what I mean?

Don’t worry! If you’re a less experienced reader, and haven’t engaged in aaaaallll thhhaattt… this post is still for you! In fact, this is one of the reasons I love astrology so much, because hopefully this post will give you some context about yourself and what your SOUL craves, not just your body, so when you do start “doing the do” you can be spiritually comfortable with your wants and desires instead of ashamed or even afraid of them.

Not to put all my business on the street…but, hey, I love y’all, so I won’t keep too many secrets from you (mercury in the 8th, HA)…but, I had to do quite a bit of bumping and grinding to discover what my soul needs in an intimate relationship and I wish there was more of “guide” for me on that journey! So HERE…I’m giving it to you!

WHAT IS A SEX LANGUAGE? 😈

To be completely honest, a “sex language” isn’t something as defined as a love language, so please, bear with me as we discover this together. Please feel free to share any experiences or insight with me. Although I may not always respond, I TRULY appreciate you taking the time to share with me. I try to read everything that I can!

I’m defining sex language as how one creates and shares intimacy in their close relationships. This is particularly expressed through physical interactions and outward expressions. Mars is a planet that governs our passions, drives and desires, meaning our sex language is guided by what we deeply want and crave from our partners on a spiritual level. Venus represents more of the external notions that we have for love and relationships, while Mars represents our internal needs from love and relationships. Mars is inherently a more personal and “self-centered” planet, so interestingly enough, your sex language is all about you! I go as far to say, when you find a partner, don’t forget to check your Mars compatibility as well. If you have extremely incompatible Mars signs, you will have to do a lot more work in the relationship to overcome the constant friction. Moreover, if you have more compatible Mars signs, then WOOOO BABY, the sexual tension could be off the charts!

✨ ABOUT MARS ✨

Mars placements won’t make or break a relationship, per say, but it is a very important layer to help maintain a relationship. How many of you have heard of sexless marriages and people being unsatisfied in their relationships in a sexual way? Does that mean the couples always break-up because of the lack of sex or chemistry? No…..But does it help a HECK OF A LOT when you are wildly attracted to your partner? YES! (Of course this isn’t always a good thing…but for the sake of this post, we are only talking about rainbows and sunshine.) Just keep this in mind as you start to use this knowledge in your journey. Mars is a really important planet that is easy to overlook because it’s not in the Big Three! (Yet, it iiissss the natural ruler of the 1st House).

WHY IT ALL MATTERS 🌚

I truly believe there is a shift in the collective and many couples are going to be coming into union over the course of the next year or so. Why? Because Ketu is FINALLY transitioning out of Libra and entering Virgo. If you’ve noticed, we’ve seen quite a bit of celebrity break-ups and covid relationships coming to a screeching halt. Hence why I say, if you’ve been single, or haven’t been in a serious connection in the last few years or even ever, now is the time that your next partner might be going through some significant ending with an ex. Union is on the horizon for a lot of souls who have been doing theeee spiritual work. That’s why I couldn’t think of a better topic to get started to set the mooooooooood. Bow-chicka-wow-wow.

So without further ado, let’s get into the nitty gritty. I’m going to do something different and start with Mars in Pisces/12th House and work backwards to Mars in Aries/1st House! I thought “Hey! Why not switch it up a bit? Pisces shouldn’t be forced to scroll ALL the time!”

***Note: If you’re feeling extra spicy, you can read for whatever sign is in your 1st House and 8th House as well because those are traditionally Mars ruled Houses. And you can read for your 12H, because the 12H is also the house of bedroom pleasures! Always keep in mind that we are complex creatures and astrology is like a puzzle, so it’s okay for some things to resonate and other things to not. Learn as many perspectives as possible so you can define yourself!

With Love & Lust,

Enjoy!

A-D 💋

Mars in Pisces/Mars in the 12th House

“Cut me like a rose, turn me like a beast” Only- Ry X

If your natal Mars is in Pisces or the 12H, you may actually have a hard time knowing what your desires are. Why? Because Mars can feel as if it’s drowning in the deep spiritual waters of Pisces. Your wants can be quite dreamy. You crave a sexual experience that transcends space and time, forcing you to leave your body and touch God himself in ecstasy. (I’m a western Mars in Pisces, so…I get it). When it comes to your sex language, you want your partner to just get “you”. You don’t want to have to explain or talk or direct, you’d rather just receive and give a special type of unconditional love that knows no bounds. Because of this “boundless love”, you may actually, literally, lack boundaries. This doesn’t have to be a bad thing, so we are going to focus on the positive. You are truly accepting of those who are accepting of you. Because Pisces is a mutable sign, you are willing to fit into whatever box your partner wants to put you in…and you receive great pleasure from making a deep seeded fantasy of your partner come true. You could be just as playful and imaginative when it comes to role-playing as a Gemini.

Because Mars is in Pisces or the 12H, you’ll find that a lot of partners will project their wishes and dreams onto you. Hence why you want a love that is really deep, because people can get washed away in the shallow end of your energy without ever fully realizing how deep your waters flow. This can be frustrating. And because Mars isn’t the most comfortable here, you can have some unhealthy ways of expressing your sexual frustration. Particularly if your Mars is in the 12H, you can be attracted to self-gratification through self-pleasure and also self-harm. You may even conflate the two, harm & pleasure, and have a dark side to your sexual fantasies. Your passions and desires can end up being repressed because people may not understand them, or be able to meet your high expectations. Amd babes, I love you, but just know, your expectations out of partnership are OTHERWORLDLY. But no worries!! You are SUPER DUPER freaky and almost a guaranteed partner that will go down in history books, particularly after you get comfortable in your own sensuality.

One of the things to watch out for with this Mars, is you can be passive-aggressive in the bedroom. You can take a more passive role, expecting and energetically demanding that your partner take the lead. You may not realize you even give off this energy, but the internal need that you have to dissolve into your partner, like sugar into water, can be very intense. And the gag is, sugar doesn’t really fully dissolve, so what you’re seeking can be impossible to satisfy on the earthly plane. Because of this, it is IMPERATIVE for you to have spiritual outlets within your sexual connections. It may be that you and your partner practice Tantra, or you simply pray together. With this Mars, you can absolutely use sex as a tool for manifestation. Watch your thoughts during sex, because you truly can create MAGIK!

Mars in Aquarius or Mars in the 11th House

“I believe in aliens, I don’t believe in love” Familiarity by Teezo Touchdown

If your natal Mars is in Aquarius or the 11th House, you are something special. Why? Because out of all the signs, you are the most unique lover. I KNOW!!! How friggin’ cliche, Aquarius=Unique, blah blah blah…boring. YES! It’s said all the time, but it’s the truth. In Vedic Astrology, it is important to note that Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Rahu. This is hugely impactful as to why you are unlike anyone else. Even as you read this, you won’t be exactly like the next person reading this, because the Saturn Rahu combination can be influenced by so many different factors. Aquarians are the hardest sign to write for in general, simply because you are going to be very individualist when it comes to how you express yourself. Now, all that being said, you still crave, very deeply, a sense of belonging. So please, don’t ever take for granted how special you are. If someone is lucky enough to break through your hard exterior, they really are in for an extraterrestrial experience!

Because Mars is in an air sign here, you may or may not be the most sensual and/or sexual person on the planet. You could be. But you could not be. And that is the gift…or curse…of this Mars placement. I have Mars in Aquarius myself, and I remember reading an article that said “this placement can be infuriating to your partner because you are so nonchalant.” And I can definitely say I’ve lost relationships because the other party assumed I was disinterested because I wasn’t the most expressive when it came to my emotions. It’s important to remember that Mars in Aquarius/11H is actually a neutral placement. It isn’t a death sentence or the worst thing on the planet, but it’s not necessarily the best. So don’t be too hard on yourself if your partners don’t understand you very easily. You will just have to do more work to learn how to communicate and accommodate in your relationships. This may be something that follows you throughout life…and forget your partner….it could be infuriating to you! BUT NO WORRIES! Mars in Aquarius or Mars in the 11th house is usually more concerned with developing and nurturing friendships, which seems to contradict the more lustful side of Mars. Longing for friendship and connection versus longing for sensual pleasure and connection can be seen as two different things.

What Mars in Aquarius/11H wants more than anything is L. O. Y. A. L. T. Y. Because this Mars placement can grant so much freedom, it is imperative for the person with this placement to feel safe and secure in the sexual relationship they are building. This is NOT to be confused with possession. Expecting loyalty from a partner isn’t the same as feeling as if you own your partner. You believe that your partner should have freedom to express and live their life the way they want to, and you expect the same in return. However, you do expect your partner to consider you when they make their decisions in life. It is very much “give a dog a bone, leave a dog alone, let a dog roam and he’ll find his way home” (S/o DMX, may he rest in peace). Meaning, in your sexual language, you want your space and privacy, but you want to feel a belonging no matter how far away you are from your partners.

NOW, for the fun stuff. You are one of the most explorative lovers on the planet. You may have a “the more the merrier” type attitude and be interested in group smexii time or oragies. You may have a dream to experience Amsterdam and the Red Light District. The beauty in having your Mars in an air sign/house is that you can remain detached from the sexual experience and partner– therefore, you may not experience jealousy because you aren’t super possessive. Again, you’re all about freedom baby!!! You may also have some pretty “far-out” kinks. You may be interested in different genders, or same gender, or mix gender or no gender or latex or pantyhoes or dress up or furries or hentai or tentacle porn….and if you’re not into it, chances are you will at least click a questionable link or two. You don’t carry the same shame as others do when it comes to what turns you on sexually. You don’t like anything boring or too routine, so your search history could be a bit…odd….BUT HEY!!! As long as it’s not hurting anyone or anything and pleasure is being derived from all parties involved, then let adults do what adults do is kind of your attitude.

Friendship is the key to your heart…and to your…uh…biological box….lol. When it comes to long-term relationships, I can bet my bottom dollar that you’re far more interested in the friendship aspects than the inherent relationship drama. When your friends ask “why are you still dealing with them”, you will follow up with “well, we are friends before anything else.” And you mean that deeply. The really funny thing is…on the other hand, you are also very likely to get down with complete strangers and never think about it again. You can hook-up and detach with the best of them, or your loyalty to a confidant can keep you in a relationship for a very long time…it. Just. depends.

The one thing that is true about your sex language, is that you speak ALL different kinds. When you look back at your life and your experiences, if you are more of an adventurous Aquarian, lets say you have a lot of air and fire in your chart, you will most likely have all kinds of stories from all different people and places. You will be one of the most interesting partners and friends to talk to about all the mixed bags of experiences that you’ve had..which is awesome. If your Mars in Aquarius/11H is paired with a more “earthy” sign or even water, you will most likely have a rom-com type love thing happening…that tugging “will they/won’t they” energy at the beginning of relationships, only to fall head over heals with the “guy/gal next door”. You may also find your sexual partners online, in a group setting or be hooked up by natural friends. ���How’d you meet?” “Oh, I heard from a friend of a friend that that d*ck is a ten out of ten!”

Mars in Capricorn or Mars in the 10th House

“My vicious love, My lethal heart, I wanna screw you up into me” - Bad Bad Bad by Ramsey

If your natal Mars is in Capricorn or in the 10th House, then your sexual language is money, money…and….uh….more money. I kid, I kid…but not really. It would be easy and predictable for me to say you just lust after money, but it goes much deeper than that. Believe it or not, Mars is actually exalt in Capricorn, so, you couldn’t have a better Mars placement. Your natural ruler Saturn and Mars truly are the best of friends. And if you’re familiar with Tarot, then you know The Devil represents Capricorn energy and The Devil is all about seduction and temptation. Unlike some of the more dreamy Mars placements like Pisces/12H or Cancer 4H that use their sexual language as an escape from reality, or the detached air placements like Gemini/3H or Aquarius/11H, who are too aloof to harness Mars’ energy, YOU my Capricorn/10H individuals are acutely aware of how powerful the nature of sex can be…and most importantly, how it can be used to your advantage.

To the average person on the street, you may not seem like the super sexual type. You prefer a sophisticated lover to a “cute” one, so people can assume that your standards are too high. And perhaps, your standards are high, because you understand the value of your presence and your time. In fact, you HATE wasting time, so why would you waste time on lovers who don’t bring anything to the table? Sadly, for most of the public, they won’t ever have the experience to be with a Capricorn/10H Mars because quite frankly, they can’t afford it.

Funnily enough, I’m sure as you’ve been reading this, you’re like “dang…am I that shallow?” And the answer is yes and no. You’re shallow because we live in a shallow world– and you know in order to survive it, you have to use what you got to get what you want. The other side of this is, you’re not shallow at all because you are willing to work and discipline yourself and sacrifice for those that you truly care about. There is such a depth to you in the long run, that it makes sense that you make it really difficult for people to get to you. Because you know and I know, once you’ve committed to someone, you’ve committed for as long as you possibly can. Your sexual language is all about stamina and endurance. This is true in and and out of the bedroom. As an earth sign/house, you are a sensual being. You enjoy each and every bit of romance that you can get. A nice meal, some good perfume, dressed to the nines is all considered foreplay to you. You entice your partners with a certain dignified class and only the brave will approach. In your younger years, you could find this extremely frustrating at times because men will really have to get their sh*t together before they can even THINK to approach you on that level. But the more that you use your Mars to get you where you want to be in life, partners will follow behind you and constantly buzz around as if you are the Queen Bee and they are mere workers for your attention.

Funnily enough, you are quite the heart-breaker with this Mars placement. Because you are so focused on your goals outside of love, and yet, you can crave sensual pleasures, you will be very direct with a partner, but they may not be aware of how serious you take yourself. How can this manifest? Let’s say you meet a partner and everything is groovy, but you are working on a big project for work, you’re working on a degree of some kind, or you’ve said you won’t rest until you make partner at the big company…unlike other Mars placements, you won’t let romance sway you or take you off track. You are probably the best example of “right person, wrong time”. You don’t have as much of an issue as other signs walking away from a situation that is distracting you from your more worldly desires. This can leave people utterly confused, because you seem like a perfect partner, but honestly, you’re just not focused on aaaalll the drama that can come with fully committed relationships. People may actually take this energy and say that you’re a player…or worse…a floozy (one of my favorite words lol, definitely needs to make a comeback). You actually aren’t. You will be one of the most committed partners they could find, but if it’s not the right time…it just ain’t happening. So your partners will have to maintain some level of patience or they will miss out. On the other hand, because Mars is a planet of extremes, you may go through periods in life where you are celebate. It may take you awhile to stop channeling that Martian ambitious energy into your career and put it towards your sexuality. That being said, you will enjoy the more sensual side of sex. You could have great stamina and endurance. Because sex may not come around as often as you’d like, you will learn to savor every drop of your partners and please them in a calculated, thoughtful and masterful way! How smeeexxxiiiiiii!!!!!

Mars in Sagittarius or Mars in the 9th House

“I’ve been everywhere, man, looking for someone. Someone who can please me, love me all night long” Where Have You Been by Rihanna

If your natal Mars is in Sagittarius or the 9th House, your sexual language is that of many languages. You fall in love with the exotic, unknown and unexplored. You like your partners like James Bond likes his cars– foreign. You appreciate partners who expand your understanding of reality. Your partners have to expand your mind…and body…into positions that you never thought were possible. If you don’t attract partners who are of a different race, culture or class from you, then you will be attracted to partners who are otherworldly and spiritual or are just as serious about their religious beliefs as you are. Like Mars in Pisces/12H, your planet is ruled by the planet Jupiter, aka Guru. You NEED to learn from your partner. You NEED to explore with your partner. And you NEED to be able to teach your partners something as well. “I wanna know…can you show me…I wanna know about the strangers like me”...It’s giving…Tarzan and Jane. I have Mars in the 9th House, and it has manifested in a very fun way! So with my bias, I believe that this can be one of the more fun placements if you just go with the flow. Unlike other Mars placements, you don’t necessarily feel the need to control your partners. You’d much rather experience them, learn the lesson and move on to the next new shiny thing. Much like your brother, Gemini, you are equally as invested in getting the knowledge and seeking more knowledge. You of all signs are unlikely to overstay your welcome in a relationship. You can come off quite restless and unsatisfied…UNLESS you are just fascinated and enamored with an individual.

You can find yourself attracted to people who have accents, or speak a different language than you. But you will be even more turned on by someone who shares the same religious beliefs as you. You may actually be willing to convert religions for your partner OR, and this is more likely, you have a partner who is a different religion than you are, and instead of being ashamed by it, or making it an obstacle, you embrace it– ultimately respecting their religion, while maintaining the traditions of your own.

You will naturally desire to travel with your partner. Making some of your favorite memories in life when you made-love in some far off land. If the sentence, “I made love to a Frenchman I met while eating a baguette at the local cafe under the Eiffel tower and I’ll never see him again, but he’s the love of my life” turns you on…congratulations, you’re in the right spot.

This Mars placement is fueled by your deepest desire to see the world and its deepest truth, and then just imagine how much you can learn about the world through the lens of an intimate partner. Your sexual language, like I said earlier, involves language in and of itself. You want to hear the stories of distants lands, fascinated by the foreign nature of your divine counterpart. You will want to be intimate with partners who can speak for hours and hours about their adventures and endeavors. You need to be intrigued at the very least.

I also find that with this placement, there may be an age difference in your relationships. You either will be attracted to someone who is much older and wiser, OR, interesting enough, you could find yourself with someone younger. Why is this? You will appreciate a person who still has zest for life. You will be equally attracted to partners who are bright eyed and bushy tailed! Plus, I know I’ve talked a lot about your partner entertaining and teaching you, but the truth of the matter is, you will want to be as much of a sage to your partner as well. You will enjoy teaching them the ways of life and the pursuit of happiness. They will look to you with eyes of wonder as you paint beautifully vivid pictures of your life experiences that have shaped your view of the world.

Another element to this Mars placement, is you are one to challenge authority. This may manifest in your sex language by liking to explore BDSM culture in some way. Because this Mars is all about freedom, you may be turned on by the thought of your partner controlling you…just so you can say no. You can come off as a “well, make me”...kind of lover when it comes to foreplay. You love a challenge and you like partners who challenge you in some way when it comes to living out your sexual fantasies. Another way this may come out is you AND your partner may have a knack for getting into trouble or enjoying sex with some kind of risk involved. You get off being able to sneak away for a quickie. You’ll have sex in the backseat of a car. Joining the mile club is definitely on your bucket list…all the things! Because you are such a rebel, you tell stories that have “normies” clutching their pearls and leave their mouths open. You want to have memorable sex that is worth writing a book about!!!

I can not drive home enough how spiritual your sexual relationships have the potential to be. You are not a shallow lover. You are a lover full of wonder and full of lust…wanderlust…if you will. Sagittarius/9H is a very serious zodiac/house. You're destined to seek truth– so your sexual partners HAVE to enlighten you in some way. You don’t want to get stuck in the mundane, boring stuff of a relationship, (and please, don’t get too carried away, because we do live on planet earth!) you want to experience shrooms, talk about God and make love in the forest! Smexxiiii!!!!

Mars in Scorpio or Mars in the 8th House

“Every breath you take, every move you make, every smile you fake, every single day, I’ll be watching you” Every Breath You Take by Sting

Okay, okay, it would be all too easy to say your love language is stalking, and more stalking and even more stalking, but…that’s only a small fraction of what this Mars placement has to offer. If your natal Mars is placed in Scorpio or in your 8th House, your sexual language is that of raw passion and intensity. That being said, it is also about restraint and self-restriction, and sometimes self destruction. I tend to find Scorpionic energy and 8H energy to be radically internal. You, actually, may not be the most expressive lover. You are more comfortable waiting, studying and planning to pursue a lover, rather than going in full force. Because Mars is your natural ruler, Mars is more than comfortable here, but unlike your brother sign, Aries, you are more of the “planning” part of war, rather than action. This is the strategy of self-defense more than anything. You don’t want to walk into an intimate situation to be intimate yourself, you want to extract vulnerability from your partner like a detective solving a murder crime. Your sex language is more of a riddle than a question. And you would like a partner who intrigues you and leaves a lot of mystery. In my many many years of dating, and many many encounters with Scorpionic energy (I attract them like flies…it’s crazy) I always find that Scorpios are nowhere near as mysterious or hard to figure out as they perceive. Behind all that black and dark stares and gazed is usually a pretty pretty boring, but shy person. There is such a caution with this sign when it comes to acting on those very deep and sometimes all consuming desires, so you are very careful to not put yourself in harm's way. Another hot take that I have on this placement that may seem a bit contradictory to the Scorpionic stereotype is YES YES YES, you are smexxxxiiii and all of the things, but that doesn’t necessarily make you the most sexual person. You take intimacy and sexy very seriously, more seriously than most, because for you intimacy and vulnerability can be used against you and be seen as a weakness, so you are hard pressed to just be going around willy-nilly swinging from partner to partner. You also view sex/intimacy as more of a “power” thing than a “love” thing. And what do I mean by that? You know that deep intimacy and truly being intertwined with another individual gives you an unreal amount of access to that person on a personal and spiritual level. It is always important to remember where Scorpio/8H lines up in the grand scheme of things. It follows the Libra/7H of partnership. The 8H is actually the house that dictates how a relationship will play out. This. Is. Imperative. To understand this placement. You are far more focused on how the partnership plays out, rather than the partnership itself. Again, unlike your predecessor, Libra, who is ruled by Venus and may be more interested in the looks of a relationship and romantic partner. Your sexual language is more interested in the psychology of your partner. You don’t care nearly as much about the outside as you do the inside. What draws you to your partner is a need to access the ultimate truths through your partners. Hence why, you are followed by Sagittarius/9H of Truth and Liberation. Your sex language involves restraint, power and hidden truths.

As I said before, it may be really difficult for you at times to truly connect with your partners because your energy can demand sooooo much from them. You will require partners to go through such depths in their relationship with you, that they may not be able to handle it. And on the other side of that, you may stay away from relationships because you may mistakenly feel like it brings out some of your “worst” qualities. With this Mars, you may go through a very intense relationship when you’re young, one where you give your all, I mean…you would kill or be killed for those you love, and because that relationship fails, you may never want to experience those types of lows again and stay away. You are one of the most loyal of the Mars placements, so you are very careful to study who exactly you are giving your loyalty to. I recommend with this placement, you may find yourself oddly attracted to Aquarian/11H energy. It sounds weird, water and air, but in this case, Aquarian energy is endlessly fascinating because they are so unorthodox, you will never truly figure them out, so you’re constantly intrigued by them. Aquarians also value loyalty the same way you do. They will allow you the freedom that you need to sit in your own emotions, but value the friendship in such a way, you won’t feel abandoned by them. Even if the people you are attracted to don’t have Aquarius in their chart, I think that quality is something you should consider when looking into intimate partners. It is probably the partner who gives you the most space and it is the hardest to figure out, that will give you the most in life. If you have a partner that is easy to conquer, not only will you be bored, but you can easily slip into those darker energies of control and manipulation to get you way…even when it’s unnecessary.

AAALLLL that said, you are still a hell of a lover! I mean…wow. You intricately know how to please and conquer. You use sex as a language itself when you’re ready and willing. And man, do you have a way with words. You can easily hypnotize a lover to fall under your command, so be careful with this gift. You are more than comfortable in this arena once you move past your fears in the subconscious. You can channel this energy, much like the exalt Mars in Capricorn to succeed with some of your greatest ambitions. You will put your sexual energy into your work and projects in a way like no other! Just don’t take everything so seriously! It’s okay to have a good time. Be intimate and open up some! You’ll enjoy getting your head out of the sand!

Mars in Libra or Mars in the 7th House

“What a rush & what a high, cause when your love don’t fight, smoke gets in your eyes” Smoke In Your Eyes by Skepta, Ossie, Harry Stone

If you came to this section thinking that I was going to talk about how sweet and balanced you are when it comes to your sexual language…THINK. AGAIN. BABE. You are nothing of the sort. Seems contradictory, huh? Because Libra/7H is all about balance, right? Well…not when it comes to this Mars placement.

If you have your natal Mars in Libra or the 7th House, you are quite the spicy lover. To be completely honest, Mars is VERY uncomfortable here. Why? Because Libra is naturally ruled by the planet Venus, which is essentially the opposite frequency of Mars. I like to think of Mars and Venus as the brother and sister planets of the Milky way. Traditionally ruled by Ares and Aphrodite in Greek mythology respectively, they are technically half-siblings. So when you think of this Mars placement, this of how a girlie-girl would feel surrounded by all boys at a football camp. Sure, she may attract a lot of attention and she may have plenty of options…but she will CERTAINLY have to set clear boundaries to command the respect she deserves, as well as deal with the fact that no one around her may have the same interest. See how this can be uncomfortable? It’s not the worst thing to happen, but it can cause you to feel like you have to play the field a little bit differently because of Mars being in the House of Libra.

Okay, so now that we covered why this placement might be different than what you were imagining, let’s get into what this post is actually about!

If you have this natal placement, your sex language is all about breaking up to make-up. Because you’re on this constant quest of seeking balance, YOU will subconsciously or consciously seek chaos in order to regain balance. Your indecisive and somewhat aloof nature in relationships can be a source of frustration when it comes to your sexual expression with your lovers. If you have Mars in your 7H, you genuinely LOVE conflicts and attract conflicts to your relationships. You can be quite passive aggressive, honestly, and stir the pot to get attention. AAALLLL this being said, you still enjoy the finer things and love the idea of love, even though you may not have the most direct way of going about it. Your partners may even find you hard to read, and this can frustrate you, because your wishy-washy-ness is so innate to you, you may have a tendency to think that everyone is as back and forth with decision making as you are.

Ironically, more so than any of the previous placements I have discussed before, I will focus more on what sexual language you like from your partner rather than yourself. Of course, you like good food, good wine, good clothes, good banter, good company…you have Libra, like DUH, but I want to offer a different perspective on this placement.

So when it comes to your partners, you truly like a partner who takes charge, regardless of sex. You crave a level of masculinity and directness in your love language because as I stated earlier, it can be difficult for you to make decisions for yourself. You overemphasize how people will perceive you, and this can cause you to stunt your decision making, so you’ll find yourself craving a partner who can be unabashedly unapologetic in their approach to life. You seek partners who are brave and courageous and you will find yourself testing anyone you fall in love with to see if they have that spark of passion in them. You may find yourself seeking different things from different people, so you may have multiple lovers– and just like how it may take you forever to pick out your outfit in the morning, it may take you forever to figure out what you value in a partner. It is important to note that Libra/7H energy is indeed a masculine energy. I’m sure most would assume it’s feminine because of the “sophisticated” and charismatically social nature usually associated with Libras, but when it comes to sexual relationships, Taurus/2H energy is the feminine side of Venus. Libra energy in this way is more detached than people would think. As stated earlier, because you enjoy dates, chatting, getting to know people, you may be a really good casual dater! This could send mixed messages to potential lovers because you may have never really had any intention of dating them long-term– or, you really just haven’t decided yet. Now are we starting to see how this Mars placement can attract certain conflict? You will desire and crave a partner that can make decisions for you. This may lead to some kinkiness in the bedroom because you’re open to compromise and you can be bossed around in this regard.

Overall your sexual language is complex because of the inherent contradiction of this natal placement. You can make this work in your favor as long as you keep open communication with your partner, even if it’s to tell them that you need some more time before you’re comfortable making any lasting decisions. When you date, you will have to allow your partners to understand your up & down nature. Most people will probably take your pragmatic nature personally, so if you can find a way to channel this into being sexually playful with your lovers, it can be a great way to keep romance fun and interesting. As stated in the beginning, you are most likely to end up in an on-again-off-again kind of relationship because you like for the scales to be tipped, so you can rebalance them. You are far more detached in commitments than most people would assume, so it is essential for you to date like-minded people who understand that your coldness is not a reflection on your feelings. You choose to remain objective in your judgements and seek fairness in your relationships—even if you are the one who was unfair to begin with! Kiss it kiss it better baby!!!!

Mars in Virgo or Mars in the 6th House

“I got commitment issues, but I’m tryna fix that for you…I don’t believe in love, but that doesn’t mean I don’t take you serious” Commitment Issues by Central Cee

With Mars in Virgo or the 6th House, you may be surprised to find how non-committal you are when it comes to relationships. Why? Because you find relationships to be impractical. So when it comes to your sexual language, you are quite all over the place. Lovers can find you hard to catch, almost like trying to keep a fairy in a jar. You prefer to flutter around and keep things light in the sexual department. To you, sex can scream responsibility. After all, sex can be a pretty risky and dirty affair. All the fluid exchange and, ultimately, the required vulnerability, can make you quite uneasy. With this Mars placement, you can go between the two extremes of putting too much emphasis on sex or not enough emphasis at all. This is due to the natural ruler of Virgo/6H being Mercury, which, I find to be, an asexual planet. You are more interested in the intellectual connection than the physical connection.

BUT PLEASE, don’t get me wrong! You know you’re way around the bedroom. Your sexual language is constantly evolving. You do well with long-term partners that you can trust, study and get to know. You prefer a lover that is loyal, so you don’t have to worry about where they’ve been, or better yet, who they’ve been with. You find joy in repetition with one partner. OR, you are really open to “protected” one-night stands. You are either all in or all out. You don’t like to waste time on sexual relationships that you don’t see a return for a long-term investment. That being said, if you are unable to invest in the long-term, you can find yourself in a position of sexual frustration. You may really desire a person, but because of your deep need for perfection first, you may stall connections & find a lot of pleasure in masturbation for the time being. You, like your opposite sign, Pisces, can really get into your fantasies. You may find that erotica and romance novels can be great resources to pass the time while you likely toil between celibacy and being a whore (this is particularly funny to me because Virgos are known for being the Virgins of the zodiac– hence the contradiction in Mars in Virgo. The planet of sex and desire ruled by a “Virgin” is, uh….a difficult juxtaposition to say the least.) – again, it’s all about mental stimulation with you.

When you do meet a partner that you can FINALLY settle down and feel comfortable with, you will be a very giving lover. Because Virgo energy is usually associated with servitude, you better believe that you will make it your duty to service the object of your affection. You care very deeply about the satisfaction of your partner— far more than you care about your own. As stated earlier, you don’t mind finishing up solo as long as your partner is satisfied. You will find every nook and cranny, every deep desire, every love spot that your partner has, because you will analyze their body with astute detail. You will break your partner’s sexual language down and adapt it to be your own, because after all, you are a mutable sign. As well as being an earth sign, you do have a very deep sensual nature to you. Although you can come across as quite guarded with new partners, once you blossom, you really enjoy heavy petting and physical touch. You can spend so much time in your head and alone with your thoughts in other aspects of your life, you may find it very powerful to have a partner that literally grounds you and brings you back to planet Earth by holding you in their arms. Again, after you’ve bent over backwards (pun intended) to please your partner, you, more than any other sign, except maybe Leo, really needs to be acknowledged and celebrated for your hard work. You don’t take kindly to being undervalued or under appreciated when it comes to your romantic relationships in this context.

Believe it or not, this placement can actually be quite kinky! Why? Because of the influence of Mercury again. As stated before, you want to learn your partner’s as well as you possibly can to make sure you are seen as perfect in their eyes– sooooo, that means you’ll have some exploring to do. Mercury is such a curious planet, that it may not be kinky for the sensual pleasures of it all, but it will be interested in testing out sex & kinks for “research purposes”. This can give you a sort of detached feeling when it comes to sex, which may or may not work in your favor– you’re able to disassociate in a way that makes sex almost an out of body experience…it may take you some time to actually feel pleasure from sex. You are so focused on the other and pleasing your partner, you can forget that sex is supposed to be a two way street! I just want to reiterate, that this placement is so mutable, that you may find yourself pretty ambivalent towards sex at different times in your life. You’re kind of like “eh”. But there is hope, when you find a partner that lights your fire– you will find yourself wanting sex like a child wants candy! There is plenty of potential here for a beautifully active and engaging sex life– it just may take more time to develop than others.

Learn your own kinks! Have fun! Explore the more sensual side of life for yourself!

Anyone who is able to win you over (which is NOT an easy feat by any means) will be able to revel in the fact that you are such a wonderful lover! But don’t forget, sex is not a test that you can get an A + in, it’s supposed to be the culmination and celebration of it all!

Mars in Leo or Mars in the 5th House

“She may be the queen of hearts, but I’m the queen of your body parts” - Cockiness, Rihanna

If you have Mars in Leo or Mars in the 5th House, you are Britney Spears, all eyes on me in the center of the ring just like a circus, bay-bee. You LOVE to put on a show. Your sexual language can make love-making a spectacle! You’re over the top, you’re loud, you roar. You LOVE LOVE LOVE the attention. So much so, you may not even need sex to fulfill that internal desire for you. Huh? What do I mean? I mean, you may be satisfied using your creative gifts for sexual gratification. Chances are with this placement, you are highly creative and charismatic. You find sensual pleasure in being able to share your creative gifts with other people. Haven’t you heard of entertainers saying they had so much fun on stage, it was orgasmic? That’s where you come in.

Ironically, I don’t naturally find this placement to be the most sexual. Don’t get me wrong, you are DOWN DIGGITY for a good time, but you really use sex as an ego booster. You may even be quite lazy in the bedroom. You could easily live by the code “my present is my presence” and be a dazzling pillow princess. This isn’t a bad thing, and it definitely doesn’t have to be the case all the time! When you’re turned on, you’re turned on, but when you’re just casually engaging in sex, or are in a long-term commitment, you may feel like sex is something that is owed to you. Not in a weird entitled way, but more like a Queen sitting on a chaise lounge being fed grapes– like, “duh, you should have sex with me, I’m beautiful”, type energy. This, if you haven’t been able to guess already, can lead to a selfish attitude in the love-making department. You must remember that sometimes, your partner wants to be catered to as well. That being said, you won’t shy away from Valentine’s Day. You are the type to go all out! You’ll put on the lingerie. You’ll lay out the rose petals on the bed. You’ll pay extra for that honeymoon suite. OR, you will expect your partner to do all of this without you asking. You treat holidays and sex as if it’s a royal affair.

Due to your standards being so high, I cannot express to you enough that you may really put all your sexual energy into your creative pursuits until you find a lover of high-value and high sex drive. You love and somewhat need to feel desired in order to break down your walls. You don’t play hard to get– you ARE hard to get, so this may leave you with extended periods of non-sexual activities. You are more than willing to give up sexual pleasure for your own personal pursuits– in fact, you are more likely to do that if you have specific career goals.

You may be a tad bit surprised at my interpretation of Mars in Leo, perhaps you were assuming it would be a bit spicier, but I challenge you to look at your ruler, the Sun (yes, the actual burning ball of fire in the sky) . Not literally…well, you can, but make sure you wear sun-glasses. But in all seriousness, the Sun shines alone. The Sun is too hot to let anything near it, and it carries such a gravitational pull, that things simply orbit around it, but can never get too close. With Mars in Leo/5th House, you may find yourself in this position when it comes to your sexual nature. You attract a lot of people towards you, but they are unable to get too close, for fear they will burn up in your presence. Or, you shine so bright, you are forced to do it alone. Being the Sun and the center of the Universe is a hard job, but ultimately an isolating job. Your being, your creative gifts, your star power and the way you shine can cast such a shadow on those who dare come near you. It really can be one of the most challenging placements because you probably won’t understand why people can’t/don’t come near you. Again, you’re just soooo great, people can have an overwhelming and unrealistic ideal of what it will take to make you happy. It’s a double-edged sword. On one hand, it’s flattering, but on the other hand, you can suffer from being put so high up on a pedal stool that you never asked for!

One tip for you, is to keep your hair beautiful and lushes! People will be attracted to your wild side and want to bring that out of you. You can either really love having your hair pulled or be turned off by it because you spend so much time making it look perfect. Either way, your hair may be an essential part of foreplay for you and something that suitors may find undeniably sexy.

As long as you are mindful to share the spotlight from time to time and not always prioritizing your needs & your desires, you can be a remarkably loyal partner. Fierce is the word that comes to mind and you can be very fierce in the bedroom. (When you want to be.) You can outshine any of the competition. Most people truly can’t hold a candle to you when it comes to how committed you are in an intimate relationship. You are proud and you protect those that are around you and that you deem worthy. You have a royal air that surrounds you and it loudly and proudly screams `bow down bitches' when it's time to get down and dirty!

Mars in Cancer or Mars in the 4th House

“Let me kiss you hard in the pouring rain, you like your girls insane” Born to Die- Lana Del Rey

If you have Mars in Cancer or Mars in the 4th house, ironically, your sex language involves a knack of overwhelming emotional destruction. Dramatic, yes, yes, I know, but very true. Mars is VERY uncomfortable in the deep waters of Cancer/4H. Mars in the 4th House, in particular, is a naturally difficult placement because it sits in the House of happiness, as well as aspects the 7th House of partnership and the 11th House of friendship– making that native, uh, a little difficult to deal with. Why? Because your emotions can be so erratic and illogical, it can be difficult for people to understand what you want. Heck, you probably don’t understand what you want most of the time. I promise I’ll get to the good stuff, but keep in mind that this Mars placement is in detriment! (It’s exalted in Capricorn, the opposite sign.) So when it comes to your sexual language, you value such a deeply emotional commitment from your partner, you could constantly try to test them by pushing their emotional boundaries.

There is a mixture of pleasure and pain. You love an emotional outburst– this can be good and sexy, or bad and scary. Emotionally bonding make-up sex, is your cup of tea…ESPECIALLY if you are the one who caused the “break-up” in the first place. You truly enjoy engaging with your partner in a loving way, when you can, but because Mars is so unstable here, it can be hard for you to maintain emotional consistency within long-term relationships. You can find that your passions wax and wane for your partner. Sometimes, you just want to run into their arms and kiss them in the pouring rain, other times, you want them to LEAVE YOU DAFUQ ALONE. This can be quite jarring to your intimate partners, but also to yourself. I recommend embracing this quality and being as honest as possible! Instead of literally creating a sh*t storm in order to be left alone, just communicate to your partner that you need a little space from time to time. But also be willing to give your partner that same courtesy and grace if they ask for the same.

You can feel a need to wrap yourself up in your partner's desires. It may come from a genuine place, but because Mars is an aggressive planet, you may be quite aggressive in how you demonstrate your love to your partner because your deepest desire is to be able to emotionally control them. This can manifest in an extremely emotionally manipulative way through passive aggressiveness and just causing overall uneasiness within your dynamics and partnerships. One of the lovely sides about this particular placement, is when you mature, you can have an extremely high emotional I.Q. Because you are naturally very sensitive to your surroundings, you can literally sense the emotional and physical needs of your partner without them having to say a word. You can be so emotionally intune with your lovers, it can feel like telepathy if they need anything from you. You just know, y’know?

In the bedroom, you can go from one extreme to another. Sometimes you want to be dominant, and sometimes you want to be dominated. It is important for your lovers to be able to ride your waves and learn what is needed from them at any given moment. Again, Mars is all about conquest. So when Mars is in the 4H in particular, you want to be able to be the leader in your home, but you also want someone who can take the reins when necessary. Again, this can be a difficult balance to strike within your sexual relationships because people may not understand the method behind the madness, typically because there really isn’t a method…it’s just kind of madness AND THAT’S OKAY!

Because Mars is so uncomfortable here, it is imperative for you to be able to channel your energy in creative ways or you can fall victim to your own emotional tirades. You want a clear line of communication with anyone you are interested with and they absolutely need to have some emotional intelligence or else they will drown in your water. You don’t want to suffocate your lovers with so much emotional intensity, that you both are unable to remain somewhat grounded in the chaos. You of all people understand just how powerful emotions and sex can be together, so be careful to use it wisely!!! When done right, you can have anyone wrapped around your finger.

Mars in Gemini or Mars in the 3rd House

“Talk is cheap my darling, when you’re feeling right at home. I wanna make you move with confidence. I want to be with you alone” Talk is Cheap by Chet Faker

If you have Mars in Gemini or Mars in the 3rd House, then you are all about an intellectual connection when it comes to your sexual language. You want to catch viiibbbeezzz. You want to be razzle-dazzled with the lingo. You want someone hip, cool, in the know…because, well, you’re hip, cool & in the know, y’know? It’s only fitting that your partner be the same. You, of all placements, may truly crave “your other half”. And I know, I know, we live in a world now, where people are saying “you are a whole person and you’re looking for another whole person yadayadayada…”, but you’re a TWIN. You want to be able to connect with someone as if you share the same brain, the same thoughts, the same…everything. This isn’t to say that you’re not sexual…you just enjoy mental jousting for foreplay. Think of how beautiful the dance between two evenly matched fencing partners is– the ebb and flow of tension – playing both parts of the aggressor and the defender– gliding almost effortlessly with a weapon in hand. It’s like the tango…but with swords. That’s how you envision your love. Beautiful art, yet dangerous. You may not be the most sensual lover at first, but in time you will certainly warm up. Why? Because at the very least, you are a curious partner! You. Want. To. Explore. You may be the type of lover to want to try almost anything once. You want to be surprised. You don’t want your bedroom to be boring. You resent repetitiveness and you welcome new experiences. You may even fall into the “switch my wig, make ‘em feel like he cheating” category. You like to switch up your look, your style…sexual positions (lol). This can even translate into role play! (Especially teacher/student).

I cannot express to you enough how much learning from your partner turns you on. You love asking questions & consider getting to know someone a conquest. The more difficult the puzzle, the more you yearn to solve it and this type of stimulation oozes over into your sexual pleasure. You’re curious to know what your lover’s love. You can have an objective perception of sex, because you aren’t the most naturally emotional person, so you can look at the love making process as getting to know every nook and cranny of a partner’s body– learning what makes them tick & “ick”. You become more emotionally open with a partner, the more confident that you are that you know them. You like learning, but you don’t like unpleasant surprises. This may be counter intuitive, but I find that after you go through your “lemme try any & everything era”, you will genuinely enjoy one partner. It will make you feel secure and like you have that missing piece in life. You don’t come across as the most committal type, but when you do commit, you commit fr fr, you just need a certain level of freedom in life to continue to expand your horizons far past the mundane in life.

Another element you may add to your sexual reservoir is……drugs. “DON’T DO DRUGS, KIDS & STAY IN SCHOOL”...alright, there is my disclaimer. Now back to what I was saying, you may be curious to try mind-expanding drugs & smex. Because you can be so cerebral, drugs like ecstacy can help you actually feel your body. The tingle will start from your subconscious mind, and venture into your conscious body, possibly making love-making a more pleasurable experience. If this doesn’t interest you, don’t worry, no pressure! Just making a note that this placement is more likely to think outside of the box when it comes to making their sex lives thrilling and exciting! Not saying that vanilla sex is boring…just saying in general. You do you!

Overall, this is a curious placement. It’s a fun placement, but it can be an extremely flighty placement in the beginning. Don’t let your fear of getting stuck, stop you from finding a true partner that you can really see the world with. You can find that “other half”, that “twin soul” that really knows how to light a fire in you and warm your cold cold cold gemini heart. In your moments of passion, you will prefer to keep things fun and light. Only when someone truly captures your mind, can they capture your body and soul! SEXYYYYYY!!!!

Mars in Taurus or Mars in the 2nd House

“People stop to ask me, how do you please your man? Take it from the black sheep baby, any way I can. Sometimes it’s with fire and sometimes, with ice…Just don’t get it twisted, his body’s gunna pay the price.”

- Rock My Boy’s Body by Joseph Stephens

If you have Mars in Taurus or Mars in the 2nd House your sexual language is about sensuality, sexuality, & seduction. You believe in making love an all encompassing experience and you will stop at nothing to make sure your partners have an all exclusive pass to your BO-DAY. IF it is earned. Because Taurus is naturally slow moving energy, you may be slow to open up. As I’ve studied astrology for years now…I’ve come to realize that Taurus energy is just as private and cautious and it’s opposite sign, Scorpio. If you have this placement, you feel the need to study your lovers and you wait and wait and wait and wait and wait before you make your move. But if you are able to wrap them in your warm embrace…you won’t want to let go and they won’t want you to either.

Like Leo, when it comes to your sexual language, you believe in putting on a show. But your show is subtle, quaint and slow burning. You will have the candles burning, the scented lotion and fresh out the shower smell, you will have the most luxurious sheets on the most comfortable mattress. You don’t believe in cutting corners when it comes to your comfort and whoever is lucky enough to wind up in your bed, simply gets to enjoy how you live your life. I could bet you have an impeccable taste in music and truly know how to set the tone when it comes to seduction. As stated before, you are able to create a world of pure pleasure for those you love and make them spell-bound to you, because chances are, they haven’t been able to match with a sexual partner who cares so much about the details of ALL 6 senses. (I’m including intuition because, y’know, I’m a tarot and an astrology girlie.) For example, I dated this guy with heavy taurus placements a few years ago. I very much remember and very much miss this awesome TV room that he made for himself. Instead of having a regular degular couch, he had a couch that was also a bed. It wasn’t a couch that converted into a bed….it was just a couch that had a bed in it…and massive 70 inch television mounted on the wall. When I TELL you, I wanted to marry that man because….UGH!!! I was so comfortable! I could melt into the floor when I was with him. And I have YET to be with anyone who has a room set up quite like that. The feeling has stayed with me long after we have been together. THAT is what I mean by the power of Mars in Taurus. It lingers when you’re done!

On the other side, you of all signs, can be extremely jealous and possessive over your sexual partners. You DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE. AT. ALL. The 2nd House is all about owning and possessions and you may take this mindset with you into your romantic relationships. To the right person and in a healthy way, this can be enduring and make your partner feel safe and secure in your presence. In turn, you also want to know that your partner is crazy about you and cares deeply about your well-being. Again, in a healthy dynamic, a little jealousy and possessivness isn’t bad. It can show that someone does have an interest in you and takes pride in the fact that they are able to claim you as their own. This is just something to be mindful of in this placement, because if underdeveloped, it can lead to issues of selfishness & strong resistance to allow your partner’s freedom. Of course this can bleed over into the bedroom as well. You don’t want to get so focused on your own comfort that you end up putting your partner into a routine that they no longer enjoy. Your favorite position may not be their favorite positive. It can feel like eating lobster every single day. Like, yeah, Lobster is great day 1, maybe even day 2, but by day 5….yuck. Depending on other placements in your chart, you may attract partners who are very much like you, in the sense they prefer routine, OR you may attract partners who are so wild and out of the box, it forces you out of your comfort zone. All I can do is say embrace whatever floats your boat.

There is no doubt that you are one of the most sexual, sensual and passionate lovers of the zodiac. Your innate knowledge of pleasure makes you an expert in the bedroom and you can be hard to beat. Although it may take you a while to warm up, either physically or emotionally, you eventually show your partners that it is absolutely worth the wait! Because you tend to be safe and secure in yourself (the 2nd house rules self esteem) you share that safety and extend your protection to those you love the most. Your sexual language is unforgettable. You know how to love someone head to toe! WOOOOO!!!

Mars in Aries or Mars in the 1st House

“Dollhouse, dressed up, perfect messed up, Torture me to sleep, paint the air I breathe. Fishbowl, chokehold, dirty water, I’m cold. Dirty as can be, have your way with me.” Dollhouse (with Lily Rose Depp) by The Weeknd

If you have Mars in Aries or Mars in the 1st House, your sexual language is intense & powerful. You have a way of pulling people into your orbit just by being your unapologetic self! The force is with you! Best believe! And people feel it. You get what you want and you want what you get and you have a way of luring in your prospective sexual partner by projecting your lust onto them– so much so they feel it when they walk by you. Much like your sister, the Mars ruled Scorpio, there is a carnal desire that surrounds you. It’s magnetic. It’s magnificent. And it’s very fleeting.

When it comes to your bedroom pleasures, you can be a pioneer of the “Wham! Bam! Thank you ma’am or…sir” (not as cute of a rhyme) mindset. You may have a habit of treating your lovers like conquest– wanting to overpower them and wrap them up in your passionate fantasies. You deeply enjoy power play in your sex life. Yes, you could easily be the dominant one in your relationships, BUT you could also seek refuge in being submissive to your partner. How? I know it seems contradictory. But chances are, with this placement (unless it’s in a water sign in your first house) you are more than likely the boss and the leader in your everyday life…so when it comes to sex, you may want to just “relax” and let your partner do all the hard work for once. If that’s the case, you may be a bit of a brat in the bedroom because you still like to challenge your partner for shizz & giggles, but you are certainly fun and definitely unforgettable.

Your sex language is raw and real. You don’t like to hold back your passion and you appreciate a partner who can match your enthusiasm in the bedroom. You love the runner chaser dynamic, and again, you can easily play both parts. You are strong and competitive and don’t like to lose the interest of your lovers, even though you can get bored pretty easily. You may prefer quickies over long drawn up love sessions, but that doesn’t mean you don’t like to indulge your sinuses from time to time– you’re just not one of the most lovey dovey of the zodiac and prefer loud, wild, hot, steamy sex opposed to soft caresses and whispers of sweet nothings. You may also be a person who uses sexy time to advance a certain agenda. You could use sex as a tool of manipulation to get what you want. That may seem extreme, but think about a stripper using her sensuality as a means to make money so she can pay her way through law school. THAT’S what I mean. Because you may not be so shy about your sex appeal, if used correctly, it can be your weapon of choice when it comes to getting what you want from someone.

Passion matters to you more than most. You would prefer a risky lover than a predictable one. You also may be a fan of the ole’ break up to make-up trope. Make-up sex is always better. And you don’t mind starting a fight in the streets, simply to uh…you know…end it….in the sheets…..if you catch my drift. You aren’t one for subtleties. You are probably one of the most straightforward and upfront people in the world and you may play shy, but once you allow a person to get to know you, you don’t hold anything back. Because you are a cardinal energy, you always have a childlike flair to you! You keep things interesting and youthful. You’re not afraid to cross boundaries and push the limits of yourself & your partner in the midst of a sexual act. You really may think that sex is something that can be “won”. You want to be the best. You want to be the one that lovers can’t get enough of. You don’t appreciate being compared to others and honestly hear partners talking about their past as if it was some sort of challenge. You definitely have a jealous and possessive streak, but like I always say, when this is a healed energy it can be enduring to the right partner. As long as it’s not obsessive and unhealthy, you can provide comfort to your lovers that you are there for them and only them. You expect loyalty in return, of course, but you don’t mind protecting and defending what you see as your own. Your love is real. Your love is honest. Your love is young and wild and free!

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A magnificent beauty that hides the greatness and delicacy of a heart willing to give itself totally. A beautiful body that protects the most charming and wonderful soul.

Libra Rising: Intensity & Grace

People with a beautiful interior and a beautiful exterior who make relationships with others something pleasant. Rational but without shutting up your heart. Throughout their lives they have faced extreme or somewhat chaotic situations which led them to generate a balanced personality, someone had to be the cool head, the point of stability and they assumed that role. It is difficult for them to feel like they can relax, so one of the things they want most is a quiet life full of pleasant things for them. There is a fear of failing and losing control, they demand excellent performance from themselves, but with others they are more understanding. Their morals are linked to them and they will always seek to do the right thing. Faithful to their judgment and instincts.

With Scorpio in the 2nd house what happens is that the native perfectly understands the importance of money, even becoming very good at managing it, however, they prioritize and give a lot of value to the emotional, the real thing that can not only see but also feel. It is difficult for them to feel that stability; it is likely that since they were young they have had to be very attentive or that they felt insecure both about what was happening around them and insecure about their own value. They may have the mistaken idea that they have to do something to be enough. They take care of what they value and if something or someone gives them that feeling of stability, they can become very devoted to them. Being the house of values, these people become very attached to their instinct, which is usually strong and they let themselves be carried away by it. One of the things that gives them great pride is saying that they can earn their own money, because they dislike others telling them how and what to spend their money on. They take loyalty to another level, since it, accompanied by transparency, are things that matter a lot to them. They are prone to jealousy and insecurity that what they want will leave their lives.

With Sagittarius in the 3rd house we face a duality that is little talked about, one that shows us that these natives have a charismatic, jovial and positive way of communicating [even becoming excellent when it comes to showing what they think with clarity] but who nevertheless have a sharp capacity to defend their points of view fiercely and with great, great intelligence. These people have the quality of being very direct and rooted with their ideas while they have no problems with those who think differently than them. They are likely to be curious about ideas, people, and places other than those they are used to, have an insatiable thirst for knowledge, and are likely to be experts or very good at one or more topics. There is a tendency to procrastinate or want to do many things at the same time. They process and understand things very quickly and are easy to teach what they know. They have a tendency to get distracted very quickly, they can become interested and disinterested in certain topics, and they are likely to become disinterested once they already know enough about the topic or if it becomes too technical or monotonous for them. They have a lot of wisdom and can give off big brother vibes regardless of their age or what place they occupy among their siblings. If they have siblings, it makes the relationship very dynamic and complex, because they are very different. In the best of cases, the relationship is very fun and positive despite the differences, this is because Jupiter will be ruling this house.

The emotional depth of those with Capricorn in the 4th house is something only those who truly love know. A heart that is somewhat shy when it comes to opening itself for fear of being hurt or judged, of being denied affection and protection, hides the beauty of the purest and most devout intentions. They are natives with the willingness to defend what they love, to provide that stability and constancy that never makes those they love doubt their love and interest. They simply give what they felt they didn't have when they were younger. Many of their greatest and perhaps even hardest lessons lie in their families or childhood, expectations placed on them, the conditions of having to do something or achieve things to deserve loved ones, or even a need to be flawless. Beyond that personality with whom you can chat about interesting things and with whom you can have fun, there is a somewhat reserved person with their true feelings, someone who learned to fend for themselves and deal with their emotions on their own but who knowing how hard it is, they would never let someone they love go through it. Those whom they consider family or with whom they have a very strong emotional bond, know how dedicated they are in their relationships, will have their most hard-working and dedicated side. This can be an indicator of someone starting their own business or working from home, it also helps the person find comfort in their work.

Their beauty and appeal is something that stands out thanks to Aquarius in the 5th house, which makes them stand out from the crowd. There is something ethereal, enigmatic and unique about them that not only makes them irresistible people but also makes them unforgettable and remarkable couples. These people enjoy a free and natural romance where they can be themselves uninhibitedly and where their partner can be authentic. They like equal relationships, both are worth the same and both contribute the same. They tend to attract very intelligent, independent people, even with a rebellious touch. This placement favors creative expression and spontaneous bursts of inspiration. They can be people with great intellect and great abilities to communicate in any way. It increases the chances of having friends who generate romantic interest or who become the native's partner. They have the ability to naturally charm other people, people are attracted to them because of their authenticity, because of their intellect and way of seeing things and because the native wants to see the inside of the other in its entirety and is capable of loving them as they are, without putting expectations and without wanting to change them. They need a lot of intellectual connection with their partner, that they are both on the same level, that they think similarly and that they have compatible aspirations. If they decide to have children, they can be ambiverts, independent, very creative, talented and very entertaining.

One of the qualities that may not be mentioned much regarding these natives is compassion and ability to help others feel better, this can be attributed to Pisces in the 6th house, which indicates their emotional, deep and understanding approach towards those. things that are understood as mundane or normalized. They are able to see the most personal side of the person and their experiences. These people help others selflessly, are attentive to the needs and discomfort of others and have qualities to support and heal or even guide others to the path of self-healing. They can feel a very strong connection with animals and awaken sympathy in them. Since this is a house linked to details, it also makes it likely that the native can become obsessed with the idea of ​​being perfect or performing perfectly, reaching constant self-demands. They dream of making a change and helping others through their work or skills. Since I mentioned skills, not only do they have the abilities to understand and heal others, but this also shows an artistic inclination and great gifts for it. Without trying very hard, they can be liked by other people a lot, since this overlay can cause their specific co-workers to feel a lot of liking, curiosity and sympathy for them. These people can work in all kinds of artistic branches, particularly illustration, music or cinema, as psychologists or psychiatrists, as nurses, doctors and any job that allows them to help or support others. These people may have a tendency to forget things related to their health at some point in their life, such as taking their medications, staying hydrated, getting enough sleep, or even eating. 

The amount of energy, attention and totality with which these natives give themselves to their relationships is due to Aries in the 7th house. They actively seek to give importance to their partner and include them in their lives, being a team with them in all fields, feeling that they are one are things that these natives strive for in relationships. They are passionate, direct and very determined once they decide on their special someone. They fill the life of their loved one with emotion, intense sensations and an evident, clear and fiery love. They want complicity and exclusivity, and in return they will give the same. They tend to prefer people who are blunt with what they want and with their emotions, someone who does not hide what they feel out of ego or fear, rather someone who dares to give themselves completely to them and accept them with contentment. Despite their romantic and sensual nature and the fact that they love to enjoy the strong emotions caused by the excitement of entering a relationship, it is likely that they will have few or only one marriage in their entire life, as they are quite selective when it comes to to love someone. 

When Taurus is placed in the 8th house, sex is an art that is enjoyed from start to finish, from the flirting, the stolen smiles to the subtle but exciting touch that leaves hints of desire. The mischievous looks towards the lips that lead to that passionate and romantic scene of union between them and their loved one. They obtain and give pleasure equally, they enjoy provoking as many sensations as possible in their partner and they, in turn, will seek to explore every step of desire that is available to take. They are people with great sensuality and physical attractiveness, from their mannerisms, the shape of their body to their magnetic personality. These natives can have a strong fear of losing what it took them time to achieve, they can be very selective with who they want to be close to for fear of betrayal. They tend to be very touchy people with those they love, physical proximity is important even if there is no sex involved. Jealousy can be something common for them, there is the possibility of being jealous in their relationships or attracting somewhat jealous people. At the same time, they may face many situations where people envy them. They are capable of providing a lot of stability and emotional constancy to their partner, but they will need the same in return.

When we see Gemini in the 9th house, this means that you have a natural inclination towards learning and seeking knowledge. They stand out for having a quick and curious mind, and they like to explore different points of view and perspectives. They really like to do a lot of research on the topics that catch their attention and have the ability to store a lot of knowledge. Foreign travel is very common with this placement and opportunities to study abroad may arise. They also have a knack for communicating your ideas and thoughts clearly, charmingly and effectively. They likely have a strong desire to expand their horizons and explore the world. They may enjoy traveling and learning about different cultures and countries. They may be drawn to higher education and academic studies, and may do well in areas such as literature, journalism, language, or philosophy. These natives have an open mind and are willing to explore different concepts, points of view and beliefs. They may be a seeker of truth and have an intellectual approach towards their spiritual beliefs.

Then we find Cancer in the 10th house, a house ruled by the Moon that causes the native to acquire popularity and attention very easily. They give the impression of being a sensitive person and in touch with their emotions, as well as a person caring about other people's emotions, which is why they usually have a good reputation. Their mere presences can give other people a great sense of comfort. These people have a strong need to achieve great things to feel proud of themselves, and they also need to achieve their ambitions to feel content. Your work can give you a lot of comfort and/or you can give comfort to others through your work. One of the effects of this overlay, being a house ruled by the Moon, makes the native prone to envy in their work area. In their work they can have the support of women or work with/for them. They can be very receptive to the opinions and criticism of others, which can affect their confidence and self-esteem. They can also be a very dedicated and committed person to their profession, but if the Moon makes many tense aspects you may feel insecure and constantly seek approval from others. It can make people very sensitive to failures or rejections in the workplace and be afraid of them. They can work as caregivers, chefs, teachers, in medical fields.

Something this rising is known for is its ability to become popular and appreciated easily, and although it can easily be attributed to Venus ruling their 1st house, you should also take a look at Leo in the 11th house. With this overlay, people can be very influential with other people, they have a magnetic, charismatic and charming personality capable of putting anyone in a good mood. They can easily create trends and connect heart to heart with the masses. They are noble and supportive friends, even if the atmosphere between them and their friends is somewhat joking and payfully teasing, of fun and joy, when necessary, this native can fiercely defend his friends and provide them with a lot of warmth. Due to the nature of the sign, it is likely that these natives also have friendships in which there is constantly some drama. Their warmth and friendliness are capable of making a great first impression on others, their friendliness complements their attractive and strong personality so well. Great indicator of fame of any kind, more specifically on the internet. Being the house of profits, it indicates that these natives can earn money through creative ways or in jobs where they play a leadership role.

What's there when the door closes? What are you hiding in that heart that everyone seems to know but not completely? Oh my dear Virgo in the 12th house, it seems tense to deal with all of those demands of that tricky mind of yours are placed on your shoulders, those who already had to carry a lot in the course of your life. You seek to achieve perfection in what matters to you, you notice the slightest error in your actions, in your words and even in yourself, when within you lies a treasure of a human being. A devoted and hard-working person who always seeks to give their best. A precious soul upon whom the cross of excessive criticism and striving for perfection was imposed. You don't deserve any of that and you know it. It is difficult to see yourself with the gentleness with which you see others, but you are so deserving of the love and compassion that you yourself give, dear. A beautiful quality about you is that you will always seek to deeply analyze yourself and those who matter to you, it is not enough for you to know the surface, you want to know in depth. You give special meaning to your relationships and you will always strive to understand, not just hear, to appreciate and not just see, and to feel not just pretend. You have a strong desire to have things under control, especially of yourself. The idea of ​​staying calm to avoid making a situation worse and being the adult in the problem, a longing for peace and tranquility in the face of the noise of your thoughts and doubts. There is nothing wrong with your feelings, it is okay to doubt sometimes and make mistakes, it is part of our growth, that the possibility of making mistakes does not limit you from trying what makes your heart shine. 

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Moon signs and our recurring habits in times of stress or emotional turmoil

Knowing our personality possibilities is interesting to detect our flaws and evolve in these points. As a consequence, we can achieve well-being.

⚠️ While Moon signs can influence recurring habits during stress, individuals may also exhibit traits from their Sun sign, Rising sign, and other astrological placements, aspects. It's important to consider the whole birth chart and individual's choices for a comprehensive understanding of one's coping mechanisms. Also, remember that we can evolve.

1. Moon in Aries:

Recurring Habit: When stressed, Moon in Aries individuals often have a habit of reacting impulsively and seeking physical outlets like exercise to release tension.

They don't like to sit on their emotions and prefer to address the issue head-on, seeking quick resolutions.

They may confront challenges head-on but can also become impatient and easily frustrated.

During times of emotional turmoil, they often have a recurring habit of seeking independence and personal space. They want to deal with their emotions on their own terms and resist interference.

They may react without much forethought, which can lead to abrupt decisions, confrontations, or impulsive expressions of their emotions.

These individuals tend to seek physical outlets for emotional release as a recurring habit. Engaging in vigorous exercise, sports, or other physical activities helps them dissipate pent-up energy and frustration.

They don't shy away from conflict and prefer to face issues head-on, even if it means heated arguments.

Despite their fiery reactions, they tend to have a recurring habit of bouncing back quickly from emotional setbacks.

They may actively seek out new experiences or projects to divert their attention from emotional difficulties.

2. Moon in Taurus:

Recurring Habit: Those with Moon in Taurus tend to seek comfort and stability during stressful times. They may have a habit of indulging in comfort foods, seeking physical touch, or retreating to a familiar and secure environment.

Change can be challenging for them. They prefer stability and can become stressed when their routines or environments are disrupted. This resistance can sometimes lead to stubbornness.

Moon in Taurus individuals may have a recurring habit of indulging in sensual pleasures to cope with stress. This could involve enjoying a good meal, listening to music, or engaging in physical activities like massage or gardening to soothe their emotions. These activities, such as yoga or meditation, help them reconnect with their inner calm and find a sense of stability amidst emotional turmoil.

Some Moon in Taurus individuals have a recurring habit of expressing their emotions through artistic pursuits. They may turn to painting, music, or other creative outlets to process their feelings and find emotional release.

Moon in Taurus individuals exhibit a recurring habit of patience during challenging times. They may adopt a "wait and see" approach, allowing emotions to settle naturally before making decisions or taking action.

Taurus Moons may have a recurring habit of appearing stoic and unflappable on the surface. They may not readily express their emotions but prefer to internalize and process them in their own time.

3. Moon in Gemini:

Recurring Habit: Moon in Gemini individuals often cope with stress by talking through their feelings.

Gemini is an air sign, and Moon in Gemini individuals may find it challenging to sit still when stressed. They may feel restless and have a strong desire to keep busy or distract themselves from their emotions.

They may have a habit of seeking intellectual stimulation, engaging in diverse social interactions, or distracting themselves with various activities to avoid dwelling on emotional issues.

These individuals tend to analyze their emotions intellectually rather than diving deep into the depths of their feelings.

When under stress, they may try to rationalize their emotions, seeking logical explanations for what they are experiencing. This can sometimes lead to a sense of detachment from their emotions, and this can be bad in terms of emotional health.

These individuals often seek information and knowledge to understand and cope with their emotions. During times of emotional turmoil, they may turn to books, articles, or the internet to gather information that they believe will help them gain insight into their feelings and how to manage them.

When faced with intense emotions, Moon in Gemini individuals may avoid delving too deeply into their feelings. They might use humor, distraction, or intellectualization to keep their emotions at bay.

4. Moon in Cancer:

Recurring Habit: People with Moon in Cancer have a habit of retreating to their emotional shell during times of stress.

Moon in Cancer individuals may turn to food as a source of comfort when stressed. Emotional eating is a common coping mechanism for them, as they find solace in the tastes and textures of familiar foods.

They seek comfort in the company of loved ones, nurturing themselves, and expressing their feelings through tears and emotional conversations. Crying can be a natural way for Moon in Cancer individuals to release pent-up emotions. They may find relief through shedding tears and expressing their feelings openly.

Cancer is symbolized by the crab, which has a hard outer shell. Moon in Cancer individuals may become protective and guarded when stressed, using their emotional defenses to shield themselves from further emotional harm.

Moon in Cancer individuals are highly sensitive to their own emotions and the emotions of others. When stressed, their emotions can become even more intense and overwhelming.

In times of stress, they may turn to taking care of others as a way to cope with their own emotions. This can involve cooking, offering comfort, or simply being there for loved ones.

These individuals can become deeply attached to people, places, and things. When facing stress, they may seek the comfort of loved ones or cherished possessions that hold sentimental value.

While Moon in Cancer individuals often focus on caring for others, they may also recognize the importance of self-care during times of emotional turmoil. They may retreat to take care of their own emotional needs, such as through self-reflection or self-soothing activities.

Cancer is a sign known for its intuition. When under stress, individuals with the Moon in Cancer may rely on their intuitive insights to guide their actions and decisions.

These individuals have a strong connection to their past and may find themselves reminiscing or revisiting memories during times of stress. They may seek comfort in nostalgia and familiar experiences.

Cancer is a water sign, and individuals with the Moon in Cancer may experience mood swings during times of stress. Their emotions can ebb and flow like the tides, making it important for them to find stability and security.

Cancer is associated with the home and family. Moon in Cancer individuals often seek solace and comfort in their homes. They may retreat to their personal space to find emotional security when facing difficult situations.

5. Moon in Leo:

Recurring Habit: Moon in Leo individuals often cope with stress by seeking recognition and appreciation.

They have a habit of expressing their emotions openly, looking for validation, and taking on leadership roles to regain a sense of control and importance.

Moon in Leo individuals tend to have a flair for drama, and during times of stress, this can become more pronounced. They may express their emotions in a dramatic or theatrical manner, seeking attention and recognition for their feelings.

When they are going through emotional difficulties, they may seek reassurance and compliments from others to boost their self-esteem and confidence.

Leo is a creative sign, and those with the Moon in Leo may turn to creative outlets such as art, music, or writing to channel their emotions. Creating something beautiful or artistic can be a therapeutic way for them to cope with stress.

Loyalty is a significant trait of Leo, and individuals with the Moon in Leo may find comfort and stability in the support of their loved ones during difficult times.

Leo is associated with pride, and individuals with the Moon in Leo may struggle with wounded pride during times of emotional turmoil.

6. Moon in Virgo:

Recurring Habit: Those with Moon in Virgo tend to analyze their emotions when stressed.

Virgo is associated with worry and perfectionism. During times of emotional turmoil, these individuals may tend to overthink and worry excessively about their problems, which can lead to anxiety.

Moon in Virgo individuals tend to look at their emotions in a systematic and practical way. They have a habit of seeking practical solutions, organizing their thoughts, and focusing on self-improvement as a way to regain a sense of order and control. When facing stress, they may dissect their feelings, trying to understand the root causes and find solutions.

To regain a sense of control, Moon in Virgo individuals often turn to organizing and planning. They may create to-do lists, schedules, or checklists to manage their emotions and stressful situations.

Virgo is known for its critical nature, and those with the Moon in Virgo may engage in self-criticism when stressed. They may scrutinize their actions and decisions, which can sometimes lead to self-doubt.

During times of turmoil, they may focus on creating a structured environment to provide stability and a sense of security.

Moon in Virgo individuals often find purpose in helping others. They may turn to acts of service or assistance as a way to distract themselves from their own emotions and find fulfillment in aiding others.

Virgo rules health and wellness, and during times of stress, individuals with this placement may pay extra attention to their physical well-being. They may engage in activities such as exercise, clean eating, or self-care routines to feel better emotionally.

In stressful situations, Moon in Virgo individuals may also analyze and assess the actions and behaviors of others. They may have a tendency to offer constructive criticism, sometimes with the intention of helping but occasionally coming across as judgmental. Be careful with this behavior.

Virgo is associated with learning and knowledge-seeking. When dealing with emotional turmoil, individuals with the Moon in Virgo may seek information and gather facts to make informed decisions and gain a better understanding of their feelings.

These individuals may need alone time to process their emotions. They may withdraw from social activities and seek solitude to reflect on their feelings and find inner clarity.

7. Moon in Libra:

Recurring Habit: Moon in Libra individuals often strive for harmony in times of stress. They have a habit of seeking balance in relationships, avoiding conflicts, and using their charm and diplomacy to navigate emotional turmoil.

Moon in Libra individuals may be sensitive to criticism and may have difficulty handling negative feedback. They prefer constructive and gentle communication when addressing emotional issues.

In times of stress, they may have a heightened sense of injustice and may advocate for fairness and equality in their relationships and situations.

Moon in Libra individuals excel at finding compromises and middle ground solutions. They may actively work to find common ground when dealing with conflicts or emotional challenges.

These individuals often have a strong desire for partnership and companionship. During stressful times, they may seek out a close confidant or partner to share their feelings and provide emotional support.

To cope with stress, they may seek out social activities and gatherings to distract themselves from their emotional troubles. Being in the company of others can help them feel more balanced and supported.

When their own emotions are in turmoil, they may lend a sympathetic ear to others or offer mediation in conflicts to maintain a sense of peace.

To maintain harmony, they may be prone to people-pleasing behaviors. They might prioritize the needs and desires of others over their own, which can lead to neglecting their own emotional well-being.

Moon in Libra individuals may struggle with indecision when faced with emotional turmoil. They may weigh the pros and cons of different courses of action and have difficulty making decisions, leading to procrastination.

Moon in Libra individuals may find comfort in aesthetically pleasing environments. They may redecorate their homes or create beautiful spaces to enhance their sense of emotional well-being.

These individuals can overanalyze social interactions and relationships during stressful times. They may worry about how their actions or words impact others and may seek validation and reassurance from friends and loved ones.

When facing stress, those with the Moon in Libra may go to great lengths to restore balance in their emotional lives. They strive for peace and equilibrium in their relationships and surroundings.

Moon in Libra individuals often avoid confrontations and conflicts. During times of stress, they may try to keep the peace by suppressing their own emotions or by avoiding situations that could lead to discord.

These individuals tend to place a strong emphasis on their relationships when dealing with emotional turmoil. They may seek the support and companionship of others, particularly close friends or their significant other, to help them through difficult times.

They often display a sense of elegance and grace, even in the face of emotional challenges. This poise can be a coping mechanism, helping them navigate difficult situations with style and composure.

Moon in Libra individuals may have a tendency to idealize relationships, especially during challenging times. They may yearn for the perfect partnership and may need to confront unrealistic expectations.

They are often skilled in conflict resolution. In times of stress, they may actively engage in resolving conflicts in their relationships, using their diplomacy and communication skills to find mutually satisfying solutions.

8. Moon in Scorpio:

Recurring Habit: Moon in Scorpio individuals may have a habit of delving deep into their emotions during stress. They hold onto grudges, seek to uncover hidden truths, and may even channel their intense feelings into creative or transformational pursuits.

Scorpio is also associated with sexuality. During emotional turmoil, Moon in Scorpio individuals may use sexual expression or intimacy as a means of connecting with and healing their emotions. Be careful about overspending your sexual energy to avoid your internal problems.

They often have a keen psychological insight into their own emotions and the emotions of others. This insight can be a valuable tool for self-discovery and understanding.

In times of extreme stress, they may experience revenge fantasies or intense desires for justice. While they may not act on these fantasies, they can be preoccupied by thoughts of retribution.

They may be drawn into power struggles or intense emotional conflicts during stressful periods. Their desire for control and need to confront challenging emotions can sometimes lead to confrontations.

They can understand and relate to the emotional experiences of others, which can make them valuable sources of support during tough times.

These individuals often find strength and healing in solitude. They may retreat from social interactions to process their emotions privately and recharge their emotional energy.

They express their emotions with passion and intensity. When faced with stress, they may confront their feelings head-on, sometimes to the point of obsession.

Moon in Scorpio individuals can be highly sensitive to perceived betrayal or deception. They may become guarded and vigilant when they feel their trust has been broken.

Scorpio is known for its transformative qualities. During times of stress, they may undergo significant emotional growth and change. They often emerge from difficult situations with a renewed sense of purpose.

These individuals may have a strong need for control, especially when emotions are turbulent. They may seek to control their own emotional responses and may be drawn to situations where they can influence outcomes.

When facing emotional turmoil, Moon in Scorpio individuals may dig deep into their feelings, exploring their innermost thoughts and desires.

Scorpio is a secretive sign, and individuals with the Moon in Scorpio may prefer to keep their emotions hidden from others. They often find comfort in private self-reflection.

Despite the intensity of their emotions, they often display emotional resilience. They can endure and overcome challenging emotional situations, emerging stronger and more self-aware.

9. Moon in Sagittarius:

Recurring Habit: When stressed, those with Moon in Sagittarius often have a habit of seeking freedom and adventure. They may distance themselves from emotional intensity, prefer to explore new experiences, and find solace in philosophical or spiritual pursuits.

They may engage in positive self-talk and affirmations to boost their spirits and maintain their confidence when facing emotional turmoil. Just be careful with toxic positivity.

When faced with stress, they may seek solace in activities that involve travel, new experiences, or learning something new.

Sagittarius is associated with philosophy and higher learning. Moon in Sagittarius individuals may turn to philosophical reflection and seeking a deeper understanding of the situation as a way to cope with their emotions.

Moon in Sagittarius individuals can sometimes overcommit themselves in an attempt to distract from their emotions. They may take on too many responsibilities or make impulsive decisions.

Some may turn to spiritual or religious practices during times of emotional turmoil. They may explore different belief systems and seek spiritual guidance as a source of comfort and insight.

They typically approach problems and challenges directly, often with a sense of enthusiasm and courage. This can help them confront and overcome emotional difficulties head-on.

Moon in Sagittarius individuals often experience wanderlust, a strong desire to explore new places and cultures. Traveling, even if it's just mentally or through planning future trips, can be a soothing outlet.

They value honesty and may express their emotions with straightforwardness, sometimes to the point of bluntness. When under stress, they may have difficulty concealing their true feelings.

They tend to have a wide circle of friends and acquaintances. In times of stress, they may reach out to their social network for support and diversions, enjoying the company of different people.

They tend to maintain an optimistic and positive outlook, even during challenging times. This optimism can be a source of strength and resilience when dealing with emotional turmoil.

They may require the freedom to express their emotions openly and honestly. Restrictions on their emotional expression can cause frustration and restlessness.

10. Moon in Capricorn:

Recurring Habit: Moon in Capricorn individuals tend to respond to stress with a habit of taking on more responsibility. They may focus on their career, set long-term goals, and seek to maintain their emotional composure even in challenging situations.

They may be cautious about revealing their true emotions, even to themselves. It can take time for them to fully process their feelings and understand their emotional responses.

Moon in Capricorn individuals often have a need for control, both over their emotions and their external circumstances. They may become anxious when they feel they cannot control a situation.

They may take a conservative approach to emotions, preferring stability and tradition. Change and unpredictability can be sources of stress for them.

These individuals may rely on their own inner strength and resilience to weather emotional storms. They can be self-sufficient and independent when it comes to managing their feelings.

They may engage in long-term planning and goal setting as a way to create stability and security. Establishing a structured path forward can provide a sense of comfort during times of turmoil.

They tend to approach emotional challenges with a practical mindset. They seek concrete solutions and may use logical reasoning to address their feelings and resolve issues.

These individuals have a strong sense of responsibility and duty. When faced with emotional turmoil, they may prioritize their obligations and responsibilities, even if it means putting their emotions on hold temporarily.

Moon in Capricorn individuals are known for their emotional self-control. During stressful situations, they can remain composed, often appearing unflappable.

Moon in Capricorn individuals often believe that time will heal emotional wounds. They may adopt a patient approach, trusting that with time, their emotions will stabilize.

They are skilled at setting boundaries, and they may establish emotional boundaries to protect themselves from negative influences or excessive emotional demands from others.

11. Moon in Aquarius:

Recurring Habit: Moon in Aquarius individuals often cope with stress by distancing themselves emotionally. They have a habit of seeking unconventional solutions, detaching from intense feelings, and may channel their stress into humanitarian or intellectual pursuits.

Moon in Aquarius individuals tend to approach their emotions with intellectual detachment. They may analyze their feelings and seek logical explanations for their emotional responses.

These individuals are often drawn to alternative therapies and unconventional approaches to emotional healing. They may explore practices such as meditation, energy healing, or astrology to find emotional balance.

They often turn to their friends and social networks for emotional support. These individuals find comfort in their social circles and may rely on their friends for advice and encouragement during tough times.

They highly value their independence, even in emotional matters. During times of stress, they may prefer to deal with their emotions on their own or seek unconventional methods of self-soothing.

Aquarius is associated with humanitarianism, and Moon in Aquarius individuals may cope with stress by channeling their emotional energy into causes or issues they are passionate about. They may engage in activism or advocacy as a way to distract from their own emotions.

In times of turmoil, Moon in Aquarius individuals may delve into eccentric hobbies or interests that stimulate their minds and provide a sense of novelty. They enjoy unique and unusual pursuits.

These individuals may resist emotional constraints and limitations. They may rebel against societal expectations or relationships that feel too restrictive.

They value the freedom to express their emotions in their own unique way. They may have unusual or avant-garde ways of expressing their feelings, such as through art, music, or performance.

They often have a forward-thinking, futuristic outlook on life. During times of stress, they may focus on the future and envision a better, more idealistic world as a source of hope.

Moon in Aquarius individuals can exhibit emotional detachment as a coping mechanism. They may distance themselves from their feelings, which can sometimes make them appear aloof or unemotional to others.

They may exhibit a rebellious streak when facing emotional challenges. They may resist conforming to societal norms and may challenge authority or tradition as a way to assert their individuality.

12. Moon in Pisces:

Recurring Habit: People with Moon in Pisces tend to escape into their imagination and artistic pursuits during times of stress. They have a habit of seeking solace through creative expression, music, or spirituality, and may become highly empathetic towards others.

When overwhelmed, they may seek to escape from reality through daydreaming, fantasizing, or indulging in escapist activities like reading, watching movies, or playing video games.

During emotional turmoil, they may offer support and a listening ear to others who are also going through difficult times.

Pisces is a creative sign, and individuals with the Moon in Pisces may turn to artistic or imaginative outlets to cope with stress. They may find solace in music, art, writing, or other creative pursuits.

Moon in Pisces individuals often have a spiritual or mystical inclination. During times of emotional turmoil, they may turn to spirituality, meditation, or prayer for guidance and solace.

Moon in Pisces individuals may have a tendency to sacrifice their own needs and well-being for the sake of others. They may put the needs of loved ones before their own, sometimes to their own detriment.

They may avoid confrontation and conflict as a way to maintain emotional peace. They prefer harmony and may go to great lengths to keep the peace in their relationships.

Moon in Pisces individuals can experience mood swings and emotional fluctuations. Their emotions can be like the tides, changing rapidly in response to external stimuli.

They may have difficulty maintaining emotional boundaries, leading to confusion about their own feelings versus the emotions of others. This can be especially challenging during stressful situations.

They may seek solitude and quiet retreats to process their emotions. Time alone allows them to reconnect with their inner selves and find emotional clarity.

Moon in Pisces individuals often hold idealistic views of the world and may be easily disheartened when faced with harsh realities. Managing their expectations during stressful times can be important.

Remember that while Moon signs can influence recurring habits during stress, individuals may also exhibit traits from their Sun sign, Rising sign, and other astrological placements, aspects. It's important to consider the whole birth chart and individual's choices for a comprehensive understanding of one's coping mechanisms.