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It’s been a really, really long time since I’ve been active here, but I’m about to get top surgery on Monday and I’m so happy and excited that I wanted to share here. It’s amazing- I’m so happy and it’s coming so quickly- I fully believe that the universe, (I personally believe in a God but whatever force you believe in) has led me here and given me this chance. It’s the only month this year that would work- my parents expect me at events every month until 2022. They don’t know about my identity or surgery. It’s just before I have a big trip in October, and it’s the last month right now I’ll be able to do my job from home. It’s amazing. And I’m ready.

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Hi I just wanted to share I came out as nonbinary last night and my parents were really cool about it and I'm just so glad that it wasn't as bad as I feared. I hope all nonbinary people meet support and acceptance from their parents like I did.

Congratulations!!! I’m so happy for you!!! It’s wonderful hearing those positive reactions to coming out.

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So I have a fun story - I’ve officially started HRT! It’s day 2 after my first ever shot of T and MAN it’s been an interesting ride.

TBH I thought this would be harder, would require way more work, but somehow it really hasn’t been. I found a clinic in my area that offered HRT, called them, and learned I could walk in and ask to start, no appointment needed. So I did. Then the doctor did all the stuff necessary to clear me for the HRT treatment and sent me off to schedule an appointment in two weeks for my first shot. I even qualified to have my first appointment covered through a grant rather than billing my insurance.

My best friend @queer-and-sunny just happened to be there when I went for my first shot, so they came with. I went, I talked to the doctor, and they sent me to their in house pharmacy for the T. When my insurance required a prior authorization (takes 2/3 days), they just gave me a shot out of their supply. I was stunned! I didn’t have to pay extra. Everything was super chill.

I didn’t realize it could possibly be that simple.

FYI- if anyone here is living in Pittsburgh, I have the place to go for HRT 😆😆😆😆😆

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Hi sorry for the double message, my messenger thingy doesnt work very well. Do u have more info onnthe clinic u mentioned in pitt??? I just moved here and dont have health insurance any longer but id really like to get on t...

No worries! Yeah, I definitely do! It’s called the Central Wellness Outreach Center. It’s on the North Shore of Pittsburgh and it definitely seems really open to helping people who don’t have insurance. I personally do have it, so it’s not something I know the details of, but they are really nice and helpful there.

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So I have a fun story - I’ve officially started HRT! It’s day 2 after my first ever shot of T and MAN it’s been an interesting ride.

TBH I thought this would be harder, would require way more work, but somehow it really hasn’t been. I found a clinic in my area that offered HRT, called them, and learned I could walk in and ask to start, no appointment needed. So I did. Then the doctor did all the stuff necessary to clear me for the HRT treatment and sent me off to schedule an appointment in two weeks for my first shot. I even qualified to have my first appointment covered through a grant rather than billing my insurance.

My best friend @queer-and-sunny just happened to be there when I went for my first shot, so they came with. I went, I talked to the doctor, and they sent me to their in house pharmacy for the T. When my insurance required a prior authorization (takes 2/3 days), they just gave me a shot out of their supply. I was stunned! I didn’t have to pay extra. Everything was super chill.

I didn’t realize it could possibly be that simple.

FYI- if anyone here is living in Pittsburgh, I have the place to go for HRT 😆😆😆😆😆

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since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...

reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!

along with that, reblog if your account is a non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the nb spectrum!

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Guys, gals, and non-binary pals-

I have been spending the last month or so designing and creating Pride art using many different flags, many of them are ones I don’t see represented in pride gear as often. If I don’t have one that you would like to see, please let me know. I want to give representation to as many identities as I can.

Here’s a sampling of some of the flags and designs I currently have uploaded onto the website.

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#blackouttuesday

(If participating please do not put these black squares in the Bla//ck//Live//sMatt//er tags on any social media platform as it is drowning out useful information!)

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hi

i’ve made a post like this before that gained traction and donations, but the plan to move out of my state (florida) fell through completely due to my planned roommate being fired and having to get another job, and i had to spend the money i saved on food and staying in a hotel room when it was unsafe at home. i have managed to get a job even with this pandemic fucking my initial job plan up (i start at mcdonalds on friday,) but i still need help.

i have lived with an abusive mom for four years now (moved in with her at 15, i’m 19). while guilt tripping me and manipulation is what she mainly goes for, recently she’s been drinking more and having stronger outbursts. while i’m trying not to overshare, about a week ago it was around 3 in the morning when she exploded on me while drunk and tried to strangle me. calling the police was a no go, since it would have actively made shit worse (my mom would have easily gotten out of it, or i would have been homeless.) the morning after she blew up at me, we got into a screaming match and she called me a failure + selfish entitled bitch and whatever else you can think of. many family services reports were made when i was a minor, but unfortunately, THEY’RE FUCKING USELESS AND DID NOTHING TO MAKE MY SITUATION BETTER. i once begged an agent on the phone to not come to my fucking house, since i was just venting to a goddamn teacher.

i don’t have any family willing to take me in, or any friends in my state - the majority of them live in texas, and i do have a chance of moving in with one of them + his dad if i can pay rent to him and keep a stable income there. while i’m searching for a job in texas, i’m going to need funds to stay afloat.

i have $60 in my savings right now. while i now have to pay $80 a month to my mom for bills, i’ll be making either $9 or $10 an hour at mcdonalds for (hopefully) 8 hours a day. my writing commissions are open, and i also make video edits (short amvs.) i also managed to get back into therapy after about two years without it or my medication (i don’t even want to THINK about med money right now, i start therapy in june since i was able to get on medicaid for 6 months. fuck off pandemic!)

the goal to move out is $5,000 (assuming everything goes correctly this time) which is huge. i’ve set up a ko-fi with a link to my archive of our own account  and my youtube to watch my edits. any money i recieve through commissions or general donations will immediately be put into my savings and HOPEFULLY not touched until i’m able to get the fuck out of here. 

even if you can’t donate (which is ABSOLUTELY fine,) please reblog this post and share it. please don’t just like the post and leave it; it won’t be seen that way. thank you for reading this depressing ass post, and i hope you have a good day.

paypal (ignore my shitty deadname)

ko-fi

archive of our own (message me if you’d like to commission!)

youtube (what’S PoPPin’ gaYMErS iT’S yA BOi)

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hi

i’ve made a post like this before that gained traction and donations, but the plan to move out of my state (florida) fell through completely due to my planned roommate being fired and having to get another job, and i had to spend the money i saved on food and staying in a hotel room when it was unsafe at home. i have managed to get a job even with this pandemic fucking my initial job plan up (i start at mcdonalds on friday,) but i still need help.

i have lived with an abusive mom for four years now (moved in with her at 15, i’m 19). while guilt tripping me and manipulation is what she mainly goes for, recently she’s been drinking more and having stronger outbursts. while i’m trying not to overshare, about a week ago it was around 3 in the morning when she exploded on me while drunk and tried to strangle me. calling the police was a no go, since it would have actively made shit worse (my mom would have easily gotten out of it, or i would have been homeless.) the morning after she blew up at me, we got into a screaming match and she called me a failure + selfish entitled bitch and whatever else you can think of. many family services reports were made when i was a minor, but unfortunately, THEY’RE FUCKING USELESS AND DID NOTHING TO MAKE MY SITUATION BETTER. i once begged an agent on the phone to not come to my fucking house, since i was just venting to a goddamn teacher.

i don’t have any family willing to take me in, or any friends in my state - the majority of them live in texas, and i do have a chance of moving in with one of them + his dad if i can pay rent to him and keep a stable income there. while i’m searching for a job in texas, i’m going to need funds to stay afloat.

i have $60 in my savings right now. while i now have to pay $80 a month to my mom for bills, i’ll be making either $9 or $10 an hour at mcdonalds for (hopefully) 8 hours a day. my writing commissions are open, and i also make video edits (short amvs.) i also managed to get back into therapy after about two years without it or my medication (i don’t even want to THINK about med money right now, i start therapy in june since i was able to get on medicaid for 6 months. fuck off pandemic!)

the goal to move out is $5,000 (assuming everything goes correctly this time) which is huge. i’ve set up a ko-fi with a link to my archive of our own account  and my youtube to watch my edits. any money i recieve through commissions or general donations will immediately be put into my savings and HOPEFULLY not touched until i’m able to get the fuck out of here. 

even if you can’t donate (which is ABSOLUTELY fine,) please reblog this post and share it. please don’t just like the post and leave it; it won’t be seen that way. thank you for reading this depressing ass post, and i hope you have a good day.

paypal (ignore my shitty deadname)

ko-fi

archive of our own (message me if you’d like to commission!)

youtube (what’S PoPPin’ gaYMErS iT’S yA BOi)

[enbypurepositivity]

hi

i’ve made a post like this before that gained traction and donations, but the plan to move out of my state (florida) fell through completely due to my planned roommate being fired and having to get another job, and i had to spend the money i saved on food and staying in a hotel room when it was unsafe at home. i have managed to get a job even with this pandemic fucking my initial job plan up (i start at mcdonalds on friday,) but i still need help.

i have lived with an abusive mom for four years now (moved in with her at 15, i’m 19). while guilt tripping me and manipulation is what she mainly goes for, recently she’s been drinking more and having stronger outbursts. while i’m trying not to overshare, about a week ago it was around 3 in the morning when she exploded on me while drunk and tried to strangle me. calling the police was a no go, since it would have actively made shit worse (my mom would have easily gotten out of it, or i would have been homeless.) the morning after she blew up at me, we got into a screaming match and she called me a failure + selfish entitled bitch and whatever else you can think of. many family services reports were made when i was a minor, but unfortunately, THEY’RE FUCKING USELESS AND DID NOTHING TO MAKE MY SITUATION BETTER. i once begged an agent on the phone to not come to my fucking house, since i was just venting to a goddamn teacher.

i don’t have any family willing to take me in, or any friends in my state - the majority of them live in texas, and i do have a chance of moving in with one of them + his dad if i can pay rent to him and keep a stable income there. while i’m searching for a job in texas, i’m going to need funds to stay afloat.

i have $60 in my savings right now. while i now have to pay $80 a month to my mom for bills, i’ll be making either $9 or $10 an hour at mcdonalds for (hopefully) 8 hours a day. my writing commissions are open, and i also make video edits (short amvs.) i also managed to get back into therapy after about two years without it or my medication (i don’t even want to THINK about med money right now, i start therapy in june since i was able to get on medicaid for 6 months. fuck off pandemic!)

the goal to move out is $5,000 (assuming everything goes correctly this time) which is huge. i’ve set up a ko-fi with a link to my archive of our own account  and my youtube to watch my edits. any money i recieve through commissions or general donations will immediately be put into my savings and HOPEFULLY not touched until i’m able to get the fuck out of here. 

even if you can’t donate (which is ABSOLUTELY fine,) please reblog this post and share it. please don’t just like the post and leave it; it won’t be seen that way. thank you for reading this depressing ass post, and i hope you have a good day.

paypal (ignore my shitty deadname)

ko-fi

archive of our own (message me if you’d like to commission!)

youtube (what’S PoPPin’ gaYMErS iT’S yA BOi)

[enbypurepositivity]

hi

i’ve made a post like this before that gained traction and donations, but the plan to move out of my state (florida) fell through completely due to my planned roommate being fired and having to get another job, and i had to spend the money i saved on food and staying in a hotel room when it was unsafe at home. i have managed to get a job even with this pandemic fucking my initial job plan up (i start at mcdonalds on friday,) but i still need help.

i have lived with an abusive mom for four years now (moved in with her at 15, i’m 19). while guilt tripping me and manipulation is what she mainly goes for, recently she’s been drinking more and having stronger outbursts. while i’m trying not to overshare, about a week ago it was around 3 in the morning when she exploded on me while drunk and tried to strangle me. calling the police was a no go, since it would have actively made shit worse (my mom would have easily gotten out of it, or i would have been homeless.) the morning after she blew up at me, we got into a screaming match and she called me a failure + selfish entitled bitch and whatever else you can think of. many family services reports were made when i was a minor, but unfortunately, THEY’RE FUCKING USELESS AND DID NOTHING TO MAKE MY SITUATION BETTER. i once begged an agent on the phone to not come to my fucking house, since i was just venting to a goddamn teacher.

i don’t have any family willing to take me in, or any friends in my state - the majority of them live in texas, and i do have a chance of moving in with one of them + his dad if i can pay rent to him and keep a stable income there. while i’m searching for a job in texas, i’m going to need funds to stay afloat.

i have $60 in my savings right now. while i now have to pay $80 a month to my mom for bills, i’ll be making either $9 or $10 an hour at mcdonalds for (hopefully) 8 hours a day. my writing commissions are open, and i also make video edits (short amvs.) i also managed to get back into therapy after about two years without it or my medication (i don’t even want to THINK about med money right now, i start therapy in june since i was able to get on medicaid for 6 months. fuck off pandemic!)

the goal to move out is $5,000 (assuming everything goes correctly this time) which is huge. i’ve set up a ko-fi with a link to my archive of our own account  and my youtube to watch my edits. any money i recieve through commissions or general donations will immediately be put into my savings and HOPEFULLY not touched until i’m able to get the fuck out of here. 

even if you can’t donate (which is ABSOLUTELY fine,) please reblog this post and share it. please don’t just like the post and leave it; it won’t be seen that way. thank you for reading this depressing ass post, and i hope you have a good day.

paypal (ignore my shitty deadname)

ko-fi

archive of our own (message me if you’d like to commission!)

youtube (what’S PoPPin’ gaYMErS iT’S yA BOi)

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Guys, gals, and non-binary pals-

I have been spending the last month or so designing and creating Pride art using many different flags, many of them are ones I don’t see represented in pride gear as often. If I don’t have one that you would like to see, please let me know. I want to give representation to as many identities as I can.

Here’s a sampling of some of the flags and designs I currently have uploaded onto the website.

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Redbubble Store

Guys, gals, and non-binary pals-

I have been spending the last month or so designing and creating Pride art using many different flags, many of them are ones I don’t see represented in pride gear as often. If I don’t have one that you would like to see, please let me know. I want to give representation to as many identities as I can.

Here’s a sampling of some of the flags and designs I currently have uploaded onto the website.

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Sampler Giveaway March 1st 2020 through March 31st, 2020

Hi dears, it’s time for another giveaway! I adore giveaways and I think this is a fun way for anyone to enter so here we go with the prizes and rules. 

Prize: One (1) Mega wax sampler - all 13 fragrances, One (1) Mega Soap sampler - all 13 fragrances, and one (1) dragon eye notebook (winner chooses color) 

Rules:

There will only be one (1) prize, and one (1) winner. 

Giveaway will run from March 1st through March 31st, 2020 11:59 pm Central time zone

Winner will be chosen randomly, via a random number generator.

Winner has 24 hours to respond to a message to claim the prize or else it will go to another winner.

You don’t have to follow, but it is nice 

Open worldwide, I will cover the shipping costs

If you’re under 18 and enter, need a parent’s permission please 

do not tag as giveaway or that will mess up the notes and everyone will be very mad :(

REBLOGS count. Reblog as much as you like (don’t spam your followers) 

Prize will ship out somewhere around April 15th. 

If you’d rather not test your luck, or you can’t wait to get your hands on some samplers, check out my etsy shop here where almost everything is 40-50% off 

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Redbubble Store

Guys, gals, and non-binary pals-

I have been spending the last month or so designing and creating Pride art using many different flags, many of them are ones I don’t see represented in pride gear as often. If I don’t have one that you would like to see, please let me know. I want to give representation to as many identities as I can.

Here’s a sampling of some of the flags and designs I currently have uploaded onto the website.