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making art is just like showering………can’t get up and do it, can’t stop when you’ve started. you want to crawl out of your skin if you don’t do it often enough. everything in the world is the exact same

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some of yall need to understand that "my body, my choice" also applies to:

addicts in active addiction with no intention of quitting

phys disabled people who deny medical treatment

neurodivergent people who deny psychiatric treatment (yes, including schizophrenic people and people with personality disorders)

trans people who want or don't want to medically transition (yes, including trans masc lesbians with top surgery and trans women without bottom surgery, yall are so weird to them wtf)

and if you can't understand that, then you don't get to use the phrase

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You can tell when someone’s frame of reference for “normal people” is more “people at the church sponsored ice cream social” and less “people on the bus”

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People with most mainstream tastes imaginable should not open their mouth on how anti piracy they are btw. Yea no shit you can depend on legal sources to watch Marvel and listen to tswift and Maroon 5. Thank you so much for signing the petition to close that platform that was the only one i could download this 2008 romanian dungeon synth ep from

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i’m in career turmoil because:

i’m ending a program that i likely will not pursue a career in

the general state of the economy and job market

*gestures at the geopolitics of the world*

i don’t believe in or value corporate culture/inane capitalist jobs

SO. 🫵🏻 you! tell me if you like your job & what you do for work in the tags

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The absolute silliness of the egg discourse is getting talked down to about how you have to let people discover themselves, you can't tell them they're trans, this is driving people into the closet - but statistically speaking? Historically speaking? I have helped hundreds to possibly thousands of people realize they're trans and start hrt as trans mom. I literally go to pride or lgbt events around the states and someone always spots me in the crowd and thank me for helping them (and usually ask for a hug which was always nice😊). Like, I have cracked many, many, many eggs, and that's just from what I know directly talking to people over the years. And like, applaud I guess, but the truth of the matter is each person needs a different approach and sometimes the approach is straight up "hey bitch you're trans go get hrt." Sometimes it's "hey trans women often do this before they realize they're trans so you should probably think that over." And sometimes it's a long convo of listening and giving the feedback you can and slowly urge them in a direction you think would be helpful. "Never tell anyone they're trans" is absolutely a dumb rhetoric because it's just flat out wrong. And, I have wayyyy more first hand experience than you on that topic.

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full offense but i would just rather make a cis man uncomfortable once than not reach my hand out to an egg who feels like she needs permission to be trans.

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don’t forget, it’s ok to do what you need to take care of yourself

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Oh, I'm curious about this

Defining public sex as doing any sex act more intense than some over the clothes action, in a place that is not a private residence, e.g. a park, an alley, a bar, a public bathroom, etc.

Reblaaaag for more data

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3 signs a wizard has inflicted a curse on you:

vibrator dies mid use

roll a shitty joint

realize part way through your favourite song you weren't paying attention

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She soured on my sausage until I creamed.

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transfem t4t aftercare protip

a lot of transfems because of general societal transmisogyny get a pernicious brainworm that their sexuality is inherently predatory and abusive, and this can be made significantly worse after a scene where they're acting as the domme, especially after the emotional crash when it all finishes

so once you're in a mental state to do so (i personally know whenever i sub i take a good 5-10 minutes to be coherent enough to speak again), please please please reassure your domme that you wanted what she did to you and you enjoyed it all, and that your plays at resistance or stopping her were part of the moment and you would have safeworded if it did go wrong. seriously, it helps a lot to be able to hear that directly from the horse's mouth

and even if you do need to call a safeword, once you're emotionally recovered from whatever triggered you enough to need that, your domme is likely panicking that she hurt you permanently and you're going to abandon her and it is always worth reassuring that no, you still love her, accidents happen, things aren't always perfect.

dommes aren't kink dispensers, and transfem dommes are very likely to feel guilty for wanting to express that dominance at all. care for your dommes, y'all, it hurts when we're not cared for.

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I love boys that look like they’ll kill me

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the interior of a panera is designed to contain a minotaur