fancytannijin

[fancytannijin]

𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐈𝐍𝐕𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓'𝐋𝐋 𝐆𝐔𝐀𝐑𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐃𝐄𝐒𝐈𝐑𝐄

𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐏𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐎𝐅 𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅

“As soon as we succeed in transforming ourselves, the world will melt magically before our eyes and reshape itself in harmony with that which our transformation affirms.” - Neville Goddard, No One To Change But Self

What we're going to cover:

What is Self Concept

Advantages of investing in your self concept

You are God

What does an ideal self concept look like?

How to acquire an excellent self concept

Maintaining your self concept

How to know if your self concept is perfect or needs improvement

What to do

Warning: this post is long

I. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Introduction/ What is Self Concept

This is genuinely one of if not the most important topic you’ll ever educate yourself on in regards to the law of assumption so I’m gonna need your full, undivided attention. Okay? Let’s start.

Some of the most frequently asked questions I receive as a law of assumption blog are always: How can I manifest instantly? How can I know my desires are coming? How can I feel like my manifestation is mine? How can I feel it real/know it’s coming? Two words: Self Concept.

Self concept is how you see yourself in relation to the world and how you see the world in relation to you. What does that mean? Let me explain.

How you see yourself in relation to the world - who you think you are and established notions that have been cultivated through your upbringing, how secure you feel about yourself and how that’s exhibited as you interact with others as well as how you carry yourself on a day-to-day basis

How you see the world in relation to you - what you think others think about you and how you expect people to treat you, the beliefs you have about the world you live in and how they manifest into your life experiences

The assumptions you have carried up until this point have been shaped by your surroundings and life experiences. If you were bullied growing up you may have convinced yourself that you’re not good looking, not smart and not deserving of good things or perhaps you think the world is nothing but suffering and bad things are always happening to you. Maybe you’ve had several bad experiences in life which you fixated on and consequently adapted the “I’m gonna expect the worst case scenario to happen so in the chance it does I won’t feel disappointed”. Since our 3D is shaped by our assumptions they will inevitably manifest. You’ve had thoughts running on autopilot about yourself and your world that you’ve accepted as truths. By working on your self concept you are essentially throwing out an nonserving mindset and replacing it with a more favorable, practical and fruitful one.

When you have a good self concept, every facet of manifesting will fall into place, you’ll feel much more centered mentally and life simply becomes better! The world around you is a mirror of the world within you and it will inevitably reflect back to you what you think about yourself and what you think about your world.

“Consciousness is the one and only reality. We are incapable of seeing other than the contents of our own consciousness.” - No One To Change But Self

Your self concept is the key to unlocking all of your desires. Literally. The relevance of a strong self concept within the law of assumption is imperative because when you know you are God, you know you can do and have whatever you want and there’s nothing in this world that is out of your reach. When you acquire this sense of power, you will be devoid of doubts and setbacks and your desires will come to you with ease! Don’t believe me? Take a look at all of the people who have acquired results as a direct cause of investing in their self concept

II. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Advantages of investing in your self concept

Self concept is so exciting to work on because it’ll help you embody your unlimited potential! When you work on your self concept you will no longer deal with:

Victim mentality - Instead of seeing yourself as someone who always has bad things constantly happen to them you’ll see yourself as THE one on the pedestal, the one who is loved and respected and admired, You hold yourself accountable for your life and what goes on around it.

Sᴛʀᴏɴɢ ᴅɪsᴄʟᴀɪᴍᴇʀ: Aɴʏ ᴅɪsᴄᴜssɪᴏɴs ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ᴇɪʏᴘᴏ, ᴠɪᴄᴛɪᴍ ᴍᴇɴᴛᴀʟɪᴛʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴀɴɪꜰᴇsᴛɪɴɢ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜɪɴɢs ɢᴏᴏᴅ ʙᴀᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ɪɴᴅɪꜰꜰᴇʀᴇɴᴛ ᴀʙsᴏʟᴜᴛᴇʟʏ ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ᴇᴠᴇʀ ɪɴᴄʟᴜᴅᴇ ɪɴsᴛᴀɴᴄᴇs ᴏꜰ ᴛʀᴀᴜᴍᴀ ᴏʀ ᴀʙᴜsᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴀɴʏ ᴋɪɴᴅ.

“Aware of what your senses and reason dictate, you may believe that you are limited, unwanted, ignored, and mistreated; and your world confirms your belief in your imaginal activity. And if you do not know that your awareness is causing this mistreatment, you will blame everyone but yourself; yet I tell you the only cause of the phenomena of life is an imaginal activity. There is no other cause.” - Believe It In

Wishful thinking - You know how you’ve always wanted to be this or do that? You can! Or how you always wanted to play the guitar? You can! Date your celebrity crush? Doable! Look exactly like Jennie? No problem! Study abroad in your dream ivy league university? Yup! Even with a terrible GPA? Even with a terrible GPA! Nothinggggg is out of reach and when I say that I’m dead serious! You no longer need to think about how nice it would be if you could travel, draw, sing, dance whatever it is it can be yours!

Regrets - If you’re someone who resents the past for any reason because you feel like you didn’t have a great high school experience or because you missed out on a huge opportunity let me just say… It means nothing. Seriously, you can revise, you can time travel back to the past and relive it as you would have liked, whatever it is now that you know just how powerful you are as God you realize that resentment and regret don’t need to be an issue anymore! As I will repeat multiple times in this post you are in control of every single aspect of your reality. Past, present and future. Time isn’t real and whatever it is you feel like you missed out on you can have it, you can do it, you can be it.

Insecurities and jealousy - Gone are the days of you seeing some girl on Instagram you want to look like. No more wishing you could also be as artistically gifted like that person on TikTok. Bye bye to desperately wishing you could achieve your goals. Who cares whatever x person is doing, where they’re vacationing at or who they’re dating. You can have it all too!

Being treated poorly - If you assume that the people around you often screw you over, leave you, lie to you and so on, that will be exactly what you experience. With a good self concept, you will be treated with love and respect by others because you’ll come to understand that since the people in your reality have no free will, you can determine how they see you and how they behave with you!

Desires on the pedestal - When your desire is on a pedestal it means that you either see it as above you, out of reach or as something you don’t deserve. Whatever it is, know that you CAN have it and you DO deserve it. Nothing is on a pedestal when you realize just how easily you can attain it. There is no such thing as a “big” or “small” manifestation. Manifesting a $47 million mansion in Beverly Hills is just as easy as manifesting a Costco hot dog with ketchup. I don’t care what it is or how “hard” it would be for the average person to acquire. Just say the word.

Impatience - A LOT of y’all struggle with this and I understand. You want your desires NOW and you are DONE waiting. What if I told you that it is absolutely up to you when you get your desires. Yes. You can determine how long it takes, whether it’s a month, a week or a minute. You get to decide that and before you ask me how the short answer is you need to believe that you can. How can you believe that you can? Through self concept!

III. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You are God

“I urge you not to limit yourself to a little body of flesh and blood, for you are spirit. Flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, so one day you must take it off. And he who takes it off is immortal. He is your own wonderful human imagination who is God, the Father of all life. When you learn to live this way, life becomes so exciting. Your days are full and you are never alone...I close my eyes and travel the world…It expands me and makes me become more aware of the infinite being that I really am.” - Brazen Impudence

When I say you’re God I mean it literally. It’s not a figure of speech baby, you ARE GOD. You are powerful, divine and limitless. You can manifest whateeeeever the hell you want and nothing is out of reach for you. It means that your desires are inevitable because nothing can interfere with the commandment of God. If you need further context for the God thing stop and think for a second about what God cannot do... Nothing. Because God is omnipotent. God can do ANYTHING, God can HAVE anything and God can BE anything. There are NO limits to what you can do!

Nonchalance - (of a person or manner) feeling or appearing casually calm and relaxed; not displaying anxiety, interest, or enthusiasm. When you know you’re God, you’re always feeling calm and relaxed because manifesting something is as easy as deciding that it’s yours.

No more surrendering your power to external sources, okay? - As God, YOU are the one in control of everything around you. Cancel that tarot appointment, delete Co—Star and The Pattern, they do not define you nor do they get to dictate your life in any way. YOU get to decide who you are and what goes on in your life. The future is not predetermined and neither is your personality. External sources are not necessary. Think of it as hiring a tutor for your mother tongue… very unnecessary and very silly. Why would you seek something else to help you on something you can do yourself?

It is logical for God to do the illogical - To label anything as "impossible" is to severely discredit yourself. Whether it’s having bright purple eyes, bringing back someone who’s passed away, breathing underwater, becoming immortal, I could go on but you get it. Who cares what it is or how unrealistic it sounds. You can have it because you are God. And before you hit me with “if that’s true then why aren’t there success stories?” First of all, not everyone rushes to the internet to brag about what they’ve manifested. Second of all, just because there is no success story out there that does not mean you cannot do it yourself. What’s stopping you from being the first success story?

Limiting beliefs ❀ - A limiting belief is a belief that impedes you from manifesting your desires. If it sounds dumb, requires a lot of work and stop you from living your dream life it is a limiting belief. Limiting beliefs will cease to exist as you work on self concept because the more you start to pick up on the fact that you’re God you’ll soon realize that you are absolutely limitless. You can have anything and everything you want.

To list a few:

✧ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎You can’t always get what you want

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎Life is not always fair

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎The one that got away

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎Once in a lifetime

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎Fate/Destiny

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎You can’t change the past

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎You have to work hard for what you want

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎Everything happens for a reason

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎Not everyone will like you.

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎If it’s meant to be, it will be/Divine timing

These are all beliefs you can let go of once and for all because God has no limits… so these are not applicable to you.

Circumstances don’t matter - I don’t care what’s going on or what’s going on. Circumstances do not matter. In the slightest. You can manifest becoming a billionaire despite being dirt poor. You can manifest your specific person even if their wedding is next week. You can manifest the scholarship even though you’re failing every subject. Whatever it is, circumstances absolutely do not matter in the slightest and I cannot emphasize this enoughhhh like seriously if you’re limitless it doesn’t make sense to have limits whatsoever…

You control the details - Since you’re God you can pretty much dictate how a circumstance plays out. When you know this, you realize that there are a multitude of ways to handle an unfavorable situation. Let’s suppose you and your best friend who’s shown their true toxic colors had the worst fight ever and you both decided to no longer be friends. Let’s consider what you, as God, can do about the situation:

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ manifest a sincere apology

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ revise never having had that fight

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ manifest them having a personality change

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ simply manifest a new best friend.

“Are you really convinced that Jesus Christ is in you? Have you tested him? If you have and are still not sure, then you have failed the test… I tell you that Jesus Christ is your own wonderful human imagination, who is the eternal creative power of God. If you do not know that, you do not know Jesus Christ!” - God’s Creative Power

IV. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ What does an ideal self concept look like?

When you’re manifesting, there are no backups,There are no what ifs. There’s just you and your desire. Period. Circumstances are absolutely irrelevant and you don’t resort to “backup plans” and speaking of backup plans…

Elle Woods as a self concept model ❀ - Let’s talk about one of my favorite self concept icons Miss Elle Woods for a bit, specifically that scene in Legally Blonde where she sets her heart on going to Harvard law school despite the fact that her qualifications were a bit iffy. When she met with an advisor, they suggested she have some backups upon going through her transcript. Did Elle let that discourage her from applying anyway? Did she listen to her and go “hmm, maybe she’s right I should pick some backups.” Nope. She said “I don’t need backups, I’m going to Harvard”. You know what happened? She went to Harvard. Even though her application wasn’t the most suitable for law school as a fashion merchandising student, even though she was initially struggling when studying. Even with the circumstances not being in her favor, Elle persisted and got in because she didn’t let rejection be an option.

What can we learn from Elle?

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Know what you want and be brazenly impudent

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Don’t take no for an answer

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Pay no mind to unfavorable circumstances, if any

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎Approach your desires with the confidence and certainty that they’re yours the moment you claim them, because they are!

Experiencing life with a strong and affirmative self concept is like viewing a catalogue of absolutely anything you can have for yourself. Scrolling through tumblr and see your dream face and body? You can look like that. Inspired by your comfort character’s personality? You can be just like them. An angelic singing voice like your favorite artist? You can have it. Obsessed with the latest Versace collection? You can own it. You watched a K-Drama with the most dreamy romantic love story you’ve ever heard of? You can experience that. Your world famous celebrity crush? You can date them. You can have anything you lay your eyes on. Nothing is off limits ❀

The thought process you should be having should look something like this:

“I can have whatever I want. Nothing is out of reach for me. That can be me too, there’s no need for me to be jealous. I know that circumstances do not matter when it comes to my desires and I do not need to lift a finger to manifest. I don’t need to freak out over not having something when I know it’s mine the moment I say it is.”

Pay attention to the thoughts you have daily and what you think instinctively when it comes to something you want. It may take some time, but soon enough you’ll let go of the lacking mentality and gradually acquire the knowing mentality. When you do, you will feel closer to your desires and see them as something you can obtain rather than something you could.

I hope I get the job → I’m getting the job

If he asks me out → When he asks me out

I wish I could do that → I can do that too

I want to look just like them → They look just like me

V. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ How to acquire an excellent self concept

Use your favorite manifesting method - Manifesting is not a one size fits all! I really suggest you tryout different methods and see which one you like most

Command your subconscious mind

The easiest and quickest method. Command your subconscious mind to give you the best self concept ever! Do it once and know that it’s yours.

Use the State Akin To Sleep ❀

You can try the lullaby method and affirm “I have an excellent self concept” over and over again until you fall asleep. Or you can always try vaunting, imagine yourself bragging (emphasis on bragging) to a friend about how you have a brand new self concept and it’s successfully given you your every desire.

Visualize

I want you to imagine yourself as the best possible version of you. You’re someone who always gets what they want, who excels at everything, manifests effortly, who’s the center of attention everywhere they go, nothing feels out of reach for you, you live such a happy and fulfilled life because you never have to deal with failure, rejection, stress or sadness ever again.

Know - The other easiest and fastest method is just knowing. If you dwell in knowing that you have a good self concept and you naturally embody that it’ll quickly harden into fact

Affirm - I like to stick to five affirmations or less because it’s easier for me to remember them, but you can have 2157 affirmations for all I care. Make affirming fun for self concept! It should not feel like you’re feeding a newborn and you’re forcing yourself to do that once every few hours. Please do not make it a job. Amp up your affirmations or do whatever else necessary so it doesn’t feel like you’re affirming robotically. Remember, state your affirmations as FACTS. Don’t just read through them once and call it a day. Embody them, feel them, acknowledge them. It’s okay if you don’t actually believe the affirmation itself, just keep affirming because eventually they will harden into fact!

Vaunting ❀ - My absolute favorite way to affirm. If you don’t know what vaunting means, it’s literally just bragging! This method is perfect if you struggle to focus while affirming and if you’re not sure how to affirm in a way that doesn’t come off dull and boring. When I was vaunting I would script and go on tangents about how I’m God and I can do all these different things and because I love you all so much I went ahead and wrote out a little self concept vaunt example:

My life has been so wonderful lately! Everything always works out in my favor, I always get what I want and whatever I say goes! Every aspect of my life is ideal because all of my desires have been fulfilled. I am the one who has it all and I am living the life of my dreams. You know why? Because I literally have the best self concept ever. I know for a fact that I am the architect of my life and the world around me is my own ideal creation. I’m not even impatient anymore because I know that whatever I want is mine the moment I say it is. Manifesting is the easiest thing in the world for me to do. Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time.

When to affirm

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ During the State Akin To Sleep - The first 30 minutes after waking up and right before you go to bed

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Anytime you think of yourself or your desires

A few self concept affirmations to choose from:

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Whatever I want is mine the moment I say it is

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I am the architect of my life

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ The world around me is my own ideal creation

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Everything always works out in my favor

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I do not take no for an answer

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Whatever I say, goes.

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ It is mine the moment I say it is

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Manifesting is the easiest thing in the world for me to do

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I always get what I want

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Every aspect of my life is perfect

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ All of my desires have been fulfilled

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Whatever I want is mine the moment I say it is

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I am the one who has it all

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I am living the life of my dreams

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Every aspect of my life is ideal

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I am secure, successful and happy

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Everything always falls into place for me

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time. ❀

VI. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Maintaining your self concept

It’s so easy to come on Tumblr and feel powerful after reading a single post only for you to go back to your day-to-day routine and that power wears off and you start to feel average again, so here are a few tricks that helped me maintain my self concept.

Read Neville - What really truly helped cultivate and maintain my self concept was reading Neville. I would go days without reading his lectures and my self concept would shrivel like a prune and I noticed when I was most consistent in reading and listening to what he said I felt sooooo much better and reassured. Indulging yourself in Neville’s work will have you feeling and KNOWING that you are God. His books and lectures are FILLED with success stories of people who’ve done what would’ve otherwise been considered impossible!. I cannot emphasize enough the importance of reading Neville when indulging in the law of assumption, especially as a beginner. He will make you feel SO powerful and your self concept will skyrocket! Neville’s work is a good way to keep educating yourself about the law of assumption as well as to continue reminding of the success that comes with applying the law.

Any Neville lecture will do because his diction is impeccable and so motivating! There aren’t any books nor lectures that specifically focus on self concept since many of the principles of the law are discussed across many of his lectures briefly. However, any lecture with the words “God”, “I” or “I am” will touch on self concept for sure. Don’t forget the ones i’ve repetitively quoted as well. Here are a few great ones:

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ No One To Change But Self

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ God’s Creative Power

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Your Faith Is Your Fortune

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ At Your Command

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏���‎‎‏‏‎ God Became Man

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Brazen Impudence

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I Am The Lord

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ The Law and The Promise

Read success stories - I think this is slightly underrated but also a bit of an obvious one. I love reading success stories because I get to see what I can manifest too and Neville's work is filled with them! Below are 160 stories from the wonderful Angel’s page.

85 success stories from my page using my advice

75 success stories from my page using my advice

Mental diet - Mental diets are great and I love them so much. This is what helped me to keep my new mentality in check. Be selective as hell with what gets your attention and what’s worth thinking about. When you indulge in a mental diet you’ll learn to become more aware of the thoughts you are having as you go out into the world. Have a bad thought? Correct yourself immediately but also don’t drive yourself crazy doing this. You don’t have to FLIP EVERY SINGLE THOUGHT you have. We have about 6,000 thoughts a day, so… This could take some practice, so start slow and you’ll get the hang of it little by little.

Manifest “small” things - This one is also a no brainer because why wouldn't you be trying it out? Here are some little things you can manifest:

✧ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎the saturn emoji 🪐

✧ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎a purple butterfly

✧ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎a message that says ily

✧ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎the number 555

✧ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎an orchid

As you manifest all of these successfully you’ll become more and more certain about your capacity!

Use a notebook - This is a great little habit you can also use to track what you’ve successfully manifested as well as to point out the changes you’re starting to see in your life. If you have tangible evidence of the progress you’re making it’ll only encourage yourself more and more to continue! If you’d be doing so for self concept some points could look like this:

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I am being treated much better by my loved ones

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ My manifestations come so much quicker

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ I am not as insecure as I used to be

Scripting tangents - I mentioned this for vaunting but I used to loveeeeee scripting tangents about being God and how I was going to give myself the life of my dreams and I was done being a victim and how I will be able to travel and be wealthy and date whoever I want live wherever I want literally anything I could think of as I wrote because as I’ve said over and over again, you are limitless. You’ll never run out of things to list that you can manifest because there is nothing you cannot have, do or be!

VII. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ How to know if your self concept is perfect or needs improvement

You know you have a good self concept when:

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You no longer deal with negative emotions

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You stop wondering if you can manifest _ because you know the answer is always yes

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You don’t bother settling or taking no for an answer

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You no longer seek external validation of any kind

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You’re in a good mood more frequently and feel better overall

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You acknowledge your desires matter-of-factly

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You don’t care about the how, it’s happening no matter what

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You’re naturally optimistic

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Good things happen more frequently

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You don’t get impatient about manifesting

Some indicators that your self concept needs improvement are:

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You validate logic

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You accept defeat

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You’re still checking the 3D

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You still see life as something that happens to you

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You have that little intrusive voice whenever you read a success story

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You have beliefs that stop you from manifesting what you want

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You’re pedestalizing anything, whether it’s a specific person, a desire or a method

✧‎‎‎‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ You still think you cannot manifest certain things

VIII. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ What to do

Note that regardless of what you’re struggling with you absolutely can manifest. Don’t worry! When I first started working on my self concept I remember encountering circumstances that challenged my affirmations. I didn’t always get what I wanted, but that didn’t matter. Internally, I continued to affirm “I always get what I want :)” and that’s what I would encourage you to do as well. Remember that your subconscious mind cannot tell right from wrong, think about the thoughts that you’re feeding it and what it’s hearing from you (again, mental diet 101).

“The signs always follow. They never precede. Things have no reality other than in consciousness. Therefore, get the consciousness first and the thing is compelled to appear.” - At Your Command

Persist - Also another issue I’m frequently asked about. Not seeing results? PERSIST, BITCH. PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER. Remind yourself of who you are and what you're capable of! If you’re not getting what you want, remind yourself “This stemmed from me and the same way I can manifest what I didn’t want I can also manifest what I dowant.” Take responsibility where it’s due. Whatever happens do not give up and do not take no for an answer.

“And you can believe anything in if you will not accept the facts your senses dictate; for nothing is impossible to imagine, and imagining - persisted in and believed - will create its own reality.” - Believe It In

Impatience and dwelling on failure - What I absolutely do NOT want you to do is dwell on the fact that you’re struggling. It’s okay to acknowledge that your desires haven’t arrived YET, but as long as you persist in what you DO want (to have an excellent self concept) it’s okay! But please stop fixating on how you’re not getting results and how you’re not doing this or don’t have that, what you focus on GROWS

“Man insists on talking about his problems. He seems to enjoy recounting them and cannot believe that all he needs to do is state his desire clearly. If you believe that imagination creates reality, you will never allow yourself to dwell on your problems, for you will realize that as you do you perpetuate them all the more.” - Believe It In

Intrusive thoughts - We’ve all dealt with intrusive thoughts at one point or another and people will deal with them different ways. Some people decide not to process such thoughts as negative and let them pass by naturally. I’m going to list three different ways I dealt with my intrusive thoughts

Interruption

I had two methods of interruption I opted for. When I had “what if” moments I often interrupted those thoughts by affirming “it is done” and I said that over and over again every single time that came up, like this:

“What if it doesn’t hap-”

“It is done.”

“But-”

“It is done.”

The other method wasI would finish the intrusive thought off in a positive note like this:

“why is my life so-”

“perfect in every possible way? I’m honestly so in love with my life like I am literally the happiest person on earth I think”.

Telling them to shut up

I would envision my intrusive thoughts coming from someone else despite knowing it was me but anyway when I would have one literally respond mentally with “shut up, BITCH” the same way the rock did (like I would LITERALLY use his exact same tone and aggression while doing this lmao) and counter affirm and they stopped!

Deciding I didn’t have any

After so much redundancy of combatting my intrusive thoughts I had the sudden epiphany that I could just manifest them away… I was so surprised I didn't think of it earlier. Whenever one was coming up I would just be like “nope nope nope I don’t have intrusive thoughts I have never had one of those in fact, what’s an intrusive thought? Never heard of that” and they went away in two days <3

Doubting the law - If you have felt like this because you somehow think it’s too good to be true then you’re not alone, I was once there too. I constantly thought to myself, what if the law ends up not being real after all and what if i have to go back to struggling? I’m here to tell you that doubt is completely normal. Besides, get a load of how much Neville Goddard’s work is out there… a lot of us follow his teachings and have reaped the benefits of doing so! It’s not like we all mutually agreed to conjure up a random figure from the seventies and founded a community around him and pretend we have our desires just to troll people on the internet… That’s weird as hell. Anyway! If you’re feeling like this, read my post on doubt. As I have stated previously, having just a little bit of faith will take you so far in your manifesting journey.

Spiraling - Okay bff if you’re spiraling stay with me okay you can get through this now let’s take three deep breaths okay? In……[Hold for five seconds and then]……Out (3x) Now repeat after me:

“I am capable of manifesting anything I could ever want because my word is gospel. Even if the 3D has not conformed yet, I know that it will no matter what. Intrusive thoughts and negative emotions hold no power over me and nothing can interfere with the manifestation of my desires. I am in control of every aspect of my reality and what I say goes. Because I am God, I know for a fact that I manifest instantly, perfectly and without fail every single time.”

The reason why I have literally never dealt with a spiral (aside from having a great self concept) is because I’m conscious of just how much control I have over my reality. No matter what the predicament is, there is always always a solution because you are always in control. Recall my previous example of the toxic best friend and the multitude of ways you could deal with it. Whenever an issue comes up it’s pretty much “whatever, I can just manifest myself out of this predicament”. That’s literally why I don’t bat a lash whenever something would happen that I would’ve been stressed over. Think about it, as God you’re in control of everything, why would you freak out? It’s completely silly, baby. The world is entirely yours.

“There is no limit to the power of belief or to the possibilities of prayer, but you must be brazenly impudent and not take No for an answer. Try it! When I say you are all imagination, I mean it.” - Brazen Impudence

Feeling overwhelmed or anxious - Manifesting should NOT be stressing you out so if you’re feeling awful take a break! Don’t beat yourself up if it didn’t work out! Pick yourself back up and try again. Go back to the basics and have a fresh start. Get back to that beginner level and take a few baby steps, manifest little things to gradually build up your confidence. Take it slow and don’t impose so much pressure on yourself to do this correctly from the start. Didn’t go out as planned? Don’t worry, just try again. Take all the time you need until you feel more calm and relaxed. Your self concept won’t collapse in itself if you take a little break from it, I promise.

Doing without belief - A HUGE no-no, my love! Belief is a must when applying the law. If you’re not believing you are performing in vain. If this is what you're struggling with I recommend reading my post: How To Cultivate Your Belief In The Law.

Overconsumption - If you’ve over consumed info and thinking “oh no, I have confused myself to the point of no return” and idk where to go from here, here’s what I want you to do

Delete Tumblr (or the social media you consume from)

Stick to a single source (Neville of course)

Work on your self concept (use this post)

Now, here’s a little motivational rant:

Think about everything you'd be surrendering if you quit now! You deserve to live the life you've always wanted. You deserve to wake up every single day fulfilled knowing that you are living out all of your wildest greatest dreams. You deserve to be able to look at yourself in the mirror in disbelief at how ethereal you look. You deserve to feel ecstatic every time you get what you want. You deserve to indulge in every pleasurable experience the world has to offer. You deserve love, peace of mind, abundance and joy. You are worthy of that and so much more! Stop entertaining ideas that suggest that you are not good enough to manifest your desires. Do not take no for an answer. Do not let the 3D discourage you. Actually, don't let ANYTHING discourage you. Pay no mind to the intrusive thoughts that insist you can't manifest. Yes you can and yes you will. No matter what happens, persist in the fact that you are a master at manifesting and you're not gonna accept anything else. You'll be damned if you settle for mediocrity when you know you can have it all. You are so so so close to having the world at your fingertips, don't stop now! All of the doubts lingering are simply your old self trying to get you to stay where you are because this is new territory for you and it can feel scary. Don't let it win! Discomfort, uncertainty and doubt are signs that you're growing out of your old self concept and transitioning into a new state of awareness. Keep going! Take it little by little and know that you can do this. There's no "maybe I can", there's no "everyone can manifest but me". You can have and do absolutely anything you want except fail to manifest. I believe in you and I know you have what it takes to go the distance and manifest the life of your dreams. It's your birthright. You're God. Not a God, the God. Whatever you say has to and will pull through because you're limitless and inevitable, my love. You can do this!

For a bit of a twist I’m about to get a little mean for those of you that wanted this so if tough love isn’t your cup of tea keep scrolling

Is it not dumb as hell for you to be whining and bitching about not getting something you CAN get? Why are you crying over a situation YOU caused? you literally cannot lose unless YOU let that be an option. Enough complaining and crying WHEN are you gonna get tired of standing in your own way? You are the one who literally gets to determine whether or not you get your manifestations, how quickly you get them you are responsible for EVERYTHING. You’re the only one who’s capable of sabotaging that for you. It is literally nobody’s fault but your own if you’ve been struggling to manifest. At some point you just have to put your foot down and decide that you’re DONE not getting your desires and you’re TIRED of your own shit. All of it CAN be yours at YOUR command. Why are you victimizing yourself? Why are you having all these pointless intrusive thoughts about how you can’t manifest this or you can’t have that. WHY? Why are you making up fake bs ass scenarios in your head? Why are you focusing on shit you don’t want? Your only task is to think about what you DO want and forget about what you don’t. That’s such pathetic behavior coming from someone who’s limitless. I'm sorry. Worrying about what you don’t want is such a huge waste of time. The only thing that should be receiving your attention is your desires and nothing else. Enough of this victim complex of yours. You can have, you can do, you can be as you please without a single limit and here you are thinking you can’t have something or someone? Please. Don’t discredit yourself like that. Enough of you whining and bitching about this and that idc you’re getting your desires and that is FINAL. Stop getting in your own way B!TCH! “This is hard :(“ “No I can’t :(” no it isn’t and yes you can. Please stop crying about how you can’t manifest and how you are the exception now the hell you are not. The same god within me is the same God within you. Argue with the wall, I don’t wanna hear it. Anyway, when you’re done crying and whining, pick yourself back up and persist. You’re not gonna be a fucking loser on my watch.

IX. ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎‎‏‏‎ Outro

I hope this post has drilled the indispensability of s great self concept into your head! I cannot urge you enough to work on your self concept because it is the key to everything. No more looking for the perfect post, the perfect technique, the confirmation. Everything starts with you. Manifesting is your birthright and an excellent self concept will make it EASIER QUICKER and EFFORTLESS, you will not deal with intrusive thoughts impatience spirals none of that BS will come about with a good self concept You can still manifest with all of these issues but why not just refrain from dealing with them to begin with? Persistence in your new conception of self will create a new world for you. The life of your dreams starts here, baby. For more in-depth context on being on the pedestal, becoming your most confident self and transforming yourself into that bitch stay tuned for my upcoming spinoff of this post: How To Become The Most Iconic It Girl In Your Reality. Until then, my loves!

Bonus: Here is a Google doc version of this post so you can have it on you if you ever need it!

“You are already that which you seek and you have no one to change but self in order to express it.” - No One To Change But Self

[fancytannijin]

Um,thank you so much🙃🥰Though it's unexpected but thank you🥰🥰🥰🥰

Hi! Merry Christmas 🎄⛄

I would love to participate in your game🥰🥰

My initials are TM

Moon sign is Virgo and sun sign is Aquarius

I would like to know about my life in next five years.

Thank you so much🥰🥰

Have a great day/night🥰

-a new creative endevour or getting pregnant?

-a new begining

-meeting someone romantic

[fancytannijin]

ASK GAME!

first of all merry christmas loves! since new year is here soon i wanted to do a last ask game for this year!

so the game is

.

three lines description about one of the topic from below~

-future spouse personality

-life in 5 years from now

-career advice

-love life advice( please describe your situation)

-about 2022(love,career /any one)

rules:

-be respectful

- i will take my time to answer this don't worry your ask will be answered

-no anonymous

-reblog this, follow me, like this post

-initials,sun/moon sign

-leave a feed back

GAME WILL CLOSE WHEN I REACH 50 ASKS

GAME STATUS

OPEN! YOU'RE LUCKY~~

[fancytannijin]

ASK GAME!

first of all merry christmas loves! since new year is here soon i wanted to do a last ask game for this year!

so the game is

.

three lines description about one of the topic from below~

-future spouse personality

-life in 5 years from now

-career advice

-love life advice( please describe your situation)

-about 2022(love,career /any one)

rules:

-be respectful

- i will take my time to answer this don't worry your ask will be answered

-no anonymous

-reblog this, follow me, like this post

-initials,sun/moon sign

-leave a feed back

GAME WILL CLOSE WHEN I REACH 50 ASKS

GAME STATUS

OPEN! YOU'RE LUCKY~~

[fancytannijin]

Hey hey! I hope you’re having a great day so far and staying safe!!💙

I would like to ask for a private selca ship with ateez please 🥰

Thank you so so much in advance and take care!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Hi!! @kpop-ship-silver thanks for requesting 🥰🥰

In Ateez,I ship you with...

Yeosang

I think you and Yeosang have a similar jawline and face structure. Like it's really good. I feel you and him both have beautiful but also cute looks. Like you and him would look amazing together,I see that Yeosang himself might like your naturally beautiful face. This makes me think that you and him would have a good relationship as well,I am not saying in romantic way but also in platonic way. You and him match each other's looks and its very admirable.

Hope you liked your ship. Please request further ships in @roseymess . Merry Christmas and have a great day/night🥰🥰🥰🥰

[fancytannijin]

Hi!! @bimbodemongf thanks for requesting 🥰

In Skz,I ship you with...

Felix

I saw you and immediately Felix came to mind. I think you also have a bit of freckles? But if not ,even so you remind me of Felix. You and him have such similar looks,like damn you two would be wrecking people if you stand next to each other. You also have a pretty adorable look that I feel Felix will definitely love about you.

In Blackpink,I ship you with....

Rosé

I feel you are beautiful and cute while Rosé has this certain grace and beauty to herself. Like you two would make a beauty and grace explosion. I can imagine Rosé in this hair colour standing next to you ,and omg,you two would look AMAZING together. I also feel Rosé herself,would find you very cute and adorable. She would love your smile.

Nct

I feel like Jaemin has a very princely appearance to himself? So that makes me ship you with him,like yes,you do give me princess or atleast the graceful,playful vibes so I feel Jaemin would match your vibes well. I literally did ship based on looks, entirely so I can't have enough reasons. But yes,I definitely ship you with Jaemin.

Hope you liked your ship. Please request further ships @roseymess , that's my main blog,if you are interested again. Take care🥰🙏

[fancytannijin]

Hello dear I hope you are doing well. If its not too much trouble could I request a selca ship for BTS, Stray Kids and Seventeen? (Hopefully the pictures send alright tumblr hates me) Thank you so much in advance and I hope you are having a wonderful day/night💜

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Hi!! @sugakookielix thanks for requesting 💜

In BTS I ship you with .....

Suga

Like you have such 🥺-this emoji eyes and looks,it immediately reminded me of our cat. But the second pic you looked pretty hot and cute. I think he would love your style and duality you have. Like you have a cute but also a goth/mysterious vibes?? So I think he would find that pretty attractive.

In Stray Kids,I ship you with ...

Bangchan

So I feel you might be someone who is quiet in real world but an extrovert in social media and stuff? Sorry,those are vibes I got. So I feel Bangchan would suit you more. He is like this sweetheart who would understand you,always take care of your needs. I feel you and him,have like similar cheeks. Thats sooo cute.

In Seventeen,I ship you with...

Jun

I think you have a very adorable and sassy face? So that makes me ship you with Jun. Jun is actually someone who fits the social norms of being "handsome" and the two of you give off such contrasting vibes,like his vibes are literally cherry boy meanwhile you have a sassy but cute vibes,so that makes me ship you with him. You and him would complement each other very well😍🥰

Hope you liked your ship. Please request further ships to @roseymess thats my main blog as this blog is my side one. I am returning to that blog. Take care🥰🥰🥰🥰

[fancytannijin]

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

[fancytannijin]

Idk why but the recent events that happened in Tumblr really makes me ignore pages that do future spouse readings of celebrities. It makes so uncomfortable now😓💀

[fancytannijin]

Pile 2 wow,it was spot on.

𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐔𝐒 𝐑𝐗 𝐌𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐀𝐆𝐄𝐒 (𝐼𝑛𝑡𝑢𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑃𝐴𝐶 𝑅𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔)

Venus has finally entered retrograde. From now (December 19th) until January 29th, the planet of love will give the emotion of going backwards. You should be expecting a lot of people from the past coming back but, since Venus is on Capricorn this time, you're being asked to be responsible and mature about yours and other people's feelings, don't do anything impulsive, specially with your appearance and in your love life, you might regret it once Venus goes direct. Anyways, the effects from this retrograde will last until March 1st.

These readings are mainly focused on you and your experience during the entirety of this transit, I put two songs and one book recommendation at the end of every single reading, I haven't read many books so I'm not really qualified to tell you what to read or not.

I made this completely trusting my intuition, without tarot cards so, if a reading doesn't resonate with you, that's okay! These were super fun to make, i felt every single reading was so unique on its own it was so entertaining!

DISCLAIMER: I used the words "you" and "very" more times than ever before. Trigger warning; annoying bookworm.

LASTLY: Please pick a pile carefully, don't do it if you're too stressed or tired or distracted, it will affect your decision and the reading might not resonate. Take your time choosing a pile!

𝐏𝐈𝐋𝐄 𝟏 𝐏𝐈𝐋𝐄 𝟐

𝐏𝐈𝐋𝐄 𝟑 𝐏𝐈𝐋𝐄 𝟒 𝐏𝐈𝐋𝐄 𝟓

𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑜𝑛𝑒; “𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑘 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑢𝑟𝑒.”

«If I don't keep trying, who would do it for me? If i don't keep pushing forward, how would I move? If it's all in my hands, who will hold them when they can't hold anything anymore?»

You exude confidence, maybe you have a strong presence encompassed by a loud voice, or a voice as quick as your mind. Your head goes 100 per minute and when something passes your mind, the next second is in your mouth. Brutal honesty is something you value in everybody in your life, as you were growing up you were the responsible one, a parent to your siblings, you never had a proper childhood, it was taken from you at a very young age. You might've had to do though decision because your parents weren't qualified to deal with adult things. You used to go out a lot as a teenager, and, as you've gotten older, you have developed an aversion to those kind of parties. You like wearing tight clothing, such as dresses and knee socks or lingerie. I would go as far as to say you like showing skin, showing parts of your body you are proud of and you'd like people to appreciate too. You've dyed your hair blonde, strawberry blonde or a light red. You have a short temper and you're a very anxious person, your relatives respect you or talk bad about you behind your back, you probably already knew this, and you probably don't care anymore. You turn to addictions like smoking or binge-eating, work? You're not a drinker unless it's a very specific drink. You're meeting someone you knew for a long time in a new way, a romantic way. You have Leo in your Sun/Moon/Rising, Aries rising, Capricorn Venus, Taurus rising, Taurus somewhere, Mercury Rx, Leo or Aquarius North Node/4H.

Venus Rx has a lot of ups and downs for you, don't be scared, as the challenges you are about to experience will be short-lived, they will help you in the long run to be a more resilient person and not to be so pessimistic. There's a lot on your shoulders and, normally you are used to it's weight but it's been getting tiring lately, the universe has been giving you a lot this year and it's all been for your greater good, you have been going through a lot of transformers this year. So many, you wouldn't even recognize the person you were this time last year, do you look at yourself in the mirror and see someone you don't know? There's been a disconnection between your mind and body, you walk and work and do your chores but your mind is absent from everything, nothing has been fulfilling you lately. Venus going retrograde in Capricorn is going to ask you to slow down, sit down and think where do you plan to go in life, or in 2022. You are not the kind of person to just do things because, you need passion and drive and motivation, you've been doing things because it's the job and it has to be done. But you can't spend your life disconnecting from things when you don't want to do them, to do them. You are meant to do more, you want more, “more, more, more” you know you have a talent, an ability and a way of doing things no one else does. Why are you settling down? Is unlike you. My advice for you on this period is to rest, going on a vacation or a weekend getaway is what you need as of now. In terms of love, since Venus is the planet of love and it's going to be in retrograde, every decision that you make about this topic will have a huge impact until March, scary, right? Your love life has been very moved as of these last few months, you have various suitors but your eyes are focused on someone else. Don't worry for reciprocation, this person feels the same for you, they are so obsessed with you. But this is a newly relationship, or it's yet not official, you both have to take it slow, even if you don't want to sometimes. You and this person have to be very careful this time since stupid fight scan arise from misunderstanding and miscommunication. You must trust the other person and be patient to each other's feelings, this is a delicate time for people in real in general. If you've been planning on starting, or have started, a project as an entrepreneur, don't put yourself down everytime things don't go according to plan, have faith and, if you are feeling stressed or tired, taking breaks is going to help you a lot. You need to work more on your creativity and motivation, I'd recommend crystals to help you with that kind of stuff. And rest!

𝑆𝑜𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; Florida Kilos by Lana Del Rey, Video Games by Lana Del Rey

𝐵𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; the seven husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid

𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑡𝑤𝑜; “𝐼 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒, 𝑜𝑟 𝑑𝑒𝑎𝑡ℎ.”

«When you've been alone for as long as I, you too will start to romanticize everything around you, to me, tenderness is a luxury I can only see from afar.»

You are a hopeless romantic from the get-go, you like the idea of love, soulmates and the happily ever after but you fail to put much effort in relationships when things get though. People around you, and suitors, see you as an angel, a majestic being that has a soft nature to them, they are naturally drawn to you and you can have a lot of secret admirers, beware of stalkers. You like writing or acting a lot, art is a form of romance, you've probably been single for a very long time or never had a partner, despite your beautiful and inviting aura, you are still waiting for “the one”, you'll know who they are when you see them. There's almost a childlike nature in your way of expressing affection, sometimes selflessly, others selfishly, you move and do things according to your mood of the moment. A very sensitive person, both in good and in bad ways, you feel a lot and it can be very overwhelming, you write, paint, create as a way, not only because you're passionate but because it calms you down, it puts your feet back to earth, you have a thing for renaissance paintings and music in other languages. Your childhood was very difficult and tumultuous, you grew up in a extremely dysfunctional home, and so you've learnt to be quite and passive and the peacekeeper. This has followed you in your adult life, fearing your parents will no longer like or tolerate you of you'd talked. You have a really long hair or are in process of growing it. Taurus is very present in your chart, Taurus or 2H stellium, Taurus rising, Venus dominant, Venus Rx as the chart ruler, Virgo in 5H.

For this Venus Rx, your creativity will be tested the most, Venus rules creativity and you have been putting off your calling for a long time. For an unfulfilling job? Helping people or relatives that never gave back the same energy? You've been busy, trying to be busy so you won't do what you said you were going to do. I get it, making art is difficult, it's not an office job and it can be emotionally draining, but you have been postponing something very specific. If you have been thinking of sending your resume or your tape to a casting but haven't done it out of shame, Venus Rx will bring back that irking sensation of an opportunity being missed, and it's probably true. If you are a frustrated writer and are scared to send your manuscript or start your story, Venus retrograde in Capricorn will give you the strength to be discipline and just do it. Your theme from now (December 19th) till March is; just do it. You have a vision that you want to share with the world, you've probably been looked down or ignored by your relatives when you talked about your interests and hobbies and such, but you are grown now. They do not control you or what you decide to do with your life. In terms of love, because Venus is the planet of love, and it going retrograde will bring up a lot of uncomfortable questions we've avoided to ask ourselves, you have to be honest with your feelings and also be careful with whom you share such feelings. Somebody is watching you, stalking you, they are obsessed with you and this energy can't be good, if they look like a friend or a possible suitor, be very careful, their energy is weird. You have been alone for quite some time, or never had a romantic relationship, and you're grown, and getting tired. Do not settle for the first person that gives you flowers, because you might regret it later, asset yourself, ask yourself why do you feel the need to be with someone else, do you feel unfilled in life? Do you think a partner will fix that? Art not only is your passion but also your partner, your truest love, your other half and your soulmate. And you're being a neglectful lover to them!

𝑆𝑜𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; Achilles Come Down by Gang of Youths, gold rush by Taylor Swift

𝐵𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; the song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑒𝑒; “𝐼'𝑚 𝑠𝑚𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑢𝑛𝑠𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑠𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑑.”

«Life is so cruel to those who are different, they are mocked and used, discarded and hurted, the only kind hand they know is loneliness itself.»

You are an erudite, a very capable and smart person that others look up to. You might had been the best in the class in school, and even at college, your coworkers and colleagues admire you but it's really difficult to get to know you since you like being alone a lot. Your mind is always on the go and you dissociate from reality to your mind palace often, others might think you are ignoring them or you don't like them, when in truth you are in your own little world. This is why you have a few hidden enemies, these people think you think you're above them and thus creating this fake rivalry, your disconnection to the real world can be dangerous, people can think of you as a selfish, narcissistic person that's only focus on themselves. You have a very distorted view of yourself, you don't deem yourself smart or talented or unique as people say, you have been battling an internal fight between doing the things that you feel passion for, and the impostor syndrome you've had since you were young. There's someone here that seems to be a karmic relationship, a faithful union that has a purpose. You and this person are similar in a lot of things and this triggers the other, as they see themselves in each other, you are both intelligent people with a sick need to be perfect in everything you do, far away from society and the real world, I can see that meeting this person was like going back to earth, although you might not be meant to end up together, the purpose of this meeting is apparent. You could have a Capricorn or 10H stellium, a water rising, Virgo Sun/Moon/Asc, Aquarius Sun/Moon/Asc, air dominant, earth sign in the 7H, Saturnian dominant, Saturn Rx, Moon/Rising, water and air are significant placements in both.

You have been trying to find a purpose in life right now, but nothing seems good or motivates you enough, you are a standstill, which is very stressful for you, not doing anything is really bad for your already busy mind, you've spent a lot more time in your head as of lately and thinking on how to move forward to start a project or find a new job or change your life a little bit. You are taking others advise since your mind is foggy and you don't know what to do next, what do you want to do? Sitting still is something you are used to, maybe for work, but when it comes to your thoughts is like you are stuck in what ifs and it's clouding your vision, you need to reassert yourself and find a way to center yourself. In a literal sense, you should really take time off your phone and get out of the house to a place in nature, taking walks alone is also going to really help you reorganize your thoughts and ideas, you are used to dealing with these issues on your own, when it comes to matters of the mind you are better at resolving them on your own, at your own pace. When it comes to matters of the heart, your logical thinking can get in the way of rational thinking and you end up ignoring your emotions all together because you don't know how to deal with them. This Venus retrograde is perfect to ask for help when it comes to feelings if it's something you've struggled with your whole life, asking for advice will give you a new perspective and you'd be able to think clearly instead of getting nervous because you don't know how to deal with the situation at hand. In love, Venus Rx, since it's the planet of love going backwards, it will bring up that person a lot, your mind will start wonder what are they up to and you might even dream a lot of them, if you are no talking to them anymore, but if you're still in contact, dreams can still be recurring as this person is also thinking about you a lot too. It's true that this transit brings back past people as one is reminiscing about the past and past relationships more often now. I don't like telling people about reunions especially as this transit can make a person do things without thinking of the consequences, but there seems to be a reunion between you and this other person, I can't be 100% sure but you might stumble with each other on accident or this person will come talk to you out of nowhere, don't be scared! You will get really anxious since you haven't talked to them in a long time and things might've ended up with coldness and one ghosting the other. If this occurs, you have to be mindful that this is a very delicate time for relationships, of this person doesn't seem genuine about their intentions or feelings, you should cut them off, but if they want to have a serious, honest conversation, don't panic either, as you might have a tendency to run away when it comes to showing vulnerability, just like them. If you are willing to talk and listen to each other, this can end up in a heart-to-heart conversation that'll clear up a lot of misunderstanding from the past. Ultimately, this will serve both of you to let go of resentments or fears you had of each others and be able to move on.

𝑆𝑜𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; Beautiful Crime by Tamer, Supercut by Lorde

𝐵𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; the Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo

𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑓𝑜𝑢𝑟; “𝐼 𝑔𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑠𝑜 𝑚𝑢𝑐ℎ 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑛𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑛 𝑟𝑒𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑛.”

«My heart has to breath, and i keep trying to open the windows for the light to come in, but you keep trying to close them, so the light won't get to us, why? I'm dying here, and you're the reason.»

You are a patient, giving person. You are prone to continuous days of no motivation or inexplicable sadness, you can have a physical disability or just have a delicate physical health. You have a quiet voice and people tend to ignore what you're saying, you've learnt to keep things to yourself, it's all the same if people are going to ignore you when you try to talk. You have short black or dark hair, you could be a man or nonbinary , you don't have/feel comfortable with the feminine side of yourself although you are a very sensitive person, you have a long neck? You do have delicate features and you might not quite like it since people made fun of you for these same features, you're a person that gets overwhelmed pretty easily, you might be neurodivergent? You have few friends and most of them are from childhood, probably. You have a tendency to bottle everything up and when you let it all out, it comes out very abruptly so people don't understand, known as the empathic of the family or friends group, you remind me a lot of pile two, they feel a lot and it can be hurtful, you should check that one too. You depend on your family a lot, economically or literally to do everyday tasks, and they might be overprotective of you, very. You feel trapped and without autonomy, your family members take advantage of your disadvantages and can make you feel like you are a chore sometimes, you are a very loving person, caring and sweet, they use your good traits for their own gain. Cancer and Aquarius rising is a big one for you, Saturn in 12H or Capricorn, Aquarius, Cancer or Capricorn Venus, Cancer.

For Venus Rx, you are going through a major transformation, yes, it's mostly correlated to your family. I see you've been very sad and off lately, or for the entirety of 2021, something happened that made you want to change your life altogether, or it's something you are going to experience in this transit. It's very important that you assert boundaries with your parents and tell them that there are some things that you want to keep private. You are fed up with not having a space for yourself where you can just be, without anyone's opinions on what you do or how you do it. Maybe you've been thinking of moving out of home with a partner? A friend? You don't want to do it alone since you've been told that you are too clumsy or not capable enough to take care pf yourself and this hurts a lot. This Venus retrograde will force you to make a decision, more abruptly, to decide quickly what is it that you want to do and if you're going to keep letting your family get in the way of your freedom and your desires. Why do you let them control your life? Is it because you don't know any better? You are not what your family thinks of you, you are not dumb, incapable or a chore. You are not too much or an annoyance, they are treating you as an extension of them, when, in reality, you are your own person, your thoughts and ideas are not the same as them and they can't stand it. But if you've been feeling caged up, this is the perfect time to rethink your relationships with your relatives, if you have to cut them out, so be it. In love, since Venus is I'm retrograde, you must be careful of impulsive ideas when it comes to your love life, I'd you have a partner, try to communicate with them and tell them how you're feeling, don't push them away since this is just going to make matter worse. This person adores you, they see you as the one, an angel they're lucky to be with, they truly, truly like you. You and this person might be very similar, shy and caring, scared of confrontation so you just don't say anything that bothers you, but this will do more harm than good. You two should start having those uncomfortable conversations and talk about what's wrong, if you want this relationship to grow it's vital to be sincere and stop saying you are fine when you aren't, this person will be more than honoured to help you and be there for you and be your rock, they feel for you what you feel for them. Start speaking up about what bothers you, if people aren't happy with you standing up for yourself, they aren't worth your time.

𝑆𝑜𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; Dueles by Jesse & Joy, Another Love by Tom Odell

𝐵𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; the invisible life of Addie LaRue by V.E Schawb

𝑃𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑓𝑖𝑣𝑒; “𝐷𝑜𝑛'𝑡 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑟𝑦, 𝐼 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑒𝑥𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑙𝑦 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐼 𝑎𝑚 𝑑𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔”

«It is good to do things you are not good at, to try, to fail, to learn. I, on the other hand, do it so I can brag about it when I perfected it.» 

You are a loud, outgoing person, you make your presence notice and people adore your energy. You are a very honest person too, although you tend to lie for your own benefit, most of the time you say exactly what you mean and you do it gracefully, people respect you and your opinions, they look up to you, everybody wants to be like you? You have many admirers and many enemies you aren't even aware of, they envy you. You should read pile one too, i feel you have very similar personalities. You find pleasure in things that are intense and quick, a sports fan or you do some type of sport, you need your body to move all the time and you tend to leave others behind when it comes to achieving something, you aren't good at group projects since you like doing things your way and you are a very demanding person when it comes to work. Others don't like or understand how can you be so goal oriented all the time and want to do so many things all the time too, you used to be the loud kid who wouldn't shut up and, at some point in your life you were forced to cool it down. Now you just do whatever is that you feel like, which is a doubled edged sword, you can be very selfish and narcissistic at times, workaholic and never pay attention to other's opinions. You should relax once in a while and come down to earth, with all the regular people. You are definitely a cardinal dominant, Aries or Capricorn signature, stellium, 5H stellium, Martian rising, Pluto in 5H, Scorpio Mars in 5H/6H, Leo or Scorpio in Sun/Moon/Rising or 5H,

This time is perfect to perfect your abilities, you have a familiarity with retrogrades and something tells me you have a considerable amount of retrogrades in your own chart, or Venus Rx, because this time you will the one to benefit the most out of all the piles specially if you are an artist or an entrepreneur, a creative burst of energy will kick you and you should definitely take advantage of this, I see you have been trying to find your calling, your passion or the thing that moves you, if you haven't found it yet; don't worry, since you will do so during this transit. If you already know what is it that you want to do, you should put your energy into that one thing, it will guarantee you success, recognition and, if money has been a constant struggle for you lately, your finances will start to improve gradually, the more time and effort you put into this, the better the outcome. I'm only telling you this because you have a tendency to abandon ideas and plans when they aren't as interesting as they used to, but you must keep going and try to remember yourself why you wanted to do this to begin with.

In love, a lot of things are improving for you, as I said, this retrograde will be very beneficial for you, and if you use it to your advantage and don't take it for granted, you will be seeing a lot of good things coming your way. Now, you might be single and not interested in anyone at all at the moment, which you don't really mind, you can become very obsessive and passionate about the people you like so, to you it's better to not have any distractions. However, this Venus Rx will bring someone new and interesting, a person that's at your level per say, they don't mind that you like the chase or being hot and cold, they probably like that as well, and this person isn't the type to commit either, they think relationships are complicated and a lot of work, but you will captivate them and they will find it impossible to let go of these mind games you two have. This seems like a very playful and sensual energy, but be careful, if you prolong these type of games and behaviors, one will end up being tired of it and might leave. If you feel like you aren't ready for a relationship, let it be known, this person doesn't like people that can't decide or being lied to, the vibes from this person are so intense you might've found yourself a Scorpio! Be smart about the decisions you make in your love life, because it can turn sideways very quickly.

𝑆𝑜𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; Enemy by Imagine Dragons, Remember My Name by Mitski

𝐵𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢; king of scars by Leigh Bardugo

I am. Tired.

[fancytannijin]

I am seriously done. Literally everyone I know, @medusa12346 @daszlight-deactivated20211218 @pscesvenus-deactivated20211219 ,they all suddenly deactivated. I also heard many others did. I really don't know what's going on suddenly

[fancytannijin]

Me seeing this post at 111😭😭 Joseph is my crush I swear

[fancytannijin]

Wow,I just saw a dream where I received bad marks in one subject for exams and received full marks for others. But suddenly I see fireworks,like turning night into day type of fireworks. They were sooo beautiful and bright to look at. And I think that was like a 15 min fireworks show in my dream. And I felt sooo happy and positive,like damn,I haven't seen something like that irl but the fireworks were beautiful.😍😍😍😍🎇🎇🎆🎆

[fancytannijin]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣my feed from the morning is absolutely fun to see🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

some of y’all are so damn dramatic about the bAd EnErGiEs like bro it’s just tumblr dot com

the anon is talking

[fancytannijin]

Whattt who else deactivated???

NO!!! 💔💔💔 LITERALLY ALL OF MY FAV PEOPLE DEACTIVATED ☹☹ IS THIS THE TIME TO GO?

[fancytannijin]

“7 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS” MANIFESTING CHALLENGE

PSA: You can do this even if you don’t celebrate Christmas, or if it’s not Christmas time when you see this. This is basically “manifest on a deadline.” Your personal circumstances DON’T MATTER! I will be doing this challenge every day until Christmas starting tomorrow, and I will be updating my progress frequently. Please send me results / updates via DM or ask! Every creator tagged in this post IS AMAZING! 100% recommend reading their posts, they are all so helpful. Of course, there are TONS more wonderful creators out there as well, but the posts / creators tagged have helped me personally. HOW IT WORKS Choose your desire, it can quite literally be anything. This is a 7 day challenge, and you will be doing a different manifestation method each day. However, every day, along with the new method, you will also being doing the methods from the days before. If you have ever heard the song “12 Days of Christmas,” it’s pretty much like that. DAY ONE Affirmations Todays method is just using your personal affirmations regarding your desire. The amount of affirmations you use, and how much you use them, does not matter. It’s all personal preference. Click here to read an amazing post by @divineangelbee on affirmations! DAY TWO Affirmations + Visualization Day 2 gets a little more complex. Of course, you are still using your affirmations, but now you are also going to visualize yourself having / getting your desire. Same rules as day one, it’s up to personal preference. Click here to read an amazing post by @sexyandhedonistic on the State Akin To Sleep and Visualization!  DAY THREE Affirmations, Visualization & Commanding Your Subconscious I trust everyone understands how this works by now. On this day, you are going to use your affirmations, visualize, and command your subconscious. This is extremely simple, all you do is say “subconscious, get me *your desire* right now. i know i have *your desire.*” Click here to read an amazing post by @divineangelbee (again lol) on Commanding Your Subconscious! DAY FOUR Affirmations, Visualization, Commanding Your Subconscious & Revision On Day 4 we are adding Revision to the list! Once again, do all of the previous methods, though today you are going to include revision to the list! What is revision? Revision, simply, is changing the past! I would say it’s similar to journaling or scripting. Write a little letter or journal entry on your desire. Say that you already have it, or that you got it, or whatever it may be. I really recommend reading this post by @hxneydreamers to learn more! DAY FIVE Affirmations, Visualization, Commanding Your Subconscious, Revision, & Living In The End Day 5′s added method is… living in the end! Accept your desire as a fact, know you’re God, and just know your desire is coming to you either way. To change your outer world, you need to change your inner world. Today, work on your self concept. Know you’re God. YOU ARE THE GOD OF YOUR REALITY! Repeat that. YOU MANIFEST INSTANTLY AND LIMITLESSLY! Repeat that too. YOU KNOW THAT YOU HAVE YOUR DESIRE. It is THAT simple! Read this post by @zen-shu on Living In The End. DAY SIX Affirmations, Visualization, Commanding Your Subconscious, Revision, Living In The End & Lullaby We’re getting down to the fan favorites. THE LULLABY METHOD! Once again, do all of the previous methods, and then do the lullaby method. This is basically just affirming yourself to sleep. Your affirmations regarding your desire is your lullaby. When you’re in bed, repeat the affirmations over and over again (either in your head or out loud) until you fall asleep. Simple? Thought so. Here is a great post by @divineangelbee regarding BOTH the Lullaby Method and the Void State. DAY SEVEN Affirmations, Visualization, Commanding Your Subconscious, Revision, Living In The End, Lullaby & The Void Last day ending with a bang! On day 7, we’re adding on the Void method (or the I AM method). In order to do both the Lullaby and Void methods in a day, I recommend doing the Void method BEFORE the Lullaby method. If you do not know what the Void State is, I’m going to be linking various posts on the topic below: EVERYTHING ON THE VOID STATE - @nevillegoddardsdaddy THE LULLABY METHOD & THE I AM STATE - linked in DAY 6 CINEFAIRY’S POST - @cinefairy

[fancytannijin]

My self concept routine ☆

Disclaimer: You definitely don't need a routine or method to make your self concept 'perfect'. But I thought of sharing a routine that PERSONALLY helped ME to make my self concept perfect. I am not saying this is the exact steps you need to follow but you can take inspiration or get an idea of how you can do it. Always remember that you make your own rules. My self concept routine was also inspired from this post by @divineangelbee

The routine:

Everyday I would wake up in the morning and the 1st thing I did was affirm. I would affirm some of my favourite affs randomly and start my day.

Throughout the day I would affirm whenever I remembered to. I didn't really pressure myself into affirming, I would just go by my day doing my thing and only affirmed when I wanted to. But I did always keep that in mind that I have a perfect self concept.

Throughout the day I also did one thing and that was listen to a subliminal playlist I made for self concept specifically. I would listen to the playlist whenever I can, specially during I was busy in a work like studying, cleaning, drawing etc. I really love using subs as a manifestation tool.

At night I would usually do a method. For example I would do the lullaby method before going to sleep, command my subconscious, affirm or just visualise in general. I would also listen to the subliminal playlist. This was just a habit of mine to do a method before sleeping, I really don't know why but it made me feel good about myself and knowing that I already own my desires. With that being said, I tried not to go to sleep in the state of lack.

Rules:

I did keep some rules for MYSELF because I had a bad habit of spiraling, over consuming information and questioning the law. Also I would check validation from 3d, didn't really apply the law properly etc. Basically I just had a bunch of bad habits that I absolutely didn't want to. So I gave myself some rules to keep me on track.

Anytime I would think about my desires, I would affirm instantly, right then and there.

I would flip every undesired or opposing thoughts that come in my mind.

I would not seek validation from my 3d.

3d didn't matter to me. Just have the faith.

I would believe in myself rather than anything the 3d shows me.

Constantly reminded myself that anything is possible.

Affirmations:

You can find the affirmations I used in this post. These are some of my favourite affirmations. But you can just use any affirmations you personally like!

I would mainly use 'I am the god' and 'Everything works in my favour' because it made me feel a lot better.

Subliminal playlist:

I used this subliminal playlist for my self concept. You are not obligated to ONLY use these one. As I said, use any subliminal you want to. You don't even need subliminals actually cause your mind is powerful enough. But I like subs as a tool so I personally like to use them.

P.S: I still use this playlist cause why not? It makes me feel so much better whenever I feel down.

My favourite methods:

And again, METHODS AREN'T NECESSARY. It rather makes your manifestation process more fun and interesting. That's why I used certain methods. FOR THE 100TH TIME YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT IN ORDER TO MANIFEST!

Here's is the list of method I used that have helped me:

Affirming

Commanding my subconscious mind

Visualization

Subliminals

So here was MY PERSONAL routine that helped ME get the perfect self concept. A gentle reminder that self concept is very important and if you're having troubles in you manifestation process, I highly recommend you to work on your self concept first. It will change things drastically. Believe in yourself and the law. Best of luck ♡