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WHY FEAR LOSS WHEN NOTHING IN THIS WORLD IS TRULY YOURS?

Why do most of us desperately cling to things that aren’t truly ours? Don’t you remember when you came into this world, you were empty-handed, and when you return to your Creator, you won’t have anything to take with you? So, what is this fear of losing?

The fear of loss is universal, but if we pause for a moment and reflect, we realize that nothing is truly ours. We are mere custodians of relationships, moments, and things that will eventually fade.

It’s human nature to get attached to worldly things as if they will last forever, without realizing that they are temporary. One day, everything will fade away, even the closest relationships like those with our parents, siblings, or life partners, without any warning. If these close bonds can break, then what can we truly expect from materialistic things?

Don’t you remember losing friends who once knew every detail of your life, but now you stumble to share your problems? At some point, you’ve all lost someone you once called your ‘best friend,’ and now there’s no connection left. You thought these relationships would last forever, but even the strongest bonds can break as if they were never formed.

Deep down, we all know that one day, our homes will no longer echo with the voices of our mothers. Our fathers will leave us in the midst of chaos, and we will be left to face the world alone. Our siblings will settle into their own lives, and we won’t have the chance to live together like we did in childhood, nor share memories with each other.

We often believe that the homes and properties we’ve built will always be ours, but who really knows? In the next second, everything could be destroyed, and nothing would remain. After all, loss never announces itself.

We all know that one day we will lose everything, yet we continue pretending that these things are permanent. However, it’s better to face this reality today, to free ourselves from the fear of loss, and focus on the things that will benefit us in the life after this one, when we meet our Creator.

“What we truly own are our deeds and the impact we make on the lives of others”

Let’s release the grip on things that bind us to this world. Let go of the fear of losing, and instead, invest in what truly matters — our faith, our kindness, and our relationships with those who will walk with us beyond this life. When we meet our Creator, let us have lived with purpose, free from the fear of loss, and ready for the eternal journey ahead.

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“Unleash the Adventure: Experience Life to the Fullest”

Why do so many of us stay stuck in our comfort zones, avoiding new experiences? Why aren’t we out there exploring the world when we only have one life to live?

I believe we are afraid of failure in our lives. Isn’t that true? And that’s often the main obstacle preventing us from unleashing new adventures. But if we pause for a moment & think, what’s the big deal if we fail? Not everything is perfect, and not everything turns out perfectly, right?

Resisting something because of the fear of imperfection is nothing but a foolish approach. “Don’t you remember, ‘Mistakes are proof that you are trying.’”

After many thoughtful experiences in my life, I would say if you want to excel in life, forget about failures and perfection. Give every new experience a chance and learn from it, whether you fail or succeed.

This life is only lived once — don’t waste it chasing perfection. Try today, tomorrow, and the day after, and eventually, you will grow. Even if you don’t achieve perfection, you will gain new experiences and valuable lessons along the way.

If you really want to do something, do it today. Do it with full passion and give it your “hundred percent”. What will happen if you fail? Nothing. But you will eventually gain a new direction.

Yes, every new experience will scare you until you start. But don’t burden yourself with it. Take it easy and go with the flow. Every step, no matter how small, is still progress. Always remember:

“Don't let fear hold you back — every step forward, no matter how small, is progress toward living the life you’ve always dreamed of.”

Stand up, step out, do what you love, explore the world, and write your own beautiful story before it’s too late.

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ACCEPTANCE: THE GATEWAY TO HAPPIER LIFE

Do you remember last time when your plan failed? Do you recall when you wanted someone to stay in your life, but they left deliberately? Or when you spent an entire year preparing for an exam, but still didn’t score enough points?

How did you react to these situations? Have you accepted the outcomes, or are you still regretting them? If that’s my case, then simply I do just one thing, i.e. “acceptance ” because we can’t always change everything according to our desires. ‘But what is acceptance, really?

Acceptance is recognizing or acknowledging something with compassion, kindness and understanding.

It is the key to moving on and finding happiness with what has already happened focusing on the positivity it can bring. This practice prepares you for the next challenge because acceptance doesn’t means resignation; it means understanding that something is what it is and that there’s got to be a way through it.

Have you ever wondered what would happen if you didn’t accept the situation and instead blamed others for everything that went wrong? Do you think blaming others will help you overcome negativity and reach your goals?

No, not at all. If you just sit and blame others for your losses or failures, you’ll only become a person filled with negativity who constantly plays the blame game. Life is a test. If things are going well today, tomorrow might be challenging, but the day after could bring peace. This is the true cycle of life.

But have you thought about what acceptance really does for you? Acceptance helps you break free from negative energy, turning you into a positive and enthusiastic person. It helps you start over and become the best version of yourself. When you accept yourself, you turn your weaknesses into strengths — and that is the beginning of growth

“Acceptance is the quiet embrace of what is, allowing us to heal, grow, and find peace in even the most difficult moments.”

Don’t you think life becomes beautiful with the acceptance. Share your thoughts.

STAY BLESSED.

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FINDING STRENGTH IN TOUGH TIMES

You know how many times a days you just lose your strength and life seems difficult. Many times, you just feel like everything is over or nothing will work out. What do you do at that time to rebuild your strength?

Here, I am sharing several ways from my personal experience that will give you the courage to tackle every hardship and ultimately give you everlasting peace.

🔹️Trust in Allah Almighty:

In every difficulty, don’t lose your faith in Allah Almighty because He is the One who knows everything. He always does what’s better for us because he loves us more than anyone. This practice will give you eternal peace.

🔹️Change your mindset:

Whenever you are in a difficult phase of your life, don’t complain like “This always happens to me”, “Nothing good ever happens to me "or “Allah doesn't like me, that's why I am in this difficulty” etc. Instead of complaining, try to find out “What’s better for me if this does not happen the way I want.

🔹️Remember Allah:

That is the most important point because, in Quran Allah says:

Remember Me; I will remember you. And thank Me, and never be ungrateful. [Surah Baqarah Ayah:152]

You should include some adhkar (remembrance of Allah) in your daily life. When you make a habit of adhkar (remembrance of Allah) and prayers, you will see how your life turns into a peaceful and successful one. You can memorize some of adhkar (remembrance of Allah), and whenever you are in difficulty or facing any condition that feels uneasy, you can use them and it works wonders.

And dont forget that you can only make an effort to achieve something, but don’t forget that it’s Allah’s choice because He knows what’s best. Don’t blame yourself by thinking, “If I had done it this way, I would have gotten that.” No, you can’t get anything if it’s not Allah’s choice.

These are a few things that I figured out from my experience, and you can’t believe that by practicing these, I am fully satisfied with my life now. ALHAMDULILAH.

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FINDING PEACE THROUGH FAITH

From past few years, I am facing emotional challenges in my life. Every time with anxiety , I just found peace by becoming closer to Allah Almighty.

You know when our lives are moving at a regular pace and everything seems to go according to our wish, we often forget to appreciate the blessings of our Creator. But when things don't go the way we desire, we begin to complain and forget about how Allah is saving us from something worst or unpeaceful. It usually takes some time (like few weeks or even months) to understand the benefits in that and then we thank Allah from saving us from what we didn’t see.

If I summarize my entire experience, I can say that He is the Creator, and He knows what we don't. He always does What’s best for us because He is the Greatest of all, and He loves us more than anyone else and gives us best in return of what He takes from us.

If I reflect on what I have learned from this, I would say that I have started leaving everything to Him. This doesn't mean that I stop trying or don’t put in my effort. I do my best, but also I prepare myself for the possibility that things might not happen the way I want. In those moments, I neither complain to him nor regret it. And believe me, this practice brings a sense of calm and peace to my heart that is unmatched.

I will conclude it with this quote: “The closer your heart to its Creator, more peaceful your soul will be.”

Believe me I have transformed from an anxious and uncomfortable person to someone with a calm and peaceful soul. I no longer chase after things that are not meant for me. I have started accepting what Allah has chosen for me and I firmly believe that whatever comes next will be the best and most everlasting experience of my life.

STAY BLESSED.