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i hate it when bitches see a fat chick and go "omg you look like you give great huggggs~ you look like suuuuuch a good listener~ i wanna be your friend so bad your smile is so pretty~"

💥WRONG💥

you look FUCKABLE. i want to grab into your hips and stomach and dig my nails into your flesh. i want to sink my teeth into your thighs. you look fucking IRRESISTABLE. i need fat chicks in my life and in my bed. PLEASE.

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My ethics professor once told our class that society justifies hating fat people by saying they overburden the healthcare system but no one uses that excuse to hate high level athletes who also disproportionately use the healthcare system

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If you arent willing to date a disabled person, you shouldn’t try to date an SSBBW. At the end of the day, you have to do a lot of the same things. Checking ahead to see if somewhere is accessible, helping with household tasks, helping maintain their hygiene, being aware of their physical ability and limitations, etc, etc, the list goes on. There’s a lot of understanding and care that goes into being with someone who is supersized. We are essentially disabled, and if you can’t deal with that then you probably aren’t cut out for dating SSBBW’s.

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In these dark days of ozempic and skinnytok I feel it important to return to tumblr, the fattest and hottest corner of the internet.

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reblog if you sit at the feet of fat chicks like a beloved and loyal hound instagram | bluesky | patreon

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We need to talk about tumblr's systematic fatphobia.

Posts of fat people are being marked as "sexual content" even more frequently than they used to, but now we have this fun little addition as brought to my attention by a friend;

That's right. Not just blatant kink-shaming, but now, if you make posts about or with fat people, you can now be flagged as "promoting disordered eating"! Multiple completely innocent posts of fat people literally just existing in their own bodies have already been flagged this way.

Raise hell about it. Reblog and share fat content more than ever. Don't let this shitty website tell you that your bodies are "wrong" or that you aren't allowed to exist publicly.

Tumblr staff, if you care about eating disorders (you fucking don't), stop promoting this sense of shame and fear and disgust towards the idea of weight gain. Stop shaming and censoring people for posting about their own bodies and experiences. Fatphobia kills. Fatphobia causes disordered eating. Fatphobia is the disease you should be worried about.

This has also been disproportionately affecting fat trans people, because of course it has.

Don't stop talking about it. Don't let this bullshit ceo silence you.

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whatever i love u fat people. i love u for being fat. i love u for existing. i love u as u are and i love u as a fat person whether u were born that way or became fat later in life. fatness is good. fatness is natural. being fat is never an inherently bad thing and fat bodies deserve kindness and celebration

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FAT LIBERATIONIST FILMS

I noticed that the handful of lists on letterboxd for fat positive films only had Hairspray, Isn’t It Romantic, and I Feel Pretty (🤢) with the caption “I wish this list was longer!”

So I have taken it upon myself to compile a real list of real fat liberationist films: films that either confront the issue of fatphobia or portray fat bodies in a liberating way. I will not be including films where fat characters exist neutrally, only films with a message about fatness that does not promote weight loss.

I haven’t seen a majority of these films yet, so if you see one that you believe is not worthy of being on this list, please let me know! additionally, if you have ideas on more films that should be added, please share!

Films (left to right)

1. How to Carry Water (2023) dir. Sasha Wortzel

2. Piggy (2022) dir. Carlotta Pereda

3. Your Fat Friend (2023) dir. Jeanie Finlay

4. Dumplin’ (2018) dir. Anne Fletcher

5. Empire Waist (2024) dir. Claire Ayoub

6. PattiCake$ (2017) dir. Geremy Jasper

7. Läski (2019) dir. Kirsikka Saari

8. Aquaporko! (2013) dir. Kelli Jean Drinkwater, Anna Helme

9. Fat Hiking Club (2018) dir. Layla Cameron

10. Fat Front (2019) dir. Louise Kjeldsen, Louise Detlefsen

11. Disfigured (2008) dir. Glenn Gers

12. Riot Not Diet (2018) dir. Julia Fuhr Mann, Kristina Kilian

13. Straight/Curve: Redefining Body Image (2017) dir. Jenny McQuaile

14. In Our Skin (2017) dir. Rosa Beiroa

15. The Fat Feeling (2019) dir. Talia A. Darling

16. Dangerous Curves (2016) dir. Merete Mueller

17. Well Rounded (2020) dir. Shana Myara

18. Fat Chance (1994) dir. Jeffery McKay

19. Tales of Ordinary Fatphobia (2020) dir. Josiane Blanc

20. Fattitude (2017) dir. Viridiana Lieberman

21. (Not pictured) The Fat Body (In)Visible (2011) dir. Margitte Kristjansson

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from gentle feedism where the feedee go’s “i think i’m going to stop gaining… just for a little while… so i have time to adjust” that turns into hard feedism where they say “fuck i should’ve stopped 15 pounds ago” as you shove pizza in their mouth and tell them they’ll keep gaining as long as you see fit.

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Hey kid you want a job?

Great get online and go to a job board. Indeed, Linkedin whatever. Now you're gonna search for a role that's in your city, fits your qualifications, and doesn't seem like a bad time.

See that easy apply button? Don't hit it they just throw those in the trash. Now you're gonna want to go to the company's website and check their careers page.

Oh? That job doesn't exist anymore. Cool go back to the job board and find another one.

Great you found another job, you're on the company's career page and the job exists!! So you're going to need to make an account on the career page website. They're using Workday, the same site as the last job you applied for? Who cares? You need to make another account for THIS job's workday page.

Now you're going to upload your resume. That'll autopopulate about 15 boxes with everything on your resume, except formatted wrong and with tons of errors. So just go through and painstakingly check the dates on all of that and rewrite everything you already laid out in an aesthetically pleasing format on your resume.

Ok time for the cover letter, explain why this specific job and company are deeply important to you. You love their mission statement and wouldn't even laugh if their ceo was gunned down in the street. You'll really want to reiterate the things you just spent the last 20 minutes filling out on the resume section

(Remember to include language from the job description, people who work in HR are lower than dogs and they need patterns or they get confused.) Write about a page, but hey don't sound too desperate or robotic this is where they judge your character!

Maybe add your portfolio site at the end here, who knows if that helps no one has ever clicked mine haha.

Anywayyy time to hit apply! Congrats! You'll see that confirmation email come in and you should be getting the rejection letter in about 2 weeks. Unfortunately your resume didn't have the right buzzwords and the AI auto rejected you :(

Time to start again and try not to kill yourself!

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god you’ve gotten so fat (flirting)

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While cleaning out my room I found a paper that my therapist gave me some time ago to deal with obsessive and intrusive thoughts. Sorry the paper is a little crinkled and stained, but I figured I’d post it in hopes that it will help someone like it helped me.

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In 2022 we’re not letting puritanical losers who don’t know how to critically engage with kink and fetish in a nuanced way make us feel any type of negative way about being grown adults having consensual fun lmao

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To start off 2025, I decided to share a gainer shame recipe I made some time ago and had it taste tested by some of my feedee friends!

I'd like to make more of these so do let me know what you think when you make it!!

Cookies and cream gainer shake recipe:

-Whole pint of Cookies and cream ice cream ~590 calories

-Whole pint of heavy cream ~1600 calories

- Whole Milk to thin out and for taste ~ (a cup) 103 calories

Optional:

-A splash of coffee creamer or vanilla extract to sweeten

-Extra Oreo cookies (if your fat heart desires💞)

-A scoop of your protein powder of choice!

Total shake calories: ~2,293

(For smaller blenders, I'd suggest halving the recipe)

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Just a few phrases that make me weak:

“Why’d you let me eat so much?”

“Are you just gonna stand there drooling or are you gonna come rub my belly?”

“You feed me way too much.”

“Come feel how heavy you’ve made me.”

“If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were trying to make me fat.”

“Ugh, look how much you made me eat.”

“I’m so stuffed… but I’m gonna keep eating. I want to impress you, feedress.”

“Fuck, I’m so full I can hardly breathe.”

“I always end up eating too much when you’re around…”

“Look what you did! You’ve been overfeeding me so much that I outgrew my favorite pair of jeans!”

“I’m gonna regret this later, but….. y-yeah, I’ll have some more food…”

“God, what did you do to me? Even when I’m stuffed, I just want more now…”

“Fuck, I just can’t stop eating…”

“Jesus, when did I get so fucking fat?”

“I can’t eat anymore… Well… Actually yeah, I think I might have room for dessert.”

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FAQ: An overview of my position on the feedism community

First post: “How do you feel about fat kinks?”

Reclaimation of fat stereotypes through kink

Coming out: my perspective as a feeder and fat liberationist

Abuse is abuse, not kink.

‘No feedists in fat liberation’ echoes ‘no kink at pride’.

We are here fighting for fat liberation, whether you know it or not.

Feedism forces so-called fat liberationists to confront their own existing fatphobia.

Using disabled infinifat people as a hypothetical horror story is extremely ableist and fatphobic.

Fat liberation must include sexual liberation. Fat liberation must include body autonomy.

Fat pleasure IS fat liberation.

Check my tag #feedism for dozens more posts on this discussion.

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A WG/FAT FIC THESAURUS:

so basically I read an ton (heh) of gainer fic and wrote down any descriptive words/phrases that I saw and could think of. And here it is!