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How does one politely tell someone that you don't want to do romantic couplings with them as much anymore bcz while you value their friendship, they always specifically only want mlm couplings and almost nothing else which makes you go uhhhhh idkkkk but your too nice to say no
hmm...kinda just how you did now tbh you have to stand up for yourself especially when you're not comfortable! you can still care for someone and not like what they do, but you should vocalize that you no longer want to have connections with them as if you keep this inside it'll just bubble over and potentially ruin the friendship.
#also wrong form of your at the end im just saying that out of love swear#you got this nonnie!!#* advice
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@ the last anon addressing my ask, the whole point of my ask is being anti-censorship and allowing people to write whatever they want. you lowkey just said exactly what i made fun of people for 😭 “but EYE don’t like THIS content!” yeah, it’s not for you. keep scrolling. it’s like the bean soup paradox where someone will post a recipe for bean soup and the comments will be like “but what if i don’t like beans?” clearly the recipe isn’t for you if you don’t like beans, right? so why even comment or look at the recipe, it’s redundant and not everything is made specifically with you and your taste in mind. which is okay. not everything is made to fit every single person and it shouldn’t be. some people like beans, some people don’t. some people like reading more taboo or unorthodox content, some people don’t. the whole point is to not consume content you don’t like and then make it the author’s problem just because YOU don’t like it.
confession #107
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In response to anon #105 i honestly feel like its normal for some people to not like you/your content and see you in a certain way when you write certain things.
like irrelevant but its become normalized for step-cest / incest to be written in k-fanfiction and these posts gets lot of likes despite how taboo and disgusting many find it and whilst the author may not think these are right many will look at them a certain way for writing it and its just a nature of humans
not disagreeing i’m just trying to understand what this has to do with ask 105 as they essentially said “if you don’t like it, keep scrolling” which is what you should do 😭 especially since all triggering content is tagged nowadays…it’s not exactly relevant to the original ask.
#* confession#i do not see the point in this as a reply i have to be honest#better as a stand alone ask
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i honestly couldn't care less about the mbti segment in profiles. like the positive / negative traits and smth like that. no shade to ppl who do that, that's your oc and your way of introducing them, but i personally skip this part all the time. i'd like to see more writing pieces and blurbs where i can understand the character, their story and their motives by their actions and their words, instead of creators putting out their ocs' whole personalities like that in the profile. but that's just me. don't listen to me. srry for bad english too
confession #106
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demonizing people writing dark subject matter is so braindead, i hate a “you shouldn’t write this bc EYE don’t like it >:(“ ass bitch
confession #105
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anons on here are so annoying omggggg you are on anon anyway just say the names 😭😭😭
quite literally the whole point of the whole blog and they’re trying to be mysterious and dramatic JUAT SAY THE NAMES YOURE ALREADY ON ANON 🗣️
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not y'all using peoples real life trauma “for the plot” 💀
confession #104
#* confession#fictional idol community#kpop addition#it’s a pain being nosey with yall who is this aboutttt 🥹
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what is with people clearly wanting japanese ocs but instead having their korean oc have a japanese name and grow up in japan?? just have a japanese oc? it'll look less weird if you just had a japanese oc instead of making your korean oc cosplay being japanese? it gives they wanna ethnobend but don't wanna get called out.
confession #103
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if yall are so worked up over faceclaims of minors then maybe yall shouldn't make fictional idol groups at all? kpop is profiting from debuting minors and they won't stop doing it as long as kpop exists, and by engaging with the industry you're only supporting it. if yall don't like this then go and make ocs of other fandoms idk
god yalls takes on this are soooo dumb 😭 not using minors as faceclaims has always been a rule because it's weird when it's done irl which is why it's avoided in these spaces. there is no ethical consumption under capitalism so this point doesn't even hold water 😭 be better than the freak ceos in charge and don't use minors as faceclaims my god it's not hard kjsndkjsdn
#this was the stupidest one and we're done taking asks about this topic because yall are stupid and weird#why am i telling you that using exploited KIDS as fcs is weird?? get a moral compass lawd 😭#* annoying
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if we're considering the face claims and taking into account that these people are humans, then a lot of big creators need a rude awakening
confession #102
#* confession#not really but sure what the hell free speech even if its wrong#fictional idol community
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the reason I don't understand why its so frowned upon is because not everyone is making plots where their characters are victims of sa or being put into sexual natures like sleeping with a members boyfriend
because they're fresh adults in south korea and a majority of their content will be from when they're minors 😭 the fictional plots have nothing to do with it lmao it's the content you're going to have to use which will most likely be of them as minors.
#using a freshly 20 year old where the age of adulthood is 19 is odd it doesn't matter the plots lmaooo#* annoying
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can I be honest? I personally don't think the whole 05-06 liner discourse is such a big deal . I mean obviously unless you're putting these claims into unusual situations (i.e making your oc a victim of burning sun??) that in general is bad on its own but
a lot of people look at their face claims as faces or merely the appearance / vibe of the idol they created to which they detach a bunch of the other stuff.
and when creating groups, seing someone like sana and perhaps sullyoon or a younger idol who fits her vibe together may be odd but if you're looking at the point of group congruence and how well people in the group may look together (apart from factors like age and whatnot) it definitely becomes hard for you to ignore
but yeah I talk to much
again, idk why yall are so eager to use fresh adults as fcs but your ask reads as you don't see the real people you use as faceclaims as people and just faces which is odd at best and disrespectful at worse😭
using anyone over 2004 is weird and frowned upon for a reason :/
#these takes never land because yall always end up saying you dont care about the people who's likeness you're using skjdnkjsd#* annoying
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is it just me or does anyone else feel odd with julies newest apology? it just feels like the only reason shes doing it is because kiof is lowkey flopping right now and theyre having a comeback soon but that could just be me being too suspicious about everything
no shade but this blog is for fictional idols and the community only 😭
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ok bringing back the additions talk real quick but like. in a loving way this time. shoutout to honey (blackpink), seon (bts), and klara (riize) bc i love these accounts dearly. hope their creators are doing well & will bless us with something new soon!
confession #101
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wait what's the tea abt the wolbes acct??
they've plagarized uyai several different times if im not mistaken
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hear me out, i’m not too fond of ilona but as we’ve seen from that @/wolbes account and those previous nasty anons, i feel like we’re not dealing with just one person. i’m not saying ilona is innocent in everything, but some of this doesn’t add up. like why would she intentionally make herself look bad over and over on purpose? the timing of some of these callouts is weird too. it’s worth considering that there might be people egging this on from behind the scenes, whether out of spite or boredom.
i will say it till i'm blue in the face but bella is still lurking in these tags and sending nasty anons 😭 i do agree with you partially, nonnie i think it's only hard for me to grasp that people could be THAT jobless esp to target someone new instead of a more established creator 😭
#* isms#targeting someone barely in the tags just doesn't happen im sorry dfskjnfsk and if it does you got an opp outside the community#i do agree wolbes doesnt add up but idk if they're even a factor but also like u said someone could just be jobless
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not a confession but can i say i LOOVEE the tea here 🍵
confession #100
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