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not to be controversial but maybe "of course Viktor isn't a VIRGIN what is he some childlike LOSER" is uhm, perhaps not the progressive take some might think it is. Plenty of adults in their twenties and thirties are virgins or have limited sexual experiences, and conflating virgin = child, infant, somehow lesser or meaning unattractive or sexually unappealing is not the best take. Also virgin does not automatically equal "insecure" either plenty of adults are virgins and still confident in themselves. You can question the notion about whether Viktor is sometimes perceived as a virgin solely because of his disability without also suggesting that being an adult virgin is something extremely embarrassing that happens to "ugly" people. ALSO, also it is perhaps equally not as progressive to have sexually experienced Viktor if you also portray his partners as being degrading and dehumanizing towards him.