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Thank you so much for answering my Question! You've encouraged me to just go for it, I will do my best! :)

I plan on making my own Lolita coord, all Handmade. I want to Hand print the fabric and crochet my own lace. I'm worried that some might say it's ita... should I just go for it?

Go for it! There’s nothing wrong with making your own Lolita items, there are a lot of Lolitas who make their own things actually. I think it shows a real love for the fashion to put hard work into making your own coordinate from scratch. If you’re new to Lolita just make sure you do a lot of research into it and take your time planning your design so you can be sure you make the best pieces you can.

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I can never not reblog this.

How to be More Thick-Skinned

1. Don’t take criticism personally. Instead, realize that criticism says more about them than it does about you.

2. Distinguish between facts and subjectivity. Most criticisms are just personal opinions. They are not objective and they don’t reflect the truth.

3. Look at the beliefs you hold about yourself. Do you feel defensive and under attack because you don’t believe in yourself?

4. Learn what you can from any comments that are made – and discard the rest as being useless information.

5. Decide not to ruminate on barbs or criticisms - as that will reinforce the faulty message in your brain.

6. Choose to spend more time with people who’re affirming – and minimise the time you spend with those who put you down.

7. Look for a role model who can handle criticism – and try to copy them, so you become more thick skinned, too.

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I took my sisters High School Musical CDs and now I listen to them in my car on full blast, while singing to them. I'm 27 and the looks I get from people at a red light... What time is it? WILD CATS!

Hi my name is Bunnii and I’m blasting Hannah Montana songs at almost 11pm at night. I turn 20 this year what am I even doing.

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Yesterday I was at an Info night regarding apprenticeships in a company, initially I was there for my sister, to my surprise the young boy that showed us around wanted to know my age. Flirting a bit with me. I told him to guess, he laughed a bit and said, 15. And I had to break it to him, I'm turning 27 this year. I have never seen someone so obviously frown and mood change, he stuttered some words of disbelief. And I shattered his heart, with my old ass. Gah he was a pretty one too. Too bad I amn't 17.

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New plan. pt. 1

Getting my life back on track. So I'm setting up a new plan to get back on track. My life is spiraling downward and fast at that. Things I want to accomplish by October. - Get more active, more movement. - Diet change, back to organic vegetarian. - Water fast. - Oil pulling. - Keeping track of habits, hygiene and ect. - Clean and declutter my room. - New glasses. - Finish my wreck it journal. - Write in a journal daily. - Get a job. - Get new tires and get my car seats cleaned. - Enough courage to meet up with friends. - Find a therapist, ed, depression and hashi. - Try this whole think positive,haha. No. - Be myself.

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Favourite print. BTSSB Usakumya chan is petit patissiser.

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I love this print. öuö

くみゃちゃんは小さな小さなお菓子職人柄 ソフィジャンパースカート

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A dream. öuö

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A Chinese Lolita’s 2016 Summary (Source: weibo.com/u/2715040973)

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Reporting from my internship:Florist.

I started in the 1St of February, at first I thought this is a great thing it's a new adventure. But recently I've been doubting my new choice, seeing as I actually wanted a different office job to begin with. But somehow was strongly bothered by my jobless ness that I decided to start this. However am thinking of quiting, and starting my dream of an office job again. I need a different job, don't get me wrong florist is nice and all, but If I doubt I can do this job till I'm 67.

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A new beginning?

Am I doing the right thing?  I have been jobless for almost a year, and I had the brilliant Idea of doing an Internship, as a Florist. I’m well aware  of how different this job is from what I had already studied, which is Graphic-Design. But since I’m a very creative gal, I thought why not just try. Well I tried it for a week during Christmas 2016,  it was a fun and not so fun time. Initially I was asked if I’d like to actually become their new apprentice. I was too quick and said yes almost immediately.  Now, it’s February 2017 and I am officially starting my apprenticeship, and after a week of being there. I regret that I ever said yes, it’s hell.  My back and my feet hurt and my hands are now so damaged... but that’s not why I hate it. There is a b*tch at work, we’ll just call her J. She is a nightmare, she’s all friendly when the boss is around, she talks badly about the boss, and can only b*tch about me. She very much literally hates me. But she’s my boss’s right hand.  I have even thought of waiting it out to see if it get’s better, I however don’t want to get my hopes up too high. Because I’ll only be disappointed if it doesn’t change, the higher my hopes the harder the fall. I’m actually thinking about checking for something else, but I don’t want to make it obvious. Clearly there is always a b*tch somewhere I work, I must be a magnet or something.  But at the same time, I wanted to study this job so I could open up my own business and sell flowers and my Graphic-Design skills. I don’t really want to be bound by anyone or anything. I want to live my life.  I want to be happy, and most of all free.  Sweet Greetings,  Em

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need this

vdl x pantone, colour of the year 2016: rose quartz / serenity collection

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Just to cute!!! Look at her! 

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Glossy Box Juli 2016

So, was not too happy with what was in the box this time around.  Pretty Picnic Edition.  So this was in the box.  ❥ Spitzner Shower-Foam in Acai-Yuzu  ❥ Miss Sophie’s 10 Nail Wraps in Tropical Garden. ❥ Lait Après-Soleil in Monoï ❥ Emité Makeup Lip & Cheek Tint in  ❥ Beauty Lash Eye Brow and Eyelash Dye  ❥ Beaty and Lash Dye Remover So I already know Spitzner, it’s a High-Quality brand that you can buy in Pharmacies here. I like the product smell is good, and I like shower foam. I have yet to ever use nail wraps or decals or these whole nail sticker things. Because I fear of messing it up. But the print is cute so I’ll save it for a nice occasion.  The Après-Soleil, can’t get enough of this scent. I already fell in love with it, Yves Roche has a whole Monoï de Tahiti line. But my mom hates the scent... so I can’t use it every often.  I like tinted things and have tried many tinted lip and cheek products. All products I have tried so far have been, cherry red, peachy, wine red, and pink. This However is nice, it applies great to the lips, and the cheek is ok but you have to be extremely quick. It stained my fingers just a little and was easy to wash off. It’s a tomato red.  Why, what do I need Eyelash and Eyebrow dye. What in the world am I going to do with these two scary products. Plus point it’s plant based. Still I’ll stick with lash and eyebrow makeup. If I do use it I’ll let you know.  Plus point in this box there where 6 items. However, I probably won’t be using two of them. Oh well. 

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Such cute Items! 

To thank you all for following me, I’m doing a small £25 Paperchase giveaway!!

RULES

Must be following me (I will be checking!)

Reblogs only! (Likes don’t count, sorry)

I will ship worldwide for free!

The winner will be chosen using a random generator. I will contact the winner within a few hours of closing the giveaway, if there is no reply within 48 hours I will select a new winner.

The winner can choose any items from the Paperchase website’s PurrMaids collection adding up to £25 or less

Giveaway ends August 9th 5pm GMT 

Good luck everyone!