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happy pride month to it/its pronoun users ily

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continually putting myself in situations that cause me problems and then getting surprised/upset when I have problems

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be a good girl n let me shotgun this smoke in yr mouth

pretty please?

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Curious Ming Dynasty Hairpins in the shape of two shrimps. Found on a gilt silver hair cover excavated in a tomb in Shanghai. Exhibited at the Shanghai Museum of Art.

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kay so i broke up with him yesterday i feel weird and numb and sad but definitely not the same kind of sad as last time. i don't feel like i want him back i just. miss my pal yknow. he was good. i wish i didn't have to ruin it, but it was the right thing to do i think. part of me thinks i wasnt patient enough with him and we can work it out so it lasts a little longer but i know in my heart i am not meant for that path. when with him i want out but feel guilty and so without him i refuse to feel guilty

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being in a relationship right now feels like my leg is caught in a bear trap and i need to gnaw it off. i feel so stifled.

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"Queer Dyke Cruising" photos by Del LaGrace Volcano (1988) Jayne, Zed, Kim and Serena in North London

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in the mood to be fully dressed while a naked femme unzips my jeans and pulls my strap out, desperately sucking on it while she looks up at me with her pretty doe eyes. my hand fisting in her hair as she chokes. covering it thickly in saliva so when she climbs on my lap it eases right in. fuck.

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i mean, fuck, i like dykes, i like girls, i like femmes & butches, i like transmascs, i like transfemmes

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we don’t need billionaires, we need a self-sustaining lesbian commune with a community garden and a cat rescue

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curly haired femme lesbians are the most beautiful and wonderful and special femmes on this entire planet

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It often feels like mainstream acceptance of queer people, particularly trans and nonbinary people, is contingent on there being few of us. When I was a kid witnessing arguments about gay marriage, statistics about LGBTQ people were so often presented in such a way as to reassure everyone else that we are not dangerous because we are rare. "It's not going to cause societal collapse ... because such a small percentage of people are gay."

And conservative rhetoric against queer people, particularly trans people, which explicitly refers to us as a "social contagion," really underscores that any perceived "increase" in sexual or gender diversity will be seen as a threat. If queer people are permitted to exist, we must be aberrant and isolated. If we are normal and natural and commonly occurring, it is because something has gone terribly wrong.

So. Forgive me if I bristle at the well-meaning argument that "these trans athlete bans are ridiculous, they're only going to affect a few dozen people!" I understand where they're coming from. But I think trans people should be free and abundant.

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morning horny is crazy why is my clit throbbing at 7 am?? I'm too cozy to deal with that

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Bleeding Heart, 1932, Georgia O'Keeffe

https://www.wikiart.org/en/georgia-o-keeffe/bleeding-heart