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feminists want you to think being nlog is a bad thing, or not possible

the only way not to be nlog is to.. be like other girls. when that is not how you are then theres nothing else you can be. trying to form a community with them while they alienate you will only make you feel broken and alone

as long as you recognise youre different from other women youre a heretic and theyll try to bring you down into their pit. theyll remind you that you can be raped. theyll lie and say they have your back so you should have theirs. or theyll see youre dysphoric and taunt you just to be cruel (dont put up with these thinking it will allow you to develop solidarity with them, it wont)

but the worst is theyll accuse you of being nlog for the purpose of sexually competing with them for moids. thats how you know youre talking to a hetbrain npc who can not comprehend any reason why a woman would step out of the ingroup except as a strategy to lure precious moids away. solidarity with them is worth less than shit

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Ooof go tell her off!

Yeah I'm a member of the LGBT community... Lesbian Gay Bisexual Terf

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I never once stated that children and teenagers can consent sexually. Yk there's a difference between the age of consent and the age of majority, right?

Yeah I'm a member of the LGBT community... Lesbian Gay Bisexual Terf

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i don't get talks obsession with the girls age. I had fire ass takes at 14 myself. Age ≠ maturity

Yeah I'm a member of the LGBT community... Lesbian Gay Bisexual Terf

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i feel so self-righteous rn but im starting to fear that this may be a narcissistic way of thinking. like i need someone to affirm that my belief system is right. that my ideas and reasoning are logical and sensible. otherwise my world view collapses and i kinda spiral and get attached to someone in the hopes that their world view is "correct". and inevitably my standards will change and i reject that person's views and go back to my original views and start distancing myself from that person and destroy our relationship. and then the cycle begins again- i remember the relationship and feel guilt at my actions and start to question my ideologies again..

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a bit

Like if I had a daughter that'd be +1 hater for my m*ther

So I’ve been going through an INCREDIBLY rough situation recently and I have a very emotionally immature mother that is making things much worse so here’s a mommy issues poem lmao

“I wash the dishes and I collapse under the weight of never having a mother 

With my hands deep in the warm water,maybe for the first time,I know what it’s like to feel enveloped by something that wants you unconditionally, that accepts you without a need for performance or secrecy 

Maybe for the first time I feel like I am floating instead of drowning 

I rinse the plates and see my face reflected back at me 

Its the face of my mother and her mother and her mother and the mother before that and every mother that has led to me standing here,at midnight,wrist deep in scalding dish water while the cicadas play the soundtrack to a humid July night 

Have all of those other mothers stood where I am now?

Have they all wondered if the weight will ever get lighter or if they’ll ever be able to set down the burdens that they’re forced to shoulder?

Is that why we give birth to daughters?

Is having daughters the only way we can survive having mothers?”

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"every question I know the answer to is ragebait" ok ms sweden

hey gyns, I have a question

im a baby radfem and this thought has been lingering on my mind for quite some time now.

Do you think abuse of any sort is justifiable due to patriarchy if it's done by a woman?

A. Yes

B. No ❌❌❌

If you picked B, please reblog if you think that A is a bio essentialist, stupid response.

I like both youth rights and radical feminism but I feel like a lot of y'all don't believe in youth rights so please if you are against abuse, reblog so I don't feel alone in this. I need this to reach people.

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There’s a change petition to give Gisèle Pelicot the peace nobel prize if any of you are interested in signing

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also were half the population, how the fuck did men manage to oppress us for 10,0000 years 😂😂😂

When a country is misogynistic and the women within it have few freedoms and rights, it's easy to keep the hatred solely on men and feel solidarity with women because you're telling yourself that if women only had a way out, they'd take it. It's only because they have no opportunities for a life of freedom that they're continuing to serve men.

When a country is misogynistic and women have MANY freedoms and rights, it's impossible not to hate women along with men when you see that for the majority of them, it was never about a lack of rights. It was about a preference for servitude to men. Their shackles have been unlocked and removed, their cage door has been flung wide open, and you're waiting for them to come out...and they're still just sitting there, blinking at you with bestial stupidity, wondering why you're expecting them to come out of their cage. They like it here! Why are you being so MEAN to them? What, are you slave-phobic? You got something against women who willingly choose slavery to men over freedom?

Yes, I do. You women disgust me and you'll never have my respect.

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This isn't men's rights but common sense

I find it funny how you name psychology as your hobby yet can't differentiate transgenderism Vs transsexualism, it's literally in the name.

You call anyone who won't baby, coddle and lick women's feet misogynists.

Also what's with the "stick with them" this is a lot of y'all radfems problem, you see society as a battle between women, men and trans people rather than women are often socially, economically and in other ways, oppressed by men due to a patriarchal society.

Your the same group of people that preaches abuse being ok so long as it's done by a woman because she's "a poor little patriarchy princess who didn't know any better 😭😭😢" bio essentialist much?

Rapid fire hottakes

white women use their power over women of color all the time, mother's, is say, get away with abusing their daughters much more than their sons, het women throw their lesbian daughters out of the house at 16.

No, this is not caused by patriarchy, hierarchies can exist within oppressed groups too. There is no man secretly puppeting women to abuse other women. We can use the same logic for male abusers then.

Youth rights are a feminist concern. The nuclear family doesn't only oppress women but continues sexist attitudes through endoctrinating the children, studies show that boys who grew up with an abused mother were more likely to become abusers themselves. Abolishing the family and giving children and teenagers rights are a must and a very underlooked concern.

Telling young girls that their goal in life is to be as career orientated as possible, climb up the job ranks and earn as much money as possible is a capitalist ideology.

A lot of y'all radfems have no other politics besides feminism, I don't see y'all speak about Iran, Palestine, el salvador or any matter that isn't feminist. This is self centred and stupid, read the news even if they're not about women.

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I wish I had this little problems in life where this is my main concern 😭

I think mostly what young fandom types (and I guess younger people in general) who are very very invested in the idea that “20 is still basically a minor” need to understand is that the feeling of “I’m just a child pretending to be an adult, and everyone else around me is a REAL adult” is DEEPLY universal (and won’t stop, ever, by the way, sorry!) and also is not, like, praxis.

Believe me, I get it, but the self-infantilization needs to stop, especially when you’re trying to engage in conversations about actual children and the harms they can face. Yes, it is scary to wake up and realize you’re 22 and you still feel like you’re 15, but it happens to all of us. You’re an adult. You have to deal with it.

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Rapid fire hottakes

white women use their power over women of color all the time, mother's, is say, get away with abusing their daughters much more than their sons, het women throw their lesbian daughters out of the house at 16.

No, this is not caused by patriarchy, hierarchies can exist within oppressed groups too. There is no man secretly puppeting women to abuse other women. We can use the same logic for male abusers then.

Youth rights are a feminist concern. The nuclear family doesn't only oppress women but continues sexist attitudes through endoctrinating the children, studies show that boys who grew up with an abused mother were more likely to become abusers themselves. Abolishing the family and giving children and teenagers rights are a must and a very underlooked concern.

Telling young girls that their goal in life is to be as career orientated as possible, climb up the job ranks and earn as much money as possible is a capitalist ideology.

A lot of y'all radfems have no other politics besides feminism, I don't see y'all speak about Iran, Palestine, el salvador or any matter that isn't feminist. This is self centred and stupid, read the news even if they're not about women.

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not now. mommys making a 0 note post

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I honestly think if you consider yourself a feminist you should have empathy for women who have internalized misogyny. Sometimes it feels like feminists have literally zero empathy for any amount of internalized misogyny and it’s insane. I get messages telling me I deserve my SA because I spend time with men, you know, at my JOB and SCHOOL. Have you considered that you might not be a feminist at all if this is how you treat other women?

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They hate it when u dont abide by the same imaginary rules that they force themselves to live under

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The mother feels she should be worshipped for doing what a dog, cat, cow, pig can do. This is her last attempt at saving her ego, as she must convince herself that she has not completely succumb to man. Her vanity convinces her banal procreative act is divine rather than completely ordinary.

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then don't have kids the fuck??

do you think child abuse done by a woman is justifiable due to patriarchy?

abuse is abuse lol . my own experience with it was that the patriarchy actually kept my family in a cycle of abuse so like . abuse is inherently patriarchal in my hot opinion . but no child abuse is ever justifiable , politics thrown out the window