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So, I wanted to see their pros and cons in relationship with you but I’m picking up on before the two of you get together here. I’ll just be pulling more cards to understand everything. Do you have a tendency towards possessiveness? Your future spouse is going to be highly capable of handling that. They’re going to be very communicative and quick to dissolve such issues by resolving them. You’ll receive quick communication from them often because they’ll know just how insecure you can get. They’re going to have a crush on you but will be quite shy when it comes to you. It’s like, they’ll be unable to process or express their feelings which is going to cause for the potential of the connection to not manifest initially but they’ll have a very innocent crush on you. They’re going to have similar childhood wounds to you or even if they’re not going to be similar, the triggers may be similar causing for a connection to come about naturally. Also, they’re going to be very good at manipulating you but not maliciously, it’s like, they’ll know the best way to get you triggered for you to activate and live out your potential, and you’re going to have a pretty good read on them so you’ll know what they’re trying to do but they’ll know how to make it come off unintentional and you’ll just let them get the benefit of the doubt xD. They’re going to be processing an ending at the time that you’ll meet them so they’re going to be scared of the unknown. I’m picking up on genuine wounds from them. You will enter their life in this time and they’re going to be a bit sensitive, and vulnerable at the time so it is going to be especially triggering for them to feel affection towards you because it will activate their childhood issues and more innocent, and delicate wounds making them even more sensitive and vulnerable.

So, they’re going to be scared of the unknown. They’ll be fearing the crossroads or struggling to make a decision due to the fear of pain as well because they’ll not yet have properly healed from past hurt as it is. They’re going to feel a strong tension with you and will have the ability to understand, and connect with you very soulfully. Like, you know those people who just get you on a psychic level? That’s how they’ll be with you but oddly enough, they’ll not be able to understand what exactly is coming through to them about you and you’ll remain a mystery to them. They’ll have their set of insecurities, worries and pain as we know by now but I’m picking up on the same energy from you too. For some of you, maybe they’ll not be the one who will have gone through everything mentioned above but you, but since I’m picking up on a shyness and fear of the unknown, and holding back from them. I believe that it will be mutual for many of you. You may be going through an ending or you may have not gotten over a past ending that caused you a lot of pain so you may be quite fearful of the future too and closed off to them due to your own wounds, and insecurities but it will be because of how vulnerable you’ll be feeling and how you’ll be worried about getting manipulated because you will be able to pick up on their manipulative tendencies, and how convincing they can be. Mostly, they’ll try out different techniques to help you so you’re going to give them the benefit of the doubt despite any resistance. When it comes to cons, you might remain friends for quite a while. Maybe because you’ll start off as acquaintances and friends, you’re both going to friend zone each other or they might friend zone you first, or you might feel as though they are doing so.

I find it so funny because ‘shy’ by Jai Waetford is the song that is coming through. They might not make much effort to spend time alone so despite the potential, you might feel like they’re a bit out of reach especially because they might come off very present. They’re going to seem present when they’ll be interacting with you but you’re going to feel like you’re getting mixed feelings from them. ��Do they like me? Do they not like me?” Is the energy that I’m getting here. They might be a very busy person juggling a lot of responsibilities so you might not even bother them and for some of you, they’re going to have to make a choice because they might give too much priority to work and might not want a commitment yet or might not be ready for it or might literally have another love interest. You cannot stand feeling like an option so that is likely only going to slow down the process of things and make you more closed off to them but they’re going to feel really whole with you, as if they belong with you. If there is in fact, another person involved, I don’t think that their feelings for them would be even a quarter of the feelings that they’ll have for you but they’re going to have to awaken first, make a choice, judge things properly, choose to belong to you, choose to connect to you and that may take some time. You’re going to have the ability to have similar values but it’s like, you’ll also not. Due to timing, they’ll contradict and oppose your values, and you’ll not like that. You’re going to doubt your compatibility and values, and that will only make commitment harder. It’s like, despite the connection that you’ll share, you’ll rarely be on the same wavelength.

When you’ll want to talk to them, they might not want to do so, when they’ll want to talk to you, you may be in a bad mood, when you’ll want commitment because you’ll feel strongly towards them despite any fears, they might be unable to give you that and when they do want a commitment, and are choosing you wholeheartedly and are willing to take accountability, learn, and do better, you might be close to fully convinced that your values are too different and that you’re not compatible so you may not want commitment. I’ll start with their pros once you’re in a committed relationship with each other. They’re going to feel like they don’t belong anywhere. Like, even if they’re grateful to people for being there, they won’t feel that genuine, heartfelt, warm, familiar and family-like connection with them but they’ll do so with you so they’ll greatly value you. “My heart is not here without you (it’s no fun without you here), I can’t live without you.” They’re going to feel like home to you and they’ll feel at home with you. They’re going to need alone time but might overthink, create limiting beliefs, feel powerless and just overall struggle with negative thinking, and when they might take alone time, sometimes you might overthink but even when they’re alone or/and resting, they’re constantly going to be thinking about you. I’m getting that you’ll be the first person who they’ll think of when they wake up in the morning and the last person who they’ll think of before they go to sleep. They’re going to understand your sensitivity and will be extremely empathetic, and loving so they’ll create a very beautiful and loving relationship with you in which you’ll both feel really whole.

They’re going to feel strongly towards you and will support you heavily. They’re going to be contemplative and might spend alone time thinking about you so that they can do what’s best for you, and guide you. They’re also going to have many wonderful insights and thoughts. They’re going to create a very abundant relationship for you, one in which you can feel safe and happy, and free enough to share your fears, sensitivities and truly, and deeply love. When it comes to their cons, let’s just say that their charm won’t magically disappear so there will often be third party situations even though, they won’t be unfaithful. So, I’ve been getting this for a while now but they’re going to possess great communication skills and their vocabulary might be really good, and they’re going to be a real charmer. They’ll have incredible leadership abilities and that is going to cause others to feel a certain heat around them, it’s going to cause them to feel attracted to your spouse and that’s going to be a source of stress, and overthinking for you. They’re a very passionate person and with that comes impulsivity but they’re going to honour you as their divine counterpart so they’re not going to get engaged in or let any passion grow towards anyone else. They’re going to be very action oriented, a go getter and well admired so they’re going to receive tons of romantic attention but they’ll not feel passion towards anyone else, and they’ll have tons of integrity and will be too busy talk to anyone enough for things to grow as well.

They’re not going to change so they might give off the wrong impression by seeming open and curious to others. There’s a certain level of playfulness that I’m picking up on but it seems to be very innocent. They genuinely won’t be intending for things to be taken any other way. They’re going to seem very present to the people around them so others will develop feelings for them and might misunderstand things. It’s funny because most of them are going to be very ambitious so it may be difficult for them to give you time at times. They’ll have a lot of love for you but they’re going to be very busy as a person. Even so, some of them, they’ll tire themself out with work or still trying to manage and maintain the relationship properly so they’re going to contemplate things a lot, and might struggle with resting and might be forced into it. Another thing that I’m picking up on is that if it’s work that burns them out, they might feel really vulnerable, contemplative, overwhelmed yet apathetic about not being able to give you time. They’re also going to be very dominating, will crave truth and communication at all times, and will want to lead the relationship so that might lead to clashes but I still feel like they’ll do a really good job with it. Another thing is that they might demand clarification if you’re too busy or were too busy and you might not like it. I hope that you liked the reading. Thank you so much for reading, much love and take care.

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So, I decided to pull ten cards each for the pros and cons in sets of five each, and guess what? For the pros, two of the same cards came out in the same position as they did previously i.e. the second and third card out of five cards. You might be the type to stress and get so paranoid that you genuinely start believing that your fears are true even if logically, you’re aware that they aren’t. One such fear and belief that you seem to possess is that your partner might not be over their past, might not have moved on from it. I’m not sure if you think this way already but you will in the future when you’re with your spouse and they’re going to alleviate your worries by reassuring you that that’s not true, and that they’re completely over their past. They’re not going to be blindly romantic. Some people are so in love with love that they become blind in it and do not really know how to love for real due to over romanticism but they’re going to be different. They’re going to believe in equal give and take in relationships, and will be incredibly service oriented. I’m getting that they’ll have been of service to people in the past and will have been on the giving end, receiving nothing at all so they will have developed deep trauma themself, they’ll have been paranoid too and might still be, and will just deal with fears, beliefs and thoughts that they’ll genuinely feel to be true but they’re going to want to heal this side of themself for you, and the betterment of your relationship.

They’re going to be seeking true peace by releasing negative thoughts, beliefs, feelings and habits. Due to how service oriented they’ll be, they’ll want to be with a giver who they can give to wholeheartedly with a feeling of safety. They’re going to not want to have to question the genuineness, feelings and love of the other person, and the connection that they share/shared with their significant other due to how they’re always giving, giving, giving without receiving anything for themself. It’s not even about receiving for them, it’s about the principle of it. Like, “this person is willing to and trying to do this for me, they might love me after all” and that causes them to feel safe enough to give as well, you know? Another thing is that because they don’t go around getting romantically involved with just anyone, they’re going to be incredibly obsessive when in love with you. Some people are charming and flirty, and know how to make their sweet and flirty words sound genuine but your future spouse is not going to be like that. Some of you might doubt the genuineness of their words but they’ll mean a lot of what they’ll say. Obviously, you’ll share sweet nothings where you might ask them something ridiculous like “would you still love me if I was a worm?” And they might say yes even though if you actually were a worm, they’d probably walk from on top of you, crushing you with the weight of their shoes with no awareness of it at all xD.

So, something like that, they’ll not mean but when they say something like “I’d die for you”, “I’d live for you”, “I’d kill for you” and “I’d do anything for you.” They will actually mean it. You’re going to pretty much consume them, they’re going to be addicted to you. I’m picking up on that Camila Cabello song ‘never be the same’. I’m especially picking up on the part that goes “just like nicotine, heroine, morphine. Suddenly, I’m a fein and you’re all I need, all I need. Yeah, you’re all I need. It’s you babe and I’m a sucker for the way that you move babe, and I could try to run but it would be useless. You’re to blame, just one hit of you. I knew I’ll never, ever, ever be the same.” Another part that I’m picking up on is “you’re in my blood, you’re in my veins, you’re in my head.” They’re going to be a passionate person and will feel passionately towards you. I’m getting that the both of you will maintain really good physical connections in which they’ll be really cooperative with you. They’re going to teach you things, in the bedroom and outside it, and are also going to learn from and about you so that they can experience your physical connection at the highest, and most passionate form possible. They do have a tendency towards moodiness though but I feel like you’d like it because it came out in the pros section. Maybe, they’ll be the sulky kind of moody or maybe you’ll also be moody.

They’ll be able to handle your moodiness due to their own tendency towards it. They’re going to be a fair and respectable person because they’ll be very respectful, and will treat people equally. I’m getting them being kind and of service in general, not just towards you, and that’s a pro because that means that it’s a character trait of theirs. Some of you sometimes think that you’re moody, intense, overthink and that you would overwhelm your romantic partner but you won’t have to worry about that with them because they’ll not just leave you. They’ll have a strong sense of direction for the relationship and will want to make it work as much as possible, and they’re going to be driven to put in the work. They’ll also be action oriented and a go getter in life itself, they’re going to have goals that they actively work on pursuing and their sense of direction, and drive is going to influence you to be the same way. They’ll teach you a lot but will also be willing and consciously look to learn from others, experiences, feelings, and situations. Their humility, drive, passion, attachment and love for you, willingness to do, willingness to learn, and ability to teach, all of it is going to be something that you greatly respect and admire them for. When it comes to cons, they’re going to really complex. They’re going to love you a lot and will be possessive of you. They’re going to be intensely in love with you and will be obsessed, attached, and addicted to you so they’ll want to be around all the time.

When they will feel jealous and possessive, they’ll become moody and guarded or moody, and clingy and usually the former will lead to the latter. They’re also going to contemplate a bit and will feel really dissatisfied, questioning the relationship, and if the intensity, love and loyalty is just one sided. The possessiveness will be very intense from their side and possibly from both sides. They’re going to know that they can’t control you but they’ll want to keep you hidden away from the world so that no one can look at what’s theirs. Obviously they won’t do it (hopefully not) but the feeling of possessiveness is going to be THAT intense. They may feel insecure about the stability of the relationship and the family, love, and stability you share if you receive any external attention at all so that is going to be a point of tension but it’s just that they’re going to be very happy and satisfied with you, and will simply just want you to feel the same way about them and your relationship with them. They’re going to be yours, completely and so, they’ll fear that you might not be as committed and devoted to them on a very soulful, and deep level. It is not just “I’m committed to you so I’ll not do anything to sabotage it” kind of commitment that they’ll want from you but the kind in which you’re completely inaccessible to others. They won’t want you to isolate yourself but if you’re in a heterosexual relationship and they’re the man.

They’ll want you to be friends with just women and not even let other men breathe near you. It is not toxic though. Like, I’m not sure how to explain it but they need to be the one and only because they want to devote themself to their spouse the same way, making them the one and only. “Other women? Who are they? Why would I interact with them? I belong to only one woman in every way.” They will not want a simple committed relationship, they will want a deeply devotional one in which there is a very apparent distance between you and other men, and you do not intend to close that distance because you fully belong to them and do not wander at all or even feel the need to have guy friends. Many of them will not mind male acquaintances as long as nothing flirty happens but if something even casually flirty happens, it is going to wound them deeply. People might often misunderstand them due to how intense they are and how deeply they love. Possessiveness and jealousy are really pure emotions, they come from a very pure place but instead of trying to understand that they want to find the space to devote themself to one person and one person only, people might write them off as toxic and possessive because they want the same for themself so it is coming through as a con. I hope that you liked the reading. Thank you so much for reading, much love and take care.

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Your future spouse is not going to be too stuck in a routine or will make it flexible for you. They’re doing to feel like they belong with you and you’re going to feel the same way. They’ll create a safe and happy environment for you in which you feel supported because they’ll care about you deeply. Your relationship is giving off the energy of a devoted knight and a queen. You’re going to be their dream come true and they’re going to be genuinely happy in your relationship. They will be accepting of your differences and will be keen on making it as beautiful as they can. They’re going to enjoy being around you so much that they may break their routine to come and see you or might come, and see you even if they’re tired from working. There’s a big emphasis on quality time here. You know, when a queen asks for a knight to show up, he will show up in her court so when you’ll ask for them to show up, they’ll do so too (if they can). Also, acts of service. They’re going to do things for you without any proper routine. They’ll just do it even if the timing is off. For example, if you are pregnant and ask for them to bring you something at midnight. If you’re able to wake them up, they’ll get up and get it for you even if all they want is to be able to fall in the soft, warm bed, and drift off to dreamland. Basically, they’ll be at your service at all times. They’re also going to be quite observant and curious as a person. They’ll ask questions or observe situations and people closely as they will be keen on learning, not just from you.

They’re going to be mentally stimulating and will have their talkative moments that will strengthen your bond through strengthening of the mental connection. They’re going to see you as a grounded and mature person who’s also friendly, generous, and has a big aura but they’ll see that you are sensitive and struggle emotionally at times so they’ll deal with your emotions in a compassionate manner. You’re going to be a very loving and empathetic person, and will be able to suppress your emotions really well a lot of the times but when it gets too much, your raw side is going to come out and they’re going to try to tame it with love, empathy, and compassion. They’re going to have a lot of hope for the connection but they’re going to be putting you on a pedestal. It keeps on coming through that you’ll be their dream girl/dream guy or whatever. They’re going to have a lot of appreciation for the sides of you that are visible after you’ve stripped off i.e. when you’re vulnerably yourself and literally naked. They’re going to love your body in all its glory with nothing on. They’ll make you feel like a dream because that’s what you’ll be to them - a muse. “Cards on the table, we’re both showing hearts. Risking it all though it’s hard.” ‘All of me’ by John Legend. Even if they don’t create anything, you’re still going to be their muse. They’re going to try not to be egoistic and will avoid conflicts, will be very forgiving, and will try to make amends with situations. They’ll also be remorseful if they act egoistic at any point.

They’re going to want to create a space for you in which you don’t have to change yourself i.e. a space in which you still thrive, a space in which you’re still grounded, generous and warm, and don’t have to dim your light. They’re not going to be a stranger to heartache and sorrow. They’ll genuinely be worried about losing you. In the past, they could have been negatively affected by someone else’s decisions so that is going to be something that will have left wounds. They’re also going to feel remorseful, guilty and sad if they make you feel sad :,). Another thing is that, they might look through your phone or overhear something about you and someone else at some point during your relationship or/and marriage, and that could make them question the solidness of the relationship, causing sorrow. There could be someone that seems to be attracted to you so they might be worried that you could be attracted to them too, that you could feel more happy with them, that they might bring out a more happy and vibrant side of you or that you might impulsively do something with them, or even if you don’t, you could be suppressing the desire to. So they’ll feel sad about that. Now, onto the cons, they’re going to be delusional. What seems to be happening here is that they’re going to become controlling when they’re confused and genuinely believe that someone wants you when this someone talks to you a certain way or texts you. They’re going to lose their mind and will become very ruthless when such things happen.

They see you as someone with a lot of potential, someone who’s at the top and someone who everyone wants so they’re genuinely going to believe everyone wants you so they’ll get defensive due to confusion or because they’ll believe that you might not choose them. Actually no, they will want to be the only one, they’ll be mad that you even have another option. Even they themself will have many options so even they’ll have to choose between the potential to feel like the only one and their loyalty to you. They’ll love you but they’re going to be non confrontational and may not communicate until they absolutely cannot handle it anymore, and communicate in an overwhelming and aggressive manner. They’re instead going to contemplate, get nostalgic about old days, feel dissatisfied, might get distant, will have a negative focus and will feel bored, and apathetic too. They’re going to be really worried about the breach of contract, breach of fairness and loyalty so they might end up acting out in unfair ways themself. This can be avoided if you do everything in order to reassure them. They are going to need to feel like the only one. A monogamous relationship with complete devotion is very important to them and they’re going to be able to maintain it but if they feel like the relationship is not living up to their dream and ideal of monogamy, love, and devotion, they will start questioning everything. They’re genuinely going to believe that everyone wants you so that’s going to be a point of tension too because they’ll get jealous. I hope that you liked the reading. Thank you so much for reading, much love and take care.

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galene-gothic · 21 hours ago

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idk about other libra ascendants but pink is in fact my colour

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galene-gothic · 23 hours ago

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SERVER MEMBER CONFIRMS EVERYTHING

We’re gonna try and summarize this for you, because we know that most people won’t have the patience to go through all the screenshots we’re about to drop. Yesterday we received this ask from Niya (https://www.tumblr.com/teaonastro/786833269719220224/this-is-niya-im-airing-everything-out-if-after?source=share) and we confirmed her identity. There’s a premise to what we’re about to show you: Niya is a previous server member and used to a very close friend of bitdemonic and Aphrodicci. She has previously defended and supported Aphrodicci. In those screenshots Niya:

admitted to different allegations made against Aphrodicci and the server

admitted to participating in organized attacks and smear campaigns launched by Aphrodicci against other creators

confirmed that the attacks are organized in separate group chats which consist of her most trusted friends and defenders

admitted that Aphrodicci and other people in the server are racists and colorists

admitted to aiding Aphrodicci in making @hillarysss run off this platform due to bullying

admitted that @astrojoy was forced to leave Tumblr due to bullying from Aphrodicci and her friends

admitted to sending anons on behalf of Aphrodicci

admitted that Aphrodicci asked her and others to send heinous anons to different creators

aaand so much more

Overall, those screenshots confirm ONCE AGAIN everything we (and others) have said so far about Aphrodicci and friends. This is truly vile, using people to do your bidding and trying to do so covertly is just disgusting. This nasty pattern has gone on for too long because everybody kept their mouth shut, but not anymore. We need to STOP and PREVENT bullying on this platform by making sure that Aphrodicci and friends are held accountable for their behavior. Here are the screenshots of our conversation with Niya, with different admissions and confessions on her end:

-Venus and Neptune

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galene-gothic · 1 day ago

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propaganda i’ll never fall for: being attracted to another person while i’m in a monogamous relationship with someone

also celebrity crushes especially when you’re in a relationship and glorification of celebrities in general

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galene-gothic · 2 days ago

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I thought your post about feminism was really good! You're a great writer and explain things in a cohesive way that so many just don't do anymore. It's real. Don't short change your talent at writing!

Reading about the bath water soap thing was new to me. I know I had seen ads about a soap, but wow. It's something! Feminism lately has become more of a product than a movement for me. It's selling GIRL BOSS items and make up lines to "feel strong" and winning at capitalism. Usually by presenting women with tutorials on how to "glow up". I mean if having a make up empire is your solution to feminism, go for it. But it's kind of badly recycled patriarchal views in pastel pink.

I'm 33 and lucked up to find a gynecologist to give me an ablation so I could stop having horrible periods. It came with sterilization too. I personally don't want children, so it was an easy decision to me. But many doctors do not care about a woman's wishes concerning health. I've been seeking medical treatments for several major health problems, and I was denied basic care in some circumstances due to a hypothetical man in the future wanting kids. Like? It's awful.

I'm an asexual woman and my choice for my body took years for me to find a doctor to treat ME, and not some hypothetical future husband.

I have watched hook up culture from the sidelines and I just cringe because so many women are being taken advantage of, and then they get blamed. It's a mess. Especially with actual laws being changed to favor the men over women. I'm in the USA.

Feminism should be intersectional and working towards a future where we are ALL treated with kindness, respect, and have equality. Lately it's just capitalism in pink in my opinion. I dunno. But I totally understand what you were saying.

Hello, I’m sorry for my late response here. I simply wanted to write a detailed response to you. Thank you for complimenting my writing skills. It could use some improvement but your appreciation means a lot.

I’ve gotta agree with you on that one feminism has now become more of a product than a movement. It was originally a movement aiming for structural transformation and not just survival or empowerment within an oppressive system, and we shouldn’t be moving away from that but many women are ending up feeding into the very system that they’re trying to break by making profit through their body or trying to be ‘sexually empowered’ by sleeping around when these shitty men want just that - a woman to fall onto their dick without them having to do much work. When it comes to makeup and beauty products, I still have a blind spot there. There is a misunderstanding that women want to look pretty for themselves which is partially true. I, myself apply makeup almost every time I go out and I’m not interested in dealing with men but the thing is, my ideals of beauty have likely been shaped by patriarchy and the male gaze. Like, I still shave my body clean every time I have to go out and my limbs are exposed which I believe that I wouldn’t do if it weren’t for the extremely high beauty standards imposed on girls and women by the society, the patriarchal one but again, it’s a blind spot for me. My main problems are that men and women could have the same product but if it is marketed towards women in a slightly fancy or pink packaging, it is pricier, and that women are ignorantly doing things that reinforce objectification and are being used by men without much if any awareness of it.

I’m so sorry that you had to go through all that. My sister dealt with the same thing except that my mother was considering a hypothetical man for her, we were not aware of it until much later and much like you, she was given no choice when she was supposed to undergo a major surgery. I’m glad that you’ve finally been able to find proper medical assistance because women are not supposed to be children bearers or wives, we were not born solely to give birth to the children of some man. LITERALLY, hook up culture is not healthy for anyone and women embracing it only causes them to be taken advantage of because they’re seen as products, they’re often seen and treated as objects in such a case. Obviously, they could meet one or two decent men who do not make them feel used but the more men that they sleep with, the more likely it is for them to meet at least one or two men who make them feel like absolute shit and treat them as such. Abortion laws changing all over the world is proof of the world regressing. I strongly believe that laws all over the world need to favour women because it is still a man’s world. Men who complain about abortions and alimonies lack critical thinking because if women aren’t allowed abortions by law, men should not be allowed to EVER cheat on or leave the women that carried their children for seven to nine months and underwent intense labour - tearing or/and cutting half of their body to bring the man’s children into the world. It’s the big year of 2025 and the dowry system is still active in India. Women get tortured and eventually killed if the husband’s family is not satisfied with the dowry, and they don’t bother talking about that. Okay, these are female issues and misogynistic men won’t talk about it but what about the real male issues that they should discuss? For example, men getting sexually assaulted by other men and women, and if their abuser happens to be a woman, they are ridiculed, not taken seriously and asked by other men if they enjoyed it, and are told things like “that would be my dream” and if the abuser was a man, they’re often laughed at and called ‘gay’ even though they’re the victim. Instead, they are against divorces and alimonies, and say something like “women initiated most of the divorces” as if all hundred percent of those women did so only for the money. They are so ignorant and do not even try to think about the factors that may have led to the divorce because their mind immediately goes towards the alimony. Like, maybe the man cheated on her, abused her in some way, disrespected or belittled her in some way. There are women who are gold diggers but seeing alimonies as a problem and lumping all women into that category is extremely unreasonable, and unhealthy. I agree with you, we need to try to understand and see things as clearly as we possibly can, and that includes trying to understand the deeper reasoning behind our own actions and thought processes because patriarchy has affected us, and still affects as much more deeply than we are aware. We also need to act out in ways in which we honour ourselves and avoid reinforcing systems that objectify, and oppress us. It’s very important to remind ourselves that we haven’t reached the level of female empowerment that we should yet and strive towards it. Thank you for writing to me and woman to woman - all the best in life going forward. Much love and take care.

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galene-gothic · 2 days ago

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⊹ ! ೀ Pile 1 ꒱

I find it so funny because ‘shy’ by Jai Waetford is the song that is coming through. They might not make much effort to spend time alone so despite the potential, you might feel like they’re a bit out of reach especially because they might come off very present. They’re going to seem present when they’ll be interacting with you but you’re going to feel like you’re getting mixed feelings from them. “Do they like me? Do they not like me?” Is the energy that I’m getting here. They might be a very busy person juggling a lot of responsibilities so you might not even bother them and for some of you, they’re going to have to make a choice because they might give too much priority to work and might not want a commitment yet or might not be ready for it or might literally have another love interest. You cannot stand feeling like an option so that is likely only going to slow down the process of things and make you more closed off to them but they’re going to feel really whole with you, as if they belong with you. If there is in fact, another person involved, I don’t think that their feelings for them would be even a quarter of the feelings that they’ll have for you but they’re going to have to awaken first, make a choice, judge things properly, choose to belong to you, choose to connect to you and that may take some time. You’re going to have the ability to have similar values but it’s like, you’ll also not. Due to timing, they’ll contradict and oppose your values, and you’ll not like that. You’re going to doubt your compatibility and values, and that will only make commitment harder. It’s like, despite the connection that you’ll share, you’ll rarely be on the same wavelength.

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galene-gothic · 4 days ago

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galene-gothic · 6 days ago

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i’m a life path number 7 and i could be completely wrong with this but i’ve noticed that the number 8 is involved in my most troublesome life experiences.

giving examples from my own life:

i) started getting bullied in august of 2019

ii) the reason i got bullied in the first place was because an influential guy who was life path number 8 started hating me and talking shit about me for no reason

iii) to add onto that, that guy was 8 months younger than me

iv) in the same month of the same year, my mother left my sister and i without any proper information at my aunt’s house, and got married to and had a child with her ex husband (that was the month my brother was born basically)

v) in august of 2024, my aunt passed away and i don’t even feel the need to elaborate on this one

there might be more than this that i didn’t notice and again, i could be completely wrong here. it could simply just be a personal pattern for me. i was just wondering if any other life path 7s have had similar experiences.

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galene-gothic · 7 days ago

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You are not a thrill seeker and even if you’re dissatisfied, you tend to stick around for a while trying to see the brighter side of things and turn things around for the better, and that’s honestly both a good thing and a bad thing. I’m not sure if you’re aware of this but you have an ability to turn life around for people because you genuinely try to. There may have been many instances when you entered someone’s life when they were dissatisfied, bored, yearning and just craving more, and the more time that you spent with them, the better that their life got. A lot of it was because of your own effort but some of it was just your mere presence. I’m hearing that song ‘locked away’. It’s that song that goes “if I got locked away and we lost it all today, tell me honestly, would you still love me the same. If I showed my flaws, if I couldn’t be strong. Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?” The part that I’m specifically hearing is “now tell me would you really ride for me? Baby tell me would you die for me? Would you spend your whole life with me? Would you be there to always hold me down? Tell me, would you really cry for me? Baby don’t lie to me. If I didn’t have anything. I wanna know would you stick around?” Changes are inevitable, that’s life. You are different from who you were two years ago and two years from now, you’ll be different from who you are right now. Not only will you change but so will life because it moves in phases and is unpredictable. In order to love someone, you need to have faith that you’ll love who they were and who they are becoming, and that you’ll not let life separate you both, that you’ll be with them in the face of every change, every blessing and every challenge. Loving someone for a long time requires having to learn them and their ways over, and over again because they’ll inevitably change. They’ll change so many times and if you’re too attached to a specific version of them, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.

Loving someone is having the awareness that life is unpredictable and so are people but having faith that no matter how much life changes, no matter how much your beloved changes, they’ll always be someone you adore and that no matter how much you change, you’ll always adore, love, and consider them. You naturally are that way, you create a very stable environment for your loved ones and that’s your law. You don’t let your own changes, their changes or life changes come in between you. “You’re coming with me” is the way you operate. People often say things like “people who are there for you at your lowest are the real ones” or “people who share their low moments with you trust and love you” but I personally believe that the realest ones are people who are there for you during their happiest days and try their best to move forward with you in their life. You are like that, you do not forget where you started from and try to take your loved ones with you when you’re rising higher in life. You are a lifelong kind of person. I strictly suggest that you both - learn how to let go and accept your own long term nature so that you never get involved in anything casual because trust me, you’ll likely end up naturally wanting to carry them to the next stage of your life without your own knowledge. I’m not even getting it being an attachment. It’s more like, you’re just functioned to operate like that. Every change makes you appreciate your loved ones more and you’re decisive, and firm about not abandoning them EVER. When your friend or partner might be going through changes, they might pull back and cause you dissatisfaction, and confusion but you still stay patient and understanding in the face of such changes, trying to empathise with them and understand, and love the new version of them that might emerge through this phase. You don’t give up just because someone is not as present or contributing as much as they used to. I’m hearing that one song by Taylor Swift. It’s called ‘it’s time to go’.

I’m honestly not sure which line will be the most relatable so I insist that you listen to that song yourself. “That old familiar body ache, the snaps from the same little breaks in your soul. You know, when it’s time to go.” “Sometimes giving up is the strong thing. Sometimes to run is the brave thing. Sometimes walking out is the one thing that will find you the right thing.” “Fifteen years, fifteen million tears, begging till my knees bled. I gave it my all, he gave me nothing at all then wondered why I left.” “He’s got my past frozen behind glass but I’ve got me.” You’re very accepting of both the negative and positive things that happen in your life, and this also goes regarding people’s traits because you understand that they’re only human but this has bitten you in the past. “I wish that I would’ve thought this through before I went and fell in love with.” Now, you have learned how to flow with life but there was a point when you were incredibly dissatisfied and borderline depressed, and were just yearning for more. You have always yearned for lifelong connections but back then, you didn’t even know what you were yearning for or maybe you did but this longing was weighing down on you. Somehow, undergoing that time has only caused you to want lifelong connections even more, you understand life and connections more, and are more willing to carry the responsibilities to fulfil such connections. Your love is expansive, it grows more and more as you proceed forward with your life with them. It consumes you before you know it because they become a part of your life. However, by now, you know just how unpredictable people are and how their feelings for you might change. I’m picking up on having people replace and discard you quite literally or they don’t discard you by themselves but suggest that you’ve been replaced leaving you with no choice but to leave. What sucks more is that with many of them, you were with them during their lowest and most dissatisfying times 💀.

So, you want lifelong connections now more than ever before and have become quite apathetic in certain ways. You’re a contemplative person and have dealt with emotional weariness before, and still have your own moments. Also, you are more closed off and dissatisfied now than you were before. It doesn’t even seem bad. It’s just that no matter what someone comes forward to you with, you are either skeptical or never satisfied because there was a time when you were too satisfied with everything and that caused you pain. You’ve had bitter experiences and have been taken for granted, causing you to lose hope, feel resentful, and isolated but it has caused you to be content with being alone and you have learned how to think, and find lessons in everything. Like, even right now, if you open up and give, you’d do so in a very lifelong manner, and the nature of your life as well as the magnitude of your actions would only grow stronger because that’s just you. Love is like a drug for you but it is funny, you understand love deeply so experiencing it makes you feel high even if it’s you doing most of the work. I’m not sure if it made sense but if it is pile, it should have clicked without me having to explain everything because I’m getting that many of you are really good with interpreting things and finding some philosophical meaning in them. I have been getting the energy of a really philosophical, grand and universal kind of love but have been unable to express it despite understanding it, and I believe you’re the same. There are some things that you just know and possess a deep understanding of but cannot explain, and you understand them deeply but not in a conscious way. You don’t spend time consciously thinking about this stuff. There is also a lot about the ‘law of love’, you just naturally function like that. Everything about you is love which is why you tend to attract blessings - big and small, and bring in luck for others as well. I hope that you liked the reading and that it resonated with you. Thank you for reading. Much love and take care.

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You’re a very romantic and sincere person who wants to extend yourself, and express your affection in creative ways. You seem to be a very loud and proud lover, and I feel like you receive a lot of envy. Your aura and energy are not replicable. You possess a mysterious allure but your mystery doesn’t come from the fact that you’re quiet. Some of you might be but most of you are very confident from within and possibly even loud. Your energy causes people to have many mixed feelings towards you and especially, they might hold so much tension towards you that one small mistake and suddenly everyone turns against you. You’re quite unattainable but also highly misunderstood. I find it so funny, people are so attracted to you that they’re repulsed by you. Your energy just genuinely pisses them off. You are so complex and hard to understand that even I’m having a hard time here. You aren’t really going around doing anything bad. In fact, you’re very pure intentioned. You’re inclined towards music and movies, and I’m getting really specific messages here but many of you, when you listen to love songs, you think about yourself as the one the song is written about 😭💀. Another thing that some of you do is pay extreme attention to the details in movies and books. Like, for example, if you read subtitles but didn’t read them properly, you might replay the same scene again and again, and you are curious about the visuals as well, you want to look at every single expression, every single body language cue. You are quite proud of yourself and very confident. You’re self assured and that’s something that cannot be faked. People don’t understand how you can be so comfortable being chalant and that’s what causes them to feel envious, and jealous of you. You’re a natural performer but when you’re performing, you don’t care much about the audience.

Like, if you’re in a new environment, you may act very friendly and might hype others up, and just act out in really animated ways even though you’re more internal and don’t really care about their opinions too much as long as you feel good about yourself but the more comfortable that you get, the more calm and nonchalant you might get or the way you express yourself regardless of how much criticism you may receive really pisses people off. You’re internally nonchalant and possess a duality that’s quite extreme i.e. all your different sides are equally as strong, and the delicate balance that you possess is what makes you so complex. I’m getting that you’re likely a mystery to yourself too. So, you’re a very self assured person but might find yourself doubting yourself at times and may have been guilty of seeking validation. You might sometimes wonder if you’re performing but then you think that if you try to be nonchalant in order to ‘stop performing’ that would be performing too so you’re just like “I don’t care, I’ll be myself no matter what anyone says and thinks” so you just continue acting like yourself. Another duality that you possess is that you may seem very chalant on the surface and honestly, a bit performative, and over the top causing people to sometimes look down on you but internally, you are very soft and emotional but have a very firm heart in which you take pride, and assurance in the fact that you’re genuine and authentic. You might question yourself sometimes “maybe they talk to me like that because they don’t respect me because I talk too much?” or “maybe if I acted different and more myself, they’d respect me more” because on the inside, you’re not very performative. In fact, even if you talk a lot at times, mostly you don’t talk much when you’re in a comfortable environment like home for example but even if you question yourself, you continue choosing to be expressive and authentic no matter what.

Also, being performative makes you a people pleaser but it doesn’t make you a doormat. Like, for example, even if you don’t like someone, you don’t mind talking to them, complimenting them and acting really nice to them on the surface, and you tend to do so dramatically, in an over the top manner but if you’re disrespected, you might feel bad but you don’t even care for that long. You just decide to honour yourself by pulling back and not giving a single fuck. There are so many dualities and nuances to you, and your character that I cannot even begin to list them all. Also, due to your attention to detail, even the most little moments and things that occur can significantly change the way you act. Also, your emotionality is heavily attached to your work, duties and responsibilities because that’s how you take care of your loved ones. Also, you’re thinking about your loved ones while you’re going about your routines no matter how busy you may be and always try to make time for them. You’re very unique and over the top, and that also shows when it comes to love and connections of any sort. You express love in all the four love languages and more. You may write for them, provide for them, try to find time during your busy times for them, hype them up and show them off. It’s important for you to have a partner that you can be proud of. You’re very complicated to understand and naturally want people in your life who understand you so you are hard to get, and don’t happen to get close to people a lot so they never get to see your layers and complexities, and they don’t even know what they’re missing out on. You’re a true romantic, one that melts the heart but you’re so private, and secretive. Even your fears have a language of its own and due to how you’re a natural performer, and a romantic and due to how you tend to notice small details in poems, writings, music, and movies, even this language is so refined in its expression.

It truly is a sight to behold but maybe that was not the right away to express it, it needs to be felt in order to be beholden. You hold love to be very sacred and you haven’t extended that towards anyone, and even if you have, the more that you’ve grown, the more that your capacity to love, experience depth, devote yourself and hold things to a sacred standard. I just heard “I have never seen a baddie who isn’t a saddie at heart” xD. Maybe, you have a sad and melancholic side that others often miss or if they see this side of you, they don’t see your confidence, self assurance and integrity. There is just so much coming through here. “She communicates with every other medium but words. Too bad if somebody wants to settle for something as small as words with her because trust me, she is capable of communicating in much higher planes and many other beautiful ways.” You may be loud, talkative and performative but somehow, there’s something more to you. When one on one with someone, someone you’re genuinely connecting with. You’re not as performative. You may express yourself with words but the beauty lies in the little ways in which you express yourself to them non verbally that touches them and sticks with them. Throughout the reading, I felt as though I was describing a muse but the rawness, the realness mixed with the mystery in the non mysterious and non obvious ways is what makes you so cherish-able and irreplaceable. You’re so mysterious and complex that even I may have failed to convey you properly. I apologise for my lack of efficiency in ability to translate your form into words but I truly did try my best. I hope that you liked the reading and that it resonated with you. Thank you for reading. Much love and take care.

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You will walk away from anything that you don’t find to be fulfilling. You are an extremely emotionally rich person who offers a lot in your personal connections so if you don’t find fulfilment, you’ll walk away for the better. Also, no matter how much you’ve had to walk away from, you manage to always have a lot to give to your new connections. Even more than you did to your past connections. If you’re currently walking away from something that’s being highlighted here. Actually, let me tell you what you might be moving on from. You’re a fairly submissive person but have had to deal with really egoistic people who were aggressive, hostile and used to try to intimidate you. I am getting a very heavy energy here. You have dealt with this in both group settings and personal situations. People around you have won by hurting you and you have felt as though you lost a lot in the past. I didn’t want to read this energy so I channelled again for you but it only added onto the previous cards that I pulled so I guess, I’ll just be reading both sets. You have felt so heavily disrespected that the resentment still lives within you. Due to how tired you are of this energy and genuinely do not have the energy, and ability to deal with it, you just surrender and walk away when such things happen now. You genuinely did not have the ability to stand up for yourself back then and even now, when such things happen, you’re taken aback but may not react much despite how bad it may feel. I’m getting that you just ‘freeze up’ and give up. In the past, someone you were involved with was unwilling to embrace the next steps within your relationship and for some reason, you genuinely lacked the common sense to walk away. You also lacked grounding and were still immature so you lacked the discipline to make things happen for yourself so you were staying small, underachieving and losing more, and more respect for yourself as more time passed by. It was more so ignorance, despite the other person not investing, following through and setting the groundwork, you were just foolishly staying in that situation, and it caused you a lot of pain.

You likely have cried a lot about this matter but even with all that sorrow and pain, you still decided to walk away. So now, you have high standards for yourself and others, and will walk away with courage and the knowledge of how much love you have to offer. You’re also a very simple person. Despite how much you offer, simple things make you very happy so you don’t really ask for a lot, you don’t really want a lot. It’s just that in the past, not asking for a lot has caused you to feel at an extreme loss and has had you experiencing so much pain that you’ve had to learn how to have, and maintain high standards. In the past, there have been times when you’ve offered a lot in personal connections just for those people to choose to get more personally attached and give more to other people so you are quite ruthless when it comes to letting go, and moving on after the very first trespass. Obviously, in established relationships (both platonic and romantic), if things are not clear yet, you try to deal with everything in a more mature manner but once you get the sign of their lack of commitment and loyalty towards you, and realise that you misunderstood the form of the connection, that you overestimated the connection’s firmness and groundedness, that is it, you’ll leave. You’ve dealt with a deadbeat (possibly even multiple of them) and are unwilling to put yourself through that again due to how much you tend to do, and provide. You’re also quite possessive of your people because you do not really connect with most people on a more personal level. You’re also not open to most people romantically even when you’re single. Personal connections mean a lot to you so you reserve that for the people who you truly connect with and who seem deserving of you. You’re not just possessive and protective in romantic relationships. You are this way even in platonic relationships because you don’t hold one to be more important than the other.

You get moody and sulky when jealous and possessive, and the funny thing is that you might not even express it. You might be sulky, possibly clingy and touchy but you may not voice it. Obviously, there might be times when you voice it because you do have a mature side but mostly, due to how sensitive you are, when you feel extremely jealous. You start wondering if the other person even considers you at all especially if you feel as though their actions somehow contributed to these emotions. In terms of romance, you are the type to give yourself away and truly devote yourself, and you don’t even notice or want to notice other people so if your partner seems to not feel the same way towards or are just not capable of giving that to you, you genuinely start considering leaving. You might act distant or might continue acting normal but become very moody internally so there is a chance that you do express it in some way but you are a very sensitive person who genuinely feels hurt. Now, onto the matter of sensitivity - you’re a very soft, emotional and empathetic person. So, you truly consider your partner’s emotions even behind their back and avoid saying or doing things that might hurt them, and in fact, I’m hearing that you’re ‘wife/husband material’ even when you’re single so you don’t really go around flirting and looking at everyone. You are huge on empathy, love and compassion so you do not discard or make your friends feel less than just because you find a romantic partner. There are people who think “if she is upset because I got a boyfriend, she is romantically interested in me and that’s not healthy” or “I have a boyfriend now and it’s my husband that I’ll have to spend the rest of my life with so romance matters more” but you understand that if someone loves you, even if it is completely platonic, they might want you to value them, cherish your bond with them and truly understand their emotions, and perspective. So you would make the effort to talk to them and spend time with them rather than just come down to the conclusion that they’re a crazy, toxic friend.

You would try to make them feel loved and tell them that you having a romantic partner does not take away from your bond, love, and connection with them. So when your friends don’t do the same for you, you tend to feel quite hurt. You do not even try to make them understand, you just leave. You possess a duality in which you are very serious to the point you may come off as boring and you are also very fun loving, in an almost childish manner and possess a very pure heart, and might seem very immature and easy to take advantage of. Most people see one side of you and assume that you lack the other side when in reality, that side of you is very strong. Like, for example, due to how subservient of an energy you were giving me. Many might think that you’re easy to take advantage of and that you’re naive, and gullible but on the inside, you are taking note of everything that they’re doing, have done and just taking everything very seriously so that you don’t get involved in a risky situation where you’re at loss. You’re extremely cautious and aware as a person even if on the surface, you might fake cluelessness. However, I’ll not lie, you are very pure hearted and have a very strong character so you’ve had faith in people because as they say ‘the potential that you see in others is what you personally possess’ but doing so has caused you to feel very naive. You do have that tendency to do a lot with a pure heart so it makes sense why you may have felt naive and taken advantage of at times but even so, you never lose your ability to give love in a pure, and wholehearted manner. There are people who see both your serious and responsible side, and how much you take on for your loved ones, how dutiful you are and your fun, playful, and pure side and they cherish this well refined, and balanced character of yours. You’re such a sweetheart honestly. If you don’t have people like this yet. Trust me, you’ll find them and they’ll love you so much because they’ll know that there’s no other like you, and even if you don’t, never forget your truth. After all, your worth lies in who you are and how much good you put out, and not how much love you receive. I hope that you liked the reading and that it resonated with you. Thank you for reading. Much love and take care.

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in this profound tarot spread, we will embark on a poetic journey through the stages of your connection with your future spouse. to start, we will unveil the sweet aspects of your bond - the moments that will bring you ease and comfort, like a delightful dessert that melts on your palate. then, we will navigate the challenging aspects - the parts that may bring a hint of bitterness or sourness, like a tart that tests your resolve. we will then pinpoint the taste bud - the particular aspect of your connection that will capture your attention, the flavor that will linger on your tongue, the particular aspects of your connection that you will be most keenly aware of, the element that will be most prominent in your mind and heart. to conclude, we will focus our attention on the digestive aspect of your connection with your future spouse - the part that, although not immediately apparent, will have a lasting impact over time. this element may unfold gradually, taking its time to reveal its significance, similar to how a complex dish affects your system in ways that might not be immediately obvious. it will be an aspect of your connection that will require patience and keen observation to recognize its influence and importance.

𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒐𝒏 for 70 € (originally for 80 €)

in this enthralling journey into the mysteries of your romantic destiny, we will embark upon a journey to discover the most delightful and pleasurable aspects of your connection with your future spouse. through the artful interpretation of the cards, we shall delve deep into the emotional, spiritual and physical dimensions of your bond. from the attraction and physical affection, to the shared life vision and mutual support, we will explore it all, unveiling the most joyous and satisfying elements of your love story. first we will look into the emotional aspect of your coupling. we will look into how you two bring out the best in each other emotionally, what the most comforting aspect of your emotional connection is, how you express love and care without words, we will then take it up a few notches and look at what shared emotions will make your bond feel unbreakable, how you’ll handle emotional ups and downs together, how your emotional connection enhances the way you both grow and what emotional triggers create deeper intimacy between you. then, we will delve into how you make each other feel understood and validated, in what ways do you both nurture each other’s emotional needs and what makes you feel the safest emotionally in the relationship. then moving onto the physical aspect of the connection, we take a look into how physical touch expresses your love for each other in the relationship, what the most pleasurable way you two physically connect is, what about each other sparks a deep, passionate desire and how you make each other feel sexy and desirable. we’ll also read into what physical gestures you both enjoy the most (hugs, kisses, cuddles), things will heat up a bit as we look into how you make intimacy feel sacred and loving, and what your favorite way to spend quiet, intimate moments together will be, we will also delve into how physical chemistry ignites your emotional connection and how you find joy, and pleasure in simple physical closeness. we’ll then look into how you both bring humour, playfulness and fun into the relationship, and what inside jokes will make you both laugh uncontrollably. we’ll that a look at what your favorite way to share light-hearted moments together is, how humour helps you navigate challenges in the relationship, what funny quirks will you love about each other and how laughter will help you bond deeply. this section will look into what moments together make you both feel carefree and playful, how you encourage each other to not take life too seriously, how you both find joy in the mundane parts of life, so on and so forth. then we will look at the beauty of the connection itself. how it is a pleasure to simply just be with each other. this includes. how you make each other feel deeply cared for, what ways will you provide emotional support in times of need, how will you both inspire and encourage each other to be better versions of yourselves, and in what ways will you both help each other achieve your personal goals. how will you show your appreciation for one another in subtle ways? what gestures will make you both feel truly supported and seen? how do you help each other through stressful or difficult moments? what mutual support system do you create in your relationship? how do you both create a safe space for each other to be vulnerable? simply just how you both make each other feel respected and valued in every moment, and experience pleasure in the connection and all of it.

𝒅𝒐𝒖𝒄𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆𝒏 for 65 € (originally for 75 €)

in this tarot reading, we will delve into the rich tapestry of your domestic life with your future spouse, painting a vivid picture of the shared home and heart you will create together. we shall begin by uncovering the emotional dynamics that breathe life into your partnership. how do you both express your emotions within the sanctuary of your home? we will explore the balance of emotional support and understanding, highlighting moments of harmony as well as potential areas where conflicts may arise. from there, we will step into the rhythm of your daily life, examining the dance of shared duties and responsibilities. how will the two of you divide the tasks that keep your household thriving? we will look at the routines that shape your days, seeing how they strengthen the bond between you, while also noting any compatibility or contrasts in lifestyle preferences. next, we will turn to the finer details of your communication. how do you navigate everyday matters together? we will explore how you approach disagreements, your capacity to resolve conflicts and the transparency that threads through your relationship. this reading will also include how you both manage financial matters and how love and intimacy bloom in the quiet, and loud moments of daily life. how do you preserve passion and affection over time, cherishing the sweet exchanges of meaningful words and tender gestures? we will then venture into your family dynamics: your interaction with extended family, boundaries with in-laws and the possibility of children, exploring parenting styles if applicable. what sort of home will you craft together? we will look at its atmosphere, aesthetic and how each of you contributes to creating a sanctuary of safety and joy. we will end with the traditions you may build, the depth of your soul connection, and the joy you find in shared and solitary moments. together, we’ll uncover how you relax, unwind, and keep the spark of fun and love alive in your shared life.

𝒍𝒂 𝒗𝒊𝒆 𝒆𝒏 𝒓𝒐𝒔𝒆 for 29 € (originally for 35 €)

in this tarot reading, we shall delve into the tapestry of love yet to unfold. together, we will explore the enchanting qualities that make your future spouse so captivating in your eyes - their energy that will draw you near initially and the traits or even just their mere essence that will begin fascinating you in the early stages and will continue fascinating you years into your union. we will unveil the traits you will cherish most deeply about them, the ones that will make your heart race with admiration. then, we shall turn the mirror gently toward you, revealing the radiance of your current most alluring attributes and the charm that will captivate your future spouse, looking at what they’ll find to be irresistible about you. this journey will offer a glimpse into the magnetic dance of your connection - a celebration of love, beauty, mutual attraction, and admiration.

𝒆𝒕𝒐𝒊𝒍𝒆𝒔 for 29 € (originally for 35 €)

in this tarot reading, I'll predict the things that your future spouse will do in order to win your heart, the thoughts and feelings that'll flood through their mind when they'll look at you and the other way around, and also into how you'll view each other. we'll look at their life story to figure out why they will be the way that they are when you'll meet them. we'll also take a look at how they'll describe you to their friends and family. we'll look into why they'll admire you and why they'll choose you. how they'll act in front of you vs in front of others.

𝒇𝒂𝒊𝒓𝒆 𝒍'𝒂𝒎𝒐𝒖𝒓 for 34 € (originally for 40 €)

in this exploration of the arcane, we shall embark upon an illuminating journey of destiny, as we unveil your future spouse's perception of your allure. further, we shall venture into the uncharted territories of your intimate connection, encompassing the inaugural union of your bodies, the peculiarities of your partner's sexual proclivities, and the myriad methods by which they shall leave you consumed with desire. now, allow the occult to unveil the seductive secrets of your impending relationship

𝒍𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒂'𝒔 𝒕𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒔 for 42 € (originally for 47 €)

most of our lives are spent by trying to understand ourselves, realizing that we aren't as evolved as we thought we were, self loath, pity and misunderstandings are a very common theme when it comes to ourselves. by purchasing this option, you will receive messages from both your inner child and future self, guidance on your path and some advice for self love, why people feel grateful to have you in their lives, the way you touch their hearts and alter their lives, a small reading that brings out your inner magic and information on how to become your best version and traits that you need to face and should work on.

𝒋’𝒂𝒅𝒐𝒓𝒆 for 70 € (originally for 80 €)

this reading is a deeper version of the ‘larissa’s tears’. we will proceed to look into your current path and energy, looking at where you stand, the unseen forces around you, the blocks and doubts you’re carrying, your greatest strength right now, and the next best step forward. we will then look at what you’re still learning how to love about yourself and a wound that you’ve been carrying silently. we will then look at the qualities in you that others admire but you undervalue and receive guidance as to how you can show yourself more compassion. we will delve into what you need to release in order to heal deeper and what your heart needs right now. even the messages that you’ll receive from your inner child is going to be in depth, we will look at what they want you to remember, a gift that you had then that still lives within you, how they felt growing up that needs validation now and how you can reconnect with them. in regard to your future self, we are going to look at what they want you to know about the journey, what they’re proud you’ve overcome, a secret they hold about your fulfilment and what they want you to keep believing in. we will then proceed to look at how you can stay aligned to your soul’s path and what will unfold if you follow this guidance. then we’ll proceed to look into the presence that you radiate. we will look into the energy that people feel when you enter the room, the first impression that you tend to leave behind, the deeper impression that lingers after they truly get to know you, a quality in you that makes others feel emotionally safe, how your presence lifts heavy hearts and the kind of space that you hold for others. we will then move onto what the gratitude that they feel towards you, in this part, we will look into what people admire most deeply about you, a time that you changed someone’s perspective without trying, a way you helped someone believe in themselves again, how you remind others of what kindness and love feels like, a subtle gift you give that people remember forever and what people wish they could thank you for. we will look into how you touch their hearts, how your words affect them, how your silence comforts them, how you handle others’ vulnerabilities with grace and the emotional impact that you tend to leave behind. we will then look at how you touched someone soul to soul unknowingly. then we’ll delve into how you alter their lives, starting with a lesson that people learn through knowing you. in this section, we will look at how you help others become better versions of themselves and what you inspire in them long after you’re gone. we will end this section by tapping into the legacy that you’re building for yourself. to conclude this reading, we will delve into what makes your soul unforgettable through and through.

𝒆𝒗𝒂𝒏 for 29 € (originally for 35 €)

this tarot reading will aim to unveil the deepest calling of your soul, that which is etched into the very fabric of your being. we will explore how you are currently responding to this calling and delve into any obstacles or blocks preventing you from fully embracing it. in this illuminating process, we will also discuss strategies and tools to overcome these barriers and discover how you can honour your soul’s purpose in the present moment. lastly, we will tap into the wisdom of your spirit guides and the cosmos, drawing on their loving guidance and messages to offer you clarity and encouragement

𝒍𝒖𝒏𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆 for 29 € (originally for 35 €)

this tarot reading is going to flatter you a great deal! let us take a look at the type of beauty you possess and what features stand out the most to others. we shall delve into the types of compliments people make about you when you're not around and how your beauty affects your life. additionally, we shall take a look at who is crushing on you at present and the reasons why. we shall also assess what makes you so irresistible and captivating, so prepare for a bit of self-praise and fawning in this reading!

𝒄𝒍𝒂𝒊𝒓 𝒅𝒆 𝒍𝒖𝒏𝒆 for 44 € (originally for 50 €)

this tarot reading will delve deep into what remains mysterious and unknown about you to others and even to yourself. we shall explore what secrets are kept from you and what you should keep hidden from others. we shall also take a glimpse at the shadow, the darker side of your character and psyche that remains hidden and repressed. this will be a dark and mysterious spread, revealing the hidden facets of your being and exposing those shadows we'd rather not confront. we shall also peel away the layers of the past and explore the hidden admiration of those who dislike you without reason or explanation. we will start by looking into what is hidden from you by first looking at what you repress, a strength or talent that you can’t discovered yet, a fear disguised as logic, an inner wound shaping your choices, a hidden emotional pattern and a truth about yourself you’re afraid to know. then we will move onto what others hide from you, in this section we will look into what someone close knows but won’t say, what your enemies secretly think of you, what you’re blind to in social environments and a truth that someone is actively keeping from you. then we will look at what you should keep hidden i.e. a truth that you should protect and what to guard to keep your power. we will also look at what others envy about you. then, onto your shadow self, we will look into your most repressed traits, how your shadow shows up in relationships be it platonic, familial or romantic, how it affects your goals and decisions, the consequences of ignoring it and how to work with it rather than against it. then to conclude your reading, we will look at how others perceive your darkness and how your mysterious side affects how others treat you. what do you say? will you embark on this journey with me?

𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒂 for 44 € (originally for 50 €)

a phenomenon cannot be put into words, it just is, it just happens. delving into the essence of your magnetic allure, we shall explore the inherent qualities that effortlessly draw others toward you. we will discover the environments where you flourish and thrive the most, examining the unique beauty that emanates from your very being, belonging solely to you. by simply being you, how do you enrich and beautify the world around you? through the revelations of the tarot, we will unravel the captivating qualities that set you apart and make you an awe inspiring phenomenon for those who cross your path because you cannot be put into words, you just happened, you just are. the only thing that can’t be denied is your breathtaking and once in a lifetime existence but i’ll do my best to channel your divinity. by channelling your simple existence into words that will likely still fail to deliver your glory. we will look into your irreplaceable essence, the core frequency that you emanate, the energetic signature that people feel from your presence, what sets you apart from every other soul, the beauty that exists in your silence, the message that your aura sends before you even speak, the soul element within you that feels otherworldly and what you unknowingly teach others by simply just existing. we will dive deep into your allure, by looking at your natural magnetism i.e. what others always feel but can’t name, the kind of eyes others see you through when they’re captivated, the first thing people subconsciously associate with you, the impact of your presence and how you leave people different after encountering you. furthermore, we will perceive your beauty as perceived through the soul, the aesthetic or style that you naturally embody, the unique trait only people who truly know you can appreciate, your most underrated gifts and your light in the dark places. we will look at the magic that others may try to replicate but never can. we will also tap into where you thrive and radiate the most, looking at the physical environments where your energy flourishes, the emotional environments where you feel the most free, the social settings where you shine the brightest, the kind of people who amplify your soul, the inner state that unlocks your highest power and the divine space in which your essence meets its full potential. then, we will look at your effect on the world, what beauty do you add to the collective, the hearts that you unknowingly heal, how your presence shifts a space without trying, how the world changes because you are in it and what people carry from you long after you’re gone. to conclude the reading, we will look at the mystery that you are that no one will ever be able to name and your once-in-a-lifetime energy, this section includes what others find unfathomable about you, the part of you that even you don’t fully understand, a piece of you that is sacred and untouchable, the karmic or divine role that your existence fulfills, what you bring into the world by simply just being, the version of love that you inspire in others, the traits that you naturally carry that are difficult to find in this world that fuels your divinity, the blessing people receive from simply just knowing you, the type of awe that you awaken in quiet hearts, the emotional truth that you represent and the soul legacy that you’re here to leave behind - the phenomenon that you are.

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SYDNEY SWEENEY’S BATH WATER SOAP, OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN, ‘MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC’ AND FEMINISM

I believe that most of us are aware of the Hollywood actress Sydney Sweeney selling her bath water soap in collaboration with Doctor Squatch and for those of you who weren’t, you are now. I’ve seen several opinions about it with some believing that she set feminism a thousand years back and others believing that feminists fought for the right of women to be able to choose whatever they want to with their life, and body and so she should not be receiving backlash. There has also been a lot of debate about the acceptance and embracement of female sexuality. I’ll start by saying that in a patriarchal society, there is not a lot that we can do that benefits us as women and girls. Just a few examples that I can give from at the top of my head are as follows:

i) Dad bods are more acceptable than mom bods even though it’s women that give birth

ii) In conservative countries if a heterosexual teenage couple happen to kiss in public, it’s the girl that will get blamed

iii) Men are allowed to age while women are not. We have often seen old men working for decades in the film industry. Suppose you were an actress and happened to be the same age as your co-actor, he could work with you when you’re both young but over the years, you’ll stop getting roles while he will continue getting roles and working with younger, and younger women until he stars with your daughter. Not only that, women will get shamed by the same public that used to desire and lust after them when they were younger simply because they’ve grown older and don’t look the same

iv) Famous women are not even allowed to be pregnant because degenerate men on the internet make comments about how she’s ‘let herself go’ even though she’s literally carrying a baby in her womb

v) Dr. Caitlin Bernard was fined three thousand dollars for providing an abortion to a ten year old girl who was raped in the US in 2022

vi) If you get raped, you’re blamed. If you are abused, you’re blamed. If you get pregnant in a consensual relationship, you’re the one who is blamed and shamed for ‘spreading your legs’ even though the guy was just as engaged in the activity

I, in no way am in favour of shrinking yourself to please others and trying to live up to the unrealistic standards that are set up for women, and young girls. It’s just that with the recent rise of acceptance of female sexuality and hook up culture. I feel the need to put my two cents out there for those of you who care to understand and could use my opinions, and values to develop your own and lead a better life. Both purity culture and hook up culture are incredibly damaging to girls, and women because like I said earlier - in this patriarchal society that we live in, there’s not much that we can do as women that benefits us. Even if we think that it is, it likely isn’t. Men have been objectifying women for ages while simultaneously shaming and denying our sexuality. So yes, there needs to be an acceptance and embracement of female sexuality but when we objectify ourselves, and engage in hook up culture, we are feeding into the same structure that we are trying to break because most men want to be able to objectify and sleep with you with nothing else required of them. In fact, many of them are likely to shame you and discuss you in degrading ways with others because they don’t hold any respect for you. They shouldn’t be and it’s their fault but if we want to attain true freedom, and equality, we need to be able to move with more self and social awareness, not by shrinking but instead by refusing to give into a set system that does not benefit us and instead creating new ones that we remain firm in. I’m so glad that the world has progressed enough for us women to be able to have our own money and choose for ourselves but are we really making the most out of it? There has been a rise in topics such as: choosing celibacy, decentering men, being comfortable alone, not getting married due to societal pressure, having high standards in men and leaving after the first moment of disrespect, disregard, and deceit. The reason ‘male loneliness epidemic’ is even a thing is because we as a society haven’t expected as much of men as we should have so they’re unable to keep up, we still aren’t expecting as much of them as we should.

There still are systems and women who let them slack off but many women are awakening to the fact that they deserve better than mediocrity, and are unwilling to settle for men refusing to change, grow and do better so the entire epidemic is something of their own doing because after a certain age, you are responsible for who you are, what you do, and how you live. There is a misconception that in order to be equal to men, we have to be like them, live like them and in order to have our sexuality accepted, we have to experience, and express sexuality in the way that they do even though it is very objectifying and degrading to us. In fact, if it weren’t for the double standards and hypocrisy, it is degrading in general because while men’s behaviour is normalised, they are not known for respecting themselves. So why do we think like this? Why do we act this way? Why do we unconsciously feel the need to stoop down to their level in order to be equal to them? What are we trying to prove? The entire reason that women were suppressed for centuries was because of the power that we held and still do. They were trying to make us forget our truth, our power and unfortunately, they succeeded. Us, as women, are full of love, our souls are rich, we even have the portal of life in between our legs. There’s nothing to prove, there’s only something to accept and embrace, and that is our power. The best way to go about it is by trying to be as selective with our sexual and romantic partners as possible. Obviously, men are deceitful, people in general are and no matter how well we might vet people out, we might still face hurt, betrayal, and disappointment but it’s important to understand that with the standards that men are held to, it likely had everything to do with them and their lack than anything to do with you, your lack, and your worth. This does not go for cases in which you abuse or disrespect your partner in any way. I encourage girls and women to develop, and maintain high standards for themselves and others, and remain firm in their resolve of not settling for men and giving into a system in which they are endlessly blamed, shamed, and used. I’m not an idealistic person who’s completely out of touch with reality.

I understand that these are deep rooted issues and systems that won’t change just because I wrote this post, and a few girls and women got the message, and started living by it but I think that it is important for girls and women to understand their power as who they naturally are, and be aware of the fact that they do not need to act in low and unfulfilling ways in order to experience equality. We are incredibly powerful as we are but we have been made to forget that so we are trying to experience equality and bring about change by stooping down to their level, and doing the things that they do when it is simply a matter of realisation. We would be able to experience more fulfilment if we simply just accepted our power as we are instead of trying to be equal to them because the truth is, we are already powerful while their ways are incredibly unhealthy, and damaging. This is why, women who are married to men have lower life expectancy and men who are married to women have higher life expectancy. This is also why, women who are single are happy, look good and are healthy while men who are single go around complaining about the ‘male loneliness epidemic’, are bitter, and go around trying to fill some void. Many of them are also unable to maintain healthy and fulfilling relationships when they find them due to the lifestyle that they’ve gotten used to living, due to how empty and lacking they have become as individuals. We have got to raise the bar for humanity by starting from ourselves, by rejecting people who are not good for us, by rejecting the lifestyles that are not acceptable to us, by rejecting the system that harms and oppresses us, and simply just embracing our own desires, needs and power as women. We should not try to live their lifestyle because it is pretty clear that they are not fulfilled. All I’m saying is that it’s about time that we lived up to our own standards and waited for men to meet us there, and become equal to us while simultaneously fighting for our rights socially instead of leaning into their destructive and unhealthy ways. I’m not sure how well I got my point across because I’m no writer but it’s okay if you still want to sleep around and objectify yourself but I need you to ask yourself if this lifestyle is truly what you want, and what you find to be deeply fulfilling for you. Do not hate men, we haven’t met all of them and there might be good ones out there. This post is not supposed to be male slander but we all have to agree and come in terms with the fact that they could be doing better as a collective. Let’s not fall victim to choice feminism and instead understand the deeper repercussions of our actions. Thank you so much for reading and I’m sorry if I was unable to express things as efficiently as I wanted to. Much love and take care 🫶🏻💞.

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You have dealt with situations not turning out the way you wanted them to despite heavily investing into them. These situations in fact, made you feel very naive and taken advantage of. Ugh I just heard “a woman’s loyalty is tested when the man has nothing and a man’s loyalty is tested when he has everything.” I also suddenly got a vision of a TikTok that I saw a while ago. The man in the video was saying that if a woman stays with him at the lowest point of his life, he’d leave her when he gets to a high point because she clearly doesn’t respect herself 💀. It doesn’t necessarily have to do with a man or boy but it could have been a similar situation. You invested a lot into someone or possibly even multiple people and you were incredibly generous. The value was being provided only one way i.e. only you were the one bringing ANYTHING into the connection but you were the one being treated as though you didn’t have any value, as though you didn’t bring anything valuable into the connection or this person’s life. It definitely could have been an experience with multiple people for some of you. I was earlier hearing ‘without me’ by Halsey in my head and now I’m hearing that song, I’m not sure about the title I’ve only heard it through reels and TikTok. It goes something like “It’s not your fault I ruin everything and it’s not your fault I can’t be what you need.” This is honestly very sad, this person or people used to rely on you when they were sad but when they were enjoying life and had happy moments, they didn’t really share those with you, they didn’t spend those with you. It’s like when they experienced really good and happy moments, they just disappeared, and despite everything that you were offering them, they wanted a ‘happily ever after’ with other people. They used to take what you had to offer and use your resources to their benefit but they didn’t want you, they didn’t offer you anything of value, they didn’t even truly appreciate your value and only used it.

There definitely was this feeling of insecurity because why didn’t they see your value and treat it as such despite you doing, and offering so much? It was just a really bad investment on your part because all you were doing was wasting your time and energy by depleting your time, energy, and resources on an ungrateful person. I really wanted to use the b-word just now but I stopped myself. I’m feeling angry on your behalf here. You did everything with a very pure and affectionate heart. When you were doing and giving anything at all, you were being genuine with it. It was a very innocent kind of love that you were extending yourself with. You were sensitive to their needs and almost psychically picked up on things in regard to them, and even if you didn’t, you actively tried to because that’s just how pure hearted you were and their stinginess… gosh. They didn’t even try to invest in you at all, did they? You seem to have questioned your value and worth back then. Due to how you were investing into the connection with a sense of innocence, you were wounded like a child is. Let me explain it to you, kids have not seen enough of the world so when they get scolded or punished by their parents, it’s easy for them to question themself and believe that they must’ve done something wrong. They also forgive the trespassers again and again because that’s just how pure kids tend to be but whatever kids experience during their childhood sticks with them on a very deep level and is inevitably going to affect them as adults. You experienced a similar experience back then. It hit your inner child quite heavily. “How long could we be a sad song, till we were too far gone to bring back to life. I gave you all my best me’s, my endless empathy and all I did was bleed as I tried to be the bravest soldier. Fighting in only your army, front lines don’t you ignore me. I’m the best thing in this party. You’re losing me and I wouldn’t marry me either, a pathological people pleaser who only wanted you to see her.”

That’s ‘you’re losing me’ by Taylor Swift. I keep on hearing the part that goes “my heart won’t start anymore, my heart won’t start anymore.” I feel like you genuinely cannot bring yourself to feel anything for this person or these people anymore because when you were, they were abusing it. While I was writing ‘abusing’, I mistakenly typed ‘anus’ and that describes them pretty well :D. Despite having experienced all of this, you haven’t hardened. In fact, you’ve softened more. The more pain that you had to experience, undergo and heal from, the more pure hearted, innocent, loving and childlike you’ve gotten. Somehow, your inner child has healed and feels more comfortable expressing themself after everything you’ve experienced. There’s also an acceptance of your own contradictions here. You’re quite misunderstood and have always been. I just heard “I was a mature child so now I’m a childish woman.” You’ve always been mature yet childish. Some of you are incredibly mature on the inside but might be very childlike in the way you live and express yourself externally while it may be the other way around for the rest of you. Also, you have likely embodied both of these sides at different points of your life. There could have been a point when you wanted people to take you seriously because you were very mature on the inside and another point when you wished you could express yourself in a lighter, softer, and more playful manner because you were very sensitive and soft on the inside but on the inside, you ended up expressing yourself as more serious. Having embodied both of these, you are aware that others will criticise and misunderstand you either way, and that you won’t be happy with yourself either if you don’t accept your own contradictions and aren’t comfortable with being misunderstood so now, you don’t really care about whether someone misunderstands you.

“Sometimes I can’t even understand those perceptions, it feels unfair at times but the misunderstandings that make up the countless versions of me. All of them are ‘me’ in the end.” I feel like most of you are perceived as childish and are in fact very pure at heart but having been taken advantage of has caused you to develop a cautious approach and not commit to situations recklessly, and that’s a strength of yours. You also do not really give too much importance to a happy ending anymore. You don’t seek belonging and joy from others anymore, and are fine keeping to yourself and are very careful with the situations, and people that you invest in. The thing is, you’re not exactly closed off. You’re still open, pure hearted, loving and affectionate but it’s just that you’re finally more impatient. You can now leave situations as easily as you entered them if the other person doesn’t seem as invested. You know that you deserve a pure, loving and affectionate connection that is innocent, playful and genuine where you’re always chosen, and can always choose them and share a lot of intimacy with the other person - friend, lover, whatever. So when you don’t see things going to that direction, you don’t mind putting an end to things. You’re not willing to settle for anything except the most genuine and pure form of love, and connection because you know that you can provide it. You want to be treated as softly as you treat people and have them stick with you through thick, and thin with proper investment and to adore you, and value you affectionately and genuinely. You are unwilling to accept anything less than that. Having experienced whatever you experienced, you’re aware that you have a lot to offer but that giving more does not equal to receiving more so you don’t try as hard anymore. You’re still the same, you still try to extend yourself generously and provide value to the other person wholeheartedly but even now, you notice one sidedness, and it doesn’t bother you because you choose to either leave entirely and not invest any further or just pull away, and are not committed to trying and investing anymore. You are fine with getting away from people now.

You are alright with people not seeing your value and missing the opportunity to be in your close circle. You just don’t invest heavily into situations for a long time anymore. You try initially because you��re naturally a giver and are incredibly generous but when you feel like you’re not receiving the same, you don’t even question your worth or think about “why?”, you just let them. Also, this generosity of yours is not a method of finding belonging. It kind of is but it is more about how you feel about yourself rather than how others see you. You want to be kind and generous because you just naturally are a giver, and you find a sense of comfort in how much you do for the world, how much value you provide and how much good you put out into the world even if you don’t have anywhere you find belonging, and joy, even if you don’t have those personal connections. Instead of chasing a ‘happily ever after’ and joy, and fulfilment through external sources and connections, you chase purity of spirit, genuineness and generosity. There’s this mantra coming through but I’m not sure how it will resonate. The following includes mention of the hindu god ‘Shiva’ but even if you’re christian or muslim, or any other religion. I need you to take the message and try to interpret it rather than shunning it completely just because you don’t believe in the god or religion. Let me give you a little piece of advice before we move onto the mantra, if you find anything from other religions or concepts that you don’t follow, believe in or understand but it’s something that resonates with you, could help you going forward and just help you lead a better life, take it. The mantra goes “om tryambakam yajaamahe, sugandhim pushti vardhanam, urvaarukamiva bandhanam, mrityur mukshiya mamritaat.” It translates to “om, we worship the three eyed one (lord shiva), who is fragrant, increasing the nourishment (spiritually). From these many bondages (of samsara aka worldly cycles) similar to cucumbers (tied to their creepers). May I be liberated from death (attachment to perishable things), so that I’m not separated from the perception of immortality.”

I feel like many of you have already reached a point in which you understand that attachments are illusionary. If you haven’t yet, you will. You care about your soul and the truth of it - the purity, essence and nourishment of it more than you care about worldly cycles, and things that are perishable i.e. attachments which is why when you aren’t receiving love, don’t have personal connections or are misunderstood, even if it bothers you, it doesn’t. Your soul is whole and immortal, and so is love and joy, and it’s also ever present as long as one can maintain their soul and its true essence so you are just focused on that. Religions and spirituality both put an emphasis on love, and purity and I don’t mean purity as in not being allowed to enter temples during your periods, etc. but instead that they put an emphasis on remaining loving, always leading with love and keeping the heart as light as a feather. You are doing that and you’re spiritually aligned. Obviously with the hurt that you’ve faced, you sometimes may feel heavy or have felt heavy in the past but you have a loving spirit that is still pure at its core and you maintain it with utmost reverence, and that’s your strength. I was earlier getting the quote “do you know how much anger it took to be this gentle?” And now, I’m getting the bridge of ‘solo’ by Jennie coming through. “After the relationship, romance and emotions there’s breakup, tears, regret, and longing. I like being alone because I should be true to myself. Like the flowing wind, like the stars above the clouds. I want to go faraway, I want to shine brightly.” That’s the energy that you seem to possess, you know what you offer and deserve now, and you let go of any attachments that make you feel less than. If you aren’t here yet, you can be. All the best 💞. You’re doing really well. When it comes to your wounds, you are a stubborn one. You’re really persistent and determined to make things work, and are so busy doing so that you don’t notice when the other person has already given up.

You put in work diligently from the start to the end with consistency which is why it hurts more when they give up because you put so much effort into it. You also have long term intentions or even if you don’t, you put in work as though you do because you naturally are long term oriented and you maintain loyalty consistently without a single slip on your part so when the other person gives up, you feel really betrayed and hurt. Lifelong connections are beautiful because they require work and both parties not wanting to give up. You are willing to make things work by putting your all into whatever it is that you want to succeed because of your long term oriented approach. You don’t just give up without trying, you don’t give up without a fight, you can’t because you just value it so much and want it in the long run so the awareness that when someone wants something in the long run, wants someone on the long run, they won’t just run away when things get hard and they have to put effort in is something that wounds you because people have been too easy to give up in the past. You seem to have dealt with a lack of loyalty from others too and what is upsetting is that you were loyal to them. What seems to have happened is that you met someone (possibly even multiple people for some of you) when they were going through a time of discontentment, stagnation, apathy, isolation, boredom, yearning, etc. and you were present for them consistently but when they got better, they left you behind while you were still putting in work and trying, and they didn’t explicitly tell you that they had given up right away. You fell victim to the classic method of being wounded until you couldn’t try anymore. The wounds could have come from their carelessness, negligence, lack of gratitude or acknowledgement of all that you had done and been for them, or well all of the above.

In fact, for some of you, they could have been wounding you actively by treating you as if you were a burden and talking to you in ways that scarred you. In many cases, it could have been both. Whether their approach was passive, active or both, it was equally bad and you didn’t deserve that. You simply just knew that love and connections were hard work, and were willing to put that in. You knew that things aren’t always easy but you still tried until you absolutely couldn’t anymore. Once you finally gave up, you had to consistently put in work into your own betterment in order to heal the wounds that were inflicted on you back then. You’re showing strength even when I’m trying to tap more into your wounds. Despite how wounded you were, you persisted with courage. You learned from your previous failure and wounds, and endured the pain and managed to get better eventually. I feel like at some point, you tried to maintain strong routines in order to get better and it worked wonders for you. You gained clarity on your past, present and future as well as a desire to be present, pleasant and proud. One thing is for sure, you started wanting to focus on the present moment and make the most out of it. You released your emotions and saw where change was needed, and created those changes. You left the past behind you and grew emotionally to the point of feeling almost enlightened. Now, you’re self aware, focused, content, grateful for what you already have, try to be present, accept yourself and situations as they are, and know your responsibilities and try to carry them out properly. Also, you reflect to learn but try to be and are present. The journey to get here wasn’t an easy one, the path was really rocky and rough with twists, and turns but you still made it. Pat yourself on the back, you’re doing so well. Thank you so much for reading. I hope that the reading resonated and that it provided you with the answers, and guidance that you wanted and needed. Much love and take care 💋.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 2 ꒱

Your strength is that you’re a protector and provider, and your wound is that people either don’t see it, take it for granted or are intimidated by it. Also, a very interesting thing that was happening when I was shuffling for you was that I wanted to channel ‘strengths and wounds’ but I kept on messing up and saying ‘strengths and weaknesses’. I feel like it was because your wounds have caused you to feel really weak or have created a weakness within you in some way. Don’t worry, we’ll look into it properly so that you can heal these parts of you and reclaim your power. I just heard that audio “they gonna hate me regardless, that’s why I do what I do.” Also, you’re more of a man than most men are 😭. You’re naturally a protector and provider, and I’m picking up on a lot of passion from you including an emphasis on sexual intimacy. Currently if you’re single, this can simply manifest as feeling horny frequently or/and masturbating a lot (or well just craving that orgasm even if you’re unable to touch yourself) but you’re definitely very passionate in romantic relationships, likely physically affectionate in other ways outside of sexual intimacy as well. You’re friendly and charismatic, and approach others with a fairly soft yet a bold and almost flirty demeanour. I feel like you’re this way with your same sex friends more than anyone else. You have a strong aura and it is because you possess a lot of integrity. ‘Substance over form’ is the kind of person that you are and that’s your strength. You’re really solid on the inside possessing courage, generosity, principles, ethics, a sense of responsibility, maturity, passion, loyalty, so on and so forth. You have turned out to be a strong person with a well rounded and strongly grounded character despite everything that you’ve undergone instead of letting it turn you bitter, and resentful. I’m hearing ‘easy on me’ by Adele. “Go easy on me baby, I was still a child didn’t get the chance to feel the world around me. I had no time to choose what I chose to do. So go easy on me.”

“There ain’t no room for things to change when we are both so deeply stuck in our ways, you can’t deny how hard I’ve tried. I changed who I was to put you both first but now I give up.” Some of you could have childhood trauma - endless sacrifice for your parents while some of you didn’t have parents and did everything to please your guardian(s), and the rest of you dealt with bullying or aggression from others and the ones who don’t relate to any of the above could have lost someone (possibly multiple people) and they could have been acting very egotistically, making you feel weak but it was not exactly your loss even if it may have felt like it at the time. Some of you may have hit the lottery and dealt with all of the above 😍. You could have also lost someone who you sacrificed a lot for. I just got the word ‘everyone’ and earlier at the beginning of the reading I had received the word ‘burnt’. Did you at some point feel like you lost everything and were burnt by everyone? You may have also felt as though you sacrificed a lot, too much of yourself for others in the past. “So you can love me, hate me, you will never be, never be, never be me. Try me, I’ll break free, you will never be, never be, never be me.” The song is literally titled ‘rebel heart’, I feel like back then despite any feeling of weakness and despite surrendering for the sake of peace, and feeling as though you lost, you knew that you hadn’t. You were rebelling from within and not egoistically but by channelling all your inner strength. You’re really confident in yourself now. I’m trying to dig up your past but you’re showing me how great you are in the present. You know that no one can ever be you. “I’ve tasted being the bigger person, I’ve also tasted matching energy. I recommend no contact.” You value your peace more than anything. You are ethical, reliable, long term oriented and seek excitement, and passion in long term matters rather than by seeking fleeting thrill. In fact, the more safe, stable and grounded a connection is, the more passion, excitement and joy you experience.

You do not feel any desire to wander or be unfaithful, your passion is reserved for just your significant other and your significant only. Like, you don’t even get tempted 💀. For example, if you’ve been in a relationship with someone for years, you’d rather try to experience new sorts of passion and excitement with them rather than get connected with someone new, and ruin something beautiful that you already have going and even if that’s not possible in grand ways just the fact that they’re loyal, and that you share a stable, safe and grounded connection is enough for you to be able to find passion, joy and excitement in the littlest of moments. You don’t get tempted or attracted to others. Also, you watch your character because of who you are as a person and who you want to be rather than to impress anyone. You may be someone who tries to avoid wandering eyes even when you’re single and just really try to watch your character in every way that you can because you are, and want to be a certain way. You’re a really well rounded person - you seek peaceful resolution and if you don’t find that, you seek peace even if it is by yourself, you don’t mind compromising, and have in fact, sacrificed majorly in the past. You know how to make amends with situations by now and you also have a side within you that’s like “I am me, you are you. If you do me dirty, fuck you” but your ethical peace seeking side overrides this. You’re loyal and try to maintain a strong character for yourself rather than for impressions, and are passionate as well. Also, you’re very romantic and care deeply, and genuinely about your partner. You want teeth rottingly sweet romance i.e. the shoulder kisses, climbing up the fences to get into some forbidden property, candlelight dinner, watching fireworks together and you going “so pretty” while looking at the different designs in the sky while they look at you and repeat your words, basically the whole nine yards. You’re also highly capable of it. You’re willing to do anything and everything for your partner as long as it doesn’t go against your morals.

I wonder if many of you are elder daughters or something because there’s so much about sacrifice, maturity and provision. I don’t mean to be a misandrist but I don’t think that I’ve ever met a man this well rounded and with such a strong character. You could have always sacrificed and done so much for your family, provided so much to them, and just been so mature and responsible from such a young age that that’s just who you are now. I wouldn’t be surprised if you already are or will provide financially for your family in the future. “I knew you, leaving like a father, running like water.” It doesn’t mean that your father or any parent left you (though it could be) but that you didn’t feel safe and stable with them so you have become a stable, and reliable individual to feel safe within yourself and to find a partner who provides the same qualities to you. Looking at your wounds, you feel like people let you go too easily. They often chose other people too. Oh my god, I just started hearing ‘the other woman’ by Lana Del Rey. It seems to have been a pattern for you. You were in contact with them in a very consistent manner so it could have been a friend who was using you as a placeholder for a romantic relationship until they found someone to commit to 💀. You are very diligent and have basic human decency so when someone is in your life, even if it is not a situation with commitment involved, you do whatever you can for them and are very present so when you were not fully claimed but not fully let go of, and had them let you go after finding a romantic relationship, you felt really manipulated. By this point, you don’t really question your worth anymore but back then, you wondered if you were unworthy of being chosen and committed to. For those of you who do not resonate with this, when it was time for people to make choices, their loyalties seemed to lie elsewhere. Even the closest connections that you had didn’t live up to their potential and in fact, you felt deceived.

“How long could we be a sad song till we were too far gone to bring back to life I gave you all my best me’s, my endless empathy and all I did was bleed as I tried to be the bravest soldier. Fighting in only your army, front lines don’t you ignore me, I’m the best thing in this party (you’re losing me) and I wouldn’t marry me either, a pathological people pleaser who only wanted you to see her, and I’m fading thinking ‘do something babe, say something. Lose something babe, risk something. Choose something babe, I’ve got nothing to believe unless you’re choosing me.’” “I can’t find a pulse, my heart won’t start anymore for you cause you’re losing me.” “My heart won’t start anymore, my heart won’t start anymore.” You feel as though you’ve never been able to develop and share deep intimacy, and love with someone that is pure and whole, and where you choose each other again and again. I just heard “she has other friends that she likes better”, you’ve just felt as though everyone chose and enjoyed other peoples company more, and that you were let go of so easily as though you were worthless. “If you feel too abandoned by others, it’s because you’ve abandoned yourself” ofcourse, it’s okay to feel bad about being abandoned and used. ‘Enough for you’ by Olivia Rodrigo is coming through. “Stupid, emotional, obsessive little me. I knew from the start this is exactly how you’d leave. You found someone more exciting, the next second you were gone and you left me there crying, wondering what I did wrong and you always say I’m never satisfied but I don’t think that’s true cause all I ever wanted was to be enough. Don’t you think I loved you too much to be used and discarded? Don’t you think I loved you too much to think I deserve nothing? So don’t tell me you’re sorry boy, feel sorry for yourself cause someday I’ll be everything to somebody else and they’ll think that I’m so exciting, and you’ll be the one who’s crying. You always say I’m never satisfied but I don’t think that’s true, you say I’m never satisfied but that’s not me, it’s you cause all I ever wanted was to be enough and I don’t think anything could ever be enough for you. No, nothing’s enough for you.”

You felt as though you abandoned yourself and didn’t have any boundaries or standards just because you wanted to be chosen, and loved back then and you’ve forgiven yourself for that, and grown into your power immensely by strengthening your character and I’m so incredibly proud of you but the shame, guilt, regret, and pain that you experienced back then was on another level. You felt as though you failed to maintain loyalty to yourself and choose yourself. There was this sense of having lost yourself due to a desire to be chosen mixed with a feeling of inferiority. You felt inferior and powerless in the connection or well, connections but even after they ended, you felt inferior and powerless, in fact, now that you could see things more clearly, you felt more inferior, powerless and ashamed of yourself. You lacked direction back then and were misdirecting your energy into trying to receive love, and be chosen by acting inferior and slowly started believing it yourself because others treated you like such when you could have been improving yourself, your skills and your life instead. You felt like you betrayed yourself. The song ‘I’ll never fall in love again’ by Dionne Warwick is coming through. “What do you get when you fall in love? A guy with a pin to burst your bubble. That’s what you get for all your trouble. I’ll never fall in love again. I’ll never fall in love again. What do you get when you kiss a guy? You get enough germs to catch pneumonia, after you do, he’ll never phone ya. I’ll never fall in love again. Don’t you know that I’ll never fall in love again? Don’t tell me what it’s all about cause I’ve been there and I’m glad I’m out. Out of those chains, those chains that bind you. That is why I’m here to remind you. What do you get when you fall in love? You only get lies and pain and sorrow.”

You’re a deeply romantic person but due to how genuine you are, how much you offer and all the deception that you’ve faced. You are more focused on your daily routines, money, career, work and study. You might also have a wound regarding skills. You want to develop skills and you know you have it in you but you just haven’t been able to, you just aren’t being able to, you’re being told to keep going consistently. You’re probably rolling your eyes externally or internally at what I just wrote because it’s not like you haven’t tried to develop these skills consistently because you have but that no matter how much you have tried, you just haven’t been able to but you’re still being encouraged to keep going. Having experienced all that you’ve experienced, you’ve become very self and character focused. You care a lot about other people’s character as well as your own. You have high standards now and until you meet someone who matches them close to perfectly, you are not interested in any sort of romance. You really do want to find this person though because you have so much love to give and genuinely want to experience the soft mushy gushy romantic, and passionate kind of romance. You want to experience a soft romcom movie and ‘fifty shades of grey’ kind of romance at the same time with just one person for the rest of your life but it is very important for you to be able to respect, admire and rely on that person. Passion is very important to you in romance and life in general. Due to how you’ve had to take on really responsible roles throughout your life and always hold this sense of responsibility, and duty within you, and how sacrificing and resolution seeking you can be despite a very hot, and strong fire within you. You need a partner who’s more of a man than you are. Someone who is a good leader, passionate, charismatic, go getter, action oriented, loyal, grounded, ethical, responsible, reliable and romantic. Someone who lets you be bratty and express anger, and also doesn’t take advantage of your problem solving, peaceful and resolution seeking nature.

You tend to be fairly submissive on the outside despite the inner strength you possess so you need someone who is happy with themself and doesn’t feel the need to dominate, and belittle you in order to feel better about themself. I’m not going to lie, due to how passionate you are, you have a very competitive and resentful side to you but also you’re very peaceful, and forgiving. You truly are such a well rounded person. You might attract a lot of hostility and aggression due to this. People can pick up on your inner drive but you seem to harmless on the surface that they try to crush your spirit because they just feel a sense of competitiveness, hostility and aggression towards you without any real reason and you have a strong character on the inside so you don’t break externally but instead usually maintain peace so they don’t understand why and how you’re so unaffected 💀😭. You want a partner who can handle your angry and difficult sides, the ones that are deeply passionate. You cannot settle for just anyone because now that you’ve grown as a person, you’ve grown into your character and strength, you get really bad vibes from most people, and notice their faults and flaws quite easily. ‘CO2’ by Prateek Kuhad is the song that I’m getting here. “Maybe it’s the way that you can see what I’m missing what I can never be.” “Maybe it’s the man that you see in me.” Most people won’t be able to live up to your standards due to how high they are but they’re just normal to you because you can live up to them so you don’t need to lower them. You need to look at things differently now, you’re not unworthy, things are better now, life is brighter now. You are likely to intimidate people once they start seeing your character more clearly. The closer that they’ll get to you, the more that they might feel inferior or like they don’t live up to what you need them to be. You can be critical to some extent because of how high your standards are even for yourself but it’s coming as a strength of yours. Only accept those who are actively trying and being able to live up to what your standards are. If someone gives up or doesn’t try, trust me, you’re better off. Those who think that they’re not enough, they know themselves more than you know them because they experience consciousness from within themself, because they can hear their own thoughts and know about their own actions, and tendencies so believe them when they talk or act like they’re not enough. Right now, I’m getting that while you’re capable of romance, you’re focused on consistently bettering yourself, improving your lifestyle, your career, money, routines, work and studies. You are on the right path. It’s okay to want romance but don’t ever lower your standards by even just an inch or a millimetre because you can live up to your own and you deserve an equal. Thank you so much for reading. I hope that the reading resonated and that it provided you with the answers, and guidance that you wanted and needed. Much love and take care 💋.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 3 ꒱

(TW: Mentions of abuse, sexual assault, etc.)

Some of you have daddy issues or some kind of issue caused by aggressive people but there’s a strong theme of boys and men here. There are so many scenarios coming through, you’re obviously not going to relate to all of them. For some of you, you’ve just dealt with aggression, threatening your sense of belonging while some of you have dealt with abandonment from either or both parents or just an absence of them, there are even mentions of abuse here for some of you if your parents were present. An angry father or parental figure? If not, you have had terrible experiences with the male gender. It could be something as simple as having boys make fun of you in middle school. These incidents have wounded you really deeply. I’m having a really hard time putting all the scenarios down. There’s definitely some sort of a deep wound when it comes to belonging - be it family, home, community, school or work. Also little incidents grew into real big ones that I’m hearing traumatised you. For example, you got with some guy, that changed the entire trajectory of your life. The thing is, you received a lot of intolerance from everyone for a major part of your life. It escalated close to abuse, violence and bullying at some point, and for many of you, it could have had something to do with a guy. Don’t get me wrong, it would have been a part of your life either way. People just have been so aggressive, unruly and intolerant towards you for no reason, you didn’t deserve that but I will explain how it could have had something to do with a guy for many of you. For example, you got into a relationship with some guy, you could have been heavily criticised by other people who also liked and wanted him considered you to be ‘not good enough’ for him just for this guy to break up with you in a disrespectful manner with no regard for you whatsoever, and after that, I’m getting that either the aggression and bullying from other people intensified or the effects of the previous unruly treatment started affecting you intensely.

Many of you have dealt with an abusive situation even if it’s just emotionally though it could have been physically for some of you (by parents, romantic partners, etc.) Do not invalidate your experiences ever because even if others might think that it was not abuse, it definitely was. It affected you so deeply, I’m not even being able to express it properly. I’m just crying right now. If you didn’t deal with any of the above situations. Though, I believe that many of you have dealt with all or at least majority of what I’m mentioning. Then, you dealt with guy friends who were using you for an ego boost and acted as though you wanted them so bad if you simply tried to keep the friendship going or tried to fix things instead of ending them. Guys have made you feel really preyed on. People in general have but guys especially. Some of you could have even dealt with men trying to assault you sexually. It could have been something as simple as someone forcefully kissing you as a child or making you watch porn. Something like this could have happened when you were a teen or an adult too but I just got that since kids are the most vulnerable, it likely happened to many of you as kids. Oh my god, no way. I just heard “he doesn’t like cougars, he likes little kids. He stopped liking me when I turned eighteen.” I feel like your life has always been this way. Having people walk all over you and treat you like shit but it got especially worst in your teen years. I’m not sure what happened at fourteen and seventeen specifically but seventeen was your last straw, and your experiences all the way from when you were fourteen contributed to finally realising the truth. In fact, your experiences before that contributed too but I’m picking up that mistreatment and aggression were/felt the most extremely during your teenage years. Any childhood abuse or mistreatment, or instability, you realised the truth of all of that through what you experienced during your teenage years. People genuinely just lacked compassion towards you and you had to deal with a lot of loneliness.

It is like anytime that you were not keeping to yourself and connecting with others, they were abusing, using and mistreating you. People used to treat you aggressively, make fun of you and mistreat you for their own sick sense of enjoyment, in order to boost their ego, and have fun. I’m so sorry, you didn’t deserve all that. Even when you were with people, you were very lonely and felt insecure, and lacking due to the way they used to treat you and once you finally got away, you felt incredibly insecure, unstable, and lacking but you chose that over mistreatment from others and that’s how you grew. “Don’t be afraid to stand alone. Don’t be afraid to stand outside your comfort zone. I know it’s hard away from home and it ain’t easy all alone.” You had a strong thirst for knowledge from since you were a kid but during this time of loneliness, it transformed into a need. You were seeking truth and clarity because you genuinely needed it to move forward but you have always possessed some sort of a divine knowledge. Which is why you were able to be so compassionate, still and passive at the face of such mistreatment, aggressiveness and lack of compassion. Divinity exists within all of us and you were aware of that. So you naturally acted like the bigger person until you couldn��t anymore but this breakdown caused you to get closer to your own truth. You started realising that while it’s good to learn through external sources, true knowledge and wisdom is something that we are just born with, and that anything else that comes through, it should come from within. For example, we are not born racists, as kids, all we want is to receive and give love, and we are active, and full of life, that’s the only knowledge that truly matters - the ability to be yourself in your highest, most divine and purest form. You also realised just how shitty the treatment that you received in the past was and how lonely, and insecure you were.

You may have felt at home with these people or shared a community with them but even so, you decided to act with integrity and do right by you even if it required loneliness or/and isolation. For some of you, after all of this had passed, you met someone who you felt really at home with but for some reason, you still had to logically act out of fairness and had to reward them with the consequences of their actions rather than with negotiation. The trajectory of your growth has been amazing. One of your strengths is your sense of hope and faith. You felt like you’d never get anything good in life and that your life was doomed, and that you’d be lonely and empty forever but you still kept going, and you managed to get better so now you have hope and faith regarding life. Back then, you just wanted to feel better, get better and now, you have so now you have a sense of direction, you’re focused on nourishing yourself. You are connected to your core essence and are comfortable with your vulnerability, and sense of nakedness i.e. your authenticity. You’re nourishing and loving yourself wholeheartedly in any, and every way possible though. Yes, there’s always room for improvement. Like, for example, you may do your skincare, workout and do your work diligently but you may not eat all three meals so you could work on that, etc. But definitely, you try to make sure to eat even if you’re busy because your nourishment means a lot to you. You might be unable to have all three meals but you try. You’re very intense in terms of romance and also really romantic. but you don’t try to put in time, energy, and effort into romance anymore unless the other person comes to you first and is consistently present, and shows promise of a solid future but you’re very content being alone. You in fact, really enjoy it. You are on a journey of self discovery and improvement, and understand yourself and love very deeply due to how much time you’ve spent alone, by yourself, in contemplation, and soul searching.

You’ve drawn out a lot of wisdom from within yourself. You’re spiritually enlightened and don’t mind being alone or different. Even if it is difficult, even if you’re considered to be difficult, you want to be yourself. “Share my life, take me for what I am cause I’ll never change all my colours for you. Take my love, I’ll never ask for too much, just all that you are and everything that you do.” You’re aware by now that it is nothing except self betrayal to try to earn love by changing yourself because even if you manage to receive love, they won’t be living ‘you’ and if you don’t win them over, you’d have lost yourself in the process, and would feel terrible about yourself so you’d rather be alone but yourself. That one bible story is coming through here. “Jacob agreed to work for seven years to marry Rachel, the woman he loved but was deceived by her father Laban and ended up marrying her older sister, Leah. Though he fulfilled his time and eventually married Rachel too, Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah. Seeing that Leah was unloved, god allowed her to bear children while Rachel remained barren. With each son she bore, Leah hoped that Jacob would finally love her - naming her first Reuben, saying, “now my husband will love me”, her second Simeon because “the lord has heard that I am hated”, and her third Levi, thinking, “now my husband will become attached to me.” However, Jacob’s heart did not change. When she bore her fourth son, Judah, Leah no longer pleaded for her husband’s affection but simply said, “this time I will praise the lord.” You seem to be aware of the fact that love that is not freely given can never be earned so you don’t even try. If you found the kind of love that you desire, if you found someone who loved and cherished you, you would be intensely passionate and romantic, honestly to an extreme but that’s because, that’s just who you are. You’d indulge in it very deeply. You’d experience the feeling of being ‘drunk in love’.

“With you, there’s silence in a crowd. There’s a little unconsciousness, with you, because of you.” You’d make an intense lover who loves incredibly deeply but you’re not interested in trying to earn anyone’s love in order to channel your romantic energy. You might in fact, have these sides of you pretty hidden. All of you have different kinds of personality but all of you have a very meek one. Some of you are more of the silent kind, some of you may be talkative when with others and might seem really social, and some of you might manage to do both but if you do have a talkative and social side, there’s this thing about you in which once you are out of that social situation, you struggle to stay in touch with others, isolate yourself and randomly disappear. Also, the more time that you spend in a social situation and with certain people, the more silent and internal that you tend to get. I’m loving all the messages that are coming through for your strengths. We don’t see through our eyes, we see through our minds. Our eyes are just a medium for us to perceive the external world and interact with it. There’s so much in the world about ‘finding god’ or ‘figuring out the meaning of life’, people just want to know where and how it all started, and where and how we will all end up after death so they seek god but do they really manage to find divinity? Most people don’t because god made it so simple yet so tricky to find them by choosing to reside where they’re currently residing i.e. within each person. Most people aren’t able to comprehend that divinity can reside within them because they think that figuring out the mysteries of life and receiving answers is much more complicated than that, and that’s okay but they’d easily find divinity, god, whatever they want to call it if they only turned their vision inside and looked within themselves. Most of you are aware of this truth so you try to keep yourself as clean, good and pure spirited as possible because divinity should not reside in a dirty place. It does not have to be conscious awareness or conscious trying but you’re just incredibly internal and have learned so much from going within yourself that you’ve found your guide there, your divinity itself and you’re well aligned with your life purpose. If you’re not quite there yet, you soon will be. Thank you so much for reading. I hope that the reading resonated and that it provided you with the answers, and guidance that you wanted and needed. Much love and take care 💋.

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galene-gothic · 25 days ago

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Thank you so much again! After thoroughly reading your email/reading… wow. Just wow. You basically picked up on the last 2–3 years of my love life. I originally reached out to you about a situation that started this year, but somehow you picked up on something that honestly has bothered me even more. If you had gone any deeper, you probably would’ve uncovered my entire life story, to be honest.

I started typing everything out in detail, but it got way too long - so here’s a summary:

Growing up, I was bullied a lot, mostly for my appearance. What hurt the most was when my own parents joined in, as if they didn’t create me 😒. I didn’t have many friends, and when I did, I often felt like an outsider - just an extra or an acquaintance - while they meant the world to me. I tried. I really tried. I tried making new friends, tried finding where I belonged. And at one point, I thought I had. In 2023, during my senior year of high school, I started a new job. The people there seemed more accepting than at my previous job. Somewhere along the line, I met a girl who turned out to be my cousin. Things seemed promising at first, as they usually do. But to be honest, I saw the red flags early on, I just ignored them. It felt like, “Finally. Something…” Long story short, she started copying everything I did. She’d repeat my jokes to other people like they were her own. If you’ve ever seen the movie Single White Female, that’s basically what was happening. And for someone who talked down on me as much as she did, she sure wanted to be me badly.

Eventually, she introduced me to this guy she was friends with (not the one I originally came to you about). He took a liking to me immediately, which she noticed. He had a girlfriend at the time, something she only told me after he bought me a huge bag of candy just because I mentioned I liked it. I wasn’t trying to be a homewrecker, so I just stayed friendly. But after a crazy breakup with his girlfriend, he started pursuing me more seriously. I was scared, honestly. I knew it would end badly if I let it go any further and surprise, it sure did 😭. I thought it was weird that he jumped into something new so fast. Clearly, he wasn’t ready for anything serious, but he kept pushing, and eventually… I gave in. At the time, it felt like the only moment in my life that someone actually wanted me. I started to suspect that my cousin had a crush on him or developed one after he showed interest in me and I was right. She started treating me worse. Looking back, she would purposely exclude me from events if she knew he’d be there. She became so competitive. And even though you kept calling me “gullible” in the reading (😭), I’m not stupid. I saw he was feeding into her drama, so I backed off. But then he flipped the script and acted like I had wronged him. He went around playing the victim, pretending I cut him off for no reason. Basically, he launched a smear campaign against me. And of course, my pick-me cousin went right along with it, now that he was finally giving her attention. That made everything worse. I was already depressed from everything I went through growing up, but that situation genuinely made me consider suicide.

Neither of them cared. She kept trying to brag about how he was giving her attention, even though I had already tried to cut her off. They dragged me into so much unnecessary drama. It’s honestly enough for a whole book. This all went down between mid-2023 and early 2024. I don’t wish her well. Her betrayal hurt more than anything that guy ever did. And MIND YOU!!! This girl had the nerve to act like she was better than me. No tea, no shade, but besides everything I’ve mentioned about her wanting to be me - I looked better than her. I never thought like that until she started getting cocky. Sure, maybe I was “ugly” at one point, but toward the end of high school and the beginning of college, I grew into myself. In America, people will definitely let you know if they think you’re unattractive. I went from strangers calling me ugly to being complimented almost daily. (That’s where my obsession with self-improvement started.) This situation still messed with my head. I had worked so hard to become something better, only to be replaced by someone who got mistaken for a boy way too often. Humbling doesn’t even begin to describe it. I still get mad thinking about it 😭. So yeah, that’s the gist. I didn’t want to date anyone after that, until this year, but you already know how that story goes. Honestly, I just want to be left alone now. As for the person I originally came to you about, my experience with him only made me want to hide the sexual side of myself even more. I was already pretty reserved in that area, but that whole situation just reinforced how I already felt. Also, about what you said in the reading regarding sex appeal, I’m not sure I fully understand that part yet. It wasn’t hard to follow, but I don’t think I’ve reached that realization myself. I do feel desirable to myself, but when others express it, I feel repulsed. That’s something I know I need to work on. Hopefully, this covered most of the main points. I’ll start implementing your advice and see how it goes. Thank you again for your time and energy. And if you read through all of this, thank you for being such a great listener. I really do appreciate the support you’ve given me through this entire process.

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galene-gothic · 29 days ago

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In terms of character, they have an incredibly romantic character and greatly value passion. For them, romance is not possible without attraction and passion. I honestly don’t know what to say here because I wanted to look at their character outside of love and relationships but due to how romantic they are, messages about it are coming through the strongest. They value passion itself and feel the most alive when they’re doing something they’re passionate about, and in fact, they really enjoy the chase. They really enjoy the phase during which they’re pursuing someone. Another thing that I’m picking up on is that at the time that you’ll meet them, they’ll be thinking about how much potential they had/have but were unable to make good use of it and bring it to life or aren’t being able to do so. I keep on getting messages about romance and their love life even though I’m trying not to go there, and I believe that’s because romance has been a huge part of their life. I personally wouldn’t want to hear this so I didn’t want to say it either but their past experiences with past partners or love interests will have greatly affected who they will be when you meet them and again, I wouldn’t want to hear this so I didn’t want to talk about this but I have no choice but to talk about how their love life will have affected them and carved their character, and personality. They’ll be thinking about the potential of their past connections but I’m not getting them thinking about it in a “what could have been” but instead in a more scorned and disappointed yet slightly detached manner. They’ll have felt powerless due to whatever happened and will be thinking about how they were deceived, manipulated, and where the people that they were involved with were just lazy. They’ll be thinking about how half-heartedly the person or people they were involved with were putting in effort and they’ll be disappointed about it. I’m not getting any positive emotion or longing attached to the past. They’ll have pretty much gotten over it, it is just that they’ll be disappointed. Things will be foggy for them at that time, they’ll be thinking a lot and will be spending a lot of time by themself due to the desire to think, and figure things out. I’m not getting them being confused because they’re attached to the past or anything of that sort. In fact, it seems to be quite the opposite. They’ll be extremely determined to move forward by themself because they’ll be feeling tricked by their past and disappointed at it, and will want to gain more knowledge about themself and life through it, and grow as a person so that they can move forward with more clarity. They’ll be fine with not knowing everything. In fact, they’ll be seeking answers and clarity from within, internally rather than externally. Externally, they’ll be kind of extreme with isolating themself but it will be because that’s what they’ll be needing at that time, they’ll be growing and gaining clarity, and wisdom through it.

Also, in terms of romance, they’ll have gotten extremely intense. They’re a passionate person so it makes sense that they would be intense but they’ll have gotten even more intense than they naturally were due to their past experiences. They’ll have felt unseen and unworthy in the past, and some of your spouses will have grown acceptance of their romantic and passionate character so they’ll be craving a more intense experience in romance, and a partner who can handle such intensity but honestly, they’ll be fine being alone, that’s what they’ll be needing, seeking and craving the most. They’ll be a naturally intense and indulgent partner. It is actually very sweet, they’re going to indulge into the romantic experience and their partner completely. When they’re in love, they tend to be so in love that they do not want to look at anyone else or think of anyone else. They want to indulge in this and only this but they expect the same from their partner, and due to how intensely romantic and passionate they are, they lose their mind when their partner is not able to live up to their ideals and ability of romance. I don’t think that they’re the problem but more so that the world is not this romantic 💀. They genuinely are able to love this way and feel love very deeply. They actually do experience romance like this and it’s not as insecurity based as mediocre lovers would accuse their actions as being. Romance and their significant other means everything to them so they feel the pain very deeply too :(. It makes sense why romance and their love life was coming through so strongly that I could not get any other messages about them, their entire existence is in fact about romance 😭. This reminds me of the male lead, Gwansik, of the k-drama ‘when life gives you tangerines.’ His coach is like “are you telling me your only purpose in life is this Ae-sun?” And he agrees. They love love and they know how to do it well. They’re also incredibly good at romancing. They dive too deeply in love though and they want to, all their emotions, they put it all into it - their heart and their soul. They’re willing to do just about anything for their partner. They’ll have felt or well be feeling very unseen, unwanted and unconfident, wondering if they’re just unworthy, even if it’s just once in a while so they’ll want a partner as deeply romantic as them so that they’d never have to doubt that :(. On the surface, they’ll seem to be collaborative and humble, and it will be because they’ll be someone who’s learning from others and teaching to others, and of course helping and working with people whenever, and wherever needed but they’ll be going through a lot by themself, processing a lot and slowly but surely clearing out the fog, and getting closer to themself. I think they’ll be more of a learner than teacher at the time, they’re naturally someone who wants to preach and teach but they’ll not have enough clarity at the time to do so.

They’ll have to get closer to themself in order to get there but they will, maybe slowly but definitely surely. The same thing about their love nature keeps coming through. I feel like with the capacity they love, no one is able to grasp, understand or explain it. Even I seem to be falling short but because I’m a medium, they want to be heard by you through me :(. This is breaking my heart honestly. When they love, it’s a lot about passion and desire, and they make sure that the other person feels it, feels the vigour with which they desire them but they’ll be questioning if they’re just not worthy of it, if they’ll just never receive it. I’m going to end up crying at this point. I’m sorry but with the way they love and the things that they’re willing to do for it, even though I want to, I wouldn’t be able to list out everything for you. I just heard that they’re someone who when they fall in love and get involved with someone might sort of disappear because they genuinely crave their partner’s energy, and enjoy their company and the feeling of love, and experience of romance. I think that one problem of theirs is that they’re too much of a team player. They might think about the other person’s perspective and emotions, likely before their own especially in terms of romance causing them to negotiate and work with them as a team, when they should just get rid of them, and not talk to them ever again. It’s not like they’re willingly a victim, though some of them could have been at some point but more so that they believe that as a team, they can overcome anything with their partner so having faith in them, they try to work as a team, solve things as a team and just move forward. It is a very good trait but it has caused them problems and pain, and pretty much bit them in the ass so it is important for them to understand that just because they care about the other person in the partnership, consider them to be a team and want to move forward as such, and think about them and are considerate of them doesn’t mean that the other person is too. I feel so bad for them but they’re the sweetest sweetheart ever. They know how to flirt and all of that but it needs to be intense in order to be real for them. They either love all the way or not at all. They do not do mediocre love and devote themself to their beloved so you better do the same for them too. You better not break their heart because they’re honestly such a softie :(. They’re very strong but very soft. Definitely very charming, flirty, passionate and sexual too. They’re likely to make you blush a lot. Some of your spouses might smirk or lick their lips a lot. I hope that you enjoyed the reading and are willing to take care of them because otherwise, I’ll hunt you down. Thank you for reading. Much love and take care.

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In terms of character, your future spouse is going to be incredibly charming and a really good leader. It’s in their character to lead. They’re someone who is aware of how intense and indulgent they are. Also, someone who ends up indulging in thinking a certain way. If they start thinking a thought, they start really indulging in that thought, intensely thinking about it. It’s very difficult for them to just pull out of it. They’re the type to think deeply and heal themself internally, in privacy. It’s not necessarily a bad trait, it’s just that they need to get to the root of things. Another thing that I’m getting is that they are naturally very sexual. They might be a bit impatient when it comes to satisfying this part of them and they’re very intense in it. They want to indulge in this beyond the capacity in which average humans do i.e. they want multiple orgasms or might want to set a few hours or even an entire day apart just to indulge in it. Some of them seem to be into BDSM and likely want to take on a dominating role during the act. When they indulge in it in a more vanilla manner, they take on the role of the one taking the lead. It is really important for them to be completely blissed out due to orgasms because it helps them feel truly at peace. I just heard that there are days when they want to release so bad that they end up releasing really fast. This way, they can deeply indulge in it from the second orgasm onwards and start taking their time to get there but for the first one, they have a tendency to be too impatient and just want to get there. The first pile was all about romance and this one, so far, is all about sex 😭. They’re quite a flirt too. I just heard the phrase ‘charm someone’s pants off’. They like to stay present which is why they really enjoy indulging in such explicit activities because they have a tendency to think a lot and very deeply, and intensely and during the time that they are doing it, experiencing pleasure, and during the afterglow, they feel really calm and present but it needs to be full body and intense for them to get there. The sexual side of them is a very important part of their character so that was what was coming through the strongest but now that that’s out of the way, let’s move into their actual character and personality now. They’re very flirty and know how to romance someone. It’s a part of their character. Your person goes about it in a very confident manner and has a more heated charm. At the time you’ll meet them, they’ll be someone who has learnt from their past experiences and is content, and grateful for all that they are and have. I’m getting that for many of you they’ll have had relationships or sexual history that will have left them feeling apathetic and dissatisfied but by the time they’ll meet you, they’ll be present, content, and grateful and will have learned a lot from these experiences.

They’ll know what fulfils them and what doesn’t. They’ll have lived a disharmonious life in which they didn’t have their priorities in order and were indulging intensely in things that didn’t fulfil them, and in fact, left them feeling empty so that will be on their mind but they’ll have emotionally grown through that. They’ll be very self aware and will be accepting things as they are. They’ll be accepting the past and leaving it behind them. They’ll have had regrets about their lifestyle but will have let go of it and will still be regretful but will be moving forward with emotional growth, contentment and a will to do better instead. Keep in mind that not all of your future spouses will have had physical relations with others. Some of them might have just had romantic relationships or casual flirty experiences that left them feeling not so good about themselves. They’re going to be a very good person though. They’ll be feeling a bit insecure about the events that will have occurred but will be learning to trust themself and life itself. They’ll be trying to hope but will be a bit apathetic, sad or pessimistic at times but mostly, because their focus will be more on the positive side, they’ll be doing fine. In fact, I’d say that they’ll be doing really well. They are very romantic and charming, and they’ll be wanting something real and long term at that time. They might love dogs, cats or some sort of an animal? They’ll be trying to grow and prosper at that time, and will be saving, investing, growing, and building themself. Where they’ll be in regard to this will be different. Some of your spouses will still be setting the foundation, some of them will be enjoying the first fruits of their labour and some of them will be doing both. For example, they might have started earning well but might start saving and investing or they might have fair earnings, and savings but might want to grow more as a person. They’ll also be someone who learns a lot through being present and I understand why they’re such a good leader, they know how to work with a team. They’re someone who learns from others and teaches them as well. There’s a certain humility that they display in group settings that I’m picking up on. It’s going to be incredibly important for them to learn and teach in life, to feel like they’re actively growing, and present. I’m hearing the song ‘BMF’ by SZA in my head. They’ll be hella attractive but since we are looking at their character and personality, it could be more of their charisma and personal charm than appearance. Though for some of you, they might be hella fine appearance wise too. They’re going to have undergone an extremely rich transformation and either multiple endings or one significant one that will have them changed as a person.

They’ll have put a stop to their old ways so that’s a good thing. They’re going to have a lot of integrity and a big aura, and energy due to who they are on the inside. They’ll be headstrong, action oriented, confident, assertive and a good leader who likes to get things done well, and quickly and is courageous, and strong. They’ll be assertive and will demand respect internally if not externally. If disrespected, on the outside, they might continue cooperating with the person when necessary but might end the connection completely in other ways. If not necessary, it’s ended in every way possible from their side. They hold themself to really high standards as well. They are warm, courageous, generous and wholehearted but they have a lot of integrity, and pride so if these qualities are not dealt with properly, they don’t mind changing their demeanour towards that person by completely ending things in any way possible. They’re going to be a visionary and also very original. If you like men, they’re going to be a true man. Men often don’t understand and are unable to embody their true masculine energy, and are in fact so out of touch with it that they either end up adopting hyper and toxic masculinity or fall into man child behaviour but your spouse will be embodying healthy masculinity. I think this is why they’re so desirable to women as well because they’re warm, romantic, have a soft side but are a good leader, seem to have a purpose and are extremely charismatic. They’ll be trying to be a good man by being a good human and not trying to embody masculinity forcefully without purpose or awareness of what they’re truly doing. They’re naturally very flirty and charming though. They don’t even have to intend to come off this way, they just do. They would make a really good partner because they’re able to learn from, teach and consider other people. They’re also generous and aren’t “me, me, me” all the time. I won’t lie, their focus is on themself but they still care a lot about their partner, and want to grow with them. They know how to look at things from their own perspective obviously but also their partner’s and try to deal with things efficiently. Like, if their partner reacted out of temper and ended up saying things they didn’t mean, and disrespected them, they’d try to teach them and work through things. “That’s not how you act.” “That’s not how you talk to someone.” “You can’t let your temper get to you like that, you need to learn how to control it at some point.” They’d be very firm with their partner but also mature and patient. They’re humble enough to learn from their partner as well. Also, they’d make their partner blush a lot because your spouse knows how to flirt and romance but they also possess a certain sincerity, they know how to be soft and touch one’s heart. I’m really happy for you. Thank you for reading. I hope that you liked the reading. Much love and take care.

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At their core, your future spouse is going to be a bit unfriendly. I’m not sure how it will manifest externally but on the inside, they’re going to be a very demanding person who has really high standards. I’m getting a very self focused character here. They believe that you reap what you sow so if someone does something that disappoints or hurts them, they just stop putting in effort. People are disappointing and everyone has at some point has had to face it. Your person seems to be almost stoic. Like, genuinely detached and apathetic 😭. By the time that you’ll meet them, they’ll have faced enough disappointments and negativity, and will be very apathetic and stoic. They’ll have worked hard and will be enjoying the fruits of their labour, and will still be putting work in to enjoy more of it in the future. They’ll have a really perseverant character but will also have amazing attention to detail. They’re continuously working on growing and do not ever give up. Like I said before, they’ll have experienced disappointments and negativity so they’ll have a more stoic, and apathetic mindset and they’ll have learned, and grown from these experiences. They’re someone who assesses things and tries to figure out what worked for them, and what didn’t in order to plan their next steps forward. They’ll be consistent and will be working on realistic goals focusing on what they can control, and what is in their reach. They’ll also be grounded and self assured because whatever they’ll be doing, and however they’ll be acting will be working for them. They will know how and when to take breaks, and will not overdo it but also, will not under-do it. They’re going to be very ‘consistency for a long time over hard work for a short amount of time’ kind of person. They’re honestly such a winner. They will a very accepting approach to things. For example, they did something that hurt someone and that person starts distancing themself from them, they’ll understand why, and will move forward with acceptance. It is very realistic. “I did what I did and it hurt them so they have every right to do what they did” is how they think in such moments. They’ll need someone who they can intellectually connect with and who mentally stimulates them in order to be in a relationship with them. They’ll be really fair and just, and will have an incredibly strong character with a strong ability to reason. They value the truth above all else. They aren’t the type to get lost in illusions and fantasies. They’ll be extremely controlled, and will think and assess in terms of romance, and any other personal connection too. For them, having an equal in terms of character is very important. They possess really strong ethics, values and principles, and they’re going to need someone like that to form a connection with as well.

They’re weighing everything in their head, perceiving people’s actions and forming judgements based on them. They likely prefer having someone with really similar values and someone who genuinely tries because they have a tendency to be really critical of people. They need to hold a lot of respect for you and feel mentally stimulated, and in fact, even a bit challenged in order to develop a connection with you. They’re a winner because they’re aware that they are. They have a lot of integrity and possess pure intentions, and when they want something, they believe that they can get it. They are always thinking about how to take action and balance their actions, reality, emotions, mindset, and will with one another in order to get better in life, and I just heard ‘a better experience out of life’. At the time you’ll meet them, they’re going to be passionate and powerful yet stoic, and grounded. They’ll be aware of their power because they’ll have developed skills and already built something that they previously used to dream, and wish for. They’re honestly very interesting, when they want something, they get it and if they don’t, they still get it by getting something even better. Also, they’ll be very intentional with life and their actions but they’ll have had to learn how to figure out what it is that they truly want, and should set their intention towards after much experience in life. For example, if I’m attracted to and want to be with someone who’s very attractive and receives a lot of attention despite not feeling connected to them on a more personal level, it may be because I want to be attractive, and receive such attention. I could choose to pursue this person if I’m unaware or ignorant of what I’m really after but if I’m aware and accepting, I can move forward with the intention of becoming such a person someday and they will know how to figure out what they want, and what intention to set for it. They’re going to be confident and self assured, and grounded yet detached and intentional yet stoic, and that’s what’s going to make them such a winner. There’s a lot of focus on becoming resourceful by mastering themself and maintaining a strong character. The way people will see them really varies, to some they may seem under qualified, to some they may seem too hardworking, to some they may seem too lazy but the thing is, they’re constantly working on self improvement. They can be a bit perfectionistic and can lean towards workaholism at times. I know that I said that they will know how to pace themself and rest but I’m getting that they will still have days when they work extremely hard, and days when they’re feeling extremely lazy and are unable to work properly. In fact, there will be days when they’ll not work at all but what I find to be incredibly admirable about them is that even if they don’t feel like working, most of the time, they push themself to do so.

Their discipline and work ethic is something that we can all learn from. There are two groups of you here, one group of your future spouses will be stoic but will express an extreme amount of joy and positivity while the other group of your future spouses will be stoic and will not express much if any emotion at all. There is a lack of expression on both of these group’s part though. Like, even if they’re sad, they don’t show or express it externally. Your future spouse is not a winner for no reason, they’re aware that no matter how negative of a situation they may be or no matter how shitty they may be feeling, it’s temporary and it will pass which is why some of them could find it a bit useless to share as well. They’re going to be incredibly awakened spiritually. In fact, they’ll be really connected to spirit because divinity exists within all of us if we are willing to work with it. I just heard “if we are willing to do the work.” This doesn’t mean that they need to be spiritual, many of them won’t be but they’ll just naturally be in flow with life. They’ll be a reasonable person who holds themself to high standards and possesses certain values, ethics, morals, and standards that they want to live up to. They’ll also have great attention to detail and will be critical of others, and themself. Especially the latter because they’ll be more self focused which is why, they’ll want to grow and so, they’ll question their beliefs, values, habits, etc. In case, they need to break them in order to grow. This person is honestly the most grounded and flexible person that I’ve ever read. They’re going to transform a lot internally but somehow, they’ll also be the same i.e. every time that they change, they’ll be more themself. They’ll also be the type to rebuild after extreme falls and devastation but will mostly not even reach such a point because maybe they had in the past, and so they’ve developed the strength of breaking but never really breaking. They will possess a really strong character in which they will be highly capable of avoiding devastating situations and extreme falls by controlling their emotions, and will avoid changing because the external world wants them to if it does not resonate with them but will be flexible enough, open to and will in fact, look forward to changing if it resonates with them on a deeper level. If they end up falling and breaking because they’re just human. They know how to build themself back up and with a much stronger foundation this time. I hope that you liked the reading and that it resonates because you deserve a winner. Please make sure that you focus on being one yourself because romantic connections are the best between equals. Also, this makes so much sense, I am writing this reading at 1:20 a.m. and I randomly felt motivated to do so at 12 something a.m., I believe that it has something to do with your future spouse’s energy. Their hardworking spirit showed its effects on me before I even started. Thank you so much for reading. Much love and take care.

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I created this reading for people looking to know and understand what they have to offer in personal connections. This reading could prove to be specially helpful for those of you who have felt unchosen at any point in life. What are others missing out on when they don’t develop a close relationship with you?

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꒰ What do you offer in romantic connections that makes you irreplaceable? ꒱

You’re a very old school person who values stability, commitment and devotion, and is naturally wired to provide and desire it. You treat romance as something sacred and aren’t the type to stay stuck in the past. “I’m committed to you but my first love will always have a special place in my heart” is not something that you would ever say. Due to how committed you tend to be, in an almost devotional sense, if a connection doesn’t last, you start questioning everything but in the end, you come down to the conclusion that if it was as real, sacred, committed and devotional as you thought it was, it would have never left you or hurt you so you the way it did so you end up moving on from it. You nurture the connection and your partner wholeheartedly, and have the ability to fight for the connection and resist whatever forces try to separate you so if you’ve had romances in the past, there was a point when you didn’t understand how they could just break so easily or let anything come between the two of you. You are naturally very unconditional, understanding and nurturing in a romantic relationship so when a relationship breaks, you try to understand things from their perspective first. “Maybe it was just too much for them to feel with,” “maybe they were just overwhelmed” or “maybe the fights that occurred due to the issues caused them to feel hurt, maybe I should have been gentler.” That’s how you think but you can’t help but feel disappointed and question everything because if you were willing to handle tough situations, and fight for the connection, why couldn’t they have done the same? “To be a lover, you have to be a fighter because if you can’t fight for your love, what kind of love do you have?” - Keanu Reeves. Overtime, you ‘unfall’ for people, I know that’s not a word but what I meant is that you don’t see the relationship as as intense and significant anymore. While in a relationship, you do not let the connection break even if you have fights and outside circumstances are trying to tear you apart because that’s just how devoted you are to the person, and to making things work. In fact, initially, even after a breakup, you may still have faith in them, and do not let the connection break because you had genuinely and deeply fallen for your partner, and were devoted to them but overtime, you start seeing that it was inevitable for the connection to break and that they didn’t love you enough to try, and fight for the connection so you end up unfalling for them. Devotion, duty and commitment mean a lot to you so it’s important for you to experience all of these in the present moment, and you cherish and love only the person right in front of you. Even if you’ve had other lovers in the past, you do not consider them at all, they do not hold any place in your mind or heart anymore because you just become so taken by the person right in front of you. When you’re single, you tend to think about your former partners but mostly, you simply just go through a process of lessons, inner change, acceptance of outer change, unfalling for them, and realising that it was not even as beautiful and real as you had thought it was because if it was, it would have stood the test of time, and life. Also, even though you think about your past when single, when you love someone again and get with them, it’s like the past never even happened. You only care about your present partner, and they become your one and only. Most people love the idea of love but don’t know how to love. For those of you who have experienced romance in the past, you’re really aware of it because while you were committed to making things work and were not letting external events, and intensity of emotions and events break your relationship, the person/people you were involved with were more willing to end the relationship and compromise what you had, rather than deal with whatever opposed your relationship with complete commitment and will to succeed.

Due to how much work, commitment and fight you are willing to put up for the one you love, when you start realising that they didn’t do the same for you, you fall out of love with them because you lose the ability to go all in on love with them, because you can no longer devote yourself to them anymore. You also start believing that they didn’t love you or at least not as much as you thought they did, or wanted them to, because if they did, they would have tried for the relationship way harder than they did in reality. You also understand how hard it is to come by a true lover who loves you and only you. You have been made to feel like you’re too much, too little, not enough, not good enough to fight for, commit to and stick with despite how much you offer in a relationship, and how you’re willing to go against the entire world to protect your relationship and partner so if you have any romantic history at all, you have felt scorned and discarded, and know how hard it is to come by someone who loves you and only you, wants you and only you, and is truly committed to you so you want to have only one love and cherish them, and only them. Even if you’re unable to have only one relationship and end up with them. You’re going to make sure that the one you end up with is your only one by letting go of the past completely and making sure that they’re your deepest love, and your first real love. “Someone who wants you wholeheartedly, it is very difficult and rare to find someone like that. If there is someone like that in the world. They’re simply the most beautiful.” Someone who loves you in the present moment, and sticks with you through thick and thin, and is committed to you and only you, and is willing to fight for your relationship and will not let ‘life’ get in the way of your relationship is the most precious to you, and easily becomes the only one for you because no one in the past ever did that for you, because nothing in the past was as real as your beloved in the present is for you, they’re your first and your last, they’re your one, and only true love so anyone who fumbles you misses out on the chance of being this for you. Also, even though I told you that you think about your past relationships when you’re single, once you’re done realising and seeing the truth of things, learning the necessary lessons and finally fall out of love with them, you think about them with regret until you eventually stop thinking about them altogether. You know how to get over your past, you know how to tame your mind, you usually already have gotten over your past before getting with anyone so there’s no space for anyone, even the thoughts of your past when you’re in a relationship with the one you love. You’re also incredibly wise and offer really great advice to the one you’re involved with. You’re a very mature person when someone gets close to you romantically so you end up teaching them a lot. We have discussed this enough but your commitment and devotion are unwavering. Not just to your relationship and your partner but also to your own values, priorities, duties, and ethics. If you were to betray your partner or in fact, any value of your own, you’d feel terrible so you simply just don’t do it so it’s rare to find someone who understands connections, love, commitment, loyalty, duty, morals and values the way you do. For you, it’s sacred and devotional to maintain a certain commitment, and discipline regarding your own values and morals so when someone misses out on you, they’re not just missing out on a beautiful and committed relationship but also a genuinely good person who tries to maintain a strong personal character even when they’re single. You’re also really good at doing this odd thing in which you notice something, some truth about your partner but it is something that they themself haven’t grown awareness of yet or haven’t been able to truly live by, understand and accept yet but you see it, learn from it, and shed light to it, causing them to grow into more alignment with it as well.

You don’t have to shed light onto these matters through your words. In fact, most of you don’t go about it that way. It seems to be that you internally shake them through your energy itself? Of course, actions and words could assist it further but it seems to be mostly energy. The process of this may not be the easiest. Like, you could end up triggering them by simply existing because you see and understand their truth or in fact, live by it, and preach it to them or others. There may be fights, chaos or internal tension. I’m picking up on a lot of intensity but even so, you do not let any of it break your relationship. Your commitment is so unwavering, most of the time leaving the connection doesn’t even cross your mind. I won’t lie, sometimes it gets so overwhelming, you may wonder if it’s best to just end things but ultimately, you don’t, you’re devoted to the relationship and are keen on making things work, and naturally do not want to give up on the connection. The idea of breaking up and compromising the love, bond and commitment you share with your partner is unbearable to you so no matter what happens, no matter what any of you go through, no matter how overwhelmed you may be, you do everything in your power to make sure that the relationship doesn’t break, that it doesn’t end. You change a lot internally in a relationship in order to make the relationship work and grow yourself. You respect your partner a lot, and internally question yourself, your life, habits, values and priorities, in order to transform internally if you sense that you hurt them or because you respect your partner greatly, and might see them doing things in a way that you respect but don’t yourself so you try to incorporate it within yourself. In fact, it’s not just with your romantic partner, you learn from other people too. It’s just that you’d likely not be able to get romantically involved with someone who you don’t respect and admire deeply. You’re nurturing, loving and incredibly respectful of your partner. You have faith in them and follow their lead. You may have fights with them due to the intensity of your connection and both of you might get triggered but despite that, you try to be their peace and love them in a very ‘family-like’ manner. You know how people who never entered the kitchen except to make instant noodles or steal their sibling’s ice cream suddenly start baking and cooking when they get into a relationship? Yes, that’s you. I just heard “my vanilla kink is breeding” whatever that means 😭. I do get that you are very spouse material naturally. Like, you are likely unable to do casual relationships due to how much you end up doing for your partner, how spouse material you naturally are so whenever you fall in love, it awakens your nurturing spirit. It doesn’t have to mean that you want to breed and have kids with them but there’s a desire to nurture and love. This nurturing spirit likely extends to them, those around you, their family, etc. This is so sweet but many of you want to be able to take care of your partner’s parents. This does not mean that you want to stay in the same house as your future spouse’s parents but you want to be able to treat them with love, respect and care. You also tend to be very curious about who raised the man/woman that you love. You’re incredibly affectionate and likely hands on as well, and not just in sexual ways. You’re the type of person to run your fingers over their arm lightly while talking to them, play with their hair, peck them, hug them, sit on their lap, put your head on their shoulder while breathing on the crook of their neck, so on and so forth. There’s something very light and sensual about your touch that I’m picking up on, like the type that just makes the skin tingle or the muscles calm down temporarily. I won’t lie though, for you, certain values, traditions, stability, responsibilities and manners mean a lot so it can turn you off pretty quickly when someone does not live up to it and does not live according to whatever you want, and believe.

Also, you want to love and be loved, and not have to step out of character. You enjoy the finer things in life and enjoy feeling adored, beautiful, abundant, safe, and rich in every sense of the word. You want to be able to respect and admire your partner, and have faith in them, their values, priorities, intentions and actions so just any partner won’t cut it for you. You need to find a protector and provider because otherwise, they won’t be a good match for you. It’s interesting because you’re not a gold digger. In fact, you’re quite the opposite. For example, your partner lost everything, you wouldn’t mind sticking with them while they rebuild. In fact, you’d help them rebuild but it is very important for you to respect their character and have faith in them. Your younger self likely wouldn’t really mind being with someone who does not provide what you need in a relationship but by now, if you have had past connections, you’re aware that these people don’t have what it takes to be with someone like you. I’m legit getting that many of you were just mothering who you were with. Of course, if you don’t have any deadbeat former partner or no romantic history, that’s alright, DO NOT EVER SETTLE. You should have space to become your highest self whether that’s by yourself or with a romantic partner. If your partner is making you feel ugly, replaceable and not as adored, and cherished as you need to be, that’s not a relationship that you should be in because by now I’ve stated it enough but you’re the greatest partner that one could have. Most of you are aware of your worth and have high standards though. For those of you who were in these wasteful and negative situations with deadbeats, you felt like you were betraying yourself the entire time and are unwilling to waste your precious time, and energy like that again. Deep down, we always know what we want and what we deserve. Also, you try to make a very comfortable, loving and happy place for your partner too. You want to make them feel adored, admired, loved and safe too. If there are any heterosexual men reading this, you likely want to make your partner’s life as easy and beautiful as possible. The energy that I’m getting here is ‘the man who’s the provider and the woman who is allowed to decide whether she wants to work or not, and she can do whatever creative thing she wants and even build her own business if she wants but her spouse tries to be the main provider, and does everything to spoil her rotten’ xD. The women and girls reading this want a partner like this but you also want to provide in your own way - with your care, love, commitment, devotion and sensuality. You would want to spoil your partner sexually, visually and sensually by looking good for them every day and every night, and touching them in sensual and loving ways, and trying to make them unwind and relax after a long day. Obviously, this would happen only after the relationship is extremely committed, possibly even after marriage for most of you because most of you need safety and proof of commitment first. This reading just reminded me of that quote. “If a man wants an angel, he should create heaven for her because angels don’t live in hell.” Anyone who cannot give you what you need, want and deserve won’t receive your angelic side but someone who’s willing to create the best possible experience for you with love, joy and pure intentions will receive a close to divine form of you.

꒰ What do you offer in platonic connections that makes you irreplaceable? ꒱

In platonic relationships, you’re incredibly independent, self reliant and self regulated. I understand why you would require a partner who’s dependable and safe because you don’t really depend on people platonically. You seem abundant but fine being alone to your friends and acquaintances. You’re wise and mature, and seem happy and content but don’t really share that much with them. You just continue projecting the image of someone who is alright by yourself and appreciative of what you are, have, and your journey so far and you’re not exactly being fake but everyone has a softer side of them that needs support and some tender loving care but you don’t express yours. You maintain a lot of self sufficiency and don’t rely on others. Even if you do talk about anything personal, it seems to be selective and not exactly something that you seek support or reliance through. Despite this lack of opening up and relying, you give a lot in platonic connections. One of the things that I’m getting that you give is emotional support. You don’t share your own problems but listen to theirs and provide them with support, advice, and wisdom. Also financially, you might take up the bill a lot or might offer to pay for your closest friend at least especially if they’re low on cash or don’t have it. Many of you may avoid friendships with the opposite gender due to how used and discarded you’ve felt at some point? It’s due to how much you tend to give even platonically. Especially the emotional labour is nothing short of unpaid and under appreciated therapy :,). Even with same gender friends, you feel a bit bad when they get a romantic partner and suddenly forget about you but you’re still abundant, self reliant, and try to be self regulated so you don’t let it get too much on you. When people lose you as a friend, they lose someone non transactional. You do not even share your problems or try to rely on your platonic connections, you simply just try to support them and give to them as much as you can. The generosity is unmatched. Many of you may have developed even more comfort with being alone and still feeling abundant because of your past experiences in which you felt used, and discarded by your former friends. You don’t seem to be a bit confusing in platonic connections honestly. They don’t see you clearly and they don’t understand you. You may also be a bit impulsive and reckless in certain ways, likely just spontaneous when it comes to spending time with people, having fun, and spending money on them but also unwilling to take the risk of truly opening up to them and letting them into your life fully. It’s not even malicious but you simply just want to be able to deal with your life by yourself, not have to rely on anyone and prefer keeping things to yourself. You project yourself as being very whole and abundant most of the time though, as if you don’t lack anything at all.

Now, it doesn’t hurt you to have no close friends, no one to spend time with and rely on but in the past, you struggled a lot with feeling lonely even in friendships that you considered to be special. There were times when you felt misunderstood, used, discarded or/and turned against but you’re past that now. You appreciate your platonic connections and friends greatly even if they’re not close to you but don’t expect anything from them, and even if you end up doing so, you don’t feel as disappointed or hurt at all when they don’t become the kind of friend that you wanted them to be. ‘Lonely’ by Jonghyun and Taeyeon is coming through. “I don’t want to make it obvious to you, I’m used to just holding it in. Please understand me.” Your friends and acquaintances are likely not aware of how lonely you have felt or feel sometimes :(. You have a whole and abundant image, and it’s not even like it’s just an image. It is in fact real, you are whole by yourself and comfortable being yourself but you’re just a human too, you have struggled in the past and still do sometimes. You would love to have someone who tries to love, understand and be there with you. You wouldn’t feel comfortable enough sharing everything with them either, you wouldn’t feel comfortable being vulnerable with them but you’d end up giving them a lot just because they’re trying :(. There’s a huge emphasis on having felt and been taken advantage of by friends, and acquaintances in the past due to this trait of yours. When people become friends with you, you don’t rely on them but do a lot for them. You listen to their problems and support them emotionally, and even physically if you can but you don’t really ask them to do the same for you. I’m so sorry, you always deserved better in friendships :(. You’re confusing to your friends because of your self reliance. When you’re friends with someone, you do a lot for them despite not receiving much yourself and you’re grateful to just have them as a friend, you don’t even ask for much but instead just keep giving, giving giving and doing, doing, doing, and you give and do so much that they may assume that you were greatly attached to them, and that could be true but because they didn’t provide you with much if anything at all to begin with, it’s pretty easy for you to move on from them or even if it’s difficult, it’s difficult because of how much you invested into the connection and not because of them so in the end, you’re fine by yourself and don’t miss them too much so they don’t really understand. When people lose you as a friend, they lose someone who would give them and do for them without asking for anything in return. When people lose you as a friend, they lose someone who would recklessly and spontaneously have fun with them just because. When people lose you as a friend, they lose a true friend who’s not transactional but instead just generous and well meaning. Also, I know that I used the word ‘acquaintance’ a lot despite the reading being about closeness. The reason is because even your closest friends are like acquaintances and you’ve done a lot even for acquaintances in the past as though they were your close friends. Like, I’m not sure how to put it for you but I think and hope that you’ll get it. I hope that the reading resonated and provided you with the understanding, boost, and guidance that you needed. Thank you for reading, much love and take care.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 2 ꒱

꒰ What do you offer in romantic connections that makes you irreplaceable? ꒱

You’re a grounded and responsible person who carries a lot by yourself in a romantic relationship. You’re also incredibly determined and do a lot for the connection, and you do it in a quiet way. You are more focused on necessary actions than you are on talking about it. You could have felt like or might still sometimes feel like people don’t understand you and see how much you’re doing for them, and the connection just because you don’t say it out loud but trust me, actions will always speak louder than words. It is better than to be one of those people who talk a lot about what they’re doing and what they’ll do but don’t do anything action wise. You’re very humble, almost too humble. You might end up playing smaller than you are at times but it’s not because of insecurity or lack but instead a desire to show that everyone is just human and has those sides, moments, and days. I do feel like if you get with the wrong person, this side of you will be taken as inferiority but gosh, they couldn’t be more wrong. Wait, let me explain it to you properly, you are a very grounded and genuine person who’s down to earth, and you carry a lot by yourself because you’re dutiful and naturally feel responsible. You don’t even voice out how much you’re doing and try not to burden your partner, almost trying to make the relationship go forward all by yourself, managing all the tough parts by yourself but despite this, during the moments when life causes them to fall, you play small. I am getting that any of you who have experienced romance previously has been taken for granted, misunderstood, underestimated and looked down on due to this trait of yours. I’m getting so many different energies here and I’m being told that all of these are true. Obviously, some of you may not relate to all of what is being told but most of you will. So starting with the first thing that I’m getting, you are incredibly responsible and do not share your emotions, and burdens with your partner. I honestly feel like some of you may have a history with deadbeat partners because I’m getting you literally working for the relationship and carrying it on your own, all by yourself. I’m getting frustrated because what a waste of energy, love and character. It’s not like you didn’t want to share all of this with your partner but more like, you couldn’t? Don’t get me wrong, you’re dutiful and responsible, and prefer doing a lot by yourself. You also really value self regulation but it’s normal to want to rely on your partner, no? You used to express your low and sad parts to your partner, possibly acting completely devastated.

Even so, you did not receive any support or anything of that sort and the whole time, despite playing small, and acting low, you used to carry the relationship, your own personal burdens and their burdens all by yourself. This could have led to some past relationship completely ending and you feeling extremely devastated, and insecure. It breaks my heart that you were questioning your own worthiness and there was a lot of regret about having waited so long, done so much, and tried so hard when you didn’t even receive appreciation for all that you did. Instead, you could have been disrespected. The audacity. OH. MY. GOD. You’ve always been deserving of love because you understand that love is a duty and you’ve naturally done a lot for your partner without even having to just because you wanted to. You’ve also stuck with people through their lowest point in life just for them to discard you once they got better. The whole time, you were doing everything that you could for them and the connection too, and you felt scorned because you had not walked away even when you could have due to consideration and regard for them. You’re so precious, you don’t discard your partner just because they’re going through a hard time and are unable to be as present in the relationship or offer as much. Instead, you don’t mind shouldering all the responsibilities for the time being. This is an incredibly beautiful trait of yours, even if it has been abused in the past. Obviously, if you’ve not had any sort of romantic entanglements in the past, you’ve been able to avoid these situations but your romance style remains the same - loyal, responsible, willing and able to carry everything by yourself, stick with your partner through thick and thin, giving them space to heal, and feel better even if it is at your own expense. You shouldn’t have had to but you’ve acted smaller than you were in order to please your partner almost, to make them feel better, to make them feel bigger than you? I’m not sure what kind of odd dynamic this is but gosh, don’t ever deal with insecure deadbeats who need you to act smaller than you are in order to feel better about themselves, please. I’m legit begging you right now. I once heard some man on tiktok say “if a woman stayed by my side at my lowest point, I’d leave her when I get at a higher point because she clearly doesn’t respect herself” and I feel like many of you have fallen victim to someone like this. I’m also getting that for some of you, it could have been a situationship or friendship that bordered on your generosity or relationship privileges without actual commitment.

Obviously, it was a committed relationship for some of you but it didn’t feel like it, it feels very one sided now that you look back at it. I feel like all of this came through to assure you that the way you love is precious and that you were always worthy of love, it’s just that you happened to get tangled with the wrong people, and weren’t able to honour the way you love to the fullest due to the fact that you were wronging yourself by even being around them and directing energy towards them. You need to accept that there was never anything wrong with you except that you were too patient while doing too much by yourself. Please, never get involved in anything one sided with a deadbeat 🙏🏼. When you’re in a healthy relationship, you are very nurturing in grounded ways aka through your actions. You create a domestic and safe environment for them, and try to nurture them in whatever way you can. You are going to be emotionally mature and will try to make the relationship as easy, and beautiful for your partner as possible by carrying a lot of by yourself and shouldering as many responsibilities by yourself as you can with determination, and no complaints. You are a very ambitious and dutiful individual naturally, even outside of a relationship so you value stuff like money, humility and family. Men are struggling with the ‘male loneliness epidemic’ because earlier, they were expected to simply just provide money in order to find a partner but now, women can earn their own money and do so, so they value richness in character as well causing men to have to offer more than just money which is partially true but the thing is, women have been working outside of household chores for a long time, it’s just that they were not credited for it back then and things haven’t changed much since then. It’s just that things are flipped now. Women are expected to cook, clean, take care of the kids and go out, and earn money as well, and go ‘50-50’ financially because it’s their ‘duty’ and you’re capable of doing this but you shouldn’t have to. I’m telling you to not fall into this dynamic with anyone because you seem so dutiful and responsible that when you do, you may not even be aware of what you’re doing, and how you’re harming and dishonouring yourself in the process. In fact, you may feel good about being able to do all this by yourself but you’ll feel terrible in the long run because you’ll be depleted energetically and will not have anything to hold onto in regard to effort from the other person because you were the one doing, and giving everything.

If you have dealt with this, you’re not interested in giving everything for nothing anymore but your love nature is still the same, you still want to responsibly give your all in a relationship. It’s all about giving for you. You want to be able to direct your generous, genuine and dutiful nature towards someone, towards something connective. You are very attentive to your partner’s needs and try to do whatever you can for them. You’re a very acts-of-service kind of person so you go above and beyond for them even if that means tiring yourself out. Not to mention, you stick with them through their lowest moments, when they lose everything, and no longer have anything to offer and you continue carrying on with the relationship even if the load on you has increased. The thought of leaving your partner does not even really cross your mind. Not to mention, you lower yourself to their level or lower so that they can feel better about themself. Also, you often don’t notice when things are one sided or when the other person is a deadbeat because you get so busy providing for the connection and carrying all the responsibilities by yourself, trying to fulfil your duties within the relationship, and are too determined to make things work. When you’re providing so much value, don’t you think you deserve someone who does the same for you too? Someone who adds onto your life too? You’re someone who thinks more about what you can do for your partner than assessing if they’re even doing anything for you. I need you to sit down and list out what you need in a partner by assessing what you try to offer, what you naturally offer, and what you have felt hurt by in the past. For example, you’re a humble person who sticks with people through thick and thin, and is determined to make things work even if the load is very heavy on you and you try to carry everything by yourself, you deserve someone like that too. Someone who won’t give up on you and tries to make life easier for you. Someone who sees, acknowledges and appreciates your actions rather than ignores, and takes advantage of it just because you don’t verbally point it out and if you felt hurt by how one sided everything felt in the end, you deserve someone who won’t let things be one sided for you, someone who will want to give you and do for you wholeheartedly without any complaints, just the way you want to do for them, someone dutiful, responsible and action oriented. You’re a giver and you should NEVER EVER be with a taker because you’ll be drained of your resources, and energy by such people. Do not try to be something you’re not and opt to be a non giver because you’ll be suppressing, and denying your own nature in that case but be discerning with who you give and how much to. If you are with a giver, you won’t have to be transactional because you’ll both be wholeheartedly giving to each other but it is important to discern first. Also, if someone is not a taker, get away from them. There’s no other way around it because even if you try to measure how much you give, you’ll lose track of it and end up giving, and doing too much for them.

꒰ What do you offer in platonic connections that makes you irreplaceable? ꒱

Unlike the first pile, you rely on your platonic connections but it’s sort of just an act. One thing that is very intriguing about you is that you’re someone who can handle everything by yourself and doesn’t even need anyone but you act like you do? You keep up an appearance of stability and keep things sort of surface level, and even if you take things deeper, you are still guarded. It’s like, you may share things that make you seem open but you aren’t sharing certain things and continue having an upper hand by keeping up the appearance of stability, and not sharing your true vulnerabilities. You are aware that your insecurities can be used against you so you do not share your failures publicly or even if you do, you do not make it seem like an insecurity but rather something you’ve grown from. You’re very sensitive to details and notice things that cause you to be critical of people. Also, you seek truth from people so if you know that someone is lying to you or not giving you the full picture, you become wary of them. You’re way smarter than people give you credit for. You’re incredibly hard on yourself and critical of yourself too, and you end up showing it to your close friends or those who spend enough time with you but the rest, they usually do not see it or even if they are aware of it, they see it as a tool for self improvement more than anything. They see it as something that has made you more unapologetic and sharper overtime. You genuinely want to build grounded and lasting friendships but you’re guarded to them, and are very critical of people so they usually don’t go past the interview round 😭. You fear taking the risk of fully becoming friends with someone and letting them into your life, and inner circle. Once, you are friends with someone though, you’re very honest and a bit blunt. You can be talkative and you are but there are times when you’re just blunt. You say things in short but precise way as if you’re just getting the point across without much regard for emotions. Also, the jokes you crack can be very mean and you tend to be sarcastic, and bitter too. You hold onto grudges in platonic connections without meaning to and they come out randomly after time has passed by. Supposing, your friend was mean to you when you tried to talk to her, the next time that she tries to talk to you, you might ignore her or say something mean causing for the dynamic to be a bit petty and resentful. Also, you’re very fun loving with your friends, you act carelessly and childishly in a way that you wouldn’t with anybody else. If the dynamic is on the healthier side, you show them a side of you that is very critical and hard on yourself, and you open up to them a lot and depend on them but at the same time, don’t. I don’t think that I need to explain what I just said to you because you’ll get it. I couldn’t explain even if I wanted to, the words just aren’t coming to me. You also help them look at the detail of situations and show them the truth even if it comes off harsh at times. You do so hoping for them to find a more grounded and fruitful path for themself. You can seem too serious at certain times and too carefree, and childish at other times. This is all that I’m getting for you. I hope that the reading resonated and provided you with the understanding, boost, and guidance that you needed. Thank you for reading, much love and take care.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 3 ꒱

꒰ What do you offer in romantic connections that makes you irreplaceable? ꒱

You’re comfortable to be around and offer a very pure, affectionate, and almost childlike joy in a connection. You’re also someone who treasures your history with your partner a lot and wouldn’t really open yourself to new love of any sort even if you were to be broken up with them. It would take you a lot of time to move on, a lot of alone time, a lot of deep contemplation and yearning. However, in an active relationship, you would be the type to discuss past events. “Remember when…?” Is the kind of energy that I’m getting. You almost play with people like kids when you are in a relationship. I’m not sure in what way but you become very joyous and childish, playing around, and enjoying life. Some of you might even develop a more childish tone and speech. You also remember little things about people and bring it up or offer it to them. For example, I love white rabbit, if I was around you and someone gave you two white rabbits, you’d give it to me saying something like “here, take it, you like it right?” You’re the same way with your partner 🫶🏻. You know how to make your partner’s inner child feel safe but for that, you need to bring that side of them out first. Initially, they feel restless, stressed and unable to relax but it’s actually good for their higher healing. You bring out their inner child for them to heal but it takes time for them to actually heal, they first need to process all the overwhelming emotions that come with being with you. If any of you have had past relationships, they could have ended in a way in which, you couldn’t move on but you were just confused as to why it even ended. They just couldn’t deal with all the emotions and issues that you brought up. It could have led to greater healing for them if they had stuck through it but they couldn’t because they felt overwhelmed. There’s a lot coming through about how you can only love one person for a long time. Like, it’s really hard for you to move on even after a break up, you take years. You might even fall sick when relationship problems start occurring or when you’re dealing with a heartbreak. Are you not over a former partner or something? Because while I really want to read for you. I feel like I’m unable to do so. You need to fix your mindset though. First love is not the most important love, in fact, it does not really matter much in the grand scheme of things. Love that is real will last because love is the one force that can weather any storm. Your past love is gone, if you cherish them too much, you won’t be able to cherish someone who loves you in the present moment. The first card was good but the rest three are suggesting that you need to focus on personal healing right now. Also, it’s tough to hear but you’re going to take time to heal, a long time but you’ll be fine in the end. Until then, you may hold onto the manipulation and potential of the connection, unable to decide what part was more apparent. I’m picking up on a lot of confusion due to the miscommunication, hurtful actions, questioning of intentions that occurred and the potential of the connection that existed but never fully manifested. Then, there is also love that you hold but aren’t able to express. If you have moved on and aren’t actively struggling this way, you may have in the past, and now you don’t trust love, believe that everyone manipulates, hurts, leaves and are not open to love. It is alright but I’m unable to tap into what you offer in a relationship that makes you irreplaceable due to whatever is going on. Please focus on your personal healing, growth and development for now.

꒰ What do you offer in platonic connections that makes you irreplaceable? ꒱

You’re not very consistent as a friend but are very decisive. You’ve had really competitive friends in the past who weren’t very reliable and due to this, if you were to choose between a friend and a goal, you’d choose a goal. It’s not even a matter of deceit to you, you used to view it as “they’d not think about me if they wanted this and had the opportunity to get it plus if they want it enough, they’ll try harder and get it.” I’m not even getting it being malicious. If this is happening in the present, you’re just focused on winning in life and they might take it the wrong way? However, you have another side to you, you are very strong willed on making your friendships work. You want to actively collaborate with your friends and succeed, you value communication, learning, and teaching and you truly work as a team with them. This is only possible if you don’t sense competition though. You’d do really well in a friendship in which you can work together on a shared goal because in that case, you’d be able to channel your desire and will to win in a more productive manner. If a friendship is humble and your friend is learning from you, and teaching you instead of competing or harbouring odd competitive feelings, you are not going to compete with them. Yes, I won’t lie, you might get busy with your personal goals but even so, you prioritise your friend and function as a team with them. You listen to them and try to work with them, apologising for anything that you might have done that may have hurt them or made them feel neglected and you genuinely care about your friend but it is very important for the friendship to not feel like a competition. Earlier, I said that you were decisive, even if it is hard to take decisions, you will take them if you have to. For example, if your friend has been acting odd, you will take the firm decision to cut them off. I won’t lie, you might reach out well into the future to explain your side to them and while, it may be nice to receive their side of the story too, you don’t expect it. You have already given yourself closure by then. Some of you are fine with never reaching out plus mostly you’re busy with your goals anyway. Also, it’s not just about goals, you’re focused on succeeding and that includes, as a person as well so you don’t let anything, including friendships or past ones hold you back. Also, even if you reach out to your former friends, your intention is to end the friendship. I’m not getting much here except that you may reach out to a former friend and send them paragraphs, explaining what you have to, trying to end things on good terms and while hearing their side of the story would be great, if you don’t hear back from them, you may feel bad for a day at most but even so, you continue moving forward. You truly are the kind of person that one needs to be in order to move forward in life and win. You have a very forward facing attitude despite the inability to move past your past relationships or having the trauma you experienced in them affect you for a long time and hold you back in certain ways. If you were to find a true friendship, you would be a very good friend. You’d help your friend move forward in life by helping them make decisions, supporting them and pointing out to them that they have a whole future ahead of them, and that’s where their focus should lie. Your reading was relatively short, I think it was so that you’d receive precise guidance. I suggest that you take some time to reflect. I hope that the reading provided you with the understanding, boost and guidance that you needed. Thank you for reading, much love and take care.

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Note: In regard to romantic relationships.

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 1 ꒱

You’re someone who has undergone nostalgia, apathy, discontent and boredom in the past, and has come out of it. Due to this, you try to be present and know how to leave the past behind you. You’ve undergone a lot of growth emotionally and have accepted the situations that occurred as well as yourself, and your own nature so you’re ready to move forward and know your responsibilities. There’s awareness of how regretful you are about having wasted your time in discontent and negative focus instead of being present because those days, that time won’t come back again. You’ve released so many negative emotions and have had to deeply reset your mindset which is not child’s play. Most people stay stuck in the way they are their entire life because they simply can’t bring themselves to change and would rather live in ignorance, and misery but you have pulled yourself out of such a rut and have a desire to truly live. The thing about living is that, the past is gone, the future is not here yet, the only thing we have is the present moment so living is about being in the present moment. “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans” as they say. You’re aware of this and try to be present. That’s your active focus. You’re also someone who knows when change may be needed and you try to bring it about despite discomfort because you’ve already changed yourself very deeply, and overcome what had you consumed, stuck, and trapped. You don’t have the heart to put the one who’s actively choosing you and loving you below anyone. You’re not going to think of some great past love that could not even stick through the test of time as the greatest love you’ve ever had. You’re going to let them go completely, cherishing and loving only the one who is right in front of you because you now know that you deserve a love that is present, and chooses you over and over again, and want to offer the same love to your partner. The concept of ‘exes’ is not a real thing for you anymore. You tend to be grateful for what you already have and who you already have because you seek contentment and enlightenment in life after all the negativity that you’ve put yourself through. You see the positives in any negative situation and simply just possess a zest for life. You’re self aware in many ways because having experienced such negativity, you understand your own negative tendencies and you try to be self aware, and focused. Due to this trait of yours, when you get with someone, you’re still focused on yourself and the person in front of you rather than having your energy be all over the place. You’re also extremely contemplative because you had undergone a phase of negativity, nostalgia, overthinking, boredom, discontent and apathy, and have a lot of capacity to think and many interesting insights on life. You’re also someone who understands love in its most divine and sacred form. It is not just about love, you possess a lot of unique knowledge about many different matters because most people don’t have access to such divine knowledge or are just ignorant.

You’re a very intuitive partner and likely untouchable even when you’re single. You understand your partner and connect with them in a way in which you understand, and feel them on an almost psychic level. You understand their psyche, the conscious, subconscious and unconscious very well, and tend to be very in-tune with their higher needs. You experience love as something very divine and might even hold it as being sacred. I don’t think that you’re willing to share or experience such love with just anyone. You are the very definition of a divine feminine and if you don’t hold yourself, romance, and connections in general to a divine, and sacred standard, you’re either being nudged to do so, will grow into this as you tap into your love nature, should pick another pile or need to accept your true love nature based on your needs, desires and what you can give out. You’re very intelligent and wise, and what I find to be incredibly fascinating is that people might not get this side of you to its fullest or even be aware of its existence unless they get really close to you one on one, or especially unless they’re married to you. I am putting a very big emphasis on marriage here because some of you might be naturally hesitant to share certain things, certain moments of intimacy with those who you are not closely bonded with on a soul and life level, and even if you do, your present partner, your life partner will hold the highest place and will get access to your unique insights, and wisdom the most because they’ll be sharing their life with you and the amount of depth you have, the thoughts, the philosophies, the wisdom, the knowledge, everything that you possess is not something that people can experience and understand in a few months or years plus because of your desire, and ability to live in the present moment and your willingness to change for the better even if it’s hard, you tend to learn more and more from life, and attain more and more wisdom, and knowledge so people of the past don’t even know you. The ones who leave you do not really get to know, understand and experience you, and life with you in the way that the one you share your life with will. You are very feminine and possess a depth, and duality that may seem contradictory but that’s just the way you are. You end up channelling different sides of you depending on what side of you is needed but all of these sides exist in you so even if you may look really cute on the outside, on the inside, you can be the biggest freak or even if you present yourself as being dumb on the outside, you can be very intelligent, wise and aware on the inside, or even if you look very serious and stoic, you have a very playful, fun loving and cute side or even if you present yourself as very intelligent and strategic, you can be very innocent and naive on the inside because you function from genuineness and divinity, or even if you look or present yourself as being mature, emotionless and emotionally controlled, you possess a very sensitive, empathetic and crybaby side.

Honestly, you could relate to all of the above because you have experienced being who you are and that includes the contradictions, and the different views that people have had of you based on the image that you ended up projecting depending on what side of you you were channelling at that time. Those who stick around get to see and experience all of these sides. You’re also very observant and intuitive, recognising your partner’s needs and patterns. You can be a bit passive and not voice out all that you observe instead trying to help them through actions in whatever way you can, and even so, there’s some level of passivity. Many of you are untouchable and unattainable despite your desirability. Also, there’s likely a deep desire for sex and intimacy but in a sacred way in which you do it with the same person again, and again? I’m getting that you tend to be curious and seek knowledge not just about life, divinity or/and academics but also about sex and human connections. You want to do right by your partner at all times and know how to take accountability. You’re fair and accepting of whatever mistake you made, and you don’t mind having to take responsibility and apologise. In fact, if you have to deal with the consequences of your actions, you’ll be willing to do so too. However, you’re someone who desires such fairness for yourself as well. You’re not swayed by external factors, love or affection, you use your mind to make fair decisions and let people deal with the consequences of their actions rather than negotiating every single time. You also have this odd ability in which you can subconsciously pick up on something being off and the future of the connection being not so bright. For example, if you’re being deceived, even if you’re not aware of it yet, you might suddenly get the urge to block them and never talk to them again. You treat your partner as an equal and don’t mind compromising for the greater good. You have a lot of integrity, causing you to try to fulfil your duties within the relationship to the best of your abilities. You usually don’t betray your relationship and partner in any way but even if you do something that you’re not proud of or could cost you the relationship, you are honest with them. You won’t take away their right to make a decision for themself. You’ll give them all the factors needed for them to make a choice for themself, by themself. You deeply desire and require such fairness from your significant other too. You’re a truth seeker and do not appreciate or enjoy being deceived and blindsided. You’re also very decisive and once you decide that you want someone, you stick by it. You feel a great deal of love towards them and you’re clear in that. You also make the right decisions with fairness and integrity. You know how to communicate effectively and you place a really strong emphasis on understanding. You know that communication will do nothing for a couple unless they possess a basic understanding of each other, a desire to understand each other and want to do right by each other.

You have had a breakthrough, a realisation that people in the world are not as honest and fair as you are, and that there will always be people who will deceive you. Some of them may lie to you while the others may just leave details out, either way, it is deception. So you seek clarity and truth in relationships, and have grown a certain resilience. Breakthroughs and realisations about other people’s deception towards you used to hurt you deeply in the past, and they still will if you find out but you’d rather have that over living in a lie, in deception, in an illusion. You have developed a certain resilience around such matters and will be glad to have clarity, and enlightenment and will make the best possible choice for yourself, choosing to be fair with yourself in such situations. You will also attain knowledge and wisdom from these situations. You’re very playful and pure in romance. You likely need a partner who you can admire and look up to but also makes your inner child feel safe because you have a tendency to act very childish in relationships. You love in an innocent manner with a lot of genuine emotional involvement. You tend to be smitten when in love and get flustered easily. The type to have a crush on your partner years into the relationship. This is honestly so adorable. You value intimacy and emotions, and enjoy doing things to display affection such as writing love letters, romantic messages, etc. You’re very affectionate and tender, and honestly a bit vulnerable, sensitive, and almost naive? Due to how genuinely and purely you love, you have zero tolerance for deception, and lies in your relationship. You will not even tolerate deception through leaving details out. When you love someone and when they hold the space for you to feel safe enough to be as childish, affectionate, pure, and tender as you want, you naturally open up and treat the connection as something sacred, intimate and pure, you just open up, and give all of yourself away without reservations, just pure love. You also treat your partner with a lot of reverence. You’re very childlike and sensitive, and very affectionate and tender, and might cry easily with your partner as well as joyfully joke, dance and laugh around with them. You tend to play with your partner, as in, have light hearted fun like an actual child and find new ways to communicate with them in witty, and affectionate ways. For example, notes around the house, notes in their locker or textbook, discussing different topics ranging from playful jabs and jokes to deep, and insightful conversations and even your tone might change. You might speak in a sweet but high pitched tone with a childish cadence sometimes but a grounded, deeper and more serious tone at other times. You’re also very romantic, flirty and almost obsessive but unattainable, and they’re the only one who gets access to this side of you.

When it comes to your cons, you’re someone who worries a lot. In the past, you had connections that ended suddenly or didn’t progress past a certain point, or things were just moving awfully slowly despite you providing a lot of value and service to the other person, and it has left deep wounds in your psyche. You tend to be fearful and paranoid. The other person was not taking action and just lacked the passion, energy, and drive to try with you and you were left directionless. This situation or possibly even multiple situations was very stagnant. They could have fed off your comfort and assistance just to pull the “I’m busy” card when they found someone else, and many of you weren’t even given the truth in that situation, you had to find out by yourself so well, you felt deceived, used, discarded and you couldn’t even complain about it because you felt like you had put yourself into that situation by sticking around for so long. You were craving both comfort and stimulation at that time so you connected with these people in a very fun, almost childlike manner and were not taken seriously. I don’t think that it was a you problem at all but the only con that I’m personally getting here is your negative thinking due to your past experiences. You have intense negative emotions come up from a very deep seated place. You overthink a lot and have your mental health fall apart when in a relationship. You seem to have dealt with public/social humiliation, having people gang up on you or gossip about you because of someone you were involved with. It could have been that others decided that you were not good enough for your partner or your partner publicly betrayed you causing you to be the butt of the joke. Either way, it was incredibly humiliating and left a very toxic effect on you. It’s like, supposing you ate something toxic, even if you took an anecdote, the toxins remained in your system, that’s how it is with you. I got so many qualities for your pros but for your cons, there’s a big focus on your fears, paranoia, anxieties and deep seated negative beliefs, and the other cards are only there to support it. You seek and desire the truth, and have been left scorned in the past so you are a bit bitter about it still and tend to be very critical of your partner. In fact, before you even get with them. you’re already criticising them. “You found someone more exciting, the next second, you were gone and you left me there crying, wondering what I did wrong. You said I’m never satisfied but I don’t think it’s true cause all I ever wanted was to be enough. Don’t you think I loved you too much to be used and discarded? Don’t you think I loved you too much to think I deserve nothing?” By this point, you’re aware that not all your thoughts and beliefs are true but you still fear that the history will repeat itself. You fear that people will not take you seriously but will still use you for what you can do for them and what comfort you can provide for them just to not even be honest with you, and lead you on while you were simply just trying to respect their pace. You fear that you’ll feel discarded, used, scorned, naive, unimportant, unwanted, undesired and undesirable. Your only con is that you will either keep this to yourself, sabotage the relationship and hurt yourself silently, or will drive your partner crazy with all this negativity and intensity.

Pros:

i) Tries to be present because you have dealt with not being so

ii) Notices when and where change is needed, and brings it about even if it is hard or takes time

iii) Has already dealt with being stuck in the past and the nostalgic “I’ll never get over this”, “I’ll never love anyone like that again”, “I’ll never forget ___” or/and “what if I never find love again?” phase and regrets having wasted time like that, and desires present love in the present moment and is capable as well as willing to give it back

iv) Cherishes present love and leaves the past in the past, possibly considering past love to not have been real because of the discontent, pain and the feeling of being lost that it caused

v) Has grown significantly emotionally and continues doing so

vi) Is unwilling to be consumed by anything unless it’s present and shows the promise of being present in the future but even so, if it leaves, you’re willing to leave it behind and find something that is present, and cherish it wholeheartedly instead

vii) Your main priority is the one right in front of you and you are present with them, cherishing, and loving them wholeheartedly, not putting them beneath anyone else in your heart and life

viii) You know how to be grateful or at least try to be and seek contentment, pleasure, and enlightenment in the present moment

ix) Sees the positives in negative situations and tries to maintain a positive focus

x) Self aware about one’s negative tendencies and a willingness to gain more self awareness

xi) You try to keep your focus on yourself, your life, being present and your own partner, wanting to cherish them, and actively fulfill your responsibilities towards them

xii) Extremely contemplative and has interesting, and insightful philosophies and thoughts on life due to having contemplated deeply in the past

xiii) Possesses a strong capacity to think

xiv) Has many interesting insights on life

xv) Someone who understands love in its most divine and sacred form

xvi) Understands partner and connects with them in a way in which you understand, and feel them on an almost psychic level

xvii) Divine feminine and a very deep personality

xviii) Highly intelligent and wise

xix) Depth not easily accessible to others: only fully revealed in close, soul-level connections (especially in marriage)

xx) Selective with intimacy and emotional sharing

xxi) Continuously evolving through a commitment to self-growth and living in the present

xxii) Deeply feminine with a rich inner world

xxiii) Embody contrasting traits, such as:

- Cute appearance vs. deep internal complexity

- Seeming naive or playful vs. being actually strategic and insightful

- Stoic exterior vs. emotional sensitivity

- Intelligent presentation vs. innocent inner nature

- Multifaceted personality, channeling different sides as needed

xxiv) Those who stay close get to experience your full depth

xxv) Observant and highly intuitive

xxvi) Supportive through actions more than words, with a tendency toward passivity

xxvii) Desirable yet emotionally or spiritually unattainable to many

xxviii) Craves deep, sacred intimacy, particularly with one consistent partner

xxix) Curious and seeking knowledge across diverse areas (life, divinity, human connection, sexuality)

xxx) Accountable and fair, willing to admit mistakes and accept consequences

xxxi) Desires mutual fairness in relationships

xxxii) Emotionally grounded, makes decisions based on reason rather than being swayed by affection or manipulation

xxxiii) Able to detect misalignment or deception even subconsciously with instinctive urges (like cutting off contact)

xxxiv) Deeply genuine, operating from a place of authenticity and spiritual alignment

xxxv) You treat your partner as an equal and don’t mind compromising for the greater good

xxxvi) Strong sense of integrity and fulfill your relationship duties to the best of your ability

xxxvii) You are honest, respecting your partner’s right to make their own decisions by being fully transparent

xxxviii) You deeply desire and need the same level of fairness and honesty from your partner

xxxix) You are a truth seeker and cannot stand deception or being blindsided

xl. You are decisive in love - once you choose someone, you remain loyal and clear in your affection

xli. You make relationship decisions with fairness, clarity and integrity

xlii. You communicate effectively and value deep mutual understanding over surface-level conversation

xliii. You believe that real communication requires the will to understand and do right by one another

xliv. Have had a breakthrough about the dishonesty of others and learned to accept painful truths over comforting illusions

xlv. You’ve built resilience around deception and now choose clarity, even if it hurts

xlvi. You grow wiser and more grounded from such experiences, always choosing fairness toward yourself

xlvii. In romance, you are playful, pure-hearted and emotionally genuine

xlviii. You need a partner who you can admire but who also nurtures your inner child

xlix. You tend to act very childlike in love with innocent affection and emotional sincerity

l. You get easily flustered and smitten, having a crush on your partner even years into the relationship

li. You value intimacy, affection and emotional expression through romantic gestures like love letters and messages

lii. You are extremely affectionate, tender and emotionally vulnerable in love

liii. Your love is so pure that you have zero tolerance for lies, even lies by omission

liv. When someone makes you feel emotionally safe, you open up completely and love without reservation

lv. You treat the connection as sacred, giving your all with purity and reverence

lvi. You enjoy lighthearted playfulness with your partner

lvii. You find creative and witty ways to connect, such as leaving notes or using playful tones in conversation

lviii. You’re deeply romantic almost obsessive in your love but emotionally and spiritually unattainable to most, making your partner feel uniquely chosen as the only one with access to this side of you

Cons:

i) You worry excessively and tend to overthink, often allowing fear and paranoia to dominate your emotional landscape

ii) You’ve internalized guilt for staying too long in unhealthy dynamics, blaming yourself for trusting and giving too much

iii) You are deeply scarred by emotional deception, especially when others masked disinterest with excuses like being “busy” while entertaining someone else

iv) You often weren’t given closure or truth; you had to uncover it yourself, further intensifying your trust issues

v) Your negative thinking, stemming from these past experiences, is your greatest con, it clouds your perception even when things are going well

vi) Intense, deep-seated negative emotions can surface suddenly and powerfully, often overwhelming you

vii) Your mental health may decline during a relationship due to these unhealed traumas and emotional instability

viii) You’ve experienced public or social humiliation related to a partner perhaps being gossiped about or made to feel inferior

ix) You may have been betrayed publicly or treated as less-than, becoming the subject of ridicule or pity

x) These humiliating experiences linger like toxins in your system, creating emotional reactivity even when the current situation is safe or different

xi) While you are highly self-aware, your lingering bitterness and unresolved pain can make you critical of your partner even before they’ve done anything wrong

xii) You tend to project fears from your past relationships onto your current partner, expecting betrayal, abandonment or replacement

xiii) You question your worth and fear you’re not enough that others only value you for what you offer, not who you are

xiv) You doubt your desirability and fear being viewed as naive, unimportant or disposable

xv) Despite knowing your thoughts aren’t always rational, you struggle to fully trust love again and fear history repeating itself

xvi) This fear may manifest in two ways:

- You suppress it and suffer silently, slowly sabotaging yourself and the relationship, or

- You express it with overwhelming intensity, which may emotionally exhaust or alienate your partner

⊹ ! ೀ Pile 2 ꒱

Your pros are that you are intolerant to bullshit and have high standards for yourself, and others. You’re a bit ruthless when it comes to your standards even with yourself. You know how to be patient and build upon a connection with consistency, effort, and hard work. You’re perseverant and don’t give up easily. Once you’re invested, that is it, your commitment is unwavering. You also become so focused on building upon the connection through your own effort that in the past, you used to not notice that the other person was not doing the same. This is why you’ve developed such high standards as well. You are very keen on your own growth and want to live up to your own standards so you persevere in that way too. You are naturally a provider regardless of your sex. You prefer long term connections that are grounded and can be depended on, and naturally take on the role of someone reliable who can be depended upon. You value certain traditions and old school ways of doing relationships, and do not entertain dusties looking for a grounded, mature, wise provider who’s a reliable partner in every way. You genuinely can’t bring yourself to do so. You try to consistently better yourself and look for the same quality in your partner too. You are guided by values, principles and ethics, and want a partner like that too. I keep on getting that your standards can be considered really high by many but they’re actually completely grounded in reality. Why is it wrong of you to want a mature, loyal, ethical and responsible provider? You are someone who is naturally more focused on building yourself and your life i.e. money, character, career, all of it so you want a partner who’s similar in nature. Someone who is focused on looking after themself, their family, career, character and growth rather than looking at random girls everywhere. You cannot tolerate the mere idea of wandering eyes. You want to be respected and respectful of your partner so it’s very important for you to find someone who’s rich in character, focused on building themself, their life, money and career, values long term relationships, and does not have wandering eyes because otherwise, you’d not be able to respect them enough to be with them. However, you try to maintain as strong of a character as you can and are naturally a provider. You’re also someone who has already worked a lot on yourself so when you are in a partnership, you have a lot to offer to the person in front of you. You have every right to be demanding and picky honestly because when you connect with someone, you risk breaking and losing all that you’ve built for yourself. Be it your character, money, life, values, etc. I’m saying this because it’s been proven that it takes only a few days for humans to start getting influenced by their environment and that includes the people around them. You’re also someone who compromises in relationships so it’s important that you find someone who’s rich in character, well meaning towards you, mature, wise and wants to provide for you so you’re not at a loss.

You are accepting of people’s differences and might enjoy some level of fighting, and aggression but you have a more peaceful personality. You enjoy the making up part of fighting 😭. The energy that I’m getting here is so adorable and funny. You will only be with someone who can you respect, admire and look up to because you have a lot of self respect, and wouldn’t want to risk losing all that you’ve built for yourself and all the progress that you’ve made so supposing something happens and they’re correcting, and scolding you, you will either silently take it or try to fight back but will still end up listening to them and taking it in the end xD. You seek peace but you have an ability to find passion and beauty even in conflict, and have it strengthen your bond with your partner rather than break it. You have a lot of integrity and are incredibly honest. Supposing you did something that most people would hide or lie about, you’d just expose it because it’s just a natural part of you. If it is concerning past matters, I’m getting that you would talk about these things in a more unapologetic manner but if it is something that is happening in the present moment or could harm the connection, you would be more remorseful with your speech but you feel like someone who wants to love you should know you and someone who wants to understand you will do so. You quite literally have nothing to hide. You also understand the nuances of emotions and human relationships, if you do anything to hurt your partner. You try to make up for it and build trust back again gradually rather than getting mad at them for not forgiving or trusting you. Most of you wouldn’t really do things that would betray or hurt your partner but I’m getting certain things coming through. You have high standards and before you get with your partner, you don’t trust their intentions and are naturally secretive. You try to be cautious and strategic not to manipulate but to protect yourself, and not fall victim to manipulation and mind games, and this is not a con, it is a pro but this can also create a bit more of a distrustful dynamic between you and your partner initially. So once you trust them enough, you’re honest with them about how you felt and how you feel, and all of that. You don’t hide much if anything from your partner once you feel safe enough. In fact, you don’t mind showing them your uglier sides or talking about the worst things that you have done, you want them to know you deeply, even the ugly parts and be able to accept, and love them. You have no intention of putting your partner through anything ugly but you just want them to know how shitty of a person you have been or can be. You don’t want them to love the ugly parts of you as in, put up with them but to have faith in you as a person despite what you may have done in the past. The thing is, you seem to be a person of a lot of integrity naturally so the ugly things that you’ve done in the past were mostly reactions to what other people were doing to you? But even so, you were treated as and seen as the villain in such situations but you don’t really care to explain your side to anyone.

However, with your partner, you do. I think that it’s a subconscious thing for you actually, you might not be aware that this side of you exists until you actually get into a relationship. Also, you have dealt with a lot of fights, competitions, aggression and conflicts, and do not want to deal with these anymore. You want a more understanding and peaceful dynamic with acceptance of differences, and fights that add passion into the bond and strengthen it rather than weaken, and break it. You are tired of being misunderstood :(. You know how to be alone and don’t act desperate for connections so when you do connect with someone, it’s not out of desperation but from a place of grounded place of truly choosing someone and connecting with them. You have likely experienced money or even if you haven’t, you are not money hungry. Yes, you do want money, it’s very obvious that you’re interested in building a life full of abundance for yourself and you see it as a valuable asset that can make life more beautiful but you think that character and true connections are beyond value. Even though you’re pretty self regulated when you’re single or try to be, you rely on your partner and want them to rely on you. You let them rely on you and work as a team with them. You do not want to burden your partner initially maybe so you’ll try to keep up appearances of stability but overtime, the more comfortable that you get with them, the more that you rely on them. You’re very candid and don’t try to be elegant for no reason, you’re just real. Obviously, you will still want to self regulate sometimes but you’re so grateful to have someone to rely on and want to be the same for them. You seem to have mixed feelings about dependency in a connection but you know how to maintain a fine balance. You want a provider and are a provider yourself, and would love the finer things in life but you are fine with not having it. Even if your partner’s finances were to fall apart, you’d stick by their side because you have faith in them and you enjoy the down to earth moments of comfort just as much as you may enjoy a luxury retreat. What matters is your constant companion :,). How sweet. Also, you’re the type to tire yourself out by working for your relationship and partner, trying to be everything for them, trying to be the one that they can depend on at all times. You go above and beyond for them, and your relationship with them. This is why you need a partner who is well meaning and wants to work for the relationship too because you’re not going to care if you’re tired, hungry, whatever, you’re just going to work, work, work for them. I think that you’ve developed high standards and certain demands, and requirements that you need your partner to meet because in the past, all you did was work, work, work and for people who couldn’t or just didn’t do the same for you. You didn’t even ask for anything. You just kept on doing. You deserved so much better than that. I’m glad that you can see that now.

Moving onto your cons, once you’re invested and committed, that is it. Your devotion reaches the highest point possible and you’re so busy fulfilling, managing, and balancing the relationship that you don’t notice or take into account your own happiness or lack of it. You’re very flexible and keen on seeing, and understanding your partner’s perspective and manage your emotions well in order to fulfil your role in the relationship, and plan and prepare for the future but you’re often too patient, and understanding. You try to find balance and happiness even if the relationship is unfulfilling for you. There are times when you are so busy balancing, understanding and maintaining the relationship by doing for it that you don’t notice how you’re being deprived of your wants and needs until it hits you really hard or even if you know that it’s not bringing you happiness, you continue trying because you’re borderline addicted to the person and are willing to put your needs, and wants in the backseat. You try to be understanding instead of leaving the relationship. “Not everything is about me.” “Not everything has to be how I dreamed of it to be.” You are able to find satisfaction in situations that are not satisfactory and you deserve so much better than that. You continue maintaining an image of being happy and fulfilled on the outside even if you’re dying on the inside due to how the relationship is not doing much for you. Your connections tend to drain you and in fact, rob you off your happiness and abundance, and you let it. You go through phases in your relationships but throughout it, you try your best to be understanding and patient, and maintain and fulfil the relationship. You think of the relationship as something divine and fulfilling initially, and try your best to fulfil it as such but then you start noticing that the connection is not what you dreamed of it to be but even so, you maintain optimism and continue doing for it because you understand that people are different, and that not every dream needs to come true but the more time that passes by, the more you lose your inner sense of abundance because you start bringing addicted to the other person and the lack of satisfaction only becomes more evident. Even so, you continue doing your best, you continue maintaining the relationship and being understanding, and patient but then you start becoming sadder, and start feeling lonelier. Then, you start mourning the relationship while you’re still in it. After that, you start thinking about things more logically. You start using your reasoning skills and enter a period of analysis. By this point, you’ve felt and mourned enough, you become more mind oriented than heart oriented and seek mental clarity, and truth above everything.

Then you enter a period of dissatisfaction, boredom, contemplation and nostalgia. Until the sorrow phase, you are very understanding. Starting from the thinker phase onwards, you start becoming more and more dissatisfied. After this phase of dissatisfaction and contemplation is over, you realise that the connection was not even that solid, stable and grounded, and you finally have the courage to break it. You are someone who maintains the relationship in such a way that you handle both the feminine and masculine parts because you genuinely don’t mind doing for love which is actually a really good trait but in this case, it’s a con because you wouldn’t have to fulfil both the roles if your partner was not complacent in the first place. You also give away your dreams in order to find happiness in whatever the relationship is and whatever your partner has to offer. You are not someone who gives up simply because your partner and the relationship is not living up to your wishes, instead you try to make the most out of the relationship by doing your best and remain patient, understanding, and satisfied through it all until you absolutely cannot take it anymore. I feel like if you’ve had past relationships, situationships, whatever, they wouldn’t have lasted as long as they did if it wasn’t for you. They lasted as long as they did only because of the effort you put into them, all the roles you took on and all the understanding, and patience that you showed. There could also be a history of getting deeply involved in situations that were not even grounded in the first place i.e. the person you were involved with was not committed to you and you were not leaving these situations despite dissatisfaction, and sorrow until you absolutely couldn’t take it anymore. If it’s not a history, it could be a tendency that you’re not even aware of yet. Be careful because you will get deeply wounded by these situations due to how much you give away. You cannot and should not try anything not committed because that’s not how you’re programmed, that’s not what you’re made for. In fact, if you feel or have felt used by friends of whatever sex you’re attracted to (because many of you have or will), I suggest that you make a firm decision to not be friends with them, not on a personal level at least i.e. no texting, no calling, no sorrow sharing, etc. because due to your natural provider tendencies, you might end up giving them more than you should. ‘You’re losing me’ by Taylor Swift is coming through. I’m glad that your pros showed that you’ve become more demanding and have developed high standards because it will truly protect you from so many low quality experiences.

Pros:

i) You are highly intolerant of nonsense and uphold firm standards - both for yourself and for others.

ii) You are ruthlessly self-disciplined, holding yourself accountable to your own values and goals.

iii) You are patient and understand the importance of building a connection with consistency, effort and long-term investment.

iv) You are extremely perseverant, once you commit, you’re all in and don’t back down easily.

v) You’ve learned from the past to value reciprocity and have developed high standards after noticing imbalanced efforts in previous relationships.

vi) You are growth-oriented, constantly working on yourself and striving to meet your own evolving standards.

vii) You are naturally a provider, regardless of gender, and take on a role of dependability and support in relationships.

viii) You value stability and long-term commitment, and prefer grounded connections over fleeting ones.

ix) You have a traditional side when it comes to relationships, valuing maturity, wisdom and reliability

x) You do not entertain people who aren’t serious or grounded, you seek meaningful and stable partnerships.

xi) You consistently strive to better yourself and want a partner with the same mindset and drive.

xii) You are guided by values, ethics and principles, and desire a partner who is equally rooted in integrity.

xiii) While your standards are considered ‘high’, they are realistic and rooted in experience and self-awareness.

xiv) You seek a partner who is mature, loyal, focused on growth, and respectful - not one with wandering eyes.

xv) You cannot respect someone who lacks discipline or character, as your self-respect wouldn’t allow you to stay in that dynamic.

xvi) You have every right to be discerning in love because you risk your whole foundation i.e. your values, character and peace when entering a relationship.

xvii) You compromise in relationships but require someone whose character is rich, intentions are pure and who wants to contribute as much as you do.

xviii) You are peaceful by nature but enjoy occasional conflict if it adds passion and depth, when followed by reconciliation.

xix) You value peace but can find beauty in passionate, emotionally charged moments that strengthen your bond.

xx) You possess a deep sense of honesty and integrity. Even when you mess up, you are transparent.

xxi) You don’t hide your flaws, you reveal even your ‘ugly’ sides because you desire to be deeply known and authentically accepted.

xxii) You are unapologetically open about your past mistakes, seeing them as part of your truth, not something to be ashamed of.

xxiii) You’re remorseful when your actions hurt your partner and put effort into rebuilding trust, showing emotional maturity.

xxiv) You’re cautious and strategic at the beginning of a connection, not to manipulate but to protect yourself.

xxv) Once trust is built, you are transparent, candid and willing to reveal your deepest truths.

xxvi) You want your partner to love and understand you as a whole, even the parts of you that you’ve struggled with yourself.

xxvii) Despite being misunderstood by others, you long for a partner who will hear your side and see the full context of who you are, and will express your truth to them.

xxviii) You are tired of conflict, competition and misunderstanding, you now seek peace, understanding and calmness in love.

xxix) You are emotionally independent - you do not chase relationships from desperation but choose them from clarity and groundedness.

xxx) You have likely experienced wealth or comfort yet are not materialistic. You value character and deep connection above material things.

xxxi) While you can self-regulate, you value mutual dependency in relationships and welcome shared vulnerability.

xxxii) You don’t put on a polished act, you’re real, raw and authentic, even if that means being a little messy at times.

xxxiii) You strive to balance independence with healthy dependency. You are reliable and incredibly grateful to have someone to rely on.

xxxiv) You are willing to stick by your partner through both abundance and scarcity, valuing emotional constancy over material security.

xxxv) You work tirelessly in your relationships - providing, nurturing, supporting, always beyond what is asked of you.

xxxvi) You require a partner who can meet you in effort and intention, you’ve likely learned from exhausting one-sided relationships.

xxxvii) You’ve developed your high standards as a response to past imbalance where you gave endlessly without asking for anything in return.

xxxviii) You now recognize your worth, the value you bring, and that you deserve a partner who matches your energy and effort.

Cons:

i) Once you’re emotionally invested, your devotion becomes absolute, even to your own detriment. You over-prioritize the relationship, often neglecting your own happiness.

ii) You’re too patient and understanding, sometimes to a fault. You’ll sacrifice your own needs in favor of maintaining harmony and ‘doing the right thing.’

iii) You tend to internalize dissatisfaction, trying to make peace with unfulfilling situations by convincing yourself to be grateful for whatever little you’re receiving.

iv) You’re so focused on making the relationship work that you don’t realize how deprived you are until it crashes down on you emotionally.

v) You continue giving your all and keeping up appearances even while emotionally dying inside, carrying the entire emotional load silently.

vi) You minimize your needs and abandon your dreams to find satisfaction in whatever your partner is able or willing to offer, even if it’s not enough.

vii) Your emotional resilience becomes a double-edged sword allowing you to stay too long in connections that are unbalanced and hurtful.

viii) You shift into a caregiving role and unconsciously take on both the masculine and feminine energies in a relationship, trying to do everything yourself.

ix) You tend to become addicted to the person rather than the reality of the relationship, which clouds your judgment.

x) You mourn the relationship while still being in it, silently grieving the emotional starvation while continuing to serve and stay.

xi) You delay walking away from a connection that isn’t working, hoping your emotional labor will somehow transform the dynamic.

xii) You rationalize subpar treatment by telling yourself, “not everything is about me” or “it doesn’t have to be perfect,” slowly eroding your own boundaries.

xiii) You try to remain optimistic and patient even as the joy and emotional richness of the connection disappears.

xiv) You experience phases in relationships: deep emotional commitment → subtle dissatisfaction → silent sorrow → mental detachment → heavy dissatisfaction → eventual clarity and breakup.

xv) Once you hit emotional burnout, you switch from heart-led to logic-driven, seeking mental clarity and analyzing everything in retrospect.

xvi) Your pattern often leads to eventual heartbreak not because you were blind but because you delayed acting on what you already knew inside.

xvii) The relationship sometimes only lasts as long as it does because of your effort, sacrifice and emotional labor, not because of equal contribution from the other side.

xviii) You may have a pattern or history of being deeply invested in connections that were never fully committed or grounded to begin with.

xix) You could be prone to entering or staying in ambiguous dynamics (e.g. situationships) even though they do not align with your true needs for security and commitment.

xx) Your natural provider energy makes you give more than you should, even to friends or casual connections, leaving you feeling used or emotionally drained.

xxi) You are deeply wounded by experiences where you gave your all and received inconsistency or emotional neglect in return.

xxii) You are not built for emotionally casual or undefined relationships and trying to engage in them could be damaging to your well-being.

xxiii) You might unknowingly attract people who take advantage of your loyalty, patience and giving nature, especially if they sense your emotional endurance.

xxiv) Even though you have now developed higher standards, there’s still a lingering vulnerability to fall into old emotional patterns if not constantly self-aware.

xxv) If your history includes being used by emotionally intimate friendships with those you’re attracted to, it may be necessary to establish stricter emotional boundaries.

xxvi) You have a tendency to perform emotional labor for others, taking on their pain, worries, and chaos, even when it harms your peace.

xxvii) You’re often too understanding of poor treatment, interpreting it as ‘human flaw’ rather than a red flag which slows your exit from unhealthy dynamics.

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Starting with your pros, you are someone who seeks to learn and teach in a romantic relationship. In fact, you’re always learning from everywhere and so, you want to be with someone who you can look up to and learn from, and who looks up to you and learns from you as well. You’re very happy go lucky in many ways and have different sides to you. You’ve likely experienced the ups and downs of life but most people see you as having experienced only the ups because you can act very happy, and bubbly. You’re also someone who can accept both the positives and negatives that come your way, and will stick with your partner through the ups and downs of life. You won’t let life come in between you and your partner, instead you’ll go with the flow of things and try to turn life around with them. You see love as a commitment, you value certain traditions and old school ideas, and naturally live by them and aspire to live by them, and do not let your commitment waver. Also, whether people know it or not, you bring a lot of luck into your romantic partner’s life. It doesn’t have to be that good things start happening to them after you enter their life (though it very well could be) but instead that simply just having a partner like you itself is very fortunate. You understand love and commitment very deeply, and love in a divine manner. You’re traditional and old school in many ways, and it makes you very dutiful and responsible. You do not leave your partner when they’re going through an emotional low or a low point in their life instead you remain patient, understanding and try to see things from their perspective. You instead try to maintain the connection and work with your partner in harmony, and cooperation by understanding their emotions and taking on their usual role if you have to. You’re flexible and don’t mind changing when life calls for it. People don’t give women enough credit. When people think about a traditional relationship, they immediately think about a working husband and a stay at home wife but they forget that life is not that simple for everyone. Even the most traditional couples from our parent’s generation and before that, the women have worked to provide for their family if they had to.

That didn’t make their relationship any less traditional. It’s similar with you, you value old school and traditional relationships but your idea of a traditional relationship is a lot about ethics, values, and responsibilities rather than the typical traditional roles alone. You do not mind stepping up for a while if the relationship calls for it but you are definitely not willing to provide for a bum for the rest of your life. You still expect your partner to want to be a provider and if they stop trying, you’d frankly lose a lot of respect for them. You don’t mind changing and transforming deeply through your partner, relationship or for them but you’re also okay with endings. You’re not someone who keeps on holding onto a connection just because the start of the relationship was beautiful. You’ve learned healthy self regulation by now and have changed a lot, in fact, you’re always learning, and always in the process of change and also like I said earlier, you’ve experienced the ups and downs of life which includes losing connections, and people and all of it has caused you to be more comfortable with endings. You don’t care about how much potential any connection has, if you feel slightly disrespected or realise that it’s not what you want, that you’d be disrespecting yourself by staying in the connection, you will leave. You’re a very ethical person who truly tries to watch your character and empathise, understand, and work with your partner so if you don’t receive the same, you’ll leave. For you, losing respect and feeling disrespected is enough of a reason to leave because you value integrity. Character is a big thing for you and I’m so glad that you seem to have more of a self assured approach to connections, and know what you want and can offer. You’re also okay with not exploring the potential of connections at all and not taking them to the next level if it requires you to lose integrity, turn a blind eye to disrespect, turn a blind eye to lack of values of the other person, etc. You know how to experience relationships in a divine manner in which you become one with your partner and work as a team with patience, understanding, and love but when relationships end, you are able to see and accept that it was clearly not as grounded, stable and deep as you may have wanted it to be.

Moving onto your cons, there’s a big emphasis on your past for those of you who have it. Your past experiences could cause you to have a more negative view of love and I mean, overwhelmingly negative. A fear of history repeating itself, a belief that whatever happened in the past will happen again, I’m getting sleepless nights or nightmares kind of stuff but that’s not the case for most of you and even if it is, you are able to move past it. The real problem is your partner’s past. You want a divine and devoted love in which you pretty much become one with your partner, and you hold commitment and love to a very high standard as well as caliber. You would not get with just anyone and even if some of you have in the past, those experiences were not real, they weren’t grounded and you accept, and understand that so they hold no meaning to you but for your partner, it could, you fear that. You want to be the only one for them. It would not be a con but you’re someone who will legit break down to tears, lose sleep or wake up deeply sad at the thought of your partner having been with and loved someone else :,). I’m the same so no judgement. You’re also very naive and pure, you love in a young, and innocent manner and fear not receiving love in the same way. When you love someone, they’re the only one for you and you fear that that’s not the case for them. The mere thought of them having memories of someone else, being able to remember their touch, voice, intimate moments with them, romantic moments with them, the feeling of being with them, all and any of it is enough to break you down into tears, make you overthink and lose sleep. This is interesting, you have always been a risk taker in relationships, often ending up rushing into them and your innocent nature caused you to be taken advantage of. You were honestly very naive and still are but now you’re aware of it, and you fear having to experience such moments again. It doesn’t even have to have happened regarding romance but your past seems to have made you feel naive causing you to be afraid of taking risks now.

You’re incredibly childlike and naive, having faith and believing in your partner without questioning things much if at all 🥹. It’s funny because you could give them hell about their past and drive yourself insane by thoughts of it but you love them so purely, and have so much faith in them. You lack assertiveness and become very soft, too soft. You’re sensitive and are ever loving. You become too empathetic and too caring. You’re extremely sensitive and vulnerable as well though, and despite lacking assertiveness, you tend to be very sharp and reckless when hurt. You possess a duality in which you can be out of control sometimes but are mostly not this way, in fact, you’re more subservient and meek, not expressing much assertiveness most of the time. You are instead very soft and sensitive, and loving and understanding. You experience the relationship as something very deep. It causes you to change a lot internally and question your beliefs, and change them and despite your comfortability with change, it is very intense and extreme so you try not to show the effects of it externally. However, this intensity, extremity, transformation and resistance has its way of showing up externally so you end up showing very vulnerable sides of yourself in the process of trying not to do so? Also, a very romantic thing is coming through, you try to avoid falling or showing that you’ve fallen and in the process of doing so, you fail even harder or when you realise, or show that you’ve fallen, there’s just no way of getting over it. It’s just so profound and deep. What’s that Mariah Carrey song that’s been trending recently? The one that goes “I give my all to him, just one more night with you. That song is coming through and also ‘hopelessly devoted to you’. You get deeply involved with your romantic partner and will have a hard time moving on from them due to how sensitive, soft and vulnerable they made you feel. You love deeply even if you are emotionally well regulated on the outside and can have a very hard time moving on. Being haunted by your past romantic partner for a really long time. Those of you who have loved someone this deeply are likely aware of this side of yourself.

Pros:

i) You approach love as a mutual journey of growth, you want to both learn from and teach your partner, creating a dynamic of shared wisdom.

ii) You are genuinely happy-go-lucky with a lighthearted spirit that coexists with emotional depth. You’ve experienced real lows but carry yourself with joy and resilience.

iii) You’re emotionally adaptable, able to accept both the highs and lows of life without letting them disrupt your connection with your partner.

iv) You’re committed and grounded in your view of love. For you, love is not a fleeting feeling but a deep-rooted responsibility and choice.

v) You believe in traditional values but not in a rigid or outdated way. Your version of tradition is based on ethics, responsibility and mutual respect, not gender roles.

vi) You bring genuine emotional abundance into your partner’s life. Simply being with you is a source of good fortune, stability and growth for them.

vii) You love in a divine, spiritual way- your love is loyal, enduring and deeply respectful of the sacredness of commitment.

viii) You do not abandon your partner in their low moments. Instead, you become more understanding, empathetic and willing to help carry the emotional weight if needed.

ix) You’re emotionally flexible and can adapt to life’s changing circumstances, taking on more or less in the relationship depending on what’s needed.

x) You honor and admire traditional structures, but you don’t cling to outdated norms. Your version of tradition is modern, realistic, and rooted in character and values.

xi) You don’t shy away from responsibility when love calls for it but you have clear boundaries. You’re not willing to support someone endlessly if they’re not putting in effort.

xii) You expect your partner to have the drive to provide and contribute. If they stop trying altogether, you lose respect which is a clear dealbreaker for you.

xiii) You’re capable of deep transformation through love and relationship, and open to evolving alongside your partner, while still maintaining your sense of self.

xiv) You have developed strong emotional maturity and self-regulation, which allows you to navigate endings with grace and clarity when needed.

xv) You no longer chase potential. If a connection disrespects your values or self-worth in any way, you are confident enough to walk away, no matter how beautiful it once was.

xvi) You are grounded in integrity and character. You offer understanding, empathy and accountability, and expect the same in return.

xvii) You do not tolerate disrespect, even in subtle forms. Respect is a non-negotiable for you and you trust yourself to walk away when it’s compromised.

xviii) You are not interested in ‘fixing’ or ‘seeing potential’ in people, you know what you want and you don’t waste energy on connections that can’t meet you there.

xix) You’ve accepted the impermanence of relationships. You’ve known loss, and it has made you wiser, stronger and more discerning with your energy.

xx) You seek a divine, team-oriented connection - one where both people contribute with patience, understanding and love. You strive for harmony, not hierarchy.

xxi) When something ends, you are able to reflect with honesty and accept that the connection wasn’t as deep, stable or reciprocal as you hoped, and you let it go.

Cons:

i) Your past romantic experiences, especially if painful or unfulfilling, still linger in your emotional body and may cause you to approach love with an underlying fear of history repeating itself.

ii) You have a deeply idealistic and divine view of love, so any reminder of your partner’s romantic or intimate past can deeply distress you, even to the point of sleepless nights, sadness or emotional spiraling.

iii) You want to be your partner’s one and only, not just in the present but in emotional and spiritual history. The thought that you may not be, even if irrational, can cause you overwhelming sadness and insecurity.

iv) You love in a deeply innocent, childlike and devoted way. You fear not receiving love in that same pure and all-encompassing form from your partner.

v) The mere idea of your partner remembering someone else’s voice, touch or presence can break you down because you love with your whole being.

vi) You’ve always been a risk-taker, rushing into things with open arms but this innocent approach has left you vulnerable to manipulation or being taken advantage of.

vii) Your past has made you question your judgment. Now, even though you crave deep love, you’re afraid of taking emotional risks and getting hurt again.

viii) You still carry a very innocent and trusting heart. You often believe in your partner fully, without questioning much.

ix) You lack assertiveness in romantic relationships, becoming soft, overly gentle and self-sacrificing. You tend to put your partner’s emotional needs above your own, often to a fault.

x) You’re extremely sensitive and deeply empathetic. While this is beautiful, it often leads to emotional overwhelm and an inability to set healthy emotional boundaries.

xi) Despite your gentle nature, when you’re hurt, you can become sharp, reactive and even reckless. You swing between emotional softness and sudden, unexpected intensity.

xii) This emotional duality - being mostly meek and self-sacrificing but occasionally eruptive when deeply wounded creates inner turmoil, and can confuse both you and your partner.

xiii) You go through deep internal transformations in relationships, questioning and shifting your core beliefs but you try to suppress or hide the external signs of this emotional upheaval.

xiv) Even though you try to appear strong or unaffected, the emotional weight of your romantic transformation leaks out, making you appear vulnerable, exposed or even fragile.

xv) You try not to show when you’ve fallen in love, but the more you resist, the deeper you fall. When you do fall, it’s intense, absolute and all-consuming.

xvi) Once you’ve fallen for someone, there is no easy way out for you. The love is profound, spiritually binding and not something you can detach from easily or quickly.

xvii) You are the type to give everything in love - your time, energy, emotional presence and when that love ends, it can haunt you for years.

xviii) You can carry emotional imprints of past relationships long after they’re over.

xix) You have a hard time letting go because of how deeply the relationship affected your emotional and spiritual identity. You mourn lost love in slow, aching ways.

xx) Your emotional vulnerability is a double-edged sword, it allows you to love deeply and purely, but it also leaves you feeling devastated and fragmented when that love is not returned in kind.

xxi) Despite appearing emotionally composed or even mature on the outside, your inner world is tender, volatile and very much affected by love, even long after the relationship is over.

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𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒂 for 44 € (originally for 50 €)

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