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An argument i had recently

so i was ranting to someone i thought was a friend and this happened (the first part is my rant)

The argument was over skype, i just copied most of the conversation, whatever is in bold was s that the other person sent. Sorry for all grammatical errors.

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I hate when people have the audacity to say there are two genders like they know anything, i hate when people say that there are two genders and anything else is a “mental illness”, like if you’re going to be an ass about what people identify as, at least learn something before you open your mouth. There are three assigned genders; male, female and intersex. Whether people who don’t need your opinion, feel as if they don’t identify as the assigned gender is none of your concern, yes, you are entitled to your opinion, but that doesn’t mean you have the right to go around telling people that them as a person is a “mental illness”, no fuck off with that. People who make you feel as if it isn’t “normal” or okay to be yourself need to learn that, sure some people might agree with them, but that opinion that you have to give, even though no one wants to hear it, hurts so many people and forces them to be someone they aren’t meant to be. That is fucking wrong, people should be allowed to be open about who they are without the fear of being rejected and shamed because of the society we live in. If you are genderfluid you can be genderfluid, if you are bigender, you can be bigender if you are cisgender, be cisgender, is you are agender, be agender, you should be able to identify as whoever the fuck you want, without fear of being told that it’s “wrong” or a “sickness” because people like that have no right to tell you that *you* are wrong, because *you* aren’t wrong, you do you, and there is nothing wrong with that, never let anyone tell you different.

“Like don’t get me wrong I totally agree with being yourself but to be agender or “genderless” you’d need operations to remove genitals cuz as bad as this sounds genitals do determine your gender at birth through male and female genetics. If you study human anatomy they only study male and female bodies cuz they’re most common due to genetics. Now of course I totally support being yourself but nobody really understands the science around it and if you feel angry or triggered it means you don’t understand the science around genetical human reproducing”

whether you have a male or female body doesn’t mean you can’t identify as something else, you don’t need operations to remove genitals, some people choose to because it will make them more comfortable in their own skin, but other are completely fine with their bodies and just identify as something else. Genitals don’t determine your gender, like I said, some will have surgeries, some won’t. People wont start accepting people for who they are if people think like that argument you just gave.

“But it’s the truth around science. Like a man can’t identify as a woman without operations. Men and women have hormones and if you have more testosterone your a man and if you have more ovaries you’re a woman. Genderless people would need hormonal therapy to get equal testosterone levels and ovaries levels. I’m genuinely interested in this discussion”

*lost my shit at this point*

You as a human can identify as whatever you want. You can be a biological man who identifies as a woman without having surgeries. You are still a female, regardless of your genitals or assigned gender. You don’t have to let people tell you that to be who you are meant to be you need to have surgeries, or that you can’t just identify as something. If you are a biological female but was meant to be a male, you are a male, regardless of your genitals, you don’t have to have hormone therapy or surgeries, it doesn’t make you any less man. If you are a biological male but you feel as if you aren’t female or male, you don’t have to have hormonal therapy, you aren’t female unless you decide you are. Gender isn’t something people can just tell you what you have to do, you didn’t crawl out of one box just to be shoved into a different one. What you do with your body is up to you, just because you are okay with your body, doesn’t mean you aren’t who you identify as, because you are you, and  no one can tell you who you have to be, because that’s up to you. Identifying as something and how you express yourself are two different this, don’t let anyone tell any different. Never let anyone tell you that who you how you need to be, or that you aren’t right.

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Do u ever see a picture or gif of ur bias and u just make like distressed whale noises

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*screams in frustration*

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I'm married to Mikey

Mikey married to Mikey

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Shameless Self Promo

https://piercethereece.sarahah.com/

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im so full of love for people it hurts

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Frank’s ass in the background

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you are my only sun, one and only in the world☀️

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In 6 months and 26 days, I'll be at a concert watching 4 of my biggest role models perform in front of me and I'll be with the most important person in my life. I couldn't ask for anything more.

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sarahmccolgan: American Beauty vibes with the ridiculously photogenic @brendonurie. Shot in LA on the set of “Boys” 🌹

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Have you ever just really missed someone you know you shouldn’t miss? I know it’s wrong, but i really miss having this human in my life, i miss him....le cry :’)

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An argument i had recently

so i was ranting to someone i thought was a friend and this happened (the first part is my rant)

The argument was over skype, i just copied most of the conversation, whatever is in bold was s that the other person sent. Sorry for all grammatical errors.

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I hate when people have the audacity to say there are two genders like they know anything, i hate when people say that there are two genders and anything else is a “mental illness”, like if you’re going to be an ass about what people identify as, at least learn something before you open your mouth. There are three assigned genders; male, female and intersex. Whether people who don’t need your opinion, feel as if they don’t identify as the assigned gender is none of your concern, yes, you are entitled to your opinion, but that doesn’t mean you have the right to go around telling people that them as a person is a “mental illness”, no fuck off with that. People who make you feel as if it isn’t “normal” or okay to be yourself need to learn that, sure some people might agree with them, but that opinion that you have to give, even though no one wants to hear it, hurts so many people and forces them to be someone they aren’t meant to be. That is fucking wrong, people should be allowed to be open about who they are without the fear of being rejected and shamed because of the society we live in. If you are genderfluid you can be genderfluid, if you are bigender, you can be bigender if you are cisgender, be cisgender, is you are agender, be agender, you should be able to identify as whoever the fuck you want, without fear of being told that it’s “wrong” or a “sickness” because people like that have no right to tell you that *you* are wrong, because *you* aren’t wrong, you do you, and there is nothing wrong with that, never let anyone tell you different.

“Like don't get me wrong I totally agree with being yourself but to be agender or "genderless" you'd need operations to remove genitals cuz as bad as this sounds genitals do determine your gender at birth through male and female genetics. If you study human anatomy they only study male and female bodies cuz they're most common due to genetics. Now of course I totally support being yourself but nobody really understands the science around it and if you feel angry or triggered it means you don't understand the science around genetical human reproducing”

whether you have a male or female body doesn't mean you can't identify as something else, you don't need operations to remove genitals, some people choose to because it will make them more comfortable in their own skin, but other are completely fine with their bodies and just identify as something else. Genitals don't determine your gender, like I said, some will have surgeries, some won’t. People wont start accepting people for who they are if people think like that argument you just gave.

“But it's the truth around science. Like a man can't identify as a woman without operations. Men and women have hormones and if you have more testosterone your a man and if you have more ovaries you're a woman. Genderless people would need hormonal therapy to get equal testosterone levels and ovaries levels. I'm genuinely interested in this discussion”

*lost my shit at this point*

You as a human can identify as whatever you want. You can be a biological man who identifies as a woman without having surgeries. You are still a female, regardless of your genitals or assigned gender. You don’t have to let people tell you that to be who you are meant to be you need to have surgeries, or that you can’t just identify as something. If you are a biological female but was meant to be a male, you are a male, regardless of your genitals, you don’t have to have hormone therapy or surgeries, it doesn’t make you any less man. If you are a biological male but you feel as if you aren’t female or male, you don’t have to have hormonal therapy, you aren’t female unless you decide you are. Gender isn’t something people can just tell you what you have to do, you didn’t crawl out of one box just to be shoved into a different one. What you do with your body is up to you, just because you are okay with your body, doesn’t mean you aren’t who you identify as, because you are you, and  no one can tell you who you have to be, because that’s up to you. Identifying as something and how you express yourself are two different this, don’t let anyone tell any different. Never let anyone tell you that who you how you need to be, or that you aren’t right.

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