ghostboyravenight

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this is a reminder to all of my Pre-HRT transfem followers:

If you're being gatekept from receiving your hormones by doctors (and by that I mean you have a wait time longer than a couple of months, MAX), ordering estrogen from the internet is easy, safe and cheap. Picking a proper dosage is extremely well-researched and extremely easy by going on transfemscience.org and checking their dosage guide (and seeing if your hormone levels are within norms after a month or so). Of course, if you can, get within reach of a doctor to monitor your levels with proper guidance, but this if this is not feasible for you, DIY is, in fact, pretty simple to obtain and carry out. You can also reach out after starting DIY - this is a practice that's common enough that any reputable endo will still accept you.

I know ya'll want boobs. Guess what - I wanted boobs too. 3.5 years later, I have a natural C-cup that literally still grows every now and then. I didn't have to go the DIY route, but some of the people in my life did.

Trust me here. Trust me. If you're trans and aren't on HRT, thinking "it won't help that much anyway" - it does.

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Posting this for no reason

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apparently being a tma tranny without legal rights isn't a problem if you don't identify as a woman, I learn so much on tumblr dot com

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wish literally any gay papers would talk about lil nas x cause every article is either written with contempt OR makes sweeping assumptions by only quoting the cops and blatantly lies about things they contradict in their own article. like how is there no coverage of support or efforts to keep an eye on his location?

shortest possible story is that he he got arrested and hospitalized after walking around outside at night, MAYBE having 'an episode', MAYBE he was drunk, maybe he was high, maybe he was just being loud, who knows. Dude was outside at night in boxers and cowboy boots and that's all he did to "invite" police interaction.

But cops claimed he assaulted them so he gets arrested. Then goes to the hospital. Then goes back into custody.

And then he's not heard of for a while, then days later says he's out and okay. But facing FELONY charges!

WHERE IS EVERYONE? Pinknews cunts? Them? OutMag? Hello??

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at a tribal finance conference listening to a quileute tribal council member talk about how companies have bought every house in forks, wa because it’s a tourist destination so they can’t hire people to work for the tribe

anyway fuck stephenie meyer for profiting so intensely off of racist stereotypes of quilteutes and all native people while never contributing a dime to help them solve the problems she caused!

if you have the ability, you can donate to their move to higher ground fund here: https://mthg.org

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Quick tip for anyone who needs it: don’t voice train and bind at the same time! You need to be able to breathe as freely as possible, and voice training can leave you pretty breathless if your chest is restricted in any way. It also makes the training slightly less effective if you’re not able to fully breathe in before lowering your voice.

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I hope I can be the average guy you see at a gas station when there’s a beautiful sunset outside that makes you feel more alive than you’ve ever felt in your life.

when people are like “he’s not even attractive you could find a guy that looks like him at any gas station” i’m like….. well you see there’s beauty everywhere actually

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saw Hozier at Reading festival yesterday and he did about a five min speech focused mostly on Palestine, called out the fact that the UK government’s legislation on Palestine Action is insane….. and I just looked at BBC iPlayer and they broadcast every major set except his. which was literally the one that closed the night. like idk the censorship of pro Palestine sentiments in this country is insane

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Lil nas x getting charged with 3 counts of battery against a police officer and resisting arrest as a black man going through a mental health crisis where the police approached aggressively and tackled him to the ground is depressingly par for the course for police and specifically the lapd and it should piss people off and instead people are making jokes about it in instagram comments :/

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we all got that one losing dog we love to bet on

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what’s the best song to sing along to for voice training and why is it juliet by cavetown

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when people are like “he’s not even attractive you could find a guy that looks like him at any gas station” i’m like….. well you see there’s beauty everywhere actually

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Unfortunately this does in fact help a lot.

Also “go for a run” makes me laugh just because I accidentally became an extremely fast sprinter purely because I went outside every day and ran really really fast since I was 11 because it was the only way I could think straight and now I’m like. Really fucking good at it.

Not to go "if you have ADHD just go for a run" or anything, but I am so serious if you have ADHD you should regularly go outside, no headphones no phone no nothing and just stand and observe for a while until you've had enough. Not until you get bored, until you've had enough. Drink your coffee without watching tiktok. Have a bath without music. Turn down the volume in your headphones. I cannot overstate how much learning to be bored is cruicial with ADHD. Life is not just about pleasure, no matter what your dysregulated dopamine system thinks, and when you teach your brain to be okay with being bored, then boring tasks stop feeling like torture. By letting yourself be bored you are yoinking your system out of the high/low binary and allow for the highs to feel like actual highs and not just anything that isn't low. I am so serious go literally touch grass. Listen to the sounds in your flat. Stimulate your body the way it was designed. It lowers anxiety and makes you feel like you're real and best of all it's completely free

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in order to unlearn racism u have to be willing to accept that u are racist. it’s not a bad thing to want to change for the better. it’s not a bad thing to say hey, the way i’ve been acting is racist and i don’t want to be racist anymore. when people of color are telling u ways in which u have been racist, it’s actually not cool to brush it off and say, well i didn’t mean it that way.. u actually have to make an effort to stop doing those things if u want to be able to actually say ur anti-racist. u can’t just say ur not racist because u don’t wanna be seen as racist. that’s not how unlearning racism works.

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I like when you hear a song that sounds amazing so you look into it more and find out it’s the band’s least favorite song ever like they hated making that shit with every inch of their life and they cite one time where the drummer tried killing themself during one recording session

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*guy who hasn't eaten lunch voice* been really into the idea of picking a direction and running as fast as I can in a straight line until I collapse and die

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I love being friends with prostitutes and transsexuals and artists and drug dealers and perverts and queers