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THIS. I hate being called girl I don't care if it gender neutral. I only accept being called girl if its a joke, like if someone jokingly calls me babygirl or something. Other than that being called a girl makes me feel dysphoric. It's not "toxic masculinity", I just wanna be respected.

“Is it toxic masculinity for trans men to not want to be called girl?”

Now y’all are just saying words . Can trans men have a day of peace .

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Like this post if you listen to My Chemical Romamce

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:)

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Help me prove my family wrong!

I don't know if this post will break containment, but will you like/reblog if you are or know a man who is asexual? All of the people in my life seem convinced that being Ace is a 'girl thing' and that Ace men don't exist!

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Gerard way? More like Gerard Gay amirite? 😝

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"there are only two sexes, it's literally third grade biology!" and pronouns are taught in kindergarten and you dont seem to understand those either

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RESPECT ALL ASPEC IDENTITIES EVEN IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THEM

Get this message onto everyone’s dash rn

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Reblog to give a transphobe indigestion.

*gurlegurgle*

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Reblog if you're LGBTQIA+ (Yes Trans people and people on the ace/aro spectrum are also valid, shut up)

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📢ITS NOT WIERD TO USE THEY/THEM OR IT/IT'S!!!

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you're allowed to love being trans if you:

just came out

havent transitioned and dont plan to

have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself

don't want surgery or hormones

dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people

dont change your name

never have dysphoria

your transness is tied to your neurodivergence

your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity

dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience

feel like gender isn't really that important

are intersex

are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"

are a person of color

are an afab demigirl

are an amab demiboy

have a complex identity

have a very simple identity

cant figure out your gender for the life of you

cross dress

do drag

present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab

have crushing dysphoria

don't know how to pass

pass effortlessly

are a butch trans woman

are a femme trans man

are demigender

don't like to be reminded you're trans

have a very specific gender

have a gender that's specific to you and you alone

have hated being trans at one point

stopped transition and restarted it at some point

have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times

change presentation a lot

have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words

dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly

are plural/a system

are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck

are xenogender

are a lesbian or gay

are transneutral

are transfemasc/transmascfem

..... are trans.

every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!

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trans people who don't take hormones are trans enough.

trans people who don't have surgery are trans enough.

trans people who keep their birth name are trans enough.

trans people who use the pronouns associated with their AGAB are trans enough.

trans people who don't transition to a binary gender are trans enough.

trans people who present and/or identify more closely to their AGAB are trans enough.

trans people who don't change their appearance are trans enough.

all it takes to be trans is to not, or not fully identify with the gender you were assigned at birth. we are enough, our transition is real, no matter what it consists of. trans people don't owe anyone shit. 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

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Wanna hear a funny story? When I was in kindergarten everyone (parents, teachers, students) shipped a boy and me to the point we actually started saying we had a crush on each other. We were four years old. Recently we started hanging out again. He’s gay, I’m lesbian. Don’t you ever tell me again that it’s the lgbt that are forcing sexualities on children.

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THIS

If you're comfortable using the term asexual, aromantic, or both, and someone tells you "wait, don't assume that just yet, maybe you haven't found the right one!/this will only be temporary!/etc", ignore them. Just use the label if you're comfortable, just like you would any other lgbtq label. Because right now, especially if you're still a minor, you really don't know what you'll be like later, but THAT DOES NOT MAKE BEING AROACE ANY LESS VALID. Sure, you may change, or you may not, but if you're aroace at this point in your life you are fully welcome to use the term.

I just hate how even people in the lgbtq community are so scared of the labels aro or ace, like you might miss out if you use them or something.

There's my rant, that's it. This isn't meant to offend anyone, just my thoughts. Use whatever labels you feel comfortable with and please please for the love be respectful of whatever labels other people decide to use as well.