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*in the middle of a breakdown* Omg wait. this is just like the character

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I continue to run into people that are confused as to why Americans have screens on our windows and it’s really quite simple.

Bugs

Diseases carried by bugs

Other assorted wildlife such as dogs and teenagers

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are you five nights at fucking kidding me

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I always love fanart of characters killing or otherwise hurting another version of themselves. Yes yes yes yes

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Having one-sided beef with one specific character is so funny. Like I can see a million characters who do terrible things and be like “whatever.” But then there’s one specific motherfucker who pissed me off so bad that I’d run them over at a red light if given the chance.

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No one tells you that one day you will get older and look around and notice that 95% of ppl who own a dog should not own a dog

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this might sound stupid but I can’t help but believe that the new wave of “birth control is actually horrible for your body, you need to get off it immediately” misinformation from influencers and the ‘natural cycle tracking’ apps suddenly being advertised is a sneaky underhanded way of causing more unplanned pregnancies that people now cannot abort. now is possibly the worst time ever to turn towards ‘natural family planning’

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genuinely so sad every time someone i follow announces they’re pregnant like okay…. sighs… block button here we go

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which f/o are you bringing as your plus one to a wedding !!

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love when a mother asks if they have ever done anything to hurt you. ma'am, you will literally never be ready to have this conversation

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“find something to eat” is such a true phrase you really do have to find it

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if you don't do anything else today,

Please have a moment of silence for the people who were killed instead of freed when news of emancipation finally reached the furthest corners of the american south.

have another moment for the ledgers, catalogs, and records that were burned and the homes that were destroyed to hide the presence of very much alive and still enslaved people on dozens of plantations and homesteads across the south for decades after emancipation.

and have a third moment for those who were hunted and killed while fleeing the south to find safety across the border, overseas, in the north and to the west.

black people. light a candle, write a note to those who have passed telling them what you have achieved in spite of the racist and intolerant conditions of this world, feel the warmth of the flame under your hand, say a prayer of rememberance if you are religious, place the note under the candle, and then blow it out.

if you have children, sit them down and tell them anything you know about the life of oldest black person you've ever met. it doesn't have to be your own family. tell them what you know about what life was like for us in the days, years, decades after emancipation. if you don't know much, look it up and learn about it together.

This is Juneteenth.

white people CAN interact with this post. share it, spread it.

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It is never ok to flirt with someone

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Come here come here. Pushes you away. Lol

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negative affirmations

I can be worse

I still have time to fuck things up

I can kms any time I want