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Don't. I repeat. Do not lock away your persecutors.

This is not a healthy practice and leads to way more issues down the road. They are human. They are hurting. Don't do it.

I'm going to speak from personal experience here. We used to lock away our two persecutors under the claim that it was for our safety.

It was only through therapy that we found out just how inhumane this was and how much we had hurt them. One of them posts on this blog and is an active part in our recovery process. One of them still refuses to communicate with us years later and justifiably so...

What we should have done was give them a space to express their feelings and provide them with coping mechanisms to try. This is what we're doing now. This is what we should have done in the first place.

Give your persecutors a safe space. Give them a home. They are proof of a hurting child who struggled to survive. They are hurting and angry and villainizing them hurts them more. Don't lock them away.

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to the three people who follow us <3 (please i am so bored) - jade

Another DID/OSDD Ask Game

(but with slightly more approachable questions)

1. Do you have an inner world? If yes, is it something you consciously made? What is your inner world like?

2. Is there some sort of organization to your parts?

3. Do you experience your disorder as overt or covert? What does that mean to you?

4. How do you experience communication from parts?

5. Are there parts that are more able to communicate with each other than others?

6. What is the best grounding technique you’ve discovered works for you?

7. What is a resource you’ve found you can trust?

(Book, website, etc?)

8. Do you have a(ny) fictional introject(s)? What is that like for you?

9. When did you find out/realize you had a dissociative disorder?

10. What does denial look like for you?

11. What are some denial busters that work?

12. Do you have any other identities that make your experience with your dissociative disorder different, such as neurodivergency, other disorders, or gender/racial identities?

13. What is a song that always brightens your mood?

14. What ANP(s) are around the most? How do they differ from each other?

15. When parts are working together in your life, what does that look like?

16. How does having a dissociative disorder affect your relationships to the people closest to you?

17. If you could tell someone questioning whether they have DID/OSDD one thing, what would it be?

18. What has your experience with therapy been like?

19. How do you experience gender?

20. Are there dichotomous views on your gender expression?

21. What kinds of decisions do you check in with parts before making?

22. What would the perfect day look like to you?

23. Do you make time for other parts to do things? Why or why not?

24. Do you get involved in syscourse? Why or why not? Has this changed over time?

25. What is a piece of misinformation about DID/OSDD do you want to clear up?

26. When would you tell someone you have a dissociative disorder? How do you explain your DID/OSDD?

27. What does your support system look like?

28. Have you met other people with DID/OSDD irl/online? What was it like?

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i am pspspsing please send me anons im so bored

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Another DID/OSDD Ask Game

(but with slightly more approachable questions)

1. Do you have an inner world? If yes, is it something you consciously made? What is your inner world like?

2. Is there some sort of organization to your parts?

3. Do you experience your disorder as overt or covert? What does that mean to you?

4. How do you experience communication from parts?

5. Are there parts that are more able to communicate with each other than others?

6. What is the best grounding technique you’ve discovered works for you?

7. What is a resource you’ve found you can trust?

(Book, website, etc?)

8. Do you have a(ny) fictional introject(s)? What is that like for you?

9. When did you find out/realize you had a dissociative disorder?

10. What does denial look like for you?

11. What are some denial busters that work?

12. Do you have any other identities that make your experience with your dissociative disorder different, such as neurodivergency, other disorders, or gender/racial identities?

13. What is a song that always brightens your mood?

14. What ANP(s) are around the most? How do they differ from each other?

15. When parts are working together in your life, what does that look like?

16. How does having a dissociative disorder affect your relationships to the people closest to you?

17. If you could tell someone questioning whether they have DID/OSDD one thing, what would it be?

18. What has your experience with therapy been like?

19. How do you experience gender?

20. Are there dichotomous views on your gender expression?

21. What kinds of decisions do you check in with parts before making?

22. What would the perfect day look like to you?

23. Do you make time for other parts to do things? Why or why not?

24. Do you get involved in syscourse? Why or why not? Has this changed over time?

25. What is a piece of misinformation about DID/OSDD do you want to clear up?

26. When would you tell someone you have a dissociative disorder? How do you explain your DID/OSDD?

27. What does your support system look like?

28. Have you met other people with DID/OSDD irl/online? What was it like?

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FUCK IT headmate ask game except it probably only applies to us!! will be answered by whoever

🍓- if you’re an introject, what is ur source/who are you? (Don’t tell if uncomfy!)

📍- funny story that happened in exomemories? (If u have any)

🍒 - funny story that happened in headspace?

🌹 - funny story that happened in the meatspace?

🍊 - tiktok audio/vine that reminds you of a headmate?

🎃 - who is fronting/close to fronting rn?

🥕 - are any headmates frontstuck/co-con stuck right now?

🏵 - random song lyric please :D

🌟 - how did you find out you were plural?

🌻 - do you use I/me, I&/me&, us/we, and/or any 1st person neos?

🌙 - do any headmates have typing quirks? If so, what are they?

🍋 - do you have a host? If so, who are they?

☘️ - what do you use to keep track of system members?

🌿 - current member count?

🌱 - share a picture (drawing, icon edit, picrew etc.) of urself in headspace!

🦎 - do you share memories with your headmates?

🦋 - any ‘-heavy’s? (introject heavy, little heavy, protector heavy, etc.)

🐬 - any nonhumans?

🛋 - what does headspace look like?

🧿 - what does front look like?

☔️ - favorite thing about being plural?

👾 - collective name/pronouns?

🌂 - singletsona?

👿 - origin(s)?

ONLY ANSWER THESE IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE

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have a faceclaim~

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i need to start posting on here more, if anyone wants to chat, feel free to say hi! im gonna make an intro post soon :)

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anglerfish 

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lies down

how to talk to people

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unironically, one of my favourite pieces of horror writing is victor hugo’s description of an octopus

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System Ask Game (Pt. 2)

🥀 Average age of your alters?

🧑‍🦳 Who is the oldest?

👶 Who is the youngest?

💬 Does anyone have an accent or typing quirk?

✅ What things do you guys agree on the most?

❌ What things do you guys disagree on the most?

💀 Any funny stories about being a system?

🦄 Any littles or middles in the system?

🌈 Any caretakers or soothers or alters that function in the same way?

🐶 Do you guys have any pets?

😄 Does your system have a name?

🧐 How did you get your system name?

🔮 Collective pronouns?

🍁 Favorite season?

💐 Favorite flowers?

☀️ Favorite weather?

🐥 Favorite animal?

🎥 Favorite movies?

🕹 Favorite video games?

📚 Favorite book?

🥁 Any hobbies in the system?

🌕 Can you tell us a fun fact?

🐝 Any question! (wildcard, but within reason)

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simabossneko

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hour 10 of my anxiety attack :(( - jade

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― Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

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still not sure what to put on this blog! but im gonna finally set it up soon :]