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Triggers are so random and can feel really stupid, but they are valid and you shouldn’t have to explain yourself! You can have tons of triggers, but it’s also okay if you have very few. It’s okay to call a trigger a trigger even if it’s “mild”. Being triggered by mundane things is completely okay and even common and expected—especially if your trauma is from prolonged exposure to traumatic experiences. Being affected by triggers is never something to be ashamed of. Having triggers is never something to be ashamed of. You’re not weak for avoiding your triggers and you’re not weak for having them at all. Having noticeable reactions to triggers is okay. Not having noticeable reactions to triggers is okay.

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I just included what seems like the most common range for having sex for the first time (skewed older because…. It’s tumblr)

Also I mean physical sex I’m not talking about sexting your internet friends 🤨

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@thegentlemanstar

I love talking to rabbis as a recent conversion student because the interaction goes something like, "you're converting? Now?! At this time, at this moment in history?!". And they always talk about this influx of jewish convert students they've seen recently, and it's like...

There's this level of respect I get from rabbis for converting at this point in time, but... Has there ever been a good time to be a jew in the last thousand years or so plus? I'm imagining that rabbis and jews in general back in 1492, back in 1290, back in 1349 would have said the exact same thing. So, really, there is only a time to be a jew. Maybe it's not a "good" time, yes, but it is a time. And to me, that's good enough

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the dao-jones index, also colloquially called 'the dao', is a mystical concept in gringo culture which foretells the fortune of society

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before i can ever have sex i need to come up with some good lies explaining why my legs are covered in scars

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happy birthday everyone

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idk why people are offended when kids are like 'im aroace.' yeah, they MIGHT grow out of it. i did! i used to identify as aroace and now i dont and like SO? i was comfy and happy identifyin as aroace. i wasnt hurting anyone. i am comfy and happy now, it didnt like HARM me. and some might NOT grow out of it, and theyll find a label that fits them very young and keep it as they grow older! and be super comfy and happy! like why do you give a shit about the possibility that something COULD be a phase. its not hurting anyone either way! its just making people comfy and happy!

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the purpose of friends is to have people who unconditionally hate your shitty exes & relatives. like maybe YOU have a complex relationship with your father but i sure don't. i'm outside his house with a gun. he's not the unforgivable asshole who raised me he's just an unforgivable asshole

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i feel like some people have made it far enough that they can understand “some people choose to dress covered up for religious reasons and that’s ok” but not far enough to understand “some people choose to dress covered up in general and that’s ok”

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i feel like some people have made it far enough that they can understand “some people choose to dress covered up for religious reasons and that’s ok” but not far enough to understand “some people choose to dress covered up in general and that’s ok”

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Can you read any writing system that isn't the Latin alphabet?

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@neurotheatre

how come little kids are able to translate the completely mangled speech of other little kids with such perfect clarity

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the bus may cost me $6 dollars a day but at least its slow and unreliable

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I’m going to perform medical malpractice on you cuz I love you

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@neurotheatre

I’m going to perform medical malpractice on you cuz I love you

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So what are people's relationships to New York City like?