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the past couple of days have been v. bad. if you can, please donate to HIAS & everytown.

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i'm going to be a little scarce here ( the new blog is almost up & running ) but hmu on kik for ic interactions

& on discord for ooc things !!

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i see your death of the author and raise you: death of the fandom, for when other fans and the content they produce are so unbearably bad that you divorce yourself entirely from the fanbase except for one or two Trusted Mutuals™️

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me whenever anyone says they're going to write molly weasley:

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You’re right. His mistakes don’t need to define him. Neither do yours. 

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Stream Test [!mini Equipment Test]

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honestly i think the secret to staying happy in fandom is to take no shit, spread no shit, and find your people. don’t get too invested that you can’t laugh at it all sometimes, and don’t seek out negativity. the more you look for a pattern of ugliness in an assortment of people who all happen to like the same thing, the more you’ll find it. if you try to be positive, considerate, and empathetic, fandom will reflect that back at you.

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anyway, this blog isn't super active rn, but i'm begging y'all: if you've got elections coming up, vote.

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BETTER THAN FIREWHISKEY @mostsavage

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hiya friends,      let’s talk about rp burnout,      because it’s a real thing and at some point i think we all experience it.   ⸺  rp burnout. aka you’re tired of this place, this culture, some of the people, the way things are treated, the drama, everything really, but ( like so many of us ) you don’t necessarily want to give up and give in and stop writing because you love it. so what do you do? well lo and behold, friends, i am not an expert. but i do have some advice that i’ve found to work,

step away. it doesn’t necessarily have to be a formal “hiatus” but if you’re not here, and you’re not writing or you don’t find yourself wanting to be here, don’t be here. you don’t owe anyone replies. you don’t owe anyone anything. you owe yourself everything.

go hang out outside for a little while listen to music or a podcast and go for a walk / run.

do some of those chores around the house that you’ve been neglecting, cease the endless dash scrolling and the obsessive ‘i need to keep up with every trend and bit of news’

step back. step away. take a breather. 

reconnect with what you love about your muse or rp in general. you like making blogs? make a blog, you don’t have to promo it or write on it or anything, if you just like the process of setting something up, have a space for you to do that.

be selective with your replies and your threads. is there something you like writing right now? write it. fuck the whole system. write what you want with who you want.

stop stressing about appearances and the whole ‘is what i’m doing going to irritate someone’ because you know what? it shouldn’t matter and it doesn’t matter if susie from susieland doesn’t like that you’re writing this or posting too much on the dash. it has literally zero impact on susie’s life. susie can unfollow.

this. is. a. website. it has zero power over you. it doesn’t have to have power over you. do not give it the power over you.

it’s super easy to be addicted to tumblr, believe me, i know, cuz i am. but once you take some time to ground yourself in things that you actually enjoy, and that make you feel good about yourself and the world around you, you can get back to a place where you can actually enjoy being here. 

do the things that you enjoy ! because you enjoy them ! because that’s what you’re here for ! that’s what you deserve ! 

this is a hobby. remember that this is supposed to be a hobby. 

⸺ and if you have things that you’ve found to work that you want to add, please add ! 

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                 man's   timid   heart   is  bursting   with  the   things  he  must  n o t   say,                  for    the    woman   that    g o d   gave  him   isn't    his     to   give   away;                  but when hunter meets with  husbands, each confirms  the other's  tale                   the   female  of   the   species    is    more   deadly    than    the   male. 

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                    independent multi-muse featuring all-female muses from YA literature.                           oc & crossover friendly. est 2017 & revived 2018. adored by eena.

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but  who  can  be  sure  of  anything  in  this  darkness ?

IND.  CANON  DIVERGENT  SEVERUS  SNAPE  OF  THE  HARRY  POTTER  FRANCHISE.  LOVINGLY  TOLERATED  BY  IRA.

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SPOTTING MANIPULATORS ONLINE.

in light of a lot of people feeling manipulated by a friend they trusted,  i thought it might be in everyone’s interest to list some of the signs to look out for   !   manipulation is an everyday thing   —   you’re not stupid for not realising and you are entirely justified in whatever anger or upset you may be feeling.   it is,  at its simplest,  a form of pure exploitation and you’ll find it’s sadly happened to more people in the tumblr roleplay community than you might think.

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idk how anyone can can reasonably categorize remus as "the rule follower / responsible one" when he begins class by shoving gum up peeves' nose & ends it with snape in augusta longbottom's clothes

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Send 🛌 for our muses to wake up in bed together after having had sex together for the first time the night before.