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It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up and silent with chests rising and falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when you’re laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly yourself.

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Yang Memang Harus Pergi

Orang-orang yang memang sejak awal tidak ingin bersama kita, memang lebih baik dilepaskan. Meski sudah menaruh banyak perasaan kepadanya, tetap tinggal hanya akan menggores-goreskan luka pada diri sendiri setiap waktunya. Walau berjuta alasan telah dibisikkan kepadanya, itu tidak akan cukup jika hatinya memang telah ditakdirkan pada yang lain. Cukup lepaskan.

Jika nanti ia ingin tinggal, biarkan. Jika nanti ia ingin pergi, lepaskan. Jika kita masih menjadi yang terbaik baginya, maka ia akan kembali juga pada akhirnya. Jangan pernah mempertahankan sesuatu yang tidak bisa dipertahankan meski dengan beribu alasan. Karena cinta bekerja dengan saling bertahan, bukan hanya satu bertahan kemudian yang satu melepas secara perlahan.

Cinta harus memiliki hanya berlaku untuk mereka yang didambakan juga berharap pada perasaan yang sama. Karena sekuat mana pun kita menggenggam, kalau itu bukan takdir kita, maka akan terlepas juga. Sebaik apapun kita mengada-ada kebaikan takdir yang ditentukan sendiri, takdir-Nya masih tetap yang terbaik.

Kita mungkin menemukan cinta, begitu pula kehilangannya. Namun, ketika cinta itu mati, kita tidak perlu mati bersamanya.

Tidak perlu.

Biarkan cinta itu kembali menempuh takdirnya.

Bogor, 25 Juli 2016 | Seto Wibowo

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She is a good girl with a broken heart.

Whenever she gets hurt, she will hold everything back. But in the end, she is crying her heart out when she is about to sleep. Seeing all of her efforts, time and energy wasted just like that, she is at her lowest.

He broke her heart so many times. But she is afraid to break his heart back. He used her for his own benefits. But she never thought of leaving.

But she keeps saying she is okay. She is okay but she is struggling a lot. She keeps telling herself that he is good enough. He is kind enough. He is enough for her. But not to him, he treated her like an option.

Until one day she realized that she is trying way too hard to maintain that relationship. And she is tired as hell.

And she left him. Happily.

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Sometimes, you just have to stop. You don’t have to chase anymore. Stay. If they really want you. When you stop chasing them, they will turn back. They will come for you. If they don’t. Only if you are strong enough to endure the pain. Stay there, wait and pray. Stop chasing. But, If you can’t hold it anymore. Walk away. Walk away from someone who doesn’t want you. Stop being pathetic to have them. Stop being desperate to have them. It’s okay. Remember, what is meant to you will reach you even it is beneath two mountains. What is not meant to you, will not reach you even it is between your two lips. Above all, stay and pray. Don’t chase.

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They say you heal after a heartbreak. I don’t think that’s quite right. I think the reason why it hurts so much is because in order to actually heal, you need to break your heart completely, get rid of the pieces wrongly placed, hammer it all completely out of your system and then heal while growing a new one. But you need to break it after it is already broken. That’s why it hurts so much. That’s why it hurts to heal.

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Are you an introvert? Follow @introvertunites​.

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I feel bad for people who can’t be alone. Who jumps from one relationship to another.Who don’t know how to be single, and see it as a negative quality. Being with yourself teaches, and changes you. You learn to survive on your own, and be satisfied with yourself. Most importantly you realize that you don’t need anyone to be purely happy.

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Yang bersamamu di akhir cerita nanti bukanlah dia-dia yang sempurna, tetapi dia yang paling mampu menerimamu apa adanya.

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Don’t let anyone move your heart from Islam, no one has the right to change your relationship with The Almighty. Who are they to impact how you feel? How dare they.

God is above all human imperfection, if you make a mistake, repent, and repeat the mistake, don’t think God has forsaken you. Repent again. And again. And again. And again.

It was said to [The Prophet’s grandson] Al-Hassan: “Is not the servant [of God] ashamed of sinning and then repenting, and then sinning again and then again repenting?”

He [Al-Hassan] said: “Satan wants exactly that. Never stop making repentance.”

- Ibn Rajab, Jami’ Al-Ulum

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I can relate to this

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Sometimes I feel like, 'It is wrong for me to be loved?' Then I realized, It is me who doesn't love herself. So how can others love me?

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“The sea is emotion incarnate. It loves, hates, and weeps. It defies all attempts to capture it with words and rejects all shackles. No matter what you say about it, there is always that which you can’t.” 

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Jangan Sampai Sia-sia

Ada begitu banyak kesunyian yang harus dihadapi oleh orang-orang yang sedang berjuang. Ada begitu banyak kesepian yang harus dihuni oleh orang-orang yang sedang mencari. Dari ribuan kesalahan di waktu yang lalu, di tengah kekhawatiran apakah masih ada waktu, di antara begitu banyak tanya dari orang-orang yang sekedar ingin tahu, mereka harus bertahan untuk tetap yakin.

Semoga Allah memberi mereka kekuatan untuk bisa bertahan, agar keyakinan itu tidak pernah menjadi sia-sia.

©kurniawangunadi

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May Allah open ways to you in whatever that may seems not to be working May Allah open doors which is indeed better you in this world and next May Allah open the path you to be a better Muslim today compared to yesterday May Allah open you heart to His Guidance Ameen Ya Rabb

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