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Can you share whatever is on your mind? I’m looking for some tips tbh. How can I not be so emotionally invested with whoever comes into my life.

I’m really not the right person to ask, I mean I’m still on this journey you know? But for me I think recently (over the last few years) I’ve cut out a lot of people from my life, not in a dramatic sense but more like, I was never someone who kept in contact with lots of people anyway but now it’s more like, I’m focused on just getting my shit together for myself and my future self and I’m being a little more actively selfish with my time and energy

I think when you get into that mindset you don’t allow people to have that control over you because you know you have a goal you wanna reach and you can’t get there if you’re not the one in control of your mental wellbeing

I’m pretty much waffling rn but it is 5am lool so take what you can from this garbage response 🤣

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How do you not depend on someone emotionally?

To be honest I’m not even entirely sure 🥲

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me n him 🥺

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You can have love for people and still take a step back.

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stay, i need u more than u think

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we will see the israeli occupation collapse imminently inshallah

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Marriage in Islam is so simple and beautiful. Throw in culture and suddenly everything becomes long and complicated.

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Don’t let anyone take you back to a level you already leveled up from.

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“And to parents… it is your absolute responsibility, especially to your daughters, to compliment them. It’s not wrong of you to tell them ‘you are beautiful.’ You should tell them they’re beautiful. Because if they don’t hear that from you, they’re going to look to hear that from somebody else. Our girls have low self-esteem because nobody validates them — especially the fathers. The fathers, you have to go out of your way to compliment your daughters. And stop having the attitude that nothing they do is good enough. Stop talking down to them, it’s killing them. It’s killing them. In our deen we always talk about the rights of the parents, and they have rights. But they have responsibilities, too.”

— Nouman Ali Khan 

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— Hadith on Jumu’ah: Increase supplications for the Prophet on Friday

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Seljalandsfoss, Iceland 🇮🇸

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“as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.”

— Unknown

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“The Prophet said: “The best of marriage is that which is made easiest.””

— by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 3300.