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today's bug thing is this veggie caterpillar!

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I know that HRT gives you secondary sex characteristics in one direction or another, but we HAVE to stop telling nonbinary people that they “can’t pick and choose.” Of course, you can’t tell your testosterone that you’d rather not grow chest hair, but there are things you can do!

You could go on T so your voice drops and start shaving so you don’t grow a beard. You could start HRT and then stop once you get the permanent changes you like. You can pursue sterilization instead of bottom surgery. You can get top surgery without being on T. You can go on E and work out a bunch to bulk out your muscles. You can pursue laser hair removal or electrolysis to remove unwanted hair, with or without HRT. You could even just start hormones to see if you like it and then stop if it isn’t to your taste.

Obviously, you can’t order secondary sex characteristics a la carte, but we have to stop being so awful to nonbinary people. We should discuss the options we have, not shut down the conversation with “that’s what you get.”

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for a while now i’ve been learning that some people kind of choose to hate themselves like you can give them tools and resources and advice and they’ll even follow some of it and go “i still hate myself” and i feel strongly at that point they’re kind of choosing to stay in that mindset because it’s comfortable and familiar or something but some people are truly [gotye voice] addicted to a certain kind of sadness and hooked on feeling low

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imagine cloth mother and wire mother in family court competing for custody of the baby monkey

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there’s this extremely kind soul of a woman on instagram that makes accessible recipes that don’t require standing, chopping, or a stove and she might just have a permanent place in my heart

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me when I’m so sweet and so beautiful and it’s sunday

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Caught red handed with ice cream during a basketball camp night

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do you think anyone has a ytp kink . can only get off to sentence mixed porn

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mother's love

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fruit nails🍎🫐🍑🥭🍇🍓🍅

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the bees

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my coworker accidentally doordashed 8 baja blasts #bounteousblasts

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Hi!! I am back from Northern China! Sadly I did not see aurora (rip), but I got to ride a Mongolian horse!

It was fun, however traveling with asian parents was WAY too stressful I came back ill lmao

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