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Tomorrow isn’t promised we SHOULD LOVE PLATONICALLY MORE

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i love seeing cardinals and bluejays together i’m always like “hehe.. evil siblings”

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IT FUCKIN YURI DAAAAAAAAAAAY

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Oh, hey, is that the prequel novel?

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if any minors are following me

always make sure to start forging parents' signatures on the first day of class. that way, your teachers won't know that you've been forging signatures for the rest of the year

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you cannot headcanon your way out of overt thematic structures on which the entire narrative is built

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“Here’s the deal. The human soul doesn’t want to be advised or fixed or saved. It simply wants to be witnessed — to be seen, heard and companioned exactly as it is. When we make that kind of deep bow to the soul of a suffering person, our respect reinforces the soul’s healing resources, the only resources that can help the sufferer make it through. Aye, there’s the rub. Many of us “helper” types are as much or more concerned with being seen as good helpers as we are with serving the soul-deep needs of the person who needs help. Witnessing and companioning take time and patience, which we often lack — especially when we’re in the presence of suffering so painful we can barely stand to be there, as if we were in danger of catching a contagious disease. We want to apply our “fix,” then cut and run, figuring we’ve done the best we can to “save” the other person.”

— The Gift of Presence, The Perils of Advice | On Being

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early to bed and early to rise leaves a man so fucked up that he dies

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there should be more options than suffering via employment and suffering via unemployment

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i hope luigi mangione is proven innocent & gets to sue a ton of companies for slander and win & i hope he gets enough money to rebuild his life and get any help for his chronic pain that he needs & i hope he’s able to disappear from the public eye entirely if that’s what he wants

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they should invent tech issues that other people have experienced and solved

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i don’t know how to explain to you people that no matter what a country’s government is like i do not and will not support the US indiscriminately bombing that country’s civilians and i don’t know why that’s a controversial take tbh

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Going to a city you know a mutual lives in like hello general area my friend is in. You’re somewhere