helmerfan43-blog
Poison Pandemic
Politically enthusiastic beer drinking hockey fan who lives vicariously through other people's written word.
44643 posts
Don't wanna be here? Send us removal request.
Last Seen Blogs
Photo
Thank you so much to the guys in @bearhandsband for an amazing night.
37 notes
·
View notes
Text
Can we talk about how the Deadpool movie, which the media has largely referred to (in so many words) as a fuckboy’s wetdream, not only gives a female sex worker an empathetic role, but treats her and her work more respectfully than about 99% of so called feminist media?
.
At no point does the movie imply that Vanessa is tainted because she is a sex worker. At no point does the movie imply that Vanessa is unworthy of love because she is a sex worker.
At no point is Vanessa portrayed as “broken.”
At no point does the movie imply that being a sex worker makes Vanessa a bad girlfriend. At no point does Deadpool ask or expect Vanessa to sacrifice her job for their relationship.
At no point is Vanessa slut-shamed for her job, by either protagonists or villains.
Think about that.
Denigrating sex workers is so taboo within the Deadpool movieverse that even the villains won’t do it.
We know that Vanessa experienced sexual abuse, and that it’s shaped the person she’s become and influenced the choices she’s made. The movie clearly acknowledges that sexual abuse is real, and that it is damaging, and that people who experience sexual abuse struggle to lead “normal” lives and get “normal” jobs.
But the movie never hands sexual abusers the mic.
There is no sexual abuse porn in this movie. There are no voyeuristic rape flashbacks. There are no misogynist monologues. The audience learns about Vanessa’s abusive past from Vanessa, on Vanessa’s terms, through Vanessa’s own words.
This seems like the bare minimum of dignity any female character should be granted, yet so much media fails to meet this extremely low bar.
The movie makes it very clear that Vanessa has a life outside of sex work. She does not live on a stripper pole. Sex work is something Vanessa does. Sex work is not who Vanessa is. She has an apartment. She wears pajamas. What other fictional universe can say the same? I can think of one tv show, but that’s about it, and that show’s viewership is nothing compared to Deadpool’s.
Now on the one hand, I’m not necessarily happy that Vanessa’s character arc revolves almost entirely around her romantic relationship with the lead male protagonist. But on the other hand, I find it very refreshing to see a sex worker in the media whose character arc does not revolve entirely around the fact that she is a sex worker. Hate to say it, but for sex workers in the media, being relegated to the role of love interest is actually a step up.
Most feminist media would rather pretend sex workers don’t exist than write storylines of any kind for them.
130K notes
·
View notes
Photo
jaredpadalecki: “New campaign in support of #orlando represent.com/Jared” (x)
2K notes
·
View notes
Text
REBLOG FOR A SECRET LOVE LETTER!
Okay, I haven’t done one of these in forever!! Lol.
Here are the rules;
-must be following me
-Reblog only!
-tag the fandom you are in! And the gender you’d prefer a letter from.
-also tag your name!
-MUST HAVE ASK OR MESSAGE OPEN OR ELSE YOU WILL NOT GET ONE!
I am only doing this for a little while, so if I don’t do one for you, then it means it’s closed.
Xo!
157 notes
·
View notes
Text
“i can’t eat that, i’ll get fat”
“i can’t sleep in late today i have to do work”
“no i can’t watch a whole season in one go that’s lazy”
“i can’t-”
771K notes
·
View notes
Text
Harry Potter should be rated R for the huge amount of cursing. -More Shower Thoughts Here!
28 notes
·
View notes
